What if the most exhausting part of teaching is a part you weren't trained for..? In this very special episode of The Rewriting Wellbeing Podcast, we're joined by Daniela Nicol, a qualified therapist working across the UK and Ghana, whose work in schools is helping teachers understand the emotional and neurological toll of the job, and what to do about it! Daniela shares her journey from training in the UK to bringing her practice to Ghana, the surprising shift she's seen in how younger generations approach mental health, and what working with teachers has taught her about the invisible weight they carry every day. This is a warm, honest conversation about why teaching costs so much more than knowledge, and why looking after yourself isn't selfish, it's self-first. You will hear about: Why teachers make an estimated 1,500 to 3,000 micro-decisions every single dayCo-regulation and self-regulation, and why you can't pour from an empty tankMirror neurons, and why staying calm around a dysregulated child is harder than it looksThe vagus nerve, breath work, and a simple humming technique you can use between lessonsEmpathy fatigue, and how chronic stress quietly erodes the compassion that drew you to teachingWhy supervision, a space to be asked "how are you, really?", could transform schoolsTying your worth to your work, people pleasing, and the trap of performance-based self-esteem"Self first, not selfish", and how to bring your own wellbeing back onto the radarIf you've ever come home from school running on empty, this episode will help you understand why, and give you practical, realistic ways to look after the one tool you can't teach without: yourself. If this episode helped, share it with a teacher who needs to hear it, and leave us a rating. You can find Daniela on Instagram @mind.matters.live or at www.mindmatters.live. — Charlie & Charlie