Whats dating? “Dating” means different things to different people, particularly across generations. At loveisrespect.org, we define “dating” as two people in an intimate relationship. The relationship may be sexual, but it does not have to be. It may be serious or casual, straight or gay, monogamous or open, short-term or long-term. Types of Dating You and your friends may use the word “dating” or you may not. People describe relationships in different ways. Whatever you call it, we want you to understand and feel comfortable with whatever type of relationship you are in. Dating on a budget Plan a picnic in the park. Pack up some sandwiches, a salad, bottles of water, and a blanket, and head for a nearby park. You don’t even need to prepare a full meal. Snacks work great too. Instead of sandwiches or salad, try bringing a bunch of grapes, some cheese and crackers, and something sweet for dessert. A casual picnic outdoors is a great way to get to know your date better without the pressure associated with a more formal setting, such as a fancy restaurant.[1] Take a walk on the beach. If you live near an oceanside beach, you and your date can search for seashells and other treasures washed ashore. You can also clean up the beach together. Picking up trash might not seem glamorous, but it will give you and your date a chance to get to know each other better while doing something good for the environment. Go for a hike. Not only does hiking along a nature trail provide a low pressure way to get to know someone better, it’s also an excellent opportunity to see some beautiful sites.[4] Plus, you’ll get a bit of exercise while you’re at it. Explore a nearby farmer’s market or flea market. Both of these are easy date outings and entrance is often free.[6] If your date enjoys farmer’s markets and flea markets, it can be fun for both of you to see what things catch the other’s eye as you browse the market. Listen to a concert in the park. Many cities and towns host free outdoor concerts during summer.[7] Attending one of these events with a date can be a fun and affordable way to check out local Indie bands. Watch a movie at home. Choose a movie you already own or watch something online if you or your date have a subscription to Netflix or a similar service. Play chess or other board games. Pull out that old stack of board games you haven’t played in a while and make a date of it.[8] You can get together for a game night at home, the park, or even the library. Cook a meal at home. It’s usually cheaper to prepare a meal at home versus going out to eat. Plus, taking the time to cook for someone is always a nice gesture. Volunteer somewhere on a weekend afternoon. Pick a charitable organization that appeals to you or your date and suggest volunteering there together.[10] It’s a great way to get to know one another better, while also doing some good. Be a tourist in your town. “There are places in your city you haven’t taken advantage of because you live there,” she said. “It can become such an adventure. If you live in the suburbs, go on a city bus and explore, or check out museums on the free days.”
