A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay
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Living in a world of f******s, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

  1. 6D AGO

    171. Manifest Your Best Year Yet (with Ryan Lu)

    In previous episodes, we explored how to stay focused on attracting the right kinds of guys into our lives and the power of manifestation. As we move into the new year, we have the opportunity to realign our intentions and open ourselves to the experiences, relationships, and growth we truly desire. In this episode, Ryan Lu joins us to unpack how manifestation can empower queer people step into their authentic selves and shape the lives they want. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 18. Setting the Benchmark for Mr. RightAdditional Resources: Dating with Purpose: How to Define Your Relationship Standards and Attract the Right PartnerLearn More About RyanCheck Out Delulu with Ryan LuFollow Ryan on TikTokFollow Ryan on InstagramSupport the show Get Your Merch

    27 min

  2. JAN 20

    170. Why Am I Attracted to Bros?

    In previous episodes, we’ve explored how different expressions of masculinity, from archetypes like Castro Clones and metrosexuality to gym culture, intersect across the gay world. Within subcultures such as bros, leather, and bears, masculinity is often elevated, creating a complex dynamic where gay men are both drawn to and shaped by these ideals. In this episode, we’re unpacking bro culture and exploring why gay men may be attracted to masculinity, whether that attraction stems from biology, societal influence, or internalized homophobia, and how we can stay authentic to ourselves in the process. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 11. Overcoming Internalized HomophobiaListen to Episode 81. Are Mustaches Gay?Listen to Episode 82. Gay Gym CultureListen to Episode 89. Beyond the Brawn: Redefining Queer Masculinity (with Erick DuPree)Listen to Episode 92. Metrosexual MadnessListen to Episode 104. The Castro Clone WarsAdditional Resources: Bro (Etymology)The End of BroBro (Definition)How the Bro Became WhiteBro CultureJeah! We Mapped Out The 4 Basic Aspects Of Being A 'Bro'Meet the Gaybrosr/gaybrosConsistency in Preferences for Masculinity in Faces, Bodies, Voices, and Personality Characteristics Among Homosexual Men in ChinaSelf-Rated Attractiveness and Sociosexual Behavior Predict Gay Men’s Preferences for Masculine Cues in Male Voices in ChinaGay and Straight Men Prefer Masculine-Presenting Gay Men for a High-Status Role: Evidence From an Ecologically Valid ExperimentEmbrace the Leadership Challenge: The Role of Gay Men’s Internalized Sexual Stigma on the Evaluation of Others’ Leadership and One’s OwnThe Relationship Between Masculinity and Internalized Homophobia Amongst Australian Gay Men30 Ways to Deal with Internalized Homophobia for LGBTQ PeopleSupport the show Get Your Merch

    31 min

  3. JAN 13

    169. Trump Watch 2025

    Previously, we reviewed the Trump administration’s record on LGBTQ+ rights from 2017 to 2021. As the horrors persist under the new Trump administration, it’s vital to recognize how its actions continue to undermine civil rights, healthcare access, and protections for the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, we’ll examine the ongoing attacks on LGBTQ+ rights carried out by the Trump administration in 2025. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 112. Project 2025Listen to Episode 122. A Queer Review of the Trump Administration (2017 – 2021)Listen to Bonus 27. Queer as Philly Folk (with Sara Solomon)Additional Resources: Project 2025: A Dire Threat to LGBTQ+ Rights and DemocracyThe Impact of the Trump Administration on the LGBTQ+ Community: A Journey Through Setbacks and AdvocacyTrump Accountability Tracker on LGBTQ PeopleDid Trump's Executive Order Just Make Everyone in the U.S. Female?FBI to Categorize Trans People As "Nihilistic Violent Extremist" Threat Group, Report SaysPam Bondi Wants the Government to Create Cash Bounties for Turning in Trans Equality ActivistsKennedy Seeks to Cut US Children’s Access to Gender-Affirming CareSupport the show Get Your Merch

    53 min

  4. 12/16/2025

    168. Real Housewives of Pennsylvania (with Eric Praniewicz)

    For gay men, pop culture and reality TV often provide campy, glamorous spaces that echo queer experiences of self-expression and resilience. The Real Housewives franchise, in particular, captivates with its mix of drama, individuality, and over-the-top spectacle. In this previously released Patreon bonus episode, Eric Praniewicz dives into the world of The Real Housewives to explore why the franchise resonates so strongly with gay men. Join Patreon for more exclusive monthly bonus episodes like this one. Support the show Get Your Merch

