The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

  1. 1D AGO

    Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — C**k Confidence in the Lifestyle

    Send us a text Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — C**k Confidence in the Lifestyle | Episode 89 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from a male listener who’s struggling to connect with women at clubs and resorts. He shares that he feels confident once things progress, but worries he’s being judged too quickly because he’s a grower, not a shower, and his softer size doesn’t reflect his fully aroused size. He’s concerned it’s costing him potential connections before he ever gets the chance to build chemistry. Dan and Lacy talk about the pressure men can feel in lifestyle spaces, how confidence and energy matter more than anatomy. If you’ve ever felt insecure or overlooked in the lifestyle, this episode is full of real talk and practical advice to help you show up with confidence. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    19 min
  2. 6D AGO

    Everything You Need to Know: Before Your First Hotel Takeover

    Send us a text Everything You Need to Know: Before Your First Hotel Takeover | Episode 224 In this special Christmas episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down to talk about a topic that’s especially relevant as we head into a brand-new year: hotel takeovers. With New Year’s being the granddaddy of all swinger hotel takeovers, there’s no better time to break down what these events are really about and how to get the most out of them. Dan and Lacy walk you through the ins and outs of hotel takeovers—from what to expect, how to prepare, and common mistakes first-timers make, to how these events differ from clubs, cruises, and resorts. Whether you’re brand new to the lifestyle or a seasoned traveler, they share practical tips to help you feel confident, connected, and ready to party. They also introduce their newest venture, Electric Pleasures, an alternative lifestyle music festival–inspired hotel takeover brand, and explain how it’s designed to stand out from the rest. With a focus on music, energy, community, and immersive experiences, Dan and Lacy are setting the stage for unforgettable events as we party into 2026 and beyond. This episode is equal parts education, excitement, and holiday hype—perfect listening as you plan what’s next on your lifestyle journey. Open Instincts NEW YEARS Tickets Electric Pleasures Events - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 15m
  3. 12/23/2025 · BONUS

    Tuesday Talks: Not as Experienced as Everyone Else? You’re Not Alone

    Send us a text Tuesday Talks: Not as Experienced as Everyone Else? You’re Not Alone | Episode 88 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another heartfelt Tuesday Talks listener question—this time from a couple they previously met on Bliss Cruise. The couple shares that they don’t have much sexual experience and often feel inadequate or overlooked in lifestyle spaces. They struggle with confidence and worry that most people aren’t willing to slow down, offer reassurance, or take the time needed to help them feel comfortable and desired. Dan and Lacy respond with practical, compassionate advice on finding the right fit—whether that means connecting with another newer couple to explore together or seeking out a more experienced, patient couple who enjoys guiding and supporting others. They talk openly about confidence, communication, and how sometimes taking a leap is the only way to create the experiences you truly want. This episode is a reassuring reminder that everyone starts somewhere—and there’s space for every pace in the lifestyle. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    23 min
  4. 12/18/2025

    Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze

    Send us a text Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze | Episode 223 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, hosted by Dan and Lacy, your favorite top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, the duo recap an unforgettable weekend in Atlanta, Georgia. Dan and Lacy team up with Swinger Society and Club Trapeze ATL for a Toys for Tots toy drive that raised over $5,000 in toys for kids in need, proving the lifestyle community can party hard and give back. But before the big night, the weekend kicks off with a Friday sleepover at their besties’ place—starting with drinks and dinner and quickly turning into a playful, chemistry-filled night that was all captured on camera. Saturday brings more adventures, including a daytime meetup with a special friend for some fun content creation, before heading to Club Trapeze for the main event. Surrounded by old friends, new connections, and nonstop energy, the night escalates into an unforgettable scene that had plenty of eyes watching. From charity to chaos, connection to confidence, this episode is a perfect mix of heart, heat, and real lifestyle vibes—you won’t want to miss it. Open Instincts NEW YEARS Tickets Electric Pleasures Events - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 22m
  5. 12/16/2025 · BONUS

