The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

  1. 3d ago

    Hedo Part 1: Lacy's Unexpected Solo Adventure

    Send us Fan Mail Hedo Part 1: Lacy's Unexpected Solo Adventure | Episode 258 This trip to Hedonism II definitely didn’t start the way Lacy imagined. After a family emergency meant Dan had to stay home, Lacy suddenly found herself facing a Hedo trip without her usual partner-in-crime. Thankfully, friends Mike and Daphne were able to jump in at the last minute and join her for the adventure. In Part I of this Hedo recap, Lacy sits down with Mike and Daphne to talk about those first few days in Jamaica — from working through the disappointment of Dan not being there to finally deciding that if she was already at Hedo, she might as well make the absolute most of it. They break down their first impressions of the resort, days spent hanging out at the pool, trying the different restaurants, and checking out the club… including one very memorable detail they couldn’t ignore: what was that smell?!  And then there’s Lacy’s hotel room, where apparently the adult movie channel became the official background noise for the entire trip. Because when in Hedo, right? But underneath all the laughs, Lacy also opens up about something she hadn’t really had to navigate before: playing without Dan. Even though opportunities presented themselves — and she was invited to the playroom more than once — the first couple of nights, she just wasn’t ready. Lacy talks candidly about the nerves, hesitation, and internal debate that came with figuring out what she was comfortable doing on her own. Did she eventually find her Hedo groove? Did she make it into the playroom? And just how wild did this trip get once she started settling in? Well… you’re going to have to wait for Part II. And judging by how much there is left to tell, there may even be a Part III.  Hedo Part I is just the beginning. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  2. 5d ago

    Tuesday Talks: How Single Guys Can Make Real Connections

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How Single Guys Can Make Real Connections| Episode 121 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering their very first video question!  A good-looking single guy videos in with a question a lot of single men in the lifestyle probably have: How do you actually break into a friend group at events—and what’s the best way to approach couples without coming across as creepy? Dan and Lacy share practical advice for navigating lifestyle events as a single guy, from making genuine friendships and reading the room to approaching couples respectfully and understanding when to make a move… and when to back off. Because being attractive might get someone’s attention, but social awareness, confidence, respect, and good energy are what actually get you invited back. Whether you're a single guy trying to find your place in the lifestyle or a couple wondering what makes certain singles stand out for all the right reasons, this episode has plenty of tips to take with you to your next event. Tune in for an honest conversation about making connections, avoiding the “creepy single guy” stereotype, and becoming someone people genuinely want in their circle. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  3. Aug 6

    Expanding the Fantasy: Inside Secrets 2 with James Callahan

    Send us Fan Mail Expanding the Fantasy: Inside Secrets 2 with James Callahan | Episode 257 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy sit down with James Callahan, the founder and owner of Secrets Hideaway Resort, to hear the inspiring story behind one of the lifestyle’s most well-known destinations. James takes listeners back to the humble beginnings of Secrets and shares what it took to turn an ambitious dream into a thriving resort. From navigating setbacks and adversity to staying committed when the future was uncertain, he opens up about the determination, risk and vision that helped Secrets become what it is today. But James isn’t finished dreaming. He gives Dan and Lacy an inside look at Secrets 2, a brand-new resort currently being developed on the same property. He shares his vision for the expansion, what guests and owners can expect and how Secrets 2 will take the experience to an entirely new level. Plus, James is offering an exclusive opportunity for Swing Nation listeners interested in purchasing a condo at the new Secrets 2 resort. Tune in to hear the full story, learn more about the future of Secrets and find out how you can take advantage of this special TSN listener offer. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! - Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  4. Aug 4

    Tuesday Talks: Can We Be Honest without Hurting the Lifestyle?