    1h 26m

  5. 12/02/2025

    167. Best of Guests 2025: Politico Edition

    As we close out 2025, it’s hard to ignore this year’s political turmoil, with uncertainty about our future looming over us. With the holidays upon us, it’s natural to feel bittersweet as we look back and dream of brighter days ahead. In this episode, we’re revisiting this year's most powerful conversations on politics, identity, and resilience, reminding us that hope, unity, and love can overcome fear. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 136. Closets & Cocktails: The Secret History of Gay Speakeasies (with Chris Holcombe)Listen to Episode 137. Who’s Your Daddy? (with Sal Zambito)Listen to Episode 139. You're Probably Gayish (with Mike Johnson & Kyle Getz)Listen to Episode 140. Calling All Allies: It’s Time to Step Up (with Greg Baird)Listen to Episode 141. Queer All Year: 365 Days of Celebrating Pride (with Patrick Gevas)Listen to Episode 143. Heal from Religious Trauma (with Ann Russo)Listen to Episode 144. Bullies Beware: Confronting LGBTQ+ Bullying (with Mike Keller)Listen to Episode 145. Resisting Erasure: Preserving LGBTQ+ History (with Michael Venturiello)Listen to Episode 150. Lights, Camera, Action: The Importance of Trans Voices in Media (with AJ Mattioli)Listen to Episode 153. Pride, Pleasure, and the Path to Healing (with Court Vox)Listen to Episode 154. Pride and Protest: Defending LGBTQ+ Rights in a Shifting America (with Mari Nemec)Listen to Episode 155. Queers in History: Pride, Resistance, and Fighting Erasure (with Keith Stern)Listen to Episode 156. Punchlines and Pride: Activism Through Queer Comedy (with Michael John Ciszewski)Listen to Episode 160. Why Queer Bookstores Matter: Preserving LGBTQ+ Culture and Community (with Greg Newton & Donnie Jochum)Listen to Episode 163. Queer Belonging in the Digital Age (with Nick Paul)Listen to Episode 165. Reclaiming Queer History: The Impact of LGBTQ+ Historical Fiction (with Jeza Belle)Support the show Get Your Merch

    1h 14m

  6. 11/18/2025

    166. Confront Gay Ageism and Redefine Midlife (with Hunter Flournoy)

    In previous episodes, we’ve discussed how stereotypical gay culture has idolized youth, beauty, and sex. This fixation has led some gay men to equate midlife with “aging out” of the community, often resulting in internalized shame and a complicated relationship with aging. In this episode, Hunter Flournoy, a licensed therapist, coach, breathworker, healer, and spiritual guide, joins us to talk about how gay men can confront ageism and create more fulfilling, authentic lives in midlife and beyond. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 60. Is 30 Gay Death?Listen to Episode 151. Twink Death: RIP Skinny JeansAdditional Resources: Debunking 'Gay Death': How Gay Men Can Age with PrideLearn More About Hunter FlournoySupport the show Get Your Merch

    51 min

  7. 11/04/2025

    165. Reclaiming Queer History: The Impact of LGBTQ+ Historical Fiction (with Jeza Belle)

    LGBTQ+ history has long been overlooked, ignored, or actively erased, leaving us with only fragments of a past that deserves to be preserved and celebrated. That absence makes historical fiction a meaningful platform for reclaiming space and allowing queer characters to exist in time periods that have traditionally denied their presence or humanity. In this episode, Jeza Belle, a New York City-based drag queen and author of The Freedom to Love, joins us to discuss the power of storytelling through historical fiction and the importance of preserving LGBTQIA+ narratives in overlooked time periods. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 145. Resisting Erasure: Preserving LGBTQ+ History (with Michael Venturiello)Listen to Episode 155. Queers in History: Pride, Resistance, and Fighting Erasure (with Keith Stern)Additional Resources: Learn More About Jeza BelleBuy The Freedom to LoveFollow Jeza Belle on InstagramFollow Jeza Belle on FacebookFollow Jeza Belle on TwitterSupport the show Get Your Merch

    33 min

  8. 10/21/2025

    164. Exploring Queer Identity Through Astrology (with Danny Santos)

    Previously, we discussed how some queer men find solace and empowerment in spiritual practices like astrology, which offers a means of self-discovery and affirmation. Rooted in introspection and symbolism, queer astrology can help individuals reclaim their narratives and connect more deeply with their authentic selves. In this episode, Danny Santos, an astrologer, tarot expert, and psychic medium, joins us to explore how spiritual tools like astrology can support queer individuals in navigating identity, healing, and connection during times of transformation. Related Episodes: Listen to 79. Queer Mysticism: Gay Men & Spirituality Additional Resources: Learn More About Danny SantosFollow Danny on InstagramFollow Danny on TikTokListen to Astro Daddy PodcastSupport the show Get Your Merch

    41 min
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Living in a world of f******s, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

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  • Creator
    A Jaded Gay
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    172
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 A Jaded Gay
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