I'll Have What She's Having with Kris Hall

Kris Hall

Looking for true sexual confidence? Tune in bi-weekly for expert advice, real stories, Tantric techniques, sexual healing secrets, & relationships hacks. Reclaim your sexual energy, aliveness, & power! Hosted by Sexual Empowerment Coach Kris Hall - this is your permission slip to live outrageously and step into your full sexual freedom. Whether you're single, partnered, or exploring - this is your space to feel excited to be alive! Hit subscribe - your pleasure revolution starts now. 🔥 For more visit https://www.krishall.ca *Formerly Reclaim Your Radiance*

  1. 4d ago

    65 | Conscious Kink: Healing Through Power, Consent & Trust with Bear Phillips

    Kink. Power. Control.  Not exactly words most people associate with healing… But what if they should? In this episode, I sit down with Bear Phillips, and Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, to explore the world of conscious kink. Power dynamics, real consent, Daddy energy, creating cultures of repair, and deeper levels of safety.  In this episode - we reframe intimacy in a way you may never have thought of before.  We get into:  Why so many people are disconnected from their bodies during sex Why so many women have never truly felt safe with men How patriarchy impacts men’s emotional and sexual expression The difference between performing intimacy vs. actually feeling it How power and consent - when done consciously - can become tools for healing And the thing most relationships are missing: how to repair after rupture And little-big Daddy Dynamics Intimacy isn’t just about how you connect when things are good… It’s about what happens after things break. And most of us were never taught how to come back together. This episode is an invitation to look at your relationships, your desires, and your body through a completely different lens. ___ Meet Our Guest Bear (he/ him) is an Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, supporting individuals, couples and thruples in expanding pleasure, exploring authentic relating, and deepening into intimacy. In his coaching with men, he works with questions of masculinity and how patriarchy impacts our ability to have meaningful and authentic relationships. He has been involved in various forms of therapy and personal development for more than half his life, having recently completed the year-long *Compassionate Inquiry* Professional Training with Gabor Maté. His first book; Feminism Will Make a Man Out of You! Is due for release in 2027. www.bearphillips.co.uk Substack:    @bearphillips1 – bearphillips1.substack.com/ IG:    @bear_phillips – instagram.com/bear_phillips/ FB:   Bear Phillips – facebook.com/bearphillipsUK _____ Go Deeper https://www.krishall.ca  Join our retreat in Mexico: https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed  Sex Coaching: https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Learn Sex Magic (FREE) https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic  Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys:  waands.com  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/  https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    1h 14m
  2. May 29

    64 | Why People Cheat - with Ashley Madison Executive Paul Keable

    Affairs. Infidelity. Desire. Not exactly the conversations most people are having openly… but maybe we should be. In this episode, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison — the world’s most well-known platform for people in committed relationships seeking discreet connections. And before you jump to conclusions… this conversation might surprise you. With over a decade at Ashley Madison, Paul has had a front-row seat to one of the largest real-world data sets on human desire, relationships, and unmet needs. What he shares challenges almost everything we think we know about cheating, monogamy, and why people look outside their relationships. We talk about: - Why people actually have affairs (hint: it’s not just about sex) - The surprising truth about women, desire, and sexless relationships - What men are really craving (and why it’s often misunderstood) - The role of technology in modern intimacy and connection - And the uncomfortable truth about the conversations most couples aren’t having This isn’t about promoting or condemning infidelity. It’s about understanding the deeper emotional and psychological drivers behind it — so you can create more honest, connected, and fulfilling relationships… on your own terms. Because at the end of the day, the question isn’t whether people are cheating… It’s why. ________ Meet Our Guest Paul Keable is the Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, where he’s spent over a decade shaping one of the most controversial - and revealing - platforms in modern dating. Based in Toronto, he brings a unique lens on human behavior, desire, and the evolving dynamics of relationships in the digital age. ________ Go Deeper https://www.krishall.ca  Join our retreat in Mexico: https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed  Sex Coaching: https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Learn Sex Magic (FREE) https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic  Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys:  waands.com  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/  https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    1h 4m
  3. May 1

