With Self Respect Comes Self Love

Goddess Asha Mariama

This Podcast is all about the importance of respecting yourself in order to love yourself. How self respect leads to the love of self through how you feel about yourself. How you don't allow anyone to treat you in a kind of way because of your flaws, imperfections, or mistakes? How we need to stop putting other people's wants and needs before? How we need to stop trying to bring other people to our levels? Why we need to stop trying to lower our standards in order to be in the in crowd? How negative people should not get us to where we are doubting ourselves and feelings less than what we are? How we allow these negative people to lower our self esteem, self worth, self values, self confidence, and believing in ourselves? How we should base ourselves more on what we think about ourselves versus what other people think about us? I hope that you guys enjoy this Podcast. And you guys learn something that will help you on your journeys and your paths to greatness. And if you were emailing me your stories that you would like for me to talk about, or any questions that you have that you want answers to when it comes to things that you are experiencing, please email me at Asha.Mariama01@gmail.com. you can also email me there when it comes to wanting one on one coaching as well. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  1. 4d ago

    Episode 67 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Trauma, Pain, and Suffering.

    In this episode, I wanna talk about self-esteem, self value, self-love, and self-respect, when it comes to losing it based upon pain, suffering, trauma, abuse, or any negative things that you’ve been through based on other people. There are millions of different ways why people can lose their respect for themselves. Why people don’t love, value, appreciate, or know they’re worth because they base it on other people and what they think, feel, and their opinions of them. That starts from childhood when it comes to how their parents have talked about them, as well as other children, siblings, family, members, and other people in general. I don’t think people understand the importance of self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-care, self-respect, confidence, and you believing in yourself even when no one else does when it comes to healing and recovery. That’s the first thing that needs to be worked on before anything else can be worked on when it comes to healing and recovery. So I wanted to do this episode because I wanted people to understand that after losing my father, I learned so much about a lot of things that break our self-esteem, self value, self love, and self-respect within ourselves. How we deal with the death of the people that have caused us pain, suffering, abuse, and trauma throughout our whole winter our lives? So I hope this episode helps so many people understand why your self-esteem, self-respect, self love, self value, self-worth, self-confidence, and you believing in yourself when no one else does is so important. And it should never be based on what other people think, say, or their opinions of you, but more so based on how you see yourself. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

    Episode 67 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Trauma, Pain, and Suffering.
  2. Jul 1

    Episode 66 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Grief

    In this episode, I talk about self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-love, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself when it comes to overcoming death and grief. I just lost my father on February 12 of 2026, and I wanted to discuss how death can impact a person‘s self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self self-respect, self love, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself because the people that you love when it comes to your parents, family, children, spouses, and close friends are gone, that believed in you. The people that supported, loved, and believed in you when no one else did are gone. The people that when everybody else put you down and made you feel less than, uplift you and are your biggest cheerleaders when it comes to the things that you do are no longer here physically. How do you move forward when your biggest protectors, and supporters are gone? The people that saved you from all the negative people that were destroying your life are no longer here physically. when it comes to healing and recovery when it comes to grief and death, it’s a little bit different than the other healing and recovery that I have discussed. So I just wanted to come on here, and let you guys know how I’m coping with my healing recovery process when it comes to losing my father. What I’m learning from the death of my father that is changing the way I go about living my life now. And how me and my family are moving forward since the loss of my father? It certainly hasn’t been a very easy journey, but I’m just taking things one day at a time. so I hope this episode really helps other people that are going through grief when it comes to losing a love one and death, that you’re not alone. And I hope it gives you inspiration as far as how to go about overcoming grief. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

    Episode 66 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Grief
  3. Jun 25

    Episode 65 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love Through Grief.

    When is episode talk about self-respect leading to self love when it comes to grief. On February 12 of 2026, I lost my father, and I’ve been going through grief since he has died. I want to talk about how I am building self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and me believing in myself through losing my father. The battle that I have been since his passing when it comes to taking care of everything as far as his affairs. Realizing that losing a father or any parent, or losing a child, spouse, or sometimes even your family is one of the worst type of trauma to go through. I took about through this journey of this grave, I found a self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and me believing in myself that I probably wouldn’t have found if it didn’t happen. how I have went from being lost to being found through the death of my father. This journey as far as my self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and me believing in myself, even when no one else has has not been very easy, but every day, regardless of how many times somebody tries to break any of those, I always finding a way to build it back. But now the new version of me is not letting anybody to break my self-esteem, self-worth, self value, , self-confidence, or me believing, and myself when no one else does. I also talk about what this new chapter of this podcast is gonna consist of when it comes to healing and recovery when it comes to self-esteem leading to self-respect. I just wanna say thank you to all the people that enjoyed all of the episodes while I’ve been away. I truly appreciate it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

    Episode 65 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love Through Grief.
  4. Jun 16

    Episode 64- My pre-conversation with Stephen Edwards about the Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions.

