Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience

What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Subscribe.

  1. 6D AGO

    Beauty, Technology, and Identity: Insights from Artist Gretchen Andrew

    The Crossroads of Art, Technology, and Self-Image: In Conversation with Gretchen AndrewIn this episode of the @SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, host Dian Griesel interviews multimedia artist Gretchen Andrew. Gretchen shares her journey from modeling to creating art that merges face-tuning tech, glitter, and paint, aiming to highlight societal pressures around beauty and self-image. The discussion covers the influence of AI and algorithms on our perceptions of beauty, the psychological impact of altered imagery, and the societal trends affecting both women and men. Gretchen’s innovative art process and thought-provoking insights offer a deep dive into the intersection of technology, self-esteem, and creativity. Learn More About Gretchen & her work in the links below: https://www.gretchenandrew.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenandrew/ X: https://x.com/gretchenandrew Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-andrew/ Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on  my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  Show Run: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote01:08 Introducing Gretchen Andrew02:36 The Impact of AI on Beauty Standards05:31 Psychological Effects of Digital Alterations14:14 The Role of Technology in Modern Photography22:39 Gretchen's Artistic Process29:06 The Impact of Beauty Standards on Miss Universe Contestants30:50 The Absurdity of Face Tuning and Beauty Standards32:32 The Evolution of Portraits in the Age of Algorithms35:01 Exploring the Future of Beauty Trends38:33 Men and the Pressure of Modern Masculinity47:32 The Pendulum of Societal Expectations51:06 Concluding Thoughts and Future Directions

    54 min
  2. JAN 14

    Gladys DeClouet: Pioneering Diversity in Corporate America

    Breaking Barriers: Trailblazing Black Woman in Corporate America - Gladys H. DeClouetListen to Gladys H. DeClouet, author of 'A Layered Life: Breaking Barriers as a Trailblazing Black Woman in Corporate America.' In this compelling conversation, Gladys shares her inspiring journey from Tuskegee University to becoming the first woman engineer in offshore oil and gas production at Conoco Oil Company. She discusses the challenges of sexism, racism, and workplace adversity she faced and how these experiences shaped her leadership style. Gladys emphasizes the importance of integrity, inclusivity, and treating people with respect to build high-performing teams. This episode offers a moving account of resilience, leadership, and the power of taking care of your people. Learn more here: https://gladysdeclouet.com/ Buy "A Layered Life" here: https://amzn.to/4sEAHVM Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on  my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  Show Run: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:17 Choosing Tuskegee University04:01 Early Career and Engineering Internships05:32 Challenges as a Female Engineer19:12 Leadership Lessons and Overcoming Adversity30:31 Addressing Diversity in Leadership32:23 Leadership Accountability and Tough Decisions35:46 Mentorship and Career Growth46:05 The Importance of Integrity51:46 Resilience and Gratitude56:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    58 min
  3. JAN 11

    Bullying & Childhood Suicide with Kirk Smalley, Stand for the Silent co-founder

    Eradicating Bullying: An Interview with Kirk Smalley from Stand For the SilentIn this emotional and thought-provoking episode, @SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics host Dian Griesel talks to Kirk Smalley, the founder of Stand For the Silent, about the alarming issue of bullying and its tragic link to child suicide. Kirk shares the heart-wrenching story of his own son, Ty, who took his life at the age of 11 due to relentless bullying. The episode highlights the pressing need for awareness, empathy, and proactive steps to combat bullying in schools and online. Kirk discusses the initiatives of Stand For the Silent, including school presentations, support resources, and their innovative cyberbullying tracking tools. He emphasizes the importance of open communication between parents and children and the impact of teaching kindness and empathy early on. The episode serves as a powerful call to action for preventing bullying and saving young lives. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on  my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to a Serious Topic01:19 The Tragic Story of Ty Smalley05:08 The Birth of Stand For the Silent07:28 The Rise of Cyberbullying12:48 The Impact of Social Media18:39 The Importance of Communication26:24 The Impact of Words27:46 Teaching Empathy to Kids29:20 Bullying in Society29:39 The Power of Speaking Out34:12 Addressing Bullying in Schools39:02 Supporting Victims and Raising Awareness45:41 Programs and Initiatives48:58 Conclusion and Call to Action