    63 | Sexy After 50 with Dr. Julie Merriman

    What if your sex life didn’t decline with age… but actually got better? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Julie Merriman - therapist, author, and host of Sexy After 50 - and we’re dismantling one of the biggest myths women have been sold: that desire fades, pleasure disappears, and your most alive, turned-on years are behind you. Spoiler: they’re not. With nearly 30 years of experience, Dr. Julie has helped countless women break free from the “virtuous trap” of self-sacrifice - the pattern of being everything for everyone else… while quietly disconnecting from their own bodies, pleasure, and desire. This conversation is liberating.  We dive into: Why so many women feel disconnected from their sexuality (especially in midlife) The nervous system piece no one is talking about —-and why it changes everything How burnout, stress, and “being the good one” kill desire What actually brings your body back online The role of novelty, communication, and play in long-term relationships Why your sex life isn’t broken… it might just be bored And how aging can become your most confident, embodied, pleasure-filled era yet This isn’t about “fixing” yourself. It’s about reclaiming the parts of you that were never meant to be shut down in the first place. If you’ve ever felt numb, disconnected, or like there’s more available to you… this episode will meet you there - and show you what’s possible on the other side. ____________________ About Our Guest: Julie Merriman, Ph.D., LPC-S, CSC, is a counselor educator, podcaster, author, speaker, and clinician with close to 30 years of experience rescuing women from the "virtuous" trap of self-sacrifice. She doesn’t do fluff. She does survival. She is the architect of Soul Joy™ and author of In Pursuit of Soul Joy and Are We Gonna Have Sex or What? Dr. Juls is the voice behind the Top 100 Motivational Podcast Compassion Fatigue Cure and the host of Sexy After 50. She uses polyvagal science, somatic wisdom, and chakra psychology to melt the nervous system "freeze" that kills desire and fuels burnout. From her Texas ranch, Dr. Juls leads a movement of high-achieving women who are done being invisible. She bridges the gap between clinical neuroscience and raw human desire, proving that midlife isn't a decline, it's a hostile takeover of your own life. Reignite Your Fire & Desire:  https://colossal-speaker-6707.kit.com/62dfb355a6  Sexy After 50 Podcast:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2569244  Website: https://www.juliemerrimanphd.com/  IG: @dr.juliemerriman  _______________ Go Deeper:  ⁠www.krishall.ca⁠  Women’s Retreats:  BC Canada: ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/application-wwr⁠  Mexico: https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed  Sex Coaching: https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Learn Sex Magic (FREE) https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic  Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys:  waands.com  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/  https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    1h 1m
  4. Apr 17

    62 | AI Intimate Relationships: What’s Really Happening? - with Angela Ivy Leong

    What happens when AI stops being a tool and starts becoming something we connect with… intimately? In this episode, I sit down with psychotherapist and researcher Angela Ivy Leong to explore the rapidly emerging world of AI companions - and what it means for intimacy, relationships, and the human experience. Angela brings a deeply grounded and nuanced perspective, drawing from her work in psychotherapy, Tantra, and psychedelic-assisted therapy - as well as her research into human-AI relationships, including emotional attachment to AI companions.  In this conversation, we explore: Why people are forming real emotional bonds with AI What needs AI companions are fulfilling (and why that matters) The psychological and relational implications of AI intimacy Where AI might support human connection… and where it is currently trying to replace it What this means for the future of dating, sex, and relationships This is not a conversation about whether AI is “good” or “bad.” It’s about understanding what’s happening - and what it reveals about the current state of human relating, what we consider to be consciousness, and our needs.  Listen in to expand your perspective on the current and future states of AI relationships, what to expect, and what to look out for…  _____ About our guest:  Angela Ivy Leong is a sex and relationship therapist, researcher, psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, and TEDx speaker dedicated to healing intimacy and connection in the digital age. As the founder of An Elegant Mind Counselling Clinic in Vancouver, she has spent over a decade helping individuals and couples thrive in their relationships.  She is the creator of The KISSS Method™ (Ketamine-Induced Self & Sexuality Synchronization), an integrative therapeutic framework that restores embodied self-awareness and deepens relational attunement. In her widely discussed TEDx talk, “How AI Companions Are Destroying Human Intimacy”, she examines how digital relationships can erode our capacity for true emotional and physiological connection: https://youtu.be/XJAze_FppJ4?si=8rCe2jJIhq6hBajR  www.anelegantmind.com  Angela is @angelaivyleong on all social media platforms https://www.instagram.com/angelaivyleong/  ____ Go Deeper:  ⁠www.krishall.ca⁠  Apply now for Wild Women Rising:  ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/application-wwr⁠  Sex Coaching: https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Learn Sex Magic (FREE) https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/  https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    1h 9m
  5. Apr 2

