Abdulfattah Adeyemi

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2d ago

ISLAMIC REFLECTIONS ON SONDER

You Walk Past People Every Day… But Do You See Them? You walk past people every day… But have you ever stopped to think: Every single person you see is living a life as deep and complex as yours. This powerful lecture explores the concept of Sonder—not just as a philosophical idea, but through the lens of the Qur’an and Islamic spirituality. From strangers to loved ones, from animals to places, from time to the unseen world… THIS LECTURE TAKES YOU ON A JOURNEY THROUGH: The hidden lives of people around youWhy we take loved ones for granted The unseen realities of angels, jinn, and spiritual influence The deeper meaning of time and existence The inner world within yourself How awareness transforms your character and relationship with Allah This is not just a reflection… It is a spiritual awakening. YOU WILL BEGIN TO: judge less understand more become more mindful and live with greater consciousness of Allah The world is not empty. It is full of lives, meanings, and realities you have not been seeing. This is not just a lecture. It is a perspective-shifting experience. Subscribe for more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace today. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi sonder meaning, islamic reflection, deep islamic lecture, awareness in islam, spiritual awakening islam, meaning oflife islam, unseen world islam, angels and jinn islam, self reflection islam, islamic motivation, life lessons islam, consciousness in islam, islamic philosophy, muslim mindset, deep reminder islam

1h 53m
5d ago

WHAT NO ONE TELLS GIRLS ABOUT IDENTITY

Girls today are seen everywhere… but many are still asking: Who am I? In this powerful and heart-touching lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi addresses one of the most important yet overlooked issues of our time—the identity, self-worth, and development of girls into strong, dignified women. In a world driven by attention, comparison, and unrealistic expectations, many girls struggle with confusion, emotional vulnerability, and the pressure to seekvalidation. THIS LECTURE EXPLORES: The true meaning of womanhood Why many girls feel lost, pressured, or uncertain The impact of attention culture, comparison, and social media The truth about identity, dignity, and self-worth Emotional discipline and personal boundaries How girls can grow into purposeful, confident women A heartfelt message for those feeling lost or broken Lessons from the lives of righteous women A powerful closing du‘ā for identity, protection, and purpose This is not just a lecture… It is a reminder of your worth, your dignity, and your purpose. Like & Share this lecture to inspire others. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi girls identity, self worth for women, islamic lecture for women, muslimah motivation, knowing your worth islam, emotional intelligence women, modesty and dignity islam, young women advice, relationship advice for girls islam, selfdevelopment for women, identity crisis women, discipline and self control, muslim youth lecture, empowerment for girls, becoming a woman

1h 29m
May 26

WHAT NO ONE TELLS BOYS ABOUT MATURITY

We are raising boys with access to everything… but direction in nothing. In this powerful and thought-provoking lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi addresses one of the most urgent issues of our time—the crisis facing boys and young mentoday. Why are so many boys struggling with direction, discipline, and purpose? Who is responsible? And more importantly, how can we fix it? THIS LECTURE EXPLORES: The true meaning of manhood Why many boys feel lost, distracted, and unprepared The impact of society, systems, and personal choices The dangers of digital addiction, pleasure-seeking, and comparison The truth about money, maturity, and responsibility How boys can rise into disciplined, purposeful men A powerful call to parents, mentors, and society YOU WILL ALSO HEAR: A message of hope for those struggling with addiction or confusion Lessons from the Lives of the Prophets A final charge to rise into responsibility and leadership This is not just a lecture… It is a wake-up call for a generation. Like & Share this lecture to inspire others. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi who is failing our boys, masculinity crisis, islamic lecture for youth, young men advice, becoming a man, discipline for men, purpose for young men, emotional maturity men, islamic motivation youth, life advice for boys, modern masculinity, self development men, responsibility and discipline, youth empowerment islam, addiction recovery motivation

1h 12m
May 22

WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN TELLING YOURSELF?

