Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience
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What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Subscribe.

  1. 3D AGO

    Embracing Femininity: A Conversation with Chelsea Ann

    The Feminine Effect: Chelsea Ann on Reclaiming Feminine Nature, Intuition and Redefining SuccessHost Dian Griesel interviews author and nurse practitioner Chelsea Ann about her books The Feminine Effect and The Feminine Frequency along with her personal transformation after building a global company, feeling chronically unsatisfied, divorcing, and being told she was “not in your nature.” Chelsea describes returning to feminine nature through an internal, heart-based process of letting go of identities, pride, and external validation, contrasting this with mind-based striving and cultural definitions of success. She argues feminism’s emphasis on financial security and male-defined achievement can push women into competition, manipulation, anxiety, and disconnection from intuition, relationships, and motherhood, which she links to physical and emotional health issues she sees clinically. They discuss authenticity, simplicity, social media comparison, father wounds affecting relationships, and redefining female success as connection, nurturing, and harmony without sacrificing family. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  Show Run:00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro00:37 Chelsea’s Ambition and Restlessness02:18 Costa Rica Turning Point03:18 How Feminism Redefined Success06:09 Authenticity Over Chaos11:00 Returning to Nature and Motherhood12:58 Transformation Tools and Letting Go16:10 Opening the Heart and Intuition17:27 Realness, Vulnerability, and Presence24:47 Tradwife Trend vs Inner Femininity25:24 Clinic Insights Anxiety and Disconnection26:49 Spiritual Crisis Signs27:11 Career vs Motherhood28:14 Glitches and Illness29:34 Father Wound Patterns30:24 Reclaiming Feminine Nature32:51 Simplify and Let Go35:26 Defining Female Nature37:10 Changing Belief Glasses39:00 Global Culture Virus44:20 Social Media and Comparison47:20 Feminine Energy in Relationships49:07 Feminine Frequency and War49:52 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

    51 min

  2. 6D AGO

    Conversation Dynamics: Learning from Radio & Podcast Pro Joe Pardavila

    @SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics Host Dian Griesel interviews Joe Pardavila, bestselling author of “Good Listen: Creating Memorable Conversations in Business and Life” and a veteran media professional who has produced over 10,000 hours of radio and podcast content, including work on The Scott and Todd Morning Show on WPLJ. They discuss why conversation feels degraded today, contrasting online shouting and social-media amplification with real-life hesitancy driven by introversion and learned fear of asking questions. Joe argues that meaningful communication is often better by phone or in person because tone and energy get lost in text, while quick logistics can be handled via text; he recommends taking tense threads “offline” into calls or meetings (including workplace Slack huddles). Drawing on radio experience, Joe emphasizes projecting energy, clear enunciation, and “turning the dial to 11” to be a heightened version of oneself during important conversations, presentations, and podcasts; they also discuss tone, giving people grace, and self-awareness when interactions go wrong. The conversation highlights personal responsibility, introspection (“know thyself”), and a Stoic approach of controlling what you can control, including directly and calmly addressing issues rather than passive-aggressively posting online (illustrated by Joe calling a neighbor about loud music). They explore anonymity and accountability, including how requiring names and standing to speak reduces aggression in public meetings, and how comment sections encourage behavior people wouldn’t show in person. For workplace communication, Joe recommends reducing “message fog” across too many platforms, setting cultural expectations for timely replies as a sign of respect, and treating everyone equally regardless of title. On job searching and interviews, Joe stresses networking, building a “I have a guy for that” network across industries, offering value rather than only asking for help, and doing homework on people to create genuine connections in interviews, mentorships, and family gatherings. Dian closes by encouraging listeners to follow Joe and find his book and consulting resources in the episode links. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠

    47 min

  3. FEB 19

    Speech, Dialect, and First Impressions: Melanie Fox on Clear, Confident English

    In this episode, host Dian Griesel and guest Melanie Fox a speech and dialect coach discuss with an M.S. in linguistics, discuss how speech impacts first impressions. Fox explains what dialect is (sound, vocabulary, intonation, syllable stress, and cultural elements), how U.S. dialects evolved and neutralized as settlers moved west, and how dialects can trigger stereotypes and prejudices. Find her podcast “Hack That Accent.” And learn more on her website: www.speechfox.com Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Does the Way We Speak Change First Impressions? (Host Story + Setup) 01:01 Meet Melanie Fox: Speech, Body Language & the ‘Audio’ of Presence 01:58 What Is a Dialect? Accents, Intonation, and Culture Explained 03:51 Neutral Accents & ‘General American’ vs RP (Why Some Sound ‘Regionless’) 05:41 How U.S. Dialects Formed: Settlers, Mixing, and the Dialect Map 07:37 Dialect Bias Is Real: Stereotypes, Prejudices, and ‘American Tongues’ 08:42 High-Stakes Speech: Doctors on the Stand & Jury Perception 13:53 Accent Modification for Everyday People: Clarity, Confidence, Authenticity 17:07 Speech Coaching vs Dialect Coaching vs Speech Pathology (3 Buckets) 23:37 Gestures as Language: Hand Movements, Culture, and Nonverbal Rules 27:00 Cultural Body Language & a Korean Film Gesture Mix‑Up 28:04 Metronome Memories: Learning to Slow Down Speech 29:18 Why Slowing Down Boosts Clarity, Thinking & Presence 31:39 The Power of the Pause: CEO Energy, Negotiation & Media Silence 34:20 Job Interview Coaching: Pausing, Confidence & Being Yourself 38:44 Stage Nerves Are Normal: The Mick Jagger Microphone Trick 40:23 What ‘Sparkling’ Means: Glitter, Authenticity & Serving the Audience 43:18 Owning the Mic in Sports: UFC, Dialect, Tyson & Memorable Moments 50:39 Wrap‑Up: How to Find Melanie + ‘Passion Over Perfection’

