SolFul Connections

SolFul Connections

Less Small talk. More Soul Talk. Welcome to SolFul Connections, the podcast where Amanda Soler sits down for real conversations with real people: artists, dreamers, healers, and doers to explore the deeper stories that shape who we are. These conversations go beyond the surface into the moments that stretch us, surprise us, and show us what it means to live with intention, creativity, courage, and joy. Expect a blend of insight, laughter, vulnerability, and maybe a tangent or two. This is where life's mess meets its meaning. And one way to connect the dots is to hear someone else's story.

  1. Oct 7

    Damaris Melo-Gyasi: The Power of Possibility

    Do the circumstances of your birth determine the life you can create? Damaris Melo-Gyasi, NCARB, AIA, NOMA, LEED AP knows something about making her way, which is also the subject of her recent book, Making My Way. Born into challenging circumstances in Brazil, Damaris' life could have easily defined the boundaries of her future. But a life-changing chance encounter changed the way she envisioned her future - and, in doing, altered her life in a powerful way. Today, Damaris is an award-winning architect who leads her own firm, a TEDx speaker, and the author of Making My Way. Her journey from humble beginnings to an extraordinary career is remarkable. But what makes her story especially powerful is the way she talks about it: with authenticity, humility, and a deep belief in the possibilities that can emerge when we are willing to pursue our dreams. In this conversation, Damaris and Amanda talk about what it means to make your way when you don't necessarily have a roadmap. They explore dreams, courage, possibility, perseverance, and the importance of leaning in rather than allowing fear, circumstances, or other people's expectations to determine what is possible for your life. Damaris reminds us that we don't always have to know exactly how we're going to get there. Sometimes, we simply have to be willing to take the next step toward the life we can imagine. Because possibility isn't always something we find. Sometimes, it's something we choose. More with Damaris:http://www.designbymelo.com/Making My Way - by Damaris Melo-Gyasi : TargetMaking My Way: A Story of Grit and Grace - Kindle edition by Melo-Gyasi, Damaris. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. Listen to more SolFul Connections: SolFul Connections is about less small talk and more soul talk, real conversations about the experiences, choices, challenges, and possibilities that shape our lives. Because you and your story matter.

  2. Jul 8

    Dr. Patricia Timerman: Why Are We Fighting?

    What if most of our relationship conflicts aren't about whatwas said, but about what was heard? In this heartfelt conversation, Amanda connects withpsychotherapist, author, and founder of Advocate2Create, Dr. Patricia Timerman Barbosa da Silva, to explore the communication patterns that either strengthenor strain our relationships. Drawing from years of experience helping individuals andcouples navigate conflict, Patricia introduces the powerful framework from her new book, Why Are We Fighting?, the IAP Model (Intention, Action, Perception). She explains why our intentions don't always match another person's perception, and how understanding that gap can transform the way wecommunicate with partners, family, friends, and colleagues. The conversation also takes a deeply personal turn asPatricia shares how losing a dear friend to suicide reinforced the importance of reaching out, checking in, and creating spaces where people feel truly seen and heard. Whether you're navigating conflict in a marriage, friendship, workplace, or simply hoping to become a better communicator, this episode offers practical tools, meaningful reflection, and hope for deeper connection. In this episode, you'll discover:• Why good intentions don't always create good outcomes.• The three parts of the IAP Model: Intention, Action, and Perception.• How curiosity can replace defensiveness in difficult conversations.• Simple communication skills that strengthen every relationship.• Why checking in with someone could make more of a difference than yourealize.• How understanding others begins with understanding ourselves. To learn more about Patricia and her work, and to exploreher book Why Are We Fighting?, visit Individual & Couples Therapy Florida - Advocate2CreateWhy Are We Fighting?: Actionable Strategies for Effective Communication: Timerman Barbosa da Silva, Dr. Patricia: 9798218450861: Amazon.com: Books Remember... less small talk. More soul talk.

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Less Small talk. More Soul Talk. Welcome to SolFul Connections, the podcast where Amanda Soler sits down for real conversations with real people: artists, dreamers, healers, and doers to explore the deeper stories that shape who we are. These conversations go beyond the surface into the moments that stretch us, surprise us, and show us what it means to live with intention, creativity, courage, and joy. Expect a blend of insight, laughter, vulnerability, and maybe a tangent or two. This is where life's mess meets its meaning. And one way to connect the dots is to hear someone else's story.