What have you been telling yourself in the privacy of your own mind? What is that constant, often unnoticed stream ofinner speech that shapes your reality, your emotions, your relationships, and your relationship with Allah? This comprehensive lecture explores the philosophical, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of self-talk throughthe lens of the Qur'an and Sunnah. You will learn to recognize the voice of the Inner Critic, distinguish it from the conscience, understand how your past, present, and future narratives shape your life, and discover practical, Qur'an-basedtools to reclaim your inner speech. WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: 1. The Nature of Self-Talk — Why the voice never stops and what it really is 2. The Language of the Inner Critic — Where harsh self-judgment comes from 3. The Stories We Tell Ourselves — How narrative shapes identity 4. The Qur'an on Inner Speech — What Allah reveals about your hidden whispers 5. The Hadith on Thoughts and Intentions — The sacred space of the inner world 6. Affirmation vs. Toxic Positivity — When encouragement becomes denial 7. The Words We Speak About Our Past — Freeing yourself from regret 8. The Words We Speak About Our Present — Living in the now with presence 9. The Words We Speak About Our Future — Breaking the cycle of anxiety 10. The Path to Reclaiming Inner Speech — Practical daily practices KEY TOPICS COVERED: • What is self-talk and why does it never stop? • The Inner Critic vs. The Conscience (Nafs al-Lawwāmah) • How inherited stories shape your identity • Qur'anic verses on inner speech (50:16, 114:4, 7:205, etc.) • Hadith on forgiven thoughts and the power of intention • The difference between healthy affirmation and toxic positivity • How to speak to yourself about past failures, mistakes, and trauma • Breaking free from comparison, overwhelm, and stagnation • Transforming "what if" anxiety into trust in Allah • Practical daily practices: muraqabah, dhikr, and istighfar • The Five Gates of Inner Speech • Qur'anic replacement phrases for common harmful self-talk SOURCES REFERENCED: • Qur'an: Surah Al-Baqarah, An-Nisa, Yunus, Yusuf, Maryam, Al-Furqan, Qaf, etc. • Sahih Bukhari & Sahih Muslim • Sunan Abi Dawud, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah • Tafsir Ibn Kathir • Classical Islamic scholarship on nafs, qalb, and rūḥ SUBSCRIBE for more Islamic reflections on psychology, spirituality, and personal growth! Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi #SelfTalk #InnerSpeech#IslamicPsychology #QuranAndSelf #InnerCritic #ToxicPositivity #IslamicSpirituality #HealingInnerWorld #Nafs #Tazkiyah #Dhikr #Muraqabah #IslamicReminder #MentalHealthInIslam #QuranReflection #PersonalGrowth#IslamicWisdom #HealingFromWithin #TrustAllah #Repentance #Tawbah #HopeInAllah #QuranicHealing#MuslimMentalHealth #IslamicSelfHelp

2h 5m
May 18

THE SPOUSE AND THEIR IN-LAWS

Marriage not only unites two people. It often connects two families, two cultures, and two emotional worlds. But one important question remains: How much involvement should in-laws really have in a marriage? In this insightful and balanced lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores: the rights of a spouse upon their in-laws healthy family boundaries emotional protection in marriage respecting parents without damaging the marriage and how wise in-laws become a source of peace instead of pressure. THIS LECTURE DISCUSSES: family interference in marriage emotional safety for spouses healthy communication with parents and in-laws Islamic balance between marriage and family protecting the dignity of one’s spouse and the role of wise, supportive in-laws. You will also hear a heartfelt tribute to “The in-laws from paradise” — those beautiful souls who support marriages with wisdom, mercy, and maturity. KEY REMINDER: Parents deserve honour.Marriage deserves protection.The goal is not family separation, but healthy closeness with healthy boundaries. Subscribefor more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth.Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace with their in-laws today. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi in-laws and marriage, marriage advice islam, family interference in marriage, islamic marriage advice, mother in law problems, healthy boundaries marriage, spouse rights in islam, muslim family lecture, relationship advice,marriage counseling, husband and wife issues, protecting marriage, emotional intelligence marriage, family and marriage balance, in-laws in islam