    52 min

  4. FEB 15

    2026 Year of the Fire Horse: Chinese Zodiac, Leadership, Mythology & Healing with Letao Wang

    Host Dian (Silver Disobedience) interviews professional astrologer and spiritual counselor Letao Wang about 2026 as the Lunar Year of the Fire Horse. Letao explains how the Chinese Zodiac works through a 12-year animal cycle combined with shifting heavenly-stem elements (fire, water, metal, wood, earth), contrasting Chinese astrology’s nature-based symbolism with Western astrology’s planet-centered approach. He compares 2025’s Wood Snake (reflection, shedding old patterns, completion) with 2026’s Fire Horse (movement, momentum, decisive action, and leadership), emphasizing that progress in the Horse year depends on integrating the Snake year’s lessons and avoiding reckless “speed.” The conversation also explores Letao’s background in myth-based astrology training, his view of mythology as a form of history and legacy, and Dian’s reflections on zodiac identity. Letao discusses resistance and healing in chart work, how he evolved from prediction-focused readings into therapeutic spiritual counseling by earning a counseling psychology master’s degree and certifications, and how he combines psychology with astrology, mythology, and tarot. He shares his work mix of private sessions (in-person and Zoom), writing, corporate workshops (including an event for Bloomberg in Hong Kong), and his publications: the 2024 Oracle of Domestic Heroes and the upcoming The Legends Heroes and Villains Oracle (releasing May 5). More here: https://www.thehealingkingdom.com/ Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  Show Run: 00:00 Welcome + What the 2026 Fire Horse Means01:08 How the Chinese Zodiac Works: Animals, Elements & Cycles03:35 Origins of Chinese Astrology: Yin-Yang, Nature & the Five Elements06:25 Wood Snake (2025) vs Fire Horse (2026): From Reflection to Action10:56 Leadership, Momentum & Risk: Riding the Fire Horse Safely14:15 Practical Advice: Passion, Focus & ‘Don’t Speed’ Energy16:24 Letao’s Astrology Journey: Mythology, Storytelling & Teachers20:38 Why Mythology Matters: History, Archetypes & the Greece Story23:19 Myth as History: How Legends Become “Real” Over Time24:15 We’re Creating Future Myths: Perspective, Place, and Personal Reality25:56 Legacy & Leadership: Why Our Stories Outlive Us27:54 Oracle of Domestic Heroes: Archetypes as Everyday Psychology29:48 Diana the Hunter: Finding Yourself in a Deity (and a Childhood Memory)32:08 Astrology 101: Sun vs Moon, Pisces, and the Zodiac Life Cycle35:49 Resisting Your Chart: Therapy, Acknowledgment, and Healing Patterns38:26 From Fortune-Telling to Counseling: Grounding the “Woo” with Psychology43:19 What He Does Now: Clients, Zoom Sessions, Writing, and Corporate Workshops47:10 Wrap-Up & Where to Find Letao Wang’s Work

    48 min

  5. FEB 12

    Leadership Transformed: The Seven Pillars with Larry Hartmann

    The Essence of Leadership: Larry Hartman's Seven Pillars ExplainedTune into as Dian Griesel interviews Larry Hartmann, the author of 'Seven Pillars of Inspired Leadership.' Larry shares his profound wisdom on leadership, discussing the importance of influence, servant leadership, and emotional intelligence. He also dives into his journey of scaling two multimillion-dollar companies and offers valuable advice on fostering loyalty, navigating challenges, and developing communication skills crucial for effective leadership. Tune in to learn about the evolving dynamics of leadership and how to build a culture that retains top talent. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Leadership00:27 Meet Larry Hartman01:27 Defining Leadership04:20 Larry's Background and Journey08:58 The Seven Pillars of Inspired Leadership12:06 Challenges in Modern Leadership27:05 The Importance of Communication Skills29:37 Building a Balanced Team30:47 The Myth of 20% Doing 80% of the Work32:12 Quiet Quitting and Leadership Responsibility35:17 The ETCH Leadership Method38:48 The Importance of Candor in Leadership45:56 The Future of Hiring and AI51:43 Building and Changing Company Culture54:43 Advice for Aspiring CEOs56:19 Conclusion and Book Promotion

