Real Men Talk

Real Men Studios LLC

Real Men Talk deals with hard hitting topics that today's men are faced with on a daily basis and provide strong biblical teaching geared towards men of all ages. Intended for Men ages 16 and up! Hosted by Anthony Curnutt, produced by Real Men Studios LLC in Poplar Bluff, MO

  1. Oct 15

    It’s Okay to Be Frustrated with God - What to Do Next

    Frustration with God does not mean your faith is broken - it can become the very place where faith gets stronger. If you have ever prayed for months with no answer, buried someone you love, or asked, “God, where are You?” this conversation is for you. Anthony Curnutt gets brutally honest about what it means to wrestle with disappointment, anger, and pain without walking away from God. He makes a case for a truth many believers miss: you can be frustrated and still be faithful at the same time. He breaks down: Why anger itself is not the problem, but what you do with it isThe difference between wrestling with God and turning away from HimWhy Proverbs 3:5-6, Psalm 62:8, and Ephesians 4:26-27 matter when life makes no senseHow hardship can either destroy you or grow youWhy Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians 12 reveal a deeper way to suffer with purposeAnthony also shares one of the most personal seasons of his life - a year of constant pain, terrifying medical uncertainty, a devastating family loss, and a moment where he believed he might not make it through. What happened next became a powerful testimony of trust, provision, and unexpected healing that changed him forever. If you are carrying grief, confusion, or anger right now, this episode offers more than comfort. It offers a way forward. Essential listening for men, believers in a hard season, and anyone trying to hold on to God when life feels unfair. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  www.realmenstudios.com  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  2. Oct 8

    What the Storm Exposes About the Foundation You Built

    What are you building your life on when the storm hits? This episode unpacks Jesus' warning in Matthew 7 and makes a powerful case for why your foundation matters more than your circumstances.Anthony Curnutt speaks directly to men facing pressure, loss, betrayal, financial strain, conflict, and the quiet collapse that happens when identity gets tied to the wrong things. The reminder is simple but hard: storms come to everyone, but not every foundation holds.He breaks down the difference between hearing Jesus' words and actually living them, then gets painfully practical about the places where good things turn dangerous - providing for your family, earning approval, handling everything alone, even serving in ministry. When those things become your source of worth, they can crack under pressure.You'll discover:Why two people can face the same storm and end up in completely different placesHow to tell if you've confused knowing Scripture with obeying itWhat it looks like to take responsibility without carrying someone else's blameWhy honest fear, grief, counseling, and practical help do not mean your faith has failedHow small daily choices before the storm shape whether you stand or collapseAnthony also gets real about anger, isolation, broken trust, and the pressure men feel to stay strong at all times. He offers a better path: tell the truth, ask for help, set boundaries when needed, and keep taking the next faithful step even when you feel scared.This is essential listening if you're carrying more than you can admit, leading a family, serving in ministry, or trying to figure out what Jesus actually means when He says to build on the rock. If the storm has exposed something in your life, this conversation gives you hope, clarity, and a next step. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  www.realmenstudios.com  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  3. Sep 24

    He Was Invited By The President - He Chose His Son Instead

    What happens when the man behind the microphone realizes his greatest calling is not the stage, but the people at home? Tony Marr shares the hard reset that forced him to rethink success, ministry, and what it really means to lead as a godly man.Anthony Curnutt sits down with storyteller, speaker, and The Pulpit and the Porch host Tony Marr for a raw conversation about purpose, pressure, and redemption. Tony opens up about growing up in rapidly expanding Las Vegas, earning a master's degree in storytelling, and discovering how story can reach people church culture often misses. You'll discover: Why Tony walked away from full-time vocational ministry after becoming part of the fastest-growing Christian church in the United StatesHow chasing growth, buildings, and public success nearly cost him his marriage and familyWhy he believes storytellers can carry the gospel beyond the church wallsWhat the National Storytelling Festival taught him about audience, craft, and callingHow recalibrating priorities can change everything for a husband, father, and leaderTony also shares the mentors, moments, and painful wake-up calls that reshaped his life, including the turning point that showed him his children needed more than his title - they needed his presence. Anthony pushes into the tension every man feels between responsibility, ambition, and faith, making this a conversation that hits close to home for anyone trying to lead well without losing what matters most.If you're wrestling with burnout, ministry pressure, or the quiet drift of misordered priorities, this episode is essential listening. It's a reminder that God redeems what gets broken, restores what gets lost, and keeps calling men back to what matters most.Perfect for pastors, Christian leaders, fathers, and anyone who needs a reset on calling, family, and faith. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  www.realmenstudios.com  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  4. Sep 10

