The 3L’s Podcast

Emmanuel/Mariam Asuquo
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Welcome to The 3L’s Podcast, a raw, unfiltered, and hilarious take on marriage, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between. We’re a husband-and-wife duo, married nearly 15 years with four kids and more stories than we can count. Each week, we dive into the highs and lows of building a life together, from dating and raising children to navigating finances, intimacy, and family drama. We’ll also break down the money moves and mindset shifts that help couples build wealth and create a legacy for their families. Because love is great, but generational impact? That’s the real goal. Expect real talk, laughter, a little bit of raunchiness (because marriage isn’t always PG), and lessons we’ve learned along the way. Whether you’re dating, newly married, knee-deep in parenting, or just curious how couples make it work, this is the podcast for you. 🎙️ New episodes every Friday. Subscribe and join us as we share the journey of building love, money, and legacy.

  1. 2d ago

    The Wedding Was Perfect. Marriage Wasn't. | The 3L's Podcast Ep 45

    Everyone talks about the wedding day. Hardly anyone talks about what happens after. In this episode of The 3L's Podcast, Eman and Mimi dive into one of the most misunderstood seasons of any relationship, the first year of marriage. The honeymoon photos are posted, the guests have gone home, and reality begins. Two people from different backgrounds suddenly find themselves sharing a home, a routine, responsibilities, finances, expectations, and a future. We discuss the things nobody prepares you for. The habits you never noticed while dating. The arguments that seem small but reveal bigger differences. The challenge of learning how your partner handles conflict. The impact of family expectations, in-laws, money pressures, and the reality of building a life together. The conversation also explores the financial side of marriage that many couples avoid discussing. From wedding debt and budgeting to combining finances and dealing with hidden spending habits, we unpack why money remains one of the biggest sources of tension during the early years of marriage. One of the most powerful moments comes from this week's dilemma. A newly married woman shares how, four months into her marriage, she found herself crying alone in a bathroom. She loved her husband and had no regrets about marrying him, yet something felt wrong. Not because the marriage was failing, but because reality didn't match the picture she had built in her mind. Her story opens up an important conversation about unmet expectations, silent struggles, and the danger of suffering alone when communication is needed most. Whether you're newly married, engaged, dating, or have been married for years, this episode offers honest reflections, practical lessons, and reassurance that challenges in the first year do not mean your marriage is broken. Often, they are simply part of learning how to build a life together. Marriage is not about finding the perfect person. It's about learning how to grow, communicate, compromise, and create a partnership that lasts. Join us as we talk Life, Love, and Legacy. 💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions! ✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

    33 min

  2. Jun 12

    You Have 90%… So Why Are You Chasing The 10%? | The 3L's Podcast Ep 44

    Welcome back to The 3L’s Podcast with Eman and Mariam, where we talk life, love, and legacy with honesty, humour, and the kind of conversations most people are scared to have. This episode tackles one uncomfortable question many couples secretly think about but rarely say out loud. Is it ever okay to walk away from a marriage that is… fine? Not toxic. Not abusive. No cheating. No major drama. The kids are okay. The bills are paid. From the outside, everything looks stable. But inside, something feels missing. What happens when your marriage feels comfortable but no longer exciting? What do you do when you stop feeling deeply connected to the person you promised forever to? Eman and Mariam unpack the dangerous idea of chasing “more” and whether social media, comparison culture, and unrealistic expectations have convinced people that peace in marriage is somehow boring. Is “fine” enough? Or are people settling for less than they deserve? The conversation gets real as they discuss emotional connection, intimacy, unmet expectations, and the temptation to compare your relationship to what you see online or in other people’s marriages. They debate whether men and women look for “more” differently, how emotional safety affects vulnerability, and why many couples struggle to communicate what they truly need from one another. The episode also dives into one of the biggest traps in marriage. Chasing the 10% while risking the 90%. Are people walking away from good marriages searching for excitement, only to realise too late what they lost? As always, the episode ends with a dilemma that will have you questioning everything. A woman says her husband is kind, faithful, present, and a good father, but admits she feels emotionally disconnected and wonders if she married someone she never truly connected with. Is the issue the marriage, or is there something deeper at play? This episode is honest, uncomfortable, funny in parts, and packed with hard truths many couples need to hear. Whether you’re married, dating, engaged, or trying to understand relationships better, this conversation will challenge the way you think about love, connection, and what a “good marriage” really looks like. Drop your thoughts in the comments. Is “fine” enough in marriage, or should love feel deeper than comfort? 💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions! ✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

