A Jaded Gay

A Jaded Gay
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Living in a world of f******s, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

  1. May 5

    182. Releasing Gay Trauma and Shame Through Somatic Therapy (with Sean Hershey)

    Previously, we explored somatic therapy through the lens of pleasure and embodiment, revealing how the body can hold wisdom about our experiences. Many gay men carry tension, stress, and internalized shame from years of hypervigilance and navigating societal pressures, which can quietly shape how they move, feel, and relate to themselves. In this episode, Sean Hershey, a somatic therapist, joins us to share how somatic therapy can help gay men release these patterns, calm the nervous system, and reclaim a sense of presence and freedom in their bodies. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 153. Pride, Pleasure, and the Path to Healing (with Court Vox)Additional Resources: Radical Intimacy: Healing Queer Trauma Through Somatic PleasureLearn More About SeanFollow Sean on InstagramListen to Sean’s PodcastSupport the show Get Your Merch

    43 min

  2. Apr 21

    181. Gay Powers Restored: Why Haircuts Hit Different

    Internet culture frequently jokes that getting a haircut is “gay therapy,” restoring both gay powers and confidence. But haircuts have long served as tools of self-expression, social signaling, and identity transformation within LGBTQ+ culture. In this episode, we explore the history, culture, and psychology of haircuts, which affirm LGBTQ+ identity. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 81. Are Mustaches Gay?Listen to Episode 92. Metrosexual MadnessListen to Episode 104. The Castro Clone WarsAdditional Resources: The Intersection of Mustaches and Queer Culture: A History of Rebellion, Identity, and ExpressionMetrosexuality: Challenging Masculinity or Reinforcing Problematic Stereotypes?Castro Clones: How the Hyper-Masculine Archetype Shaped LGBTQ+ Identity and FashionHaircut as a Catalyst for Identity Transformation and Social Perception: A Multidimensional ReviewThe Effect of Hairdressing on the Self-Esteem of Men and WomenThe Psychology of a Good Haircut: How Your Hair Impacts ConfidenceHalo EffectHow the LGBTQIA+ Community Use Style to Signal IdentityA South End Barber Offers ‘Gender-Affirming’ Haircuts and a Safe Space for the Queer CommunitySeeking to Address Fears Inside Salons, Queer Barbers Make Their Own SpacesAffirming Haircuts Are a Human Right: This Stylist Fighting Tooth & Nail to Upend Salon Gender Norms11 of the Most Iconic Queer Hairstyles, According to StylistsSupport the show Get Your Merch

    15 min

  3. Apr 7

    180. The Next Chapter of LGBTQ+ Storytelling (with Steven Rowley)

    Historically, LGBTQ+ storylines in literature, film, and television were confined to predominantly tragic narratives, where heartbreak, loss, or death defined queer characters. Today, that representation is evolving, with authentic, multidimensional portrayals of LGBTQ+ characters navigating complex emotions, relationships, and life stages that reflect real queer experiences. In this episode, Steven Rowley, New York Times bestselling author of The Guncle, joins us to delve into his newest novel, Take Me with You, and why modern LGBTQ+ stories exploring grief, family, and identity matter. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 95. Take a Page from #GayBookstagram (with Rod Lujano)Listen to Episode 119. Turning the Page on Queer Book Bans (with Alexander Rigby)Additional Resources: Gay Bookstagram: Celebrating LGBTQ+ Literature, Amplifying Diverse Voices, and Advocating for RepresentationThe Battle Over Queer Literature: Censorship, Representation, and ResistanceLearn More About StevenGet Your Copy of Take Me with YouFollow Steven on InstagramCheck Out Steven’s BibliographySupport the show Get Your Merch

    32 min

  4. Mar 31

    179. International Transgender Day of Visibility

    International Transgender Day of Visibility is more than a moment of recognition — it’s a celebration of transgender joy, resilience, and the everyday lives that too often go unseen. Observed each year on March 31, the day uplifts trans voices, highlights achievements across culture and community, and calls attention to the discrimination and barriers that still impact transgender people around the world. In this episode, we’re exploring the history of International Transgender Day of Visibility while reflecting on representation, advocacy, and the ongoing fight for safety, dignity, and equality. Additional Resources: The History Behind International Transgender Day of VisibilityMSU Alumna Reflects On Establishing Transgender Day of VisibilityTransgender Leader Rachel Crandall to Receive Prestigious Community AwardBiden is the First President to Issue Transgender Day of Visibility ProclamationInternational Transgender Day of Visibility (GLAAD)Fact Check: Biden Did Not Set Transgender Day of Visibility to Annually Coincide with EasterHow Are the Dates for Easter, Palm Sunday, and Ash Wednesday Determined?2026 Anti-Trans Bills TrackerWhat Anti-Trans Bills Passed in 2026?Protect Trans Care NowTake the Pledge: Support Trans Youth NowProtect Life-Saving Healthcare for Trans PeopleTransgender Law CenterThe Trevor ProjectSupport the show Get Your Merch

    13 min

  5. Mar 24

    178. Heal Your Inner Gay Child (with Chris Tompkins)

    Previously, we’ve discussed how growing up gay in a world that often misunderstood or rejected us can leave deep emotional scars. In adulthood, these wounds may show up as shame, fear of intimacy, self-doubt, or difficulty trusting both ourselves and others. In this episode, Chris Tompkins, founder of A Road Trip to Love, joins us to explore how gay men can recognize, nurture, and heal the wounded parts of their inner child to transforming past pain into self-acceptance. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 121. Unpack Your Gay Emotional Baggage (with Dr. Jason Durant)Listen to Episode 146. The Velvet RageAdditional Resources: Gay Men's Mental Health: Navigating Challenges and Finding Support through TherapyUnmasking Gay Shame: Identity, Trauma, and the Lessons of The Velvet RageLearn More About ChrisFollow Chris on InstagramFollow Chris on FacebookFollow Chris on TwitterRead Raising LGBTQ AlliesSupport the show Get Your Merch

    32 min

  6. Mar 10

    177. Marsha P. Johnson

    Marsha P. Johnson was a trailblazing figure in LGBTQ+ history whose presence, activism, and compassion left an indelible mark on the movement. From the streets of Greenwich Village to the front lines of early gay rights activism, her life was defined by compassion, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to the most marginalized members of the community. In this episode, we’re exploring Marsha’s life, her role in the movement that followed Stonewall, and the enduring legacