Military Family Life

Petawawa Military Family Resource Centre

Military Family Life does not come with an instruction manual!Each episode we bring you the stories of people who have ‘been there’ – and they are here to share the lessons they have learned along the way … to help you live your BEST military family life

  1. May 19

    Our Conversation with Mr. Mario Baril

    In this month’s episode we are speaking with the Ombudsman for the Department of National Defence and Canadian Armed Forces, Mario Baril. In our conversation we talk about the scope of his role, how the Ombudsman’s office can support Military family members, and some of the tools and resources that have been created by his team. Mr. Baril also tells us what he has learned about - and from - Military families since taking on this role in July 2025. About our Guest: Mario Baril is a seasoned public service executive and accredited mediator with nearly two decades of leadership experience in advancing organizational health and strategic governance across the Government of Canada. Mario Baril has served in the executive ranks of the federal public service, holding a variety of senior leadership roles as a member of Senior Executive Management tables. His experience includes providing strategic counsel to Deputy Ministers as Chief of Staff at the Treasury Board Secretariat, advising Ministers’ Offices on strategic and business communications at Public Services and Procurement Canada (PSPC), and delivering his leadership vision at the Association of Professional Executives of the Public Service of Canada.  More recently, in 2018, Mario established the first organizational Ombudsman Office at Innovation, Science and Economic Development Canada (ISED), and pursued his passion for healthy workplaces through the delivery of Ombudsman confidential services at Public Services and Procurement Canada from 2022 to 2025. In March 2025, Mario was appointed by the Governor General in Council—on the recommendation of the Minister of National Defence—as Special Advisor to the Minister and Ombudsman for the Department of National Defence and the Canadian Armed Forces, effective July 2, 2025. Mario is an Accredited Mediator (IMAQ) and a Certified Leadership Coach (Destination Leadership, 2024).  Throughout his career, Mario led numerous departmental and national initiatives aimed at promoting organizational health. He played a key role in establishing a new role and mandate of the Canadian Innovation Centre for Mental Health in the Workplace—a national initiative recognized and highlighted as a success in the 29th Annual Report to the Prime Minister on the Public Service of Canada. He served on the Advisory Board for the Centre of Expertise on Mental Health in the Workplace and contributed to the Interdepartmental Committee on Mental Health Performance Measurement at the Treasury Board Secretariat. Mario holds a master’s degree in public administration from ÉNAP, a bachelor’s degree in social sciences (Economics, Public Policy, and Management) from the University of Ottawa, and a college diploma in journalism. Outside of his professional life, Mario is an avid outdoor enthusiast who enjoys sailing, swimming, canoeing, cycling, downhill skiing, and trekking in Mont-Tremblant. A passionate traveler, he has explored numerous countries with his wife, Danielle, and their two sons—embracing diverse cultures and forging meaningful connections around the world. Links: Military Benefits Browser https://www.canada.ca/en/ombudsman-national-defence-forces/education-information/caf-members/compensation-benefits/mbb.htmlABCs of Military Postings https://www.canada.ca/en/ombudsman-national-defence-forces/education-information/caf-members/career/postings/abc-military-postings.htmlEnglish homepage https://www.canada.ca/en/ombudsman-national-defence-forces.htmlFrench homepage https://www.canada.ca/fr/ombudsman-defense-nationale-forces.html

    58 min
  2. Jan 15

    Our Conversation with CIMVHR

    In this episode we are speaking with Amy Doyle and Dr Nicholas Held from the Canadian Institute for Military and Veteran Health Research (CIMVHR).  We discuss recent research studies, and how the findings are being put into practice in new programs and initiatives to support CAF Members, Veterans and their families.  In particular we talk about a series of books to help Military children to discuss their feelings about the challenges facing them and their families. Our Guests:  Amy Doyle has worked in publishing for many years as the owner of Midpoint Productions Inc. and as the former Director of Advertising at The Intelligencer newspaper in ontario’s Quinte region. Amy later transitioned into fundraising and partnerships - and now serves as Project Manager for Strategic Partnerships and Initiatives at the Canadian Institute for Military and Veteran Health Research at Queen’s University.  Amy is married to a former CAF reservist. Her youngest son serves with 2RCR at Base Gagetown in New Brunswick, and her eldest son is attending Dalhousie University.  Dr. Nicholas Held is the Interim Scientific Director of the Canadian Institute for Military and Veteran Health Research and an Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioural Neurosciences at McMaster University.  He is also the Co-Editor-in-Chief for the Journal of Military, Veteran, Family Health.  Prior to this role, Dr. Held served as the Assistant Scientific Director at CIMVHR. He has previously held positions as an Assistant Professor Teaching Adjunct in the School of Kinesiology at Queen’s University and a Term Adjunct in the School of Rehabilitation Therapy at Queen’s University. He completed his PhD degree at the University of British Columbia and Postdoctoral training in the School of Rehabilitation Therapy at Queen’s University.  In addition to research training, he gained valuable experience working in a clinical setting exclusively with CAF Veterans living with chronic pain. His research interests broadly focus on improving the wellbeing of military, Veterans and their families, with a specific interest in improving pain management and recovery of CAF Veterans. Learn More: About CIMVHR: https://cimvhr.ca/ About the books: https://cimvhr.ca/canadian-adaptations-of-childrens-e-books-for-military-veteran-and-public-safety-personnel-families/ We want to hear from you! Do you want to tell your story?  Send us an email to find out more about being a guest: Podcast.Feedback@PetawawaMFRC.com