    In this episode, I contunied part 2 of the conversation with Stephen Edwards about the Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions.book that he wrote. We talked about how we end up in the Venus fly trap in the first place when it comes to negative situations.We also talked about the pitfalls that we will face that will keep you stagnet, in fear, doubt, and keep you still and from reaching your goals. We talk about the lies and misconceptions when comes to sex, love, and relatiohsips. The misconceptions when come to how people look at sex and relationships. We talked about pain and how we run fun what we are afraid of, suffering and trauma in stead of facing it. We talked about the book when it comes to the characters of the book as far how they respresents him and the women that he dated and the toxic relationship that they had. How she represented the venus fly trap that is her favorite flower? How the flowers that you like can represent the spiritual verson of yourself? The difference between the person that you though that they were and the person that they truly are. We spoke the way men think vs the way women thnk and are raised. Why do we lower ourselves in order to build other people up even it destroys them? Why do we stay in relationship that we are not meant to be on, or are abusive, and toxic? Why it is importance to trust our gut instincts, intuition, and spiritual feelings when it comes to when comes to who you bring in your life, and how they will impact and affect your life negatively? We also spoke on relationships, emotional growth, self-awareness, accountability, and personal transformation, we would genuinely appreciate an introduction or referral. We’re especially looking to connect with hosts who enjoy honest and reflective discussions with depth and authenticity.If you want to reach him, you can reach him at VFT23Publishing LLC, and vft23.com. It was a great conversation, and I hope that you enjoy the conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  5. May 28

    Episode 62- MY Pre-conversation with Thayne Martin about the Balance between the Conscious Mind and the Subconscious Body. 

    In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Thayne Martin about the emotional, spiriual, and mental health due to trauma, sexual, and physical assualt, abuse, trauma, damage, chaos and destruction, pain and suffering. The spiritual battle between society standards, and the higher power standards. Us dealing with our demons, what we have been through in our past in order to move fowards. His dealing and overcoming severe trauma, DID, complex PTSD, bipolar, and ADHD, The healing prcess that he has done to overcome it through heaoling and recovery that led him to becoming the CEO of It'sPureLove.com, He pecialize in experiential neuroscience, helping people and organizations shift no-longer-useful patterns at the source. Through his work developing the Equation of Life and Abundant Happiness (ELAH™), the structured ELAH eqOS™ system, and Ex Em Neuroconditioning™, He shows leaders, teams, and individuals exactly how to retrain emotional habits to make decisions that align mind and body. His approach goes beyond insight to hands-on learning, measurable change, and emotional regulation, even for those who have faced profound trauma. He currently teaching teach organizations and people how to rewire not just their performance, but their lives, and this could be a powerful fit for your community. It was such a great conversation, that I decided to let you guys hear it. The post conversation is coming soon. I hope that you enjoy it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  6. May 22

    Episode 61- My conversation with Stephen Edwards About the Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions.

    In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Stephen Edwards about the Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions.book that he wrote. We talked about how we end up in the Venus fly trap in the first place when it comes to negative situations.We also talked about the pitfalls that we will face that will keep you stagnet, in fear, doubt, and keep you still and from reaching your goals. We talk about the lies and misconceptions when comes to sex, love, and relatiohsips. The misconceptions when come to how people look at sex and relationships. We talked about pain and how we run fun what we are afraid of, suffering and trauma in stead of facing it. We talked about the difference between pshyical and mental healing. How many opportunities that we miss due to fear, doubt, past trauma, failure, and rejection? The importance of the connections between the mind and body when it comes to healing and recovery. We taked about the consciousness and subconsciousness when it comes to healing and recovery.  We also talked about Post Tramic Slave Disorder, and choices as far as not have any choices due to doing what is expected. A little about Stephen, he is an international speaker and author with a PhD in Spiritual Counseling.he’s spent a lifetime exploring love, transformation, and the mind-body-spirit connection. His book The Venus Fly Trap is a raw, fearless, and often hilarious journey through passion, chaos, and selfdiscovery—inviting audiences to embrace their flaws, release shame, and lean into the beautiful madness of being human. it was a great conversation that I wanted you to hear. The post conversation is coming soon.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

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This Podcast is all about the importance of respecting yourself in order to love yourself. How self respect leads to the love of self through how you feel about yourself. How you don't allow anyone to treat you in a kind of way because of your flaws, imperfections, or mistakes? How we need to stop putting other people's wants and needs before? How we need to stop trying to bring other people to our levels? Why we need to stop trying to lower our standards in order to be in the in crowd? How negative people should not get us to where we are doubting ourselves and feelings less than what we are? How we allow these negative people to lower our self esteem, self worth, self values, self confidence, and believing in ourselves? How we should base ourselves more on what we think about ourselves versus what other people think about us? I hope that you guys enjoy this Podcast. And you guys learn something that will help you on your journeys and your paths to greatness. And if you were emailing me your stories that you would like for me to talk about, or any questions that you have that you want answers to when it comes to things that you are experiencing, please email me at Asha.Mariama01@gmail.com. you can also email me there when it comes to wanting one on one coaching as well. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.