    57 min

  6. FEB 10

    The Power of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy with Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis

    Empower Your Life: Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis on Rational Emotive Behavior TherapyJoin host Dian Griesel in this enlightening episode of the Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast as she interviews the renowned psychologist Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis. They delve into the powerful concepts of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), exploring how to identify, challenge, and change irrational beliefs that cause emotional distress. Dr. Debbie explains the importance of rational thinking, creating emotions, and taking personal responsibility for one's actions. Discover how practicing daily gratitude and understanding the interplay between thoughts and emotions can empower you to live a more fulfilling life. The episode also highlights the critical role of healthy versus unhealthy emotions and the significance of unconditional self-acceptance. Whether you're new to REBT or looking to deepen your understanding, this conversation is packed with wisdom and practical advice for enhancing mental well-being. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠00:00 Introduction to Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)01:52 Defining Rational Thinking03:05 Understanding Emotive Behavior04:30 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions08:28 The Power of Personal Responsibility18:34 The Role of Gratitude in Mental Health25:59 Nature, Nurture, and Personal Responsibility28:07 The Role of Healthy Models in Learning28:38 Impact of Parental Behavior on Children29:07 Consequences of Negative Upbringing30:30 The Importance of Unconditional Self-Acceptance31:33 Distinguishing Worth from Behavior36:33 Empowerment and Responsibility40:11 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions47:24 The Philosophy Behind REBT48:33 Final Thoughts and Advice

    52 min

  7. FEB 4

    Strategic Learning and Never Retiring: A Dialogue with Willie Pietersen

    Mastering Leadership and Strategic Learning with Willie Pietersen | Silver Disobedience PodcastJoin host Dian Griesel in this insightful episode of the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast as she interviews Willie Pietersen, a seasoned C-suite executive, Columbia University professor, and author. Willie shares his invaluable wisdom on topics such as never retiring, the importance of continuous learning, and leading life at a reasonable pace. He delves into the concept of strategic learning, the critical distinction between leadership and management, and offers personal anecdotes on navigating corporate challenges. Willie also discusses the impact of the status quo bias and the evolving dynamics of corporate longevity. This episode is packed with lessons on resilience, adaptability, and effective leadership—vital for anyone aiming for personal and professional growth. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠00:00 Introduction to Willie Pietersen00:47 The Philosophy of Never Retiring01:52 Transitioning Careers and Lifelong Learning03:41 The Intersection of Theory and Practice08:23 Adapting to Change and Innovation22:30 The Importance of Leading Life at a Reasonable Pace27:04 Addressing Urgent Problems27:51 Strategic Learning and Corporate Lifespans28:38 The Role of Strategy in Competitive Advantage32:06 Leadership vs. Management37:41 Capitalism and Ethical Leadership44:40 The Importance of Feedback in Leadership50:59 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

    52 min

  8. FEB 2

    Imperfect Parenting: Embracing Our Flaws for Happier Kids with Kate Hamilton

    The Imperfect Parent: Embracing the Flaws in Parenting with Kate HamiltonIn this episode, Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, host Dian Griesel sits down with Kate Hamilton, author of 'The Imperfect Parent.' They delve into the challenging yet rewarding journey of parenting, discussing the unrealistic expectation of perfect parenting and the importance of embracing imperfection. Kate shares her personal insights and experiences, from learning that parenting doesn't come with a manual to discovering the individuality of each child. They discuss how different parenting styles can foster or hinder children's growth and emphasize the need for intentional parenting. Kate's book serves as a guiding tool, filled with reflective questions to help parents navigate their own unique paths. This episode is filled with relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and the overarching message that it's okay to be an imperfect parent. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience to my hundreds of thousands of monthly blog readers. You can learn more about me here:   ⁠https://diangriesel.com⁠ But for starters…I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York. https://www.themanhattancenter.com/SHOW RUN: 00:00 Introduction to Imperfect Parenting00:44 Meet Kate Hamilton01:11 Kate's Parenting Journey02:13 The Reality of Imperfect Parenting03:03 Parenting Challenges and Realizations04:42 Teaching Accountability and Consequences09:31 Humorous Parenting Anecdotes20:01 The Importance of Choices in Parenting22:20 Parenting Reflections and Advice26:59 Booking Travel Tips27:19 Hilarious Niece Story28:22 Parenting Wisdom and Mark Twain29:00 Credit Card Lessons for Kids31:24 The Parent-Friend Dilemma33:02 Learning Right from Wrong36:10 Blame Game in Parenting38:13 Teaching Financial Responsibility47:13 Negotiating with Children50:36 Concluding Thoughts and Recommendations

    52 min
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What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Subscribe.

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