    33 min

  3. Jun 5

    Same Marriage. Two Completely Different Experiences. | The 3L's Podcast Ep 43

    This week on The 3L’s Podcast, we got real. What started as a simple catch-up quickly turned into one of our deepest conversations yet. We opened up about marriage, mental health, ambition, parenting, pressure, and the expectations we quietly place on ourselves. Mariam shares why, despite having a good life, she sometimes struggles mentally when she feels like she is not moving fast enough or achieving the goals she has set for herself. Eman opens up about gratitude, growth, and why he refuses to let setbacks steal his joy. But then the conversation takes an unexpected turn. Is marriage actually better for men than women? We unpack traditional roles, independence in relationships, and the lessons we learned from watching our parents’ marriages growing up. From financial dependency and education to parenting styles and preparing children for the real world, this episode gets honest in a way many couples are afraid to. We also talk about: • Why some people feel lonely inside a good marriage • The pressure women carry behind closed doors • Mental health and unrealistic expectations • Why partnership matters more than perfection • The danger of losing yourself in marriage • Raising independent children without losing family values • Why your childhood still affects your relationships and money mindset today There were moments we laughed. Moments we disagreed. Moments we had to challenge each other. But this is what Life, Love & Legacy looks like in real time. And one question kept coming up throughout the episode: Can two people be in the same happy marriage but experience it completely differently? If you’re married, dating, struggling, healing, or simply trying to become the best version of yourself, this conversation is for you. Drop your thoughts in the comments because this one will definitely divide opinions. Do you think marriage is better for men than women?

    42 min

  4. May 29

    My Husband Changed Me… But He Exhausts Me | The 3L's Podcast Ep 42

    Should marriage feel comfortable… or should it challenge you? In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, Eman and Miriam get real about the balance between peace, growth, and accountability in marriage. Is your partner meant to comfort you, challenge you, or both? They open up about nearly 15 years of marriage, difficult conversations, conflict, personal growth, parenting, business, and what happens when accountability starts to feel like criticism. The episode also tackles a powerful dilemma from a wife who says her husband has helped her become a better person, but she feels exhausted by how much he pushes her. Meanwhile, her sister’s marriage looks easier and more peaceful. So who got it right? If you’re married, dating, engaged, or trying to build a healthy relationship, this episode is for you. Drop your thoughts in the comments. Should marriage feel comfortable, challenging, or both? Subscribe for more honest conversations on life, love, and legacy.

    31 min

  5. May 22

    You Want Love… But Are You Blocking It | The 3L's Podcast Ep 41

    Love feels harder than ever. People say they want marriage. They want commitment. They want a partner to build with. Yet so many people are sitting on the sidelines, scared to put themselves out there. In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, we get honest about something many people feel but rarely admit. Why are so many people afraid to fall in love? We unpack the fears stopping people from building healthy relationships. Fear of heartbreak. Fear of being cheated on. Fear of wasting time. Fear of commitment. Fear of choosing the wrong person. We talk about how past relationships, trauma, social media and modern dating culture shape how people approach love today. Are men truly afraid of commitment? Or have some become comfortable getting relationship benefits without commitment? Are women protecting their peace, or protecting themselves so much they never allow anyone in? We also speak openly about successful women, career ambitions, marriage and the difficult balance between wanting love and prioritising other goals. What happens when you wake up one day and realise you built everything except the relationship you hoped for? This conversation gets even deeper when we discuss emotional walls in marriage. What happens when your partner loves you, but struggles to fully let you in because of pain from previous relationships? Can therapy help? Can family, mentors, faith or community play a role in healing? And how do you support someone without trying to become their therapist? As always, we finish with a real relationship dilemma that many couples will relate to. One partner feels emotionally shut out by someone they deeply love. We unpack what healing, patience and support truly look like in marriage. Whether you are single, dating, married, healing from heartbreak or trying to make sense of modern relationships, this episode is for you. Drop your thoughts in the comments. Have past relationships ever made you scared to love again? What helped you move forward? Subscribe, like and join the conversation. We are building something real over here.   Send us your dilemmas & questions! Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