    50 min
  4. JAN 6

    The Aging Wisely Project with Scott Fisher & Dr. Ben Green

    Aging Wisely: Insights from Lifelong Friends Scott Fisher and Dr. Ben Green If we're lucky -- we'll get older. But what does it mean to age wisely? Join host Dian Griesel as she converses with lifelong friends Scott Fisher and Dr. Ben Green about what it means to age wisely. Having known each other since their freshman year at Yale, Scott and Ben share their journey of exploring successful aging after turning 70. They discuss their extensive research, including interviews with 52 elders, and the insights they've gained into the variables that contribute to aging wisely -- wile writing their book: The Aging Wisely Project. The conversation touches on topics like gratitude, resilience, purpose, and the impact of early childhood attachment on aging. Learn practical tips and hear inspiring stories from those who have embraced aging with intention and purpose. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that encourages us to view aging as a continued opportunity for growth and wisdom. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ SHOW RUN: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:55 The Journey to Aging Wisely 02:22 Defining Aging Wisely 05:00 Impact of Attitudes on Aging 09:11 Research Insights and Personal Stories 21:02 Healthy Habits for Aging 26:57 Finding Joy and Purpose 31:17 Happiness and Resilience in Old Age 32:25 The Challenges of Aging and Coping with Loss 34:34 Elder Identity Revision and Continued Growth 35:34 Personal Stories of Resilience and Purpose 36:31 The Importance of Community and Connection 39:09 Viktor Frankl and Tragic Optimism 42:55 Creating a Life Narrative 55:01 Final Thoughts on Aging Wisely

    1 hr
  5. JAN 2

    Championing Change: A Journey in Boxing and Beyond with Jill Chastain Diamond

    Jill Chastain Diamond: Pioneering Women's Boxing, Philanthropy, and ResilienceIn this engaging episode, Jill Diamond Chastain shares her remarkable journey from a producer in the music industry to a groundbreaking figure in the world of boxing. As the first woman to sit on the executive board of the North American Boxing Federation and the current USA Vice President of the organization, Jill's contributions have been monumental. She discusses starting the WBC Women's Championship Division and the WBC Cares initiative, while reflecting on her personal enthusiasm for boxing. Join us as Jill delves into the mental health benefits of boxing, the challenges women face in the sport, and her impactful charitable work. From tackling anger management through contactless boxing to sharing her eclectic career path, this episode is a comprehensive look at a life dedicated to breaking barriers and uplifting communities. Don't miss Jill's inspiring insights and her advice for the younger generation. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York SHOW RUN: ⁠⁠00:00 Introduction to a Boxing Champion01:15 Jill's Journey into Boxing02:33 The Birth of Women's Boxing Division04:15 Boxing as Therapy05:51 Challenges and Risks in Boxing12:34 Women's Pay in Boxing15:23 Boxing vs. UFC22:03 Jill's Diverse Career25:22 The Creative Process and Blank Canvas25:54 From Music to Medicine26:45 Philanthropy and Boxing28:18 The Role of Imagination and Overcoming Adversity31:50 Advice for the Younger Generation34:29 The Importance of Dialogue and Common Ground37:26 Animal Welfare and Boxing39:54 Favorite Boxers and Career Advice46:18 Jake Paul and Modern Boxing47:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    51 min
  6. 12/09/2025