    You Don’t Work for Identity - You Live From It (Part 3)

    Most men are not struggling because they do not know Scripture - they are struggling because they do not live like it applies to them. Anthony Curnutt closes out Real Men Talk's three-part series on imposter syndrome with a blunt challenge: stop working for an identity and start living from the one Christ has already given you.If you have ever felt called by God and still talked yourself out of obedience, this episode hits hard. Anthony shares the personal tension of writing Framework for Biblical Masculinity while feeling unqualified, then breaks down why insecurity turns faith into performance, pressure, and burnout.You'll discover: Why identity comes before activityHow to tell the difference between obedience from gratitude and approval-seekingWhat a secure man looks like when he repents, serves, leads, and failsWhy recognition, applause, and validation cannot be the foundation for a godly lifeHow to answer the question that changes everything: What would you do this week if you truly believed you were God's son?Anthony walks through key passages from 1 Peter 2, Ephesians 2, 1 John 1, Colossians 3, and Philippians 1 to show that biblical identity is not self-improvement, it is a new purpose. He also gives a practical challenge for the week: choose one truth about who you are in Christ, identify the lie that attacks it, and take one concrete step that agrees with God's word.This episode matters if you've been hiding behind perfectionism, chasing recognition, or assuming your failure disqualifies you. The message is simple but life-changing: you do not need to earn what Jesus already purchased for you.Essential listening for men, husbands, fathers, leaders, and anyone ready to stop auditioning for God's approval and start living like they belong to Him. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  www.realmenstudios.com  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  5. Sep 3

    Your Past Is Not Your Master - 4 Lies Trapping Men in Shame (Part 2)

    What if the biggest thing holding you back is not your past, your lack of credentials, or even your insecurity - but a lie you have believed for so long it feels like truth?Anthony Curnutt challenges men to confront the internal voices that keep them trapped in shame, comparison, performance, and fear. If you have ever wondered, Do I really belong here? or Who am I to lead, speak, or serve? this episode is for you.Anthony unpacks four identity lies that quietly shape how men live: My past disqualifies meEveryone else has it figured outI must earn my placeFeeling unqualified means I was not calledHe shows why conviction is not the same as condemnation, why your testimony is not the same as your identity, and why God’s calling is not limited to the men who feel ready. You’ll hear practical steps for identifying the lies you believe, testing them against Scripture, replacing them with truth, and walking in obedience anyway.You’ll also discover why comparison destroys clarity, how approval addiction turns work into bondage, and why the answer to “Who am I?” is often found in “Who is with me?” Anthony uses passages like Galatians 2:20, Romans 8:1, and 2 Corinthians 10 to ground the episode in biblical truth while speaking directly to the man who feels unqualified, overlooked, or stuck.This conversation matters because unchallenged lies do not stay private - they shape your marriage, leadership, fatherhood, ministry, and confidence. And if you keep mistaking loud thoughts for true thoughts, you will keep living under a name God never gave you.Essential listening if you are a man who wants to stop performing for worth and start living from identity in Christ. The next faithful step may begin with one question: what lie have you been calling your life? Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us / www.realmenstudios.com Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  6. Aug 27