    61 | Embodied Leadership: Live From Intuition, Values & Aliveness

    What does it actually mean to be a leader? Not in the traditional sense - not titles, status, or authority… But in how you live, choose, and show up in your life. In this episode, we explore the concept of embodied leadership - a way of leading that comes from your body, your intuition, and your deepest values. Because the truth is: You don’t need a position of power to be a leader. You’re already leading - your life, your relationships, your energy, your direction. The question is… are you doing it consciously? I’m joined by the founders of SoulQuest, a 14-day transformational leadership initiation set in the wild landscapes of South Africa - designed as a modern rite of passage. Together, we explore: What embodied leadership actually is (and why most people are disconnected from it) How to reconnect to your intuition, values, and inner authority The power of rites of passage and stepping into the unknown How environment, challenge, and nature awaken deeper parts of who you are The role of archetypes, energy, and life force in leadership What it really takes to live in alignment and integrity This conversation is about more than leadership. It’s about: aliveness truth self-trust and becoming the person you’re here to be If you’ve been feeling disconnected, stuck, or unsure of your direction… This episode will bring you back to yourself and help you ask the most important questions.  Apply now for the LAST SPOT on the Soul Quest journey:  https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SxYE_XRejtfofnjNRxEkBSLiqSbAAgni/view?usp=sharing  Follow SoulQuest on IG:  https://www.instagram.com/soulquestinitiation/  ____ Meet our guests:  Leah Cohen Leah is a community builder, empowerment coach and change instigator on a Quest to deepen connection within communities and empower people to create meaningful impact together. Drawing from a rich background in event design, neurolinguistic programming, reiki, yoga, and embodiment practices, Leah curates experiences that foster creative expression, deep reflection, and genuine connection where impactful ideas can emerge and create a ripple of positive change in community. A lifelong seeker, Leah’s journey has guided her through warrior retreats, vision quests, plant medicine ceremonies, and spiritual inquiry, shaping her devotion to practices that cultivate presence, resilience, and self-discovery. Her work invites others to live in alignment, lead with love, and become catalysts for the kind of change the world truly needs. Mikhael Gerhard Mikhael is a facilitator and strategist who designs transformative journeys and guides organisations and communities through immersive experiences that involve leadership, nature, and creativity. He focuses on cultivating regenerative leadership, unlocking innovation and reimagining strategy through co-creation and storytelling. Mikhael’s work is rooted in two decades of experience in leading co- creation processes and applying them to the big challenges of our time, including climate change, biodiversity loss, and the disconnection of humans from natural intelligence. His deep commitment to spiritual practice enables him to hold space for individuals and groups to embark on profound inner and outer quests, structured through clear frameworks, yet alive with play, story, and nature’s wisdom. ____ Go Deeper:  ⁠www.krishall.ca⁠  Apply now for the Wild Women Rising retreat:  ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/application-wwr⁠  Sex Coaching: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/krishall2/clarity-call⁠⁠  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/  https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    57 min
  6. Mar 20

    60 | Orgasmic Mastery: What To Do With Sexual Energy (Part 3/3)

    This is the final episode in the 3-part Orgasmic Mastery series - and this time we’re talking about the mastery itself.  Essentially: what do you do with sexual energy once you’ve learned how to build it up? What else is possible? Yes, we can experience exquisite pleasure, but we can also harness the energy for wellness, creation, and healing.  This episode is also essential for when you have SO much sexual energy, that you actually need to learn how to calm it down, move it around, and not have it distract you in moments where you actually can’t be swimming in turn on!  So: “What do I actually do with all of this energy?” In this episode, we move beyond orgasm as a moment… …and into orgasm as a life force. You’ll learn how to work with your sexual energy as a tool for: Healing your body and nervous system Expanding your creativity and vitality Deepening your spiritual connection Manifesting what you truly desire Drawing from Tantra, Taoism, somatics, and modern nervous system work, I’ll walk you through 5 powerful tools for orgasmic mastery, including: How to store orgasmic energy instead of releasing it How to circulate pleasure through your entire body How to direct sexual energy for healing How to work with the chakra system And how to use sex magic to amplify your desires Plus, I share personal stories from my own journey - including what happens when you have too much sexual energy… and how to actually work with it. This episode is about expanding sexual energy beyond the bedroom, and the crazy benefits that can be had when you do.  Go Deeper:  ⁠www.krishall.ca⁠  Apply now for Wild Women Rising:  ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/application-wwr⁠  Sex Coaching: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/krishall2/clarity-call⁠⁠  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Try Sex Magic:  https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic  Get 10% your favourite crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, & butt plugs (code KRIS10) ⁠⁠https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving⁠ ⁠  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/  https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    38 min
  7. 59 | Orgasmic Expansion: Experience Full-Body Orgasms, Deeper Pleasure & Better Sex (Part 2 of 3)

    Feb 25

    59 | Orgasmic Expansion: Experience Full-Body Orgasms, Deeper Pleasure & Better Sex (Part 2 of 3)