    Tuesday Talks: Newbie Advice for Hedonism II

    Send us a text Tuesday Talks: Newbie Advice for Hedonism II | Episode 87 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Kim, a fellow Army retiree who’s brand new to the lifestyle. Kim shares that she and her boyfriend are planning to attend the upcoming Swinger Society Hedonism II resort takeover with Dan and Lacy after hearing rave reviews from friends who went last year. She’s excited, but also nervous, and wants advice for first-timers — from what to expect at Hedo to what’s appropriate to wear in the restaurants. As a curvy woman who sometimes struggles with confidence, Kim also asks how to plan outfits that make her feel sexy and comfortable. Dan and Lacy talk about embracing your body, choosing looks that make you feel empowered, and—most importantly—how stepping just outside your comfort zone can help you make genuine connections and have an unforgettable lifestyle experience. Book Our HEDO 2026 takeover - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    23 min
  6. 12/11/2025

    Inside Naughty N'awlins: The Rise of the World’s Largest Swingers Convention

    Send us a text Inside Naughty N'awlins: The Rise of the World’s Largest Swingers Convention | Episode 222 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Bob Hannaford — CEO of Naughty Events and the mastermind behind the world’s largest swingers convention, Naughty N’awlins. Bob pulls back the curtain on how Naughty Events began, sharing the surprising origins, early challenges, and major milestones that shaped the powerhouse brand it is today. He also opens up about his own personal journey in the lifestyle, offering a rare and intimate look at the man behind the movement. Dan and Lacy dig into everything from the evolution of large-scale lifestyle events to where Bob believes the future of swinging, sex-positive travel, and community-driven adult experiences is headed. If you’ve ever been curious about the creation of Naughty N’awlins or the direction of the lifestyle industry, this conversation is one you won’t want to miss. Book Naughty N'awlins 2026  Learn More about Naughty Events - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 12m
  7. 12/09/2025

    Tuesday Talks: The Secret World of Hot Husband Couples

    Send us a text Tuesday Talks: The Secret World of Hot Husband Couples | Episode 86 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another revealing “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Shannon, who recently discovered she loves watching her husband with other women. Shannon shares that this new turn-on has surprised her, and while she and her husband are excited to explore being a hot-husband couple, she feels a little weird admitting it out loud. She worries no one else talks about this dynamic and wonders how to meet others who understand and might be interested in connecting. Dan and Lacy reassure her that this desire is far more common than people realize — and one they personally enjoy themselves. They share practical advice on how to navigate this dynamic confidently, find compatible play partners, and communicate clearly so the experience feels sexy, mutual, and pressure-free. Whether you’re curious about hot-husband play or exploring your own evolving desires, this episode brings clarity, connection, and plenty of encouragement. Donate to our Toy Drive: http://gofund.me/092d5e7b1 - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sling it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    23 min
  8. 12/04/2025

    Bliss Cruise Part 3: The Nude Beach, The Orgy… and the Fight That Ended It All

    Send us a text Bliss Cruise Part 3: The Nude Beach, The Orgy… and the Fight That Ended It All | Episode 221 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you into Part 3 of their wild and unforgettable Bliss Cruise adventure—and this chapter is packed with both the highs and the hard moments of lifestyle travel. The story picks up in St. Martin, where an alcohol-fueled port day at one of the island’s nude beaches sets the tone for an electric night onboard during the cruise’s legendary Glow Party. After that, a calm and lazy day in Antigua helps reset the pace… until things heat up again with an epic solarium orgy under the cruise ship lights. But this episode isn’t just about the spicy moments. Things take an emotional turn when Lacy’s medication withdrawal and Dan’s over-eagerness collide during BDSM Night, sparking a blowout fight that leaves them locked in their cabin for the rest of the cruise. Dan and Lacy open up honestly about how even seasoned lifestyle couples face real challenges—and how not every trip is wall-to-wall fun. Raw, real, and revealing, this episode shows the truth behind being a lifestyle couple on the move… the passion, the connection, and the moments that test you. Tune in for the reality behind the adventure. - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- IKNOWMYSTATUS: Test Like a Porn Star Use Code LifeStyle and get 15% OFF Shameless Care: ED Medication Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Sing it Bikinis:  adjustable one-size styles, thoughtfully crafted to flatter every body type. Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

    1h 30m
4.8
out of 5
1,298 Ratings

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

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