30 min
May 14

THE A-Z OF MARRIAGE: WHAT THE SCHOOLS NEVER TAUGHT US

When we were children, we learned A for Apple…B for Ball…C for Cat… But nobody taught us A for Affection, B for Boundaries, and C for Communication Yet, these are the very letters that build or break marriages. In this emotional, practical, and reflective lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores The A–Z of Marriage — an insightful look into love, communication, trust, mercy,forgiveness, emotional intelligence, and building a peaceful home. From Affection to Zeal, Mercy to Patience, and Trust to Understanding, this lecture combines Islamic wisdom, relatable humour, emotional insight, practical marital advice, and timeless relationship principles. Whether you are married, preparing for marriage, struggling in your relationship, or helping others build healthy homes… this lecture will transform how you see marriage. TOPICS COVERED: Emotional intimacy Conflict resolution Preventing divorce Healthy communication Emotional maturity in marriage Trust and loyalty Kindness and mercy The spiritual side of marriage Building lasting love Happy homes are not built by perfect people…they are built by people who learn the language of marriage well. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi marriage advice, islamic marriage lecture, muslim couples, marriage communication, relationship advice, marriagemotivation, emotional intelligence marriage, conflict resolution marriage, happy marriage tips, islamic relationship advice, husband and wife lecture, family life islam, preventing divorce, love and mercy in islam, marriage counseling

1h 14m
May 10

YOU WANT MARRIAGE, BUT ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

Many people want marriage… but very few truly understand what it requires. And many people are preparing for the wedding day… but not preparing for married life. In this powerful and eye-opening lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the reality of marriage beyondthe dreams, emotions, and societal expectations. Are you ready for marriage… or just interested in it? THIS LECTURE WILL HELP YOU: Understand the difference between the idea and the reality of marriage Identify why people rush into marriage—and why others delay it Evaluate your true readiness (emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, and financially) Avoid common mistakes that lead to marital breakdown Prepare yourself properly before entering marriage Learn where and how to find a suitable spouse the right way Whether you are single, searching, or preparing for marriage, this message will guide you toward making wiser, moreintentional decisions. Like & Share this lecture to inspire others. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube: www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi marriage readiness, islamic marriage advice, before getting married, relationship advice islam, marriage preparation,muslim singles advice, how to prepare for marriage, marriage reality, why marriages fail, choosing a spouse islam, premarital advice islam, marriage lecture islam, relationship readiness, emotional maturity marriage, marriage expectations What stage are you in right now? Not ready yet Preparing myself Actively searching Already married (learning) Let’s learn from each other.

1h 43m
May 6

EI: WHAT EVERY HUSBAND MUST KNOW

Dear Husband: This Is Why YourMarriage Is Struggling A man can provide everything… yet still struggle to build a peaceful home. In this powerful and practical lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores one of the most overlooked aspects of marriage—emotional intelligence in husbands. Why do many marriages experience tension, distance, and repeated conflict? Often, it is not about money or provision… It is about how emotions are handled. This lecture will help you: Understand what emotional intelligence truly means in marriage Learn how to listen, respond, and lead with wisdom Avoid common mistakes that damage relationships Build emotional stability and connection in your home Create a peaceful, respectful, and loving environment You will also discover: Practical ways to manage anger and reactions How to understand your wife’s emotional needs A message of encouragement for husbands who are trying but struggling A powerful du‘ā for peaceful and successful marriages A man can provide everything… but still fail to create a peaceful home. This is not just advice… It is a guide to building a home filled with sakīnah (tranquility). Subscribefor more deep reflections on love, marriage, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. Share this with someone who needs clarity and peace today. Book for Counselling/Therapy session here: https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠ FOLLOW ME ON: Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi marriage advice for husbands,emotional intelligence in marriage, islamic marriage advice, husband and wiferelationship, conflict resolution marriage, muslim husband responsibilities,marriage tips for men, how to be a good husband, relationship advice islam,emotional maturity men, peaceful marriage islam, communication in marriage,marriage problems solution, love and respect marriage, family life islam

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Engaging, authentic, passionate, inspiring and transformational audio lectures to edit your "Youniverse"!

Creator

Abdulfattah Adeyemi
Years Active

2021 - 2026
Episodes

211
Rating

Clean
Show Website

Abdulfattah Adeyemi

Abdulfattah Adeyemi

Episodes

ISLAMIC REFLECTIONS ON SONDER

WHAT NO ONE TELLS GIRLS ABOUT IDENTITY

WHAT NO ONE TELLS BOYS ABOUT MATURITY

WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN TELLING YOURSELF?

THE SPOUSE AND THEIR IN-LAWS

THE A-Z OF MARRIAGE: WHAT THE SCHOOLS NEVER TAUGHT US

YOU WANT MARRIAGE, BUT ARE YOU READY FOR IT?

EI: WHAT EVERY HUSBAND MUST KNOW

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