    Welcome back to I’ll Have What She’s Having — and Part 2 of our 3-part orgasm series. Part 1 was about reclaiming your orgasm… this episode is about expanding it. This is where sex stops being something you do — and starts becoming a state you enter. We’re diving into Orgasmic Expansion: how to move beyond goal-oriented sex, redefine what orgasm actually is, and unlock deeper, fuller, more powerful pleasure in your body. If you can already orgasm but know there’s more available this episode will change how you experience sex forever. In this episode we explore: What orgasmic expansion actually is Why most women have been taught a very limited definition of orgasm How to experience full-body and multi-layered orgasms Moving from performance-based sex to presence-based pleasure How breath, sound, movement, and energy expand orgasm The concept of orgasm as a shift in consciousness Building a deeper relationship with your body and pleasure Practices to expand sensation, trust, and sexual confidence Why slowing down creates more powerful orgasms How to explore your body as an “orgasmic landscape” This episode is for you if: You can orgasm… but know there’s more available You want deeper, more powerful, or full-body orgasms You feel ready to expand your pleasure and turn-on You want better sex and a stronger connection to your body You’re curious about multi-orgasmic or energetic orgasms You want to feel more confident and present during sex The 3 Phases of Becoming Orgasmic (3 part series) Phase 1: Reclamation Permission, safety, healing shame, and accessing pleasure Phase 2: Expansion (this episode) Redefining orgasm and expanding what your body can feel Phase 3: Mastery Using sexual energy for healing, confidence, and life force Start with Episode 1 if you’re still building orgasmic access. Work With Me ✨ 1:1 Coaching - Wild, Worthy, & Orgasmic A 12-week deep dive into reclamation, expansion, and mastery Transform your sex life, confidence, and connection to your body → Apply: krishall.ca/coaching  🔥 Women’s Retreats Wild Women Rising — BC (May 2026) Wild Women Unleashed — Mexico (Feb 2027) → Details + applications: krishall.ca/wild-women-rising  🎁 Free Training: The Pleasure Portal A free 15-minute orgasm expansion practice → krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal 🥰 Connect with me: → @kris.the.pleasure.engineer  → @illhavewhat_shes_having

    48 min
  8. Feb 13

    58 | Orgasmic Reclamation: “Why Can’t I Orgasm?” (Part 1 of 3)

    Welcome to the first episode of a powerful 3-part series on orgasms, pleasure, and sexual confidence. If you’ve ever wondered: Why can’t I orgasm? Why doesn’t sex turn me on the way I want it to? Am I broken? Am I normal? How do I have better sex? This episode is where your answers begin. In Part 1: Orgasmic Reclamation, we’re starting at the foundation - because better sex doesn’t begin with performance or technique. It begins with access, permission, and feeling safe enough to actually feel. Inside this episode we explore: The real reasons orgasm might not be happening Emotional blocks, shame, and fear of letting go The three essential components of orgasm (most women were never taught) How to reconnect to your body and pleasure Why you are NOT broken - and never were The first steps to reclaiming your orgasm and sexual confidence How to start feeling again (even if you’ve felt numb or disconnected for years) You’ll also hear my personal journey through orgasm struggles, sexual disconnection, and eventually discovering what truly creates life-changing pleasure. This episode is for women who want: ✨ Better sex ✨ Stronger desire and turn-on ✨ More confidence in bed ✨ To finally understand their bodies ✨ To feel normal, validated, and empowered Orgasmic Reclamation is the first phase of developing incredible sex and deep pleasure - and it changes everything. If you’re ready to stop wondering what’s wrong with you and start discovering what’s possible for you… Press play. Your most orgasmic chapter is just beginning. Go Deeper:  ⁠www.krishall.ca⁠  Apply now for Wild Women Rising:  ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/application-wwr⁠  Sex Coaching & Couples Tantric Awakening: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/krishall2/clarity-call⁠⁠  Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE) ⁠https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal⁠  Try Sex Magic:  https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic  Get 10% your favourite crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, & butt plugs (code KRIS10) ⁠⁠https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving⁠ ⁠  Submit your questions: ⁠⁠https://www.krishall.ca/podcast⁠⁠    IG: https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/ https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/

    57 min

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Looking for true sexual confidence? Tune in bi-weekly for expert advice, real stories, Tantric techniques, sexual healing secrets, & relationships hacks. Reclaim your sexual energy, aliveness, & power! Hosted by Sexual Empowerment Coach Kris Hall - this is your permission slip to live outrageously and step into your full sexual freedom. Whether you're single, partnered, or exploring - this is your space to feel excited to be alive! Hit subscribe - your pleasure revolution starts now. 🔥 For more visit https://www.krishall.ca *Formerly Reclaim Your Radiance*

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