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Can We Be Honest without Hurting the Lifestyle? | Episode 120 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy hear from another couple in the podcasting world who asks an important question: Do they ever feel pressure to hold back the negative or complicated parts of the lifestyle? When you are working to challenge the stigma surrounding consensual non-monogamy, it can sometimes feel like every story has to portray the lifestyle in a positive light. But does being an advocate mean avoiding honest conversations about bad experiences, mistakes, uncomfortable moments, or the very real challenges that can come with this journey? Dan and Lacy share an honest look at how they balance advocacy with authenticity, why acknowledging the difficult parts does not mean condemning the lifestyle, and how they decide which personal stories they are comfortable sharing publicly. They also discuss the responsibility that comes with having a platform—and why honest, nuanced conversations may be one of the most powerful ways to fight stigma. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  5. Jul 30

    Our First Full Swap

    Send us Fan Mail  Our First Full Swap | Episode 256 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners back to the very beginning of their story and share how they first met—not through a dating app, mutual friends, or a traditional first date, but as two singles already exploring the lifestyle. Unlike many couples who discover non-monogamy years into their relationship, Dan and Lacy entered their relationship with an understanding of the lifestyle from day one. But that didn’t mean everything was easy. They open up about the unique challenges they faced while building a new relationship in a world filled with attraction, boundaries, jealousy, communication, and plenty of unexpected situations. They also tell the story of their very first full-swap experience together, including what went wrong, what surprised them, and the important lessons they carried forward. From learning how to communicate honestly to understanding that every experience will not go perfectly, Dan and Lacy share how those early moments helped shape the couple—and the lifestyle partners—they are today. Whether you entered the lifestyle together, met while already in it, or are simply curious about how it all began for Dan and Lacy, this episode offers an honest, funny, and revealing look at their journey from lifestyle singles to The Swing Nation. Tune in now to hear the story of how it all started! Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  6. Jul 28

    Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe | Episode 119 Not every lifestyle couple enjoys packed venues, booming music, and crowded dance floors—and that’s perfectly okay! In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener shares that he and his wife are struggling to find lifestyle events that match their more relaxed personality. They want to connect with others and enjoy new experiences, but the traditional party atmosphere just isn’t their vibe. Dan and Lacy offer practical suggestions, including exploring smaller gatherings, traveling to different lifestyle destinations, and connecting with like-minded couples nearby to find out where they socialize. Tune in for helpful advice on finding your place in the lifestyle without forcing yourself into environments you don’t enjoy. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  7. Jul 23

    Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos

    Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos | Episode 255 Naughty N’awlins Part 2 is here—and Dan and Lacy are wrapping up their unforgettable trip to New Orleans with even more wild stories, meaningful moments, and nonstop partying. They begin with the Sexual Freedom Parade, sharing why the experience is about so much more than costumes and celebration. Surrounded by a community proudly embracing freedom, acceptance, and authenticity, the parade becomes one of the most emotional and moving moments of the entire event. From there, the energy turns up at the Glow Night Party, where Dan and Lacy connect and play with some new couples before preparing to host their own party the following day at The Boot Scoot’n Rodeo. Between mechanical bull rides, line dancing, great music, and a packed crowd, their party brings a little country chaos to Naughty N’awlins. But the night is only getting started. Immediately after, they head to the Secrets Party, where things get even crazier with shots galore, wet T-shirt contests, crowd surfing, and plenty of unforgettable moments. Finally, everyone gets dressed up for the Mardi Gras Ball before Dan and the other DJs officially shut down Naughty N’awlins with an epic after-party lasting from 2:00 to 4:30 in the morning. Pour yourself a drink and join Dan and Lacy as they recap the final days of Naughty N’awlins—filled with connection, community, new experiences, and just the right amount of debauchery. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  8. Jul 21

    Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You | Episode 118 How do you know when another couple is actually interested—or if they’re just being friendly? In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener asks Dan and Lacy how to recognize the signs that another couple may want to take things beyond casual conversation. Dan and Lacy share practical advice for reading the room, noticing mutual effort, and recognizing when flirting and connection seem to be reciprocated. They also explain why it can be difficult to tell in the lifestyle, where people are often naturally friendly and open. Sometimes, the only way to get a clear answer is to take a chance, put yourself out there, and simply ask. Dan and Lacy discuss how to express interest respectfully and handle the answer gracefully—whether it’s an enthusiastic yes or a polite no. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

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