Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind

Corey Shapiro
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Every time you cooperate, they escalate. Every time you're fair, they take more. This is a podcast about high-conflict divorce. For the spouse who keeps trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't negotiating. A system for getting through, in three phases. Get Clear. Get Going. Get Your Life Back. I'm Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Watched my mother make the biggest decision of her life at her worst moment, with nobody helping her slow down. The companion to my book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind. Seasons follow a curriculum. One full arc per year. Listen in order if you're early in the process. Jump in anywhere if you're already mid-divorce. New episodes Thursdays during the season. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

  1. 4D AGO

    Your Reaction Is Right. Your Response Cannot Be.

    The offer is outrageous. Your reaction is valid. Saying it out loud is the mistake. Here's the method that keeps you persuasive instead. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    10 min

  2. APR 30

    Your Feelings Don't Matter in Divorce Court. Your Actions Do.

    This episode breaks down why acting neutral in your divorce isn't about hiding your feelings, it's about protecting your case from a system that's already forming opinions about you. Corey walks through what happens when emotions take over, why credibility matters more than truth in court, and how to stop giving the other side ammunition. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    10 min

  3. APR 23

    The Secret Weapon That Makes You More Persuasive in Your Divorce

    You're not going to get what you want by pushing harder. The strategic shift shows you how to listen for what's really driving their position, so you can move them without a fight. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    8 min

  4. APR 16

    You Think Winning Changes Everything. You're Wrong.

    That custody win or perfect settlement you're fixated on may not deliver what you think it will. Before you commit to the fight, make sure you can stomach what it takes to get there. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    6 min

  5. APR 9

    Divorce Settlement Proposal: This Can't Be Real

    You open a settlement offer on Friday afternoon and it's outrageous. Before you fire back, this episode gives you the Perspective Check: a way to borrow wisdom from your future self by asking how this will play out in 10 hours, 10 days, and 10 years. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    10 min

  6. APR 2

    Why Your First Instinct Is Ruining Your Divorce

    The two traps people fall into when divorce hits their inbox: freezing and doing nothing, or retaliating with everything you've got. Corey breaks down why both backfire and walks through the strategic response that keeps you in control. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    7 min

  7. MAR 26

    The Checkpoint You Can't Skip

    A checkpoint before we move forward. How far you've come since episode one, and what's next. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    8 min

  8. MAR 19

    The Divorce Trap Parents Fall Into: Harming Kids Mentally

    The 4 levels of a contested custody case and why only one of them protects your child's mental health. For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself. Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order. Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org New episodes Thursdays during the season. Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    9 min
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Every time you cooperate, they escalate. Every time you're fair, they take more. This is a podcast about high-conflict divorce. For the spouse who keeps trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't negotiating. A system for getting through, in three phases. Get Clear. Get Going. Get Your Life Back. I'm Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. Watched my mother make the biggest decision of her life at her worst moment, with nobody helping her slow down. The companion to my book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind. Seasons follow a curriculum. One full arc per year. Listen in order if you're early in the process. Jump in anywhere if you're already mid-divorce. New episodes Thursdays during the season. For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

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