With Self Respect Comes Self Love

Goddess Asha Mariama
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This Podcast is all about the importance of respecting yourself in order to love yourself. How self respect leads to the love of self through how you feel about yourself. How you don't allow anyone to treat you in a kind of way because of your flaws, imperfections, or mistakes? How we need to stop putting other people's wants and needs before? How we need to stop trying to bring other people to our levels? Why we need to stop trying to lower our standards in order to be in the in crowd? How negative people should not get us to where we are doubting ourselves and feelings less than what we are? How we allow these negative people to lower our self esteem, self worth, self values, self confidence, and believing in ourselves? How we should base ourselves more on what we think about ourselves versus what other people think about us? I hope that you guys enjoy this Podcast. And you guys learn something that will help you on your journeys and your paths to greatness. And if you were emailing me your stories that you would like for me to talk about, or any questions that you have that you want answers to when it comes to things that you are experiencing, please email me at Asha.Mariama01@gmail.com. you can also email me there when it comes to wanting one on one coaching as well. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  1. Aug 13

    Episode 71- My Pre-conversation with Ama K. Karikari About Silence Pain, Suffering, and Abuse.

    In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Ama K. Karikari about silence abuse, pain, and suffering when it comes to relationships, as far as family, romantic relationships, and friendships. She tells her story about what she experienced in her 15-year marriage and the silence abuse that she experienced during the marriage. We talked about the damage of silence when it comes to abuse, pain, and suffering from the people that you love. How can silence mean that you are allowing and giving permission for people to hurt, abuse, neglect, manipulate, and take advantage of you? How can silence be harmful to the point that it affects your self-esteem and how you see yourself? How did she overcome the silence abuse, and get out of the marriage? What was the breaking point that made her leave? How can silence be abusive, and no one think that it is abuse? A little about Ama: she is a TEDxGeorgeSchool speaker, author of Silenced to Soaring, transformational guide, attorney, and founder who helps women understand covert emotional harm and reconnect with their voice. Her perspective is shaped by work with women’s leadership, educational, and community audiences, along with studies at Harvard, Penn Law, and Wharton. It was a beautiful conversation that I wanted to share with my audience when it comes to overcoming adversity, pain, abuse, trauma, and suffering due to silence. The second part is coming soon. I hope you guys enjoy the conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  2. Aug 11

    Episode 70- My Pre-conversation with Ezra Vancil about Spiritual Redemption, Addictions, and Forgiveness.

    In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Ezra Vancil about his redemption and forgiveness when it comes to him overcoming addiction, depression, a felony DWI, a broken marriage, and a season where I nearly ended my life. How is it now, 13 years of being sober, his marriage was restored, and I rebuilt my life slowly, through journals, poetry, discipline, faith, and honest work? How, like the story of Humpty Dumpty, he put himself back together again after falling off the wall? We talked about his life as a rock star when he was younger, ended up on drugs and alcohol. And was divorced twice. How people are quick to use your mistakes, flaws, imperfections, and weaknesses against you as a weapon? We talked about spiritual judgment when it comes to the way that people in the Bible were judged, who did nothing but what was right. We also discussed love and being liked addiction as far as what people are willing to do for it, and what will happen negatively that will destroy you. We also talked about the way that felons are judged and crucified for their past mistakes. Why are people always holding people's past mistakes as a weapon against them? Why are people not allowed to change for the better just because they have made a mistake or multiple mistakes in their past? We talked about how our children, friends, and families are impacted and affected by addictions. We talked about suicide and what happens if and when we survive it. What leads to suicide, and no will to live? We really dove deeply into redemption and overcoming addictions. It was a great conversation that I had to let you guys hear. Part 2 is coming soon. Enjoy the conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  3. Jul 28

    Episode 69- My Pre-conversation with Pratiqk Jaani about the Dhrasti Perception Theory.

