The 3-13, Men Money And Marriage

Andrew Johnson
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This podcast explores what it takes mentally and emotionally to become a man, tips and ideas on personal finance, and what to expect if you get married.

  1. 6D AGO

    How the Tongue Ruins Relationships

    Visit our webpage to join our growing community www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the significant impact of words on relationships, particularly how the tongue can ruin marriages. He explores various communication styles that can be damaging, such as passive aggression, flamethrowers, and the silent treatment. Johnson emphasizes the importance of understanding why we use hurtful words and offers practical tools for healthier communication, including the five-second rule and assertive communication techniques. The episode concludes with a reminder of the importance of creating a safe emotional space in relationships. Takeaways Words can destroy relationships regardless of their duration.The tongue, though small, can cause immense emotional damage.Passive aggression is a dangerous communication style.Flamethrowers bring up past mistakes during arguments.Silence can be a form of manipulation in relationships.We often lash out when we feel cornered or attacked.Learned behaviors from childhood can affect adult relationships.Using 'I statements' can improve communication.The 'think filter' can help in responding thoughtfully.Creating a safe emotional space is crucial for relationship recovery.The Tongue: A Relationship's Worst EnemyWords Matter: The Impact of Communication"The tongue can ruin a relationship.""Once you say it, it's out there.""Use the five second rule before responding."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Topic 01:31 The Power of Words in Relationships 04:08 Understanding Passive Aggression 08:51 The Flamethrower Communication Style 11:34 The Silent Treatment and Its Impact 13:15 Why We Use Hurtful Words 14:52 Tools for Healthy Communication 19:54 Conclusion and Resources

    23 min

  2. JAN 30

    The Foodie Call Date, Table for Two Chemistry for None

    Visit the website to join our growing community or to leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of 'foodie calls'—dates set up primarily for the purpose of getting a free meal without any romantic interest. He explores the implications of this behavior on relationships, identifies red flags to watch for in dating, and offers strategies to avoid being caught in a foodie call situation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of intention in dating and the potential consequences of engaging in superficial dating practices. Takeaways Foodie calls are dates for free meals without romantic interest.Engaging in foodie calls can waste time and hinder real connections.Women may miss out on meaningful relationships by participating in foodie calls.Red flags include suggesting expensive restaurants and bringing friends on dates.Dating should be approached with intention and honesty.Men and women both have control over dating dynamics.Personal upkeep should not be a reason for compensation in dating.Deceptive dating practices can lead to negative outcomes.Low-stakes dates can help avoid foodie call situations.Communication is key in establishing dating intentions.The Truth About Foodie CallsNavigating Modern Dating Etiquette"Dating should not be a power dynamic.""Women have less time than men in dating.""Make the decision on where to go for a date."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Foodie Calls 01:49 Understanding the Foodie Call Phenomenon 05:34 The Impact of Foodie Calls on Relationships 09:26 Identifying Red Flags in Dating 14:41 Strategies to Avoid Foodie Calls 18:27 Conclusion and Wrap-Up

    21 min

  3. JAN 23

    Arguments or Information, The Anton Daniels Corey Holcomb Debate

    WARNING: This episode has explicit language Visit the webpage to join our growing community www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guests John X, Robert Brooks, and Grant Lancaster delve into a heated debate that erupted on the 51 50 podcast between Anton Daniels and Corey Holcomb. The discussion centers around the dynamics of masculinity, the role of black conservatives, and the implications of public confrontations in the digital age. The guests share their perspectives on the nature of the debate, the motivations behind the participants' actions, and the broader societal implications of such confrontations, particularly in the context of black manhood and the quest for attention in media. Keywords men, money, marriage, masculinity, black conservatism, podcast debate, Anton Daniels, Corey Holcomb, social media, attention economy Takeaways 'It's all for clicks.''We need to stop pandering to these m***********s.''The algorithm doesn't care. It just counts clicks.''This generation is a bunch of bitch ass n****s.''We know the price of everything and the value of nothing.'The Battle of Masculinity: A Podcast ShowdownClicks Over Clarity: The 51 50 Podcast Debate"'It just looks like two drunk uncles in the backyard at a barbecue.'""'That's something that a woman would say to you.'""'It's all for clicks.'"Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Manhood Discussion 03:04 Background on the 51 50 Podcast Debate 06:03 Analyzing the Host's Role in Conflict 10:35 The Impact of Ego and Homophobia 18:14 Generational Differences in Confrontation 22:29 Cultural Reflections on Manhood and Conflict 25:49 The Quest for Attention 26:29 Provocation in Media 30:17 Cultural Fragmentation and Unity 32:15 The Diminishing Value of Respect 36:02 Clicks vs. Meaningful Dialogue 44:08Closing Thoughts on Media Dynamics