    29 min

  6. May 15

    Can A Marriage Survive When One Person Changes? The 3L's Podcast Ep 40

    What happens when one person changes in a relationship? What happens when success, parenthood, business, pressure, grief, growth, or life itself starts pulling two people in different directions? We talk openly about the fear of “outgrowing” your partner. The insecurity that comes when your husband starts moving in bigger rooms. The loneliness of motherhood. The pressure men feel to provide. The resentment couples build when communication disappears. And the dangerous space people enter when they stop feeling seen by the person they love most. Mariam shares how she felt watching Eman surrounded by successful women while she stayed home raising children. Eman opens up about the pressure of building businesses, chasing purpose, and trying to become successful without leaving his family behind emotionally. We also discuss: • Why couples stop communicating honestly • The danger of hiding parts of your life from your partner • Why some people secretly enjoy chaos in relationships • How ambition changes marriages • Why many couples drift apart after children • The importance of making your spouse part of your world • How ego destroys connection • Why emotional safety matters for men and women • The difference between growing apart and growing together This episode is for couples who feel disconnected, misunderstood, or afraid their relationship is changing. Growth is normal. Change is normal. The real question is whether you’re willing to grow together. Drop your thoughts in the comments: H ave you ever felt like you or your partner changed during your relationship? What helped you reconnect? Subscribe to The 3L’s Podcast for real conversations about life, love, marriage, family, finances, and legacy. Send us your dilemmas & questions! Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

    31 min

  7. May 8

    “Don’t Tell Your Husband” | The Marriage Debate Nobody Wants | The 3L's Podcast Ep 39

    Some secrets protect relationships. Some destroy them In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, we ask one question that split the room instantly. Is it ever okay to keep a secret from your spouse? From hidden messages and family drama to cheating friends, church scandals, loyalty, trust, and protecting the “brand” of your marriage, this conversation gets uncomfortable fast. Eman and Mariam open up about the real moments couples face behind closed doors. The situations nobody posts online. The pressure of keeping family business private. The danger of confiding in the wrong people. And the fine line between protecting your partner and protecting yourself. Would you tell your husband if your friend was cheating? Should pastors tell their wives private confessions? Do spouses deserve full honesty? Or are some secrets necessary to keep peace? The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss betrayal, marriage boundaries, emotional safety, toxic loyalty, and why some people carry secrets until they break. There’s also a powerful dilemma from a listener torn between loyalty to her sister and honesty with her husband. What happens when keeping someone else’s secret starts damaging your own marriage? This episode is raw, honest, funny in moments, and painfully real in others. If you’ve ever struggled with trust, oversharing, family expectations, church culture, or knowing who to protect in difficult situations, this conversation will hit home. Drop your thoughts in the comments: Should married couples tell each other everything? Is silence the same as lying? And where should loyalty end? Subscribe to The 3L’s Podcast for more conversations on life, love, marriage, parenting, money, culture, and legacy. 💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions! ✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

    34 min

  8. May 1

    The Truth About Love, Money And Winning £210K Together | The 3L's Podcast FT Tope & Nella Ep 38

    Tope and Nella join The 3L's Podcast for a raw, funny and honest conversation about love, reality TV, money, pressure and what life looks like after winning The Fortune Hotel.   In this episode, Eman and Mimi sit down with the newly engaged couple to hear the full story behind how they met, how they ended up on the show, and what viewers did not see on screen. From 12-hour filming days in Grenada to secret tactics, emotional eliminations, trust issues, and the stress of being watched by cameras all day, Tope and Nella share the good, the bad and the TV drama.   They also open up about winning £210,000, how the money changed their plans, why they donated part of their winnings, and how they are thinking about weddings, family, investing and legacy.   The conversation then turns into real relationship advice. Eman and Mimi share lessons from 15 years of marriage, raising four children, handling money as a couple, building trust, parenting expectations and giving each other grace through different seasons.   This episode is honest, funny and full of gems for couples at every stage. From dating to engagement, marriage, children, money and legacy, this one has plenty to take away.   💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions!  ✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

    57 min
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Welcome to The 3L’s Podcast, a raw, unfiltered, and hilarious take on marriage, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between. We’re a husband-and-wife duo, married nearly 15 years with four kids and more stories than we can count. Each week, we dive into the highs and lows of building a life together, from dating and raising children to navigating finances, intimacy, and family drama. We’ll also break down the money moves and mindset shifts that help couples build wealth and create a legacy for their families. Because love is great, but generational impact? That’s the real goal. Expect real talk, laughter, a little bit of raunchiness (because marriage isn’t always PG), and lessons we’ve learned along the way. Whether you’re dating, newly married, knee-deep in parenting, or just curious how couples make it work, this is the podcast for you. 🎙️ New episodes every Friday. Subscribe and join us as we share the journey of building love, money, and legacy.

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  • Creator
    Emmanuel/Mariam Asuquo
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    66
  • Rating
    Clean
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