    In this episode, I had a great pre-conversation about the Dhrasti Method and Perception Theory. We talked about his life as a people pleaser for most of it, which led him to the Dhrasti Method and Perception Theory. We talked about low self-esteem, low self-worth, low self-value, low self-respect, low self-love, low self-confidence, and believing in oneself when no one else does; how his medical and mental health journey has led him to be the founder of Dhrasti Method Ltd and the author of Dhrasti! The Perception? We talked about self-esteem healing and recovery when it comes to building your self-esteem through the negative situations that you are in, and the people who have harmed you. He spoke on being a qualified hypnotherapist and business advisor, the state of bliss, and how to live with bliss and joy too. We spoke about how this method can lead you to being alone to find who you are, heal and recover from your trauma, abuse, suffering, pain, and hurt from negative people and situations. We also spoke about religion and spirituality when it comes to building yourself into the new version of you. How the higher power pulls you away from the world for you to heal, recover, learn, grow, and evolve to prepare you for the things that will hurt and cause you pain and suffering, and how to protect yourself from negative people and situations. It was a great conversation about self-esteem, self-love, and self-value. We will be doing a part of this episode coming soon. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  4. Jul 22

    Episode 68- My Pre-conversation with Paul Drayton about His Memoir, Ride, Or Die Trying.

    In this episode, I had a great conversation with Paul Drayton about his memoir Ride, or Die Trying. We talked about his battle with alcohol and being a people pleaser throughout his whole life. We talked about his marriage and divorce from comedian Alan Carr. He was very candid account of addiction recovery, accountability, grief, a late ADHD diagnosis at 50, and rebuilding his life. How did the drinking addiction almost ruin his life and career? How has his healing and recovery journey led him to rebuilding, and he is now in a much happier place? We talked about how being a people pleaser and lowering yourself is ruining so many people's lives. How being a people pleaser starts from childhood based on trying to please our parents and living up to their expectations. He also talks plainly about making peace with past mistakes, not being defined by public opinion, and rebuilding self-worth without dressing it up. There’s humour and honesty in the way he reflects on chaos, identity, loss, and starting over. People do not understand the damage that being a people pleaser causes to all aspects of your life, health, and wellness. It was a very enlightening conversation that I wanted you guys to hear. We will be doing a part two to that conversation soon. I hope that you enjoy the conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

  5. Jul 15

    Episode 67 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Trauma, Pain, and Suffering.

    In this episode, I wanna talk about self-esteem, self value, self-love, and self-respect, when it comes to losing it based upon pain, suffering, trauma, abuse, or any negative things that you’ve been through based on other people. There are millions of different ways why people can lose their respect for themselves. Why people don’t love, value, appreciate, or know they’re worth because they base it on other people and what they think, feel, and their opinions of them. That starts from childhood when it comes to how their parents have talked about them, as well as other children, siblings, family, members, and other people in general. I don’t think people understand the importance of self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-care, self-respect, confidence, and you believing in yourself even when no one else does when it comes to healing and recovery. That’s the first thing that needs to be worked on before anything else can be worked on when it comes to healing and recovery. So I wanted to do this episode because I wanted people to understand that after losing my father, I learned so much about a lot of things that break our self-esteem, self value, self love, and self-respect within ourselves. How we deal with the death of the people that have caused us pain, suffering, abuse, and trauma throughout our whole winter our lives? So I hope this episode helps so many people understand why your self-esteem, self-respect, self love, self value, self-worth, self-confidence, and you believing in yourself when no one else does is so important. And it should never be based on what other people think, say, or their opinions of you, but more so based on how you see yourself. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

    Episode 67 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Trauma, Pain, and Suffering.

  6. Jul 1

    Episode 66 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Grief

    In this episode, I talk about self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-love, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself when it comes to overcoming death and grief. I just lost my father on February 12 of 2026, and I wanted to discuss how death can impact a person‘s self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self self-respect, self love, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself because the people that you love when it comes to your parents, family, children, spouses, and close friends are gone, that believed in you. The people that supported, loved, and believed in you when no one else did are gone. The people that when everybody else put you down and made you feel less than, uplift you and are your biggest cheerleaders when it comes to the things that you do are no longer here physically. How do you move forward when your biggest protectors, and supporters are gone? The people that saved you from all the negative people that were destroying your life are no longer here physically. when it comes to healing and recovery when it comes to grief and death, it’s a little bit different than the other healing and recovery that I have discussed. So I just wanted to come on here, and let you guys know how I’m coping with my healing recovery process when it comes to losing my father. What I’m learning from the death of my father that is changing the way I go about living my life now. And how me and my family are moving forward since the loss of my father? It certainly hasn’t been a very easy journey, but I’m just taking things one day at a time. so I hope this episode really helps other people that are going through grief when it comes to losing a love one and death, that you’re not alone. And I hope it gives you inspiration as far as how to go about overcoming grief. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

    Episode 66 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When It Comes To Grief

  7. Jun 25

    Episode 65 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love Through Grief.