    Envisioning a Better NYC: Rising Ground CEO Alan Mucatel Shares Ideas

    Turning Crisis into Success: The Inspiring Journey of Rising Ground with Alan MucatelJoin me for an insightful @SilverDisobedience episode with Alan Mucatel, CEO of Rising Ground, one of New York's largest human services organizations. Discover how Alan lead a team to turn around an organization on the brink of collapse to become a leading provider of social services in New York City. Learn about his motivations, the challenges faced, the turnaround strategies employed, and the unique values that make Rising Ground stand out. Whether you're interested in non-profit management, social services, or inspiring leadership journeys, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and heartwarming stories. Don’t miss out on understanding how persistence, accountability, and community focus have sculpted a stronger future for many New Yorkers. Subscribe and stay informed! Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Rising Ground01:17 Meet Alan Mucatel: The Turnaround Specialist03:29 Joining Rising Ground: The Initial Challenges05:52 Facing Financial and Operational Crises08:36 Rebuilding and Restructuring12:51 The Path to Recovery and Growth20:15 Rising Ground's Unique Approach and Services28:06 Introduction to Rising Ground's Services28:31 Child Welfare and Family Stabilization28:51 Supporting Vulnerable Populations29:25 Comprehensive Support and Partnerships31:20 Hiring Philosophy and Practices36:36 Key Traits for Success at Rising Ground40:26 Advice for Aspiring Social Entrepreneurs47:17 Funding and Financial Structure50:29 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    54 min
  7. 12/08/2025

    Taking Hip Hop To School: Bridging Beats and Brains with Dr. A.D. Carson

    InExploring Hip Hop Culture with Dr. A.D. Carson - The First Hip Hop Professor This @SilverDisobedience episode dives deep into the world of hip hop with Dr. A.D. Carson, the groundbreaking professor of hip hop at the University of Virginia. Dr. Carson, who is also an artist and author, explores the intersections of hip hop, social commentary, education, storytelling, and culture. In a thought-provoking conversation, he challenges conventional definitions of genres, discusses the cultural evolution and impact of hip hop, and shares insights on his teaching methodologies. He also talks about his innovative approach to integrating hip hop into academia and his collaborative works, including his Grammy-nominated projects and his book: Being Dope Tune in for a comprehensive exploration of how hip hop transcends music to address broader social and historical contexts. Lots more info in all the links below: Dr. A.D. Carson website: https://aydeethegreat.com/ Info about the Hip Hop Program a UVA: https://music.virginia.edu/people/ad-carson Being Dope on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4iIklqJ A.D. Carson YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwghRVa--Qjs33VJKQpvoog Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to the Hip Hop Professor 01:33 Defining Hip Hop and Its Cultural Impact 05:39 The Birth and Evolution of Hip Hop 12:41 Teaching Hip Hop at the University Level 17:47 Hip Hop as a Tool for Social Commentary 30:08 Exploring Racial and Gender Dynamics in Pop Music 31:08 The Role of Education in Addressing Difficult Conversations 36:13 The Evolution of Music and Technology 39:58 The Impact of Offensive Language in Rap Music 44:28 The Future of Hip Hop and Technological Innovation 49:16 Collaborative Teaching and Curriculum Design 54:22 Final Thoughts on Hip Hop Culture

    58 min
  8. 12/05/2025

    Invisible Primal Wounds: How the Hurt Us and Our Relationships with Michaela Johnson, Ph.D.

    Unlocking the Secrets of Invisible Wounds: In-Depth Conversation with Michaela Johnson, Ph.D. Michaela Johnson is the author of 7 Primal Wounds. In this  ⁨@SilverDisobedience⁩  episode, host Dian Griesel and Michaela discuss her new book, which delves into the concept of primal wounds and how they impact our relationships, self-worth, and decision-making. They explore Michaela's unique background, her journey on a self-piloted book tour, and the seven core primal wounds identified through her research. Michaela also shares insights on how to turn these wounds into superpowers, the significance of understanding primal responses, and practical tools for healing and relationship building. Join them for a deep and enlightening conversation that offers a roadmap for personal growth and improved relationships. More here: http://www.skytalkdoc.com/ Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Invisible Wounds 00:28 Meet Michaela Johnson: Author and Pilot 01:06 Growing Up Off the Grid 02:30 The Concept of Primal Wounds 04:50 Identifying and Understanding Primal Wounds 08:15 Primal Wounds in Relationships 14:17 Tools for Healing Primal Wounds 15:46 The Role of Different Responders 17:13 Activation and Its Impact 20:24 Narcissism and Primal Wounds 27:39 The Power of Pausing 28:46 Emotional Maturity and Self-Worth 29:39 Turning Wounds into Superpowers 31:12 Personal Stories and Insights 34:03 Understanding Primal Responders 35:00 Effective Communication Strategies 37:02 The Importance of Self-Reflection 48:39 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    52 min

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What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Subscribe.