Family Twist: A Podcast Exploring DNA Surprises and Family Secrets

Corey and Kendall Stulce
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Family Twist shares real-life stories of DNA surprises, adoption, donor conception, NPE discoveries, and the secrets that reshape families.  Hosted by Corey and Kendall Stulce, each episode explores what happens when the truth about identity, parentage, or family history comes to light. These revelations sometimes happen by choice, often by accident, and always with life-changing impact. Through candid conversations with adoptees, donor-conceived people, late-discovery NPEs, birth parents, and family members who are navigating unexpected truths, Family Twist looks beyond the initial shock. We explore what comes next. We talk about the relationships that grow or break, the boundaries that help or hurt, the grief that surfaces, and the unexpected connections that can heal. Kendall's personal journey plays an important role in the heart of the show. He was adopted at birth, searched for decades, and eventually discovered his biological family through a DNA test. His experience brings empathy, humor, and honesty to every conversation. Corey brings warmth and insight as the couple creates space for guests to share the real, complicated, hopeful, and often surprising moments behind their family twists. If you are searching for your people, untangling a difficult discovery, or simply fascinated by the truth behind modern families, this podcast will remind you that you are not alone and that your story matters. New episodes arrive every week, including in-depth interviews and shorter Story Snapshots that highlight powerful moments from our guests. Have a Family Twist of your own? Share it with us.

  1. 1d ago

    “There’s No Way You’re Half White” and Other Things TikTok Got Right

    Send us Fan Mail Nicole thought TikTok was being ridiculous. After posting wedding videos online, strangers flooded the comments insisting there was “no way” she was half white like she’d always believed. Some people were curious. Others were cruel. But the comments kept coming. “You look Black.” “That’s not your dad.” “You should take a DNA test.” So she did. What Nicole expected would be a funny way to shut down internet trolls turned into a complete rewriting of her identity, family history, and understanding of herself. In this unforgettable episode of Family Twist, Nicole shares how a viral TikTok video led to the shocking discovery that the father who raised her was not her biological father. Raised in Maui in a conservative Christian household, Nicole never seriously questioned the story she’d been told about her background. But one DNA test uncovered an entirely different reality, including a biological father in Texas who never knew she existed. What follows is one of the most emotional and hopeful reunion stories we’ve heard on the podcast. Nicole opens up about confronting her mother, finding her biological father through an obituary and Facebook search, and the overwhelming moment of realizing she finally saw herself in someone else. Corey and Kendall also explore the complicated emotions that come with DNA surprises, race and identity, reunion, loyalty to the parent who raised you, and the emotional whiplash of discovering a whole new side of your family overnight. This episode covers: DNA surprises and NPE discoveriesViral TikTok DNA storiesRace and identity revelationsLate discovery biological familyReunion with a biological fatherFamily secrets and emotional healingNature versus nurtureAdoption-adjacent identity journeysThe impact of ancestry DNA testing Somehow, this story also includes one of the sweetest father-daughter reunions imaginable.

    37 min

  2. May 26

    “You Don’t Get to Tell Adoptees How to Feel”

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you spend more than 40 years sensing something about your life doesn’t add up… only to discover you were right all along? In this deeply emotional and unforgettable episode of Family Twist, Corey and Kendall sit down with Dr. Syb, a late discovery adoptee whose world changed forever just before her 42nd birthday. What began as a lifetime of unanswered questions became a journey through adoption secrecy, grief, rage, identity, reunion, and ultimately, healing. Dr. Syb shares the shocking moment she learned she was adopted after decades of feeling different from everyone around her. She opens up about discovering that nearly everyone in her family already knew the truth, the emotional fallout of uncovering long-buried secrets, and the devastating reality that both of her biological parents had already passed away before she found them. But this conversation goes far beyond DNA tests and paperwork. Together, they explore the emotional impact of adoption trauma, the pressure adoptees often face to “just be grateful,” and the importance of allowing adoptees, NPEs, and donor-conceived people to fully process their anger, grief, and confusion without judgment. Dr. Syb also discusses:  The healing power of adoptee community and therapy  How music, movement, and dancing helped her process trauma  Why adoptees deserve agency over their own stories  The dangers of family secrecy and hidden truths  Reunion experiences with both maternal and paternal relatives  Why telling the truth matters before it’s too late This is one of the rawest and most honest conversations we’ve ever had on Family Twist, and Dr. Syb’s voice is one that will stay with listeners long after the episode ends. If you’re navigating adoption, a DNA surprise, NPE discovery, donor conception, or complicated family secrets, this episode will make you feel seen. And remember, family secrets are the ultimate plot twist.