    When is episode talk about self-respect leading to self love when it comes to grief. On February 12 of 2026, I lost my father, and I’ve been going through grief since he has died. I want to talk about how I am building self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and me believing in myself through losing my father. The battle that I have been since his passing when it comes to taking care of everything as far as his affairs. Realizing that losing a father or any parent, or losing a child, spouse, or sometimes even your family is one of the worst type of trauma to go through. I took about through this journey of this grave, I found a self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and me believing in myself that I probably wouldn’t have found if it didn’t happen. how I have went from being lost to being found through the death of my father. This journey as far as my self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self-respect, self-confidence, and me believing in myself, even when no one else has has not been very easy, but every day, regardless of how many times somebody tries to break any of those, I always finding a way to build it back. But now the new version of me is not letting anybody to break my self-esteem, self-worth, self value, , self-confidence, or me believing, and myself when no one else does. I also talk about what this new chapter of this podcast is gonna consist of when it comes to healing and recovery when it comes to self-esteem leading to self-respect. I just wanna say thank you to all the people that enjoyed all of the episodes while I’ve been away. I truly appreciate it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

    Episode 65 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love Through Grief.

  8. Jun 16

    Episode 64- My pre-conversation with Stephen Edwards about the Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions.

    In this episode, I contunied part 2 of the conversation with Stephen Edwards about the Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions.book that he wrote. We talked about how we end up in the Venus fly trap in the first place when it comes to negative situations.We also talked about the pitfalls that we will face that will keep you stagnet, in fear, doubt, and keep you still and from reaching your goals. We talk about the lies and misconceptions when comes to sex, love, and relatiohsips. The misconceptions when come to how people look at sex and relationships. We talked about pain and how we run fun what we are afraid of, suffering and trauma in stead of facing it. We talked about the book when it comes to the characters of the book as far how they respresents him and the women that he dated and the toxic relationship that they had. How she represented the venus fly trap that is her favorite flower? How the flowers that you like can represent the spiritual verson of yourself? The difference between the person that you though that they were and the person that they truly are. We spoke the way men think vs the way women thnk and are raised. Why do we lower ourselves in order to build other people up even it destroys them? Why do we stay in relationship that we are not meant to be on, or are abusive, and toxic? Why it is importance to trust our gut instincts, intuition, and spiritual feelings when it comes to when comes to who you bring in your life, and how they will impact and affect your life negatively? We also spoke on relationships, emotional growth, self-awareness, accountability, and personal transformation, we would genuinely appreciate an introduction or referral. We’re especially looking to connect with hosts who enjoy honest and reflective discussions with depth and authenticity.If you want to reach him, you can reach him at VFT23Publishing LLC, and vft23.com. It was a great conversation, and I hope that you enjoy the conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

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This Podcast is all about the importance of respecting yourself in order to love yourself. How self respect leads to the love of self through how you feel about yourself. How you don't allow anyone to treat you in a kind of way because of your flaws, imperfections, or mistakes? How we need to stop putting other people's wants and needs before? How we need to stop trying to bring other people to our levels? Why we need to stop trying to lower our standards in order to be in the in crowd? How negative people should not get us to where we are doubting ourselves and feelings less than what we are? How we allow these negative people to lower our self esteem, self worth, self values, self confidence, and believing in ourselves? How we should base ourselves more on what we think about ourselves versus what other people think about us? I hope that you guys enjoy this Podcast. And you guys learn something that will help you on your journeys and your paths to greatness. And if you were emailing me your stories that you would like for me to talk about, or any questions that you have that you want answers to when it comes to things that you are experiencing, please email me at Asha.Mariama01@gmail.com. you can also email me there when it comes to wanting one on one coaching as well. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/with-self-respect-comes-self-love--5161847/support.

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