    47 min

  4. JAN 16

    Why Women Fumble a Good Man

    Visit the website and sign up for our email list www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the reasons why women often fumble good men. He discusses the societal pressures that lead women to choose excitement and chaos over stability and consistency in relationships. The conversation delves into the psychological impacts of dysfunctional family backgrounds, the importance of reciprocity in relationships, and the signs that indicate a woman has fumbled a good man. Ultimately, Andrew emphasizes the value of recognizing and appreciating good men before it's too late. Takeaways Women often push away good men due to external pressures.Excitement and chaos can feel more appealing than stability.Boredom in relationships can lead to the highest long-term rewards.Good men have standards and will not tolerate inconsistency.Women often choose excitement over stability in their youth.The formula for dating is often backwards for women.Prioritizing short-term thrills can cost long-term happiness.Comparing good men to past bad relationships can be detrimental.Stability is undervalued by younger women.Recognizing a good man is crucial to avoid future regrets.Why Women Fumble Good Men: A Deep DiveThe Chaos of Choice: Understanding Relationship Dynamics"Why do women fumble a good man?""The streets do not love you.""Comparing exes can be dangerous."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Topic 01:12 Understanding the Dynamics of Relationships 03:33 The Impact of External Pressures on Relationships 06:00 Excitement vs. Stability in Relationships 12:50 The Consequences of Choosing the Wrong Partner 19:33 Signs of Fumbling a Good Man 25:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    27 min

  5. JAN 9

    The Dopamine of Looking Rich

    Visit our website for more show information www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App: $a114johnson Keywords dopamine, looking rich, status symbols, financial choices, external validation, personal finance, spending habits, social status, financial literacy, consumer behavior Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss the psychological and financial implications of the desire to appear wealthy. They explore the addictive nature of seeking validation through status symbols, the fear of looking poor, and the societal taboos surrounding discussions of personal finance. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the utility of purchases versus their status value, the dangers of envy-driven spending, and the need for financial literacy. They also provide practical advice for managing financial habits and finding satisfaction in savings rather than material possessions. Takeaways The dopamine of looking rich can lead to financial ruin.Many retirees rely on home equity for basic expenses.People fear the perception of poverty more than actual poverty.Chasing external validation often stems from deep-seated insecurities.Utility value of possessions should be prioritized over status.Discussing personal finances remains a societal taboo.Envy can drive unnecessary and harmful spending habits.Debt equates to selling your future labor and freedom.Daily awareness of finances can help manage spending habits.Renting luxury items can satisfy desires without financial strain.The Illusion of Wealth: Understanding Status SymbolsDopamine Hits: The Cost of Looking Rich"Talking about money is still taboo.""Envy drives unnecessary spending.""Rent the car instead of buying it."Chapters 00:00 The Dopamine of Looking Rich 02:44 The Cost of Status Symbols 05:33 Fear of Looking Poor 08:13 Chasing External Validation 11:11 Utility vs. Status in Purchases 13:59 The Taboo of Discussing Finances 16:55 The Cycle of Envy and Spending 19:59 Selling Future Labor for Validation 22:56 Finding Joy in Savings 25:39 Advice for Managing the Dopamine Hit