    39 min

  3. May 19

    The Search for His Mother’s Past Led to a Shocking Discovery

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when your search for family stretches across decades, dead ends, sealed records, and fading hope? In part two of this deeply personal conversation, Corey and Kendall continue their discussion with author and journalist Paul T. O'Connor. Together, they explore the emotional realities of adoption, foster care, identity, and the lifelong impact of family secrecy. Kendall shares stories from his years-long search for his biological family, including placing newspaper ads in Arkansas long before consumer DNA testing existed, petitioning courts for records, and trying to piece together his origins from fragments of information. The conversation also dives into the strange experience of finally meeting biological relatives and seeing physical similarities reflected back for the first time. Paul opens up further about his mother’s history in foster care, the disappearance of critical records, and how secrecy and stigma shaped generations of families. It’s an honest conversation about grief, resilience, truth, and the complicated reality that love for adoptive family and curiosity about biological roots can exist at the same time. Paul’s new book, The Missing Child: The Life She Lived and the Life She Missed, published by Torchflame Books, is available beginning May 26 through bookstores and online retailers. If you’re part of the adoptee, NPE, donor-conceived, or DNA surprise community, this episode will likely feel very familiar.

    23 min

  4. May 12

    He Opened the Envelope His Mother Told Him to Destroy

    Send us Fan Mail What would you do if, on the day you buried your mother, you discovered a hidden bundle of records labeled with one clear instruction: Please destroy these? In this gripping first part of Corey and Kendall’s conversation with retired journalist and author Paul O’Connor, a lifetime of hidden family history begins to unravel through DNA testing, courthouse archives, old birth records, and one relentless search for the truth.  Paul shares how a mystery surrounding his mother’s identity turned into a years-long investigation that ultimately became his new book, The Missing Child: The Life She Lost and the Life She Led, releasing May 26. Pre-orders are available now. What begins as curiosity about his mother’s background evolves into something much deeper: an emotional exploration of shame, secrecy, adoption-era stigma, and the devastating weight family secrets can carry across generations. Using AncestryDNA, 23andMe, historical records, and help from newly discovered cousins, Paul uncovers shocking truths about infidelity, hidden relatives, and the biological grandfather his family never knew existed. Along the way, he and Kendall discuss the emotional complexity of adoption, identity, DNA surprises, and one question that lingers throughout the episode: Is knowing the truth always better? In this episode:  Paul discovers hidden family records after his mother’s death  A DNA test reveals unexpected biological connections  The emotional fallout of long-buried family secrets  Adoption stigma and shame in the early 1900s  How genealogy research helped uncover the truth  Why Paul wrote The Missing Child The complicated emotional legacy of secrecy  Kendall reflects on growing up adopted without secrecy If you’ve ever searched for biological family, uncovered a DNA surprise, wrestled with identity, or wondered how hidden truths shape generations, this conversation will stay with you long after it ends. Pre-order Paul O’Connor’s new book, The Missing Child: The Life She Lost and the Life She Led, ahead of its May 26 release, and subscribe to Family Twist for more stories about DNA surprises, adoption, NPE discoveries, donor conception, and the secrets families keep.

    28 min

  5. May 5

    The Reality of Donor Conception in the Age of DNA Testing

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when a sperm donor from the 1990s suddenly discovers he has children decades later? This is one of those stories that could only happen right now. A decision made in the early ’90s, when anonymity was expected and protected, collides with modern DNA testing, where secrets don’t stay buried. In Part 1 of this conversation around the documentary Dad Genes, we sit down with Aaron and Jess to unpack how their lives became connected in a way neither of them could have predicted. Aaron donated sperm in 1994, thinking it was a closed chapter. Jess built her family years later, carefully choosing a donor based on what felt right at the time. Neither of them expected that decades later, a simple DNA test would connect them, and open the door to a network of biological children, siblings, and relationships that were never supposed to exist. This episode focuses on the moment everything changes. The discovery. The realization. The first steps into something completely unknown. If you’ve taken a DNA test, are thinking about it, or are navigating a family discovery of your own, this episode will hit home. Because this isn’t just about donor conception. It’s about how technology is reshaping identity, how past decisions don’t stay in the past, and how people are left to figure it out in real time without a roadmap. Stories like this are becoming more common, and the questions they raise don’t have easy answers. What You’ll Take Away A clear look at how donor conception worked before DNA testing changed everythingInsight into how families made decisions without knowing what the future would bringA grounded, human perspective on what it feels like when identity and biology suddenly collideListen now to hear how one decision in 1994 turned into a life-changing discovery decades later.