    50 min
  3. 07/08/2025

    Our conversation with Jessica Guerin and Pauline Lythgoe

    This month we are talking with two members of Team Canada at the Invictus Games in Whistler BC in February 2025. In our discussion we talk about : ·     what lead them to apply for Team Canada,  ·     the journey to the games once they were selected –  ·     and what it was like to complete at the Invictus Games. We also talk about the lessons they learned – and how the experience changed their perspectives and their relationships. If you are a fan of the Invictus Games you are really going to enjoy this behind- the-scenes look at how the athletes select the events they will compete in – as well as the training process to get them ready to compete. Note - in this episode we do discuss Operational Stress Injuries, please listen with care. About out Guests Major Jessica Guerin is a dedicated Personnel Selections Officer with 23 years of service in the Canadian Armed Forces. With a background as a medical technician and a degree in psychology from RMC, she combines her expertise in mental health with a passion for helping others find their career paths. Outside of work, she enjoys fitness challenges, cooking, and volunteering. Jess is also a proud mom and a strong advocate for veteran mental health initiatives, aiming to continue her journey in counseling psychology and support fellow veterans. Pauline Lythgoe served in the Army and later in the Air Force as a Material Management Technician. She served in Petawawa for 18 years, working in different units and sections. She also completed an IR posting in Ottawa before retiring from the Canadian Armed Forces a few months ago in March of 2025. We hope that you enjoy the conversation that my cohost Claudia Beswick and I had with Jessica Guerin and Pauline Lythgoe Click here to learn more about Soldier On:  https://www.soldieron.ca/ We want to hear from you! Do you want to tell your story?  Send us an email to find out more about being a guest: Podcast.Feedback@PetawawaMFRC.com

    52 min
  4. 06/02/2025

    Our Conversation with Carley Robb-Jackson and Amy Carpenter

    In this episode we are speaking with Carley Robb-Jackson and Amy Carpenter from Military Family Services about some of the research that is being done by MFS as part of the Gender-based Violence and Family Violence portfolio. We also talk about: the challenges of Military family life that may put an additional strain on relationships resources that are available for those in unhealthy relationships, andthe Healthy Relationships campaign presented each year.Content Warning: We understand that discussions about family violence and gender-based violence can be difficult for some.  Please listen with care.   About our Guests: Carley Robb-Jackson is the Senior Manager, Gender-based Violence and Family Violence portfolio with Military Family Services. She has an extensive background working in gender equality, women's rights and family violence. Prior to working with MFS, Carley worked in the international development sector as a gender equality specialist. She holds a MA in Sociology, and has conducted research on family violence and breakdown, and women's access to justice. Amy Carpenter is a Policy Development and Research Manager working at Military Family Services as part of the Gender-Based Violence team. Amy has worked in the military community for about 6 years and lives the military lifestyle with her partner. Prior to working at Military Family Services, Amy worked at the MFRC in Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan, and the North of 60 MFRC in Yellowknife, Northwest Territories.   Learn More: CFMWS.ca website with access information and resources from the Healthy Relationships campaign: https://cfmws.ca/support-services/health-wellness/healthyrelationshipsThe Healthy Relationships Continuum: https://cfmws.ca/support-services/health-wellness/healthyrelationships/tip-sheets/intimate-relationships-continuum-and-chartRevised DAOD 5044-4, Family Violence: https://www.canada.ca/en/department-national-defence/corporate/policies-standards/defence-administrative-orders-directives/5000-series/5044/5044-4-family-violence.htmlSupports available for building healthy relationships and addressing family stress, breakdown and violence. : https://cfmws.ca/support-services/health-wellness/healthyrelationships/supports-available-to-youStories from other CAF families about their strategies for overcoming military lifestyle challenges:  https://cfmws.ca/support-services/health-wellness/healthyrelationships/stories-of-military-members-and-their-families Online course on how to support a friend or family member who may be experiencing intimate partner violence:https://cfmws.ca/support-services/health-wellness/healthyrelationships/online-learning-and-webinarsWe want to hear from you! Do you want to tell your story?  Send us an email to find out more about being a guest: Podcast.Feedback@PetawawaMFRC.com