    32 min

  6. JAN 2

    A Year in Review 2025

    Visit the website to join our growing community by signing up on our email list www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash app $a114johnson Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson reflects on the year 2025, discussing the podcast's growth, audience engagement, and future plans. Despite challenges, the show saw significant increases in listeners and engagement metrics. Andrew shares insights on the most popular episodes, international reach, and his commitment to providing valuable content without sensationalism. He expresses gratitude to the audience for their support and outlines plans for 2026, including new content strategies and guest appearances. Takeaways The podcast experienced a 30% growth in audience size in 2025.New audience members increased by nearly 1000%.The show is in the top 15% of all video podcasts on Spotify.Video episodes saw a 41% increase in viewership.Listeners from 24 different countries tuned in this year.The most popular episode remains 'Don't Let Money Ruin Your Marriage.'Binge listening increased by 35%, indicating strong listener engagement.Andrew emphasizes the importance of meaningful content over sensationalism.The podcast aims to continue growing and improving in 2026.Audience support has been crucial during challenging times."We grew by 30% this year!""Binge listening went up by 35%!""We will continue to grow in 2026!"Chapters 00:00 Year in Review: 2025 Highlights 02:25 Audience Growth and Engagement Metrics 06:33 International Reach and Listener Demographics 09:29 Top Episodes and Listener Preferences. 12:30 Future Plans and Content Strategy. 18:38 Reflections on Personal Challenges and Podcasting Goals

    24 min

  7. 12/11/2025

    Does Optimism Outweighs Arithmetic in Relationships

    webpage: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App: $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the interplay between optimism and arithmetic in relationships. He discusses how individuals often prioritize hope and potential over logical evaluations, leading to poor decision-making in partner selection. The conversation delves into the dangers of excessive optimism, the importance of balancing emotional investment with practical considerations, and when optimism can be a beneficial investment in a relationship. Johnson emphasizes the need for self-awareness and realistic expectations in dating and relationships.takeaways Optimism often clouds judgment in relationships.Many choose partners based on potential rather than reality.Arithmetic in relationships serves as a scorecard for contributions.Ignoring red flags can lead to chronic issues like infidelity.The sunken cause fallacy can trap individuals in unfulfilling relationships.Balancing optimism with logic is crucial for healthy relationships.The five to one rule can guide relationship satisfaction.Self-awareness is key in setting realistic expectations.Understanding the odds can prevent wasted time in dating.Optimism can be beneficial when grounded in reality.The Balance of Hope and Logic in RelationshipsNavigating Love: Optimism vs. Arithmetic"When does optimism become delusional?""Ignoring red flags pertaining to optimism.""The sunken cause fallacy in relationships." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:20 Optimism vs. Arithmetic in Relationships 04:56 The Role of Emotional Investment 09:51 Delusional Optimism and Red Flags 10:51 Finding Balance Between Optimism and Arithmetic 16:42 Conclusion: When Optimism Pays Off

    20 min

  8. 11/07/2025

    Payday Habits, Financial Freedom

    Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the importance of payday habits that lead to financial freedom. He emphasizes the need for individuals to live below their means, automate savings, and build an emergency fund. The conversation also covers budgeting strategies, the impact of emotional spending, and the significance of investing in oneself. Johnson provides practical advice on how to get started with investments and the benefits of cash management accounts. Takeaways Only 21% of Americans have $5,000 or more in savings.Two-thirds of the country lives check to check.Living below your means is not very difficult.Pay yourself first before anyone else.Automate your savings to prevent stupid decisions.Emotional purchases keep us in debt.The habit of saving is more important than income.Invest in yourself, read books, listen to audiobooks.Cash management accounts can earn you interest.Do your research or seek financial help.Mastering Payday Habits for Financial FreedomThe Path to Financial Independence"Pay yourself first before anyone else.""Emotional purchases keep us in debt.""Do your research or seek financial help."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Financial Freedom 01:55Understanding Payday Habits 06:37 The Importance of Paying Yourself First 10:22 Creating an Emergency Savings 1130 Budgeting Before Paycheck Arrival 16:36 Investing and Automating Savings 16:59 Getting Started with Investments

    24 min
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