    Why Christian Men Need Strength Before They Can Lead

    Most men are trying to fix the wrong thing. Sean McManus reveals why real change starts with self-leadership, not better excuses - and how faith, fitness, and discipline can reshape your marriage, your mindset, and your future.Sean, founder of McManus Strength and Nutrition, opens up about the season that forced him to confront his own gaps as a husband and father, including his wife’s postpartum depression, the pressure of providing for a growing family, and the moment he realized “something has to change.” What followed was a hard reset - through mentorship, personal development, and a deeper understanding of biblical masculinity.You’ll hear how Sean went from a small family farm and a decade in poultry work to building a coaching business for Christian men who want to get stronger in every area of life. He shares the resources that shaped him, including Family Captain, Man in the Arena with Jim Ramos, and Wild at Heart by John Eldredge, plus the practical lessons that came from actually living them out.We break down why so many men stay stuck in surface-level conversations, why influence is leadership whether you recognize it or not, and why you cannot lead your wife, your kids, or your church if you are not first leading yourself. Anthony Curnutt brings the perspective of a husband, father, and ministry leader who has walked this road for decades and pushes the conversation toward real accountability, not empty motivation.If you’ve ever felt the tension between chasing Jesus and numbing pain, if you’re trying to become a better husband or father, or if you know God is calling you into more but fear keeps slowing you down, this episode will hit home. Sean also shares the costly, messy reality behind leaving a W-2 job, burning through savings, and building McManus Strength and Nutrition the hard way.This is essential listening for Christian men, husbands, fathers, and anyone who wants practical faith that shows up in real life - not just on Sundays. Sean leaves you with one challenge: don’t reach the end of your life wishing you had acted on what God put in your heart. Sean McManus is the founder of McManus Strenght and Nutrition, where he coaches Christian men through custom strength and nutrition plans designed to build discipline, leadership, and confidence. He is also launching the "45 Day Reforge", a group challenge that combines training, nutrition, and Bible study for men who want to get dialed in. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  7. Aug 20

    Identity in Christ and Overcoming the Imposter Within

    What if the voice telling you "you don't belong here" is the exact lie keeping you stuck? Anthony Curnutt kicks off a powerful three-part series on imposter syndrome, identity, and the battle to stop living for approval and start living from who God says you are.For any man who's ever wondered if he's qualified to lead, father, pastor, build, or even speak with confidence, this episode goes straight at the question underneath the anxiety: who gets to define you? Anthony opens up about his own insecurities as a community college dropout from Southeast Missouri, the weight of calling, and why the difference between humility and imposter syndrome changes everything. You'll discover: Why roles like husband, father, leader, or business owner can never carry the full weight of your identityHow Satan uses weariness, failure, and shame to question what God has already declaredThe difference between biblical humility and the destructive fear of "God can't use someone like me"Why 2 Corinthians 5:17 and Ephesians 2:8-10 reframe identity, calling, and good worksHow adoption, not performance, becomes the foundation of confidence in ChristAnthony also unpacks the tension between identity and maturity, showing how you can belong fully to God while still needing discipleship, accountability, correction, and growth. If you've ever been haunted by your past, crippled by fear of exposure, or tempted to let old labels outrank God's word, this conversation gives you a way forward.This episode is essential listening for Christian men, husbands, fathers, ministry leaders, and anyone wrestling with shame, self-doubt, or the pressure to prove themselves. You do not have to prove what God has already declared - you just need to believe Him and walk like the man He says you are. Follow Real Men Talk:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-men-talk/id1605859577Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/67wiLdAhCPZdKo1YMj9P4V?si=ec351ac3672d42f2Website: www.realmenministries.usFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudiosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-PodcastRumble: https://rumble.com/user/realmenministriesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpodBook: https://a.co/d/0aOjE0ngElevenLabs affiliate: https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

    Identity in Christ and Overcoming the Imposter Within
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Real Men Talk deals with hard hitting topics that today's men are faced with on a daily basis and provide strong biblical teaching geared towards men of all ages. Intended for Men ages 16 and up! Hosted by Anthony Curnutt, produced by Real Men Studios LLC in Poplar Bluff, MO

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