    51 min
  5. 04/08/2025

    Our conversation with Chris Quigley and Bella

    April is Month of the Military Child.  For this episode we are speaking with Chris Quigley and her friend Bella about the work they do with Military Children.  They tell us about some of the challenges they hear about and what we all do to support Military Children this month - and year round. About our Guests: An East coast chance meeting and marriage to a CAF Member - now veteran - was the catalyst for Chris’s now 26 year career supporting military members and their families at  MFRC's and with Military Family Services.   Chris has a background in childhood education and MH. These pursuits allow her to engage with children to help them cope and learn resiliency skills. Using the art of puppetry, Chris is able to meet children where they are at and help them overcome their  struggles.  Some parents have described it as a true blessing.   Chris and Bella – her 6 year old ostrich puppet -- develop relationships with children – and in doing so they help children discover ways to cope with missing loved ones , overcome the fear of speaking to new friends and many other challenges that face Military children.   When Chris is not supporting military families in some capacity, you can find her volunteering at the local MFRC, gardening and planning her winter greenery and Christmas displays for friends in the neighborhood. We want to hear from you! Do you want to tell your story?  Send us an email to find out more about being a guest: Podcast.Feedback@PetawawaMFRC.com

    50 min
  6. 11/29/2024

    Our conversation with Sgt Valery Switzer

    In this episode of Military Family Life we are speaking with Sgt Valery Switzer.   Valery is a CAF Member, a military spouse, a mother of two, a part-time student and a word champion powerlifter. She was also recently named Canadian Armed Forces Female Athlete of the Year!    In our conversation we talk with Valery about power lifting training and competitions, the importance of balance and self-care when juggling so many roles, and her advice for those starting their career in the CAF. About out Guest: Sergeant Valery Switzer was born in Laval, Quebec and joined the Canadian Armed Forces as Regular Forces in March 2013 as a Mobile Support Equipment Operator.  Her first posting was to 2SVC BN at Garrison Petawawa in January 2014.  During this time, Valery actively participated in various exercises and maintained high readiness as a member of Transportation Coy, Bravo Platoon. In March 2015, she was deployed Poland with 3RCR on Op Reassurance, ROTO 0.  Upon returning from deployment, Valery resumed duties within Bravo Platoon before being assigned as the Base Commander’s Driver at 4CDSG In August 2017, she was posted to 1 Canadian Field Hospital and served as the transport section’s 2IC, before taking maternity leave following the birth of her daughter, Emily Elizabeth Switzer.  Valery was promoted to Master Corporal in April 2020 and assumed responsibility for the training section within the transportation platoon, overseeing all transportation-related training for 1 Canadian Field Hospital. In March 2021, Valery and her husband, Major Zachary Switzer, welcomed their second child, Charles Alexander. Later that same year, the Switzer family moved to beautiful Kingston, Ontario where she took up the position of Base Advance Booker for the transportation platoon.  In September 2021, she was appointed Chief Dispatcher, a role that is typically held by a Sergeant, despite being a MCpl.  She continued in that capacity until February 2022 when she transitioned into the position of GPV IC (General Purpose Vehicle) as a MCpl.   In August 2023, Sgt Switzer assumed the rank of Acting While so Employed at the rank of Sergeant while continuing as the GPV IC for CFB Kingston. That section consisted of 30 members both Military and Civilian. She was promoted to Sgt in April 2024. In June 2024, Sgt Switzer officially took over the CFB Kingston Road and Vehicle IC position.  Despite a demanding schedule, Val provides unwavering support to her husband who is currently serving on imposed restrictions (IR) as the senior aide the camp to the Chief of Defense Staff. Sgt Switzer is the weekly primary caregiver for their two children while is pursuing an online Bachelor’s in Business Administration with the University of Fredericton.  But her passion does not stop there  Valery is an accomplished competitive powerlifter.  She recently represented the Canadian Armed Forces, the Canadian Powerlifting League, and Canadian Forces Base Kingston at the International Powerlifting League in Coventry, UK.  At that competition she earned the title of World Champion in the 82.5kg open raw power division. This year Valery was awarded Canadian Army Female Athlete of the Year.  Since the recording of this podcast – Val attended the CAF Sport Gala where she was named CAF Female athlete of the year. Valery, her husband Zac and their two children live in Odessa, Ontario, with  their beloved pets-Nova, Shadow, and Tazz. Contact us: We would love to hear from you.  If you are a Military Family Member that wants to share your experiences and lessons learned, email us at Podcast.Feedback@PetawawaMFRC.com

    41 min

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Military Family Life does not come with an instruction manual!Each episode we bring you the stories of people who have ‘been there’ – and they are here to share the lessons they have learned along the way … to help you live your BEST military family life