    26 min

  6. Apr 28

    He Donated Sperm in 1994. Decades Later, His Kids Found Him

    Send us Fan Mail  What happens when a sperm donor from the 1990s suddenly discovers he has children decades later?  This is one of those stories that could only happen right now. A decision made in the early ’90s, when anonymity was expected and protected, collides with modern DNA testing, where secrets don’t stay buried. In Part 1 of this conversation around the documentary Dad Genes, we sit down with Aaron and Jess to unpack how their lives became connected in a way neither of them could have predicted. Aaron donated sperm in 1994, thinking it was a closed chapter. Jess built her family years later, carefully choosing a donor based on what felt right at the time. Neither of them expected that decades later, a simple DNA test would connect them, and open the door to a network of biological children, siblings, and relationships that were never supposed to exist. This episode focuses on the moment everything changes. The discovery. The realization. The first steps into something completely unknown. Why This Episode Matters If you’ve taken a DNA test, are thinking about it, or are navigating a family discovery of your own, this episode will hit home. Because this isn’t just about donor conception. It’s about how technology is reshaping identity, how past decisions don’t stay in the past, and how people are left to figure it out in real time without a roadmap. Stories like this are becoming more common, and the questions they raise don’t have easy answers. What You’ll Take Away A clear look at how donor conception worked before DNA testing changed everything Insight into how families made decisions without knowing what the future would bring A grounded, human perspective on what it feels like when identity and biology suddenly collide.  Listen now to hear how one decision in 1994 turned into a life-changing discovery decades later.

    28 min

  7. Apr 21

    From Forced Adoption to DNA Discovery: Zara’s Story of Finding Family | Episode 200

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when your story starts with secrecy… and ends with a global family? In this milestone Episode 200 of Family Twist, Kendall sits down with author, musician, and adoptee Zara, whose life began in England during the forced adoption era of the 1960s, a time when young, unmarried mothers were often given no choice but to relinquish their children.  Zara always knew she was adopted. What she didn’t know was how deeply that truth would shape her identity, her relationships, and her lifelong search for connection. From quietly wondering if she might recognize her birth mother on the street… to becoming her own detective in a pre-internet world… to finally using DNA testing decades later to uncover her father and a web of siblings across continents, Zara’s story is a powerful look at what it means to search for where you come from. But as anyone in this community knows, reunion is only the beginning. Zara opens up about:  The emotional weight of growing up adopted in a time of secrecy  Searching for her birth mother before the digital age  Using DNA to finally find her biological father  Navigating complicated sibling relationships and loyalty dynamics  Losing her father just two and a half years after finding him  Turning her story into music, writing, and advocacy This conversation is about identity, truth, and the reality that family discovery doesn’t follow a script. It’s messy, beautiful, and deeply human. If you’ve ever wondered where you come from… or how DNA discoveries reshape a life… this episode will stay with you.

    32 min

  8. Apr 14

    Her DNA Discovery Became a Movie. The Real Story Is Even Bigger.

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when a life-altering DNA discovery becomes a feature film… and then gets unpacked in a room full of people who truly understand it? In this special live episode of Family Twist, Corey sits down with filmmaker, actor, and storyteller Lisa Brenner at Untangling Our Roots. Lisa shares the real story behind her film One Big Happy Family, inspired by discovering at age 40 that the father who raised her was not her biological father. But this conversation goes beyond the screen. Together, they dive into:  The difference between real life and what made it into the film  The emotional impact of late discovery and identity shifts  Family dynamics, secrecy, and the question so many people ask, who am I now?  Nature vs nurture, and what we carry from both Then the conversation opens up to the audience, and this is where things get powerful. Members of the adoption, NPE, and donor-conceived communities share their own questions, reflections, and lived experiences, turning this episode into something bigger than an interview. It becomes a shared moment of recognition, honesty, and connection. Because when you’re in a room like this, you realize something important. Your story may be unique, but you are not alone.  If you’ve experienced a DNA surprise, questioned your identity, or are navigating new family relationships, this episode will hit home.

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Family Twist shares real-life stories of DNA surprises, adoption, donor conception, NPE discoveries, and the secrets that reshape families.  Hosted by Corey and Kendall Stulce, each episode explores what happens when the truth about identity, parentage, or family history comes to light. These revelations sometimes happen by choice, often by accident, and always with life-changing impact. Through candid conversations with adoptees, donor-conceived people, late-discovery NPEs, birth parents, and family members who are navigating unexpected truths, Family Twist looks beyond the initial shock. We explore what comes next. We talk about the relationships that grow or break, the boundaries that help or hurt, the grief that surfaces, and the unexpected connections that can heal. Kendall's personal journey plays an important role in the heart of the show. He was adopted at birth, searched for decades, and eventually discovered his biological family through a DNA test. His experience brings empathy, humor, and honesty to every conversation. Corey brings warmth and insight as the couple creates space for guests to share the real, complicated, hopeful, and often surprising moments behind their family twists. If you are searching for your people, untangling a difficult discovery, or simply fascinated by the truth behind modern families, this podcast will remind you that you are not alone and that your story matters. New episodes arrive every week, including in-depth interviews and shorter Story Snapshots that highlight powerful moments from our guests. Have a Family Twist of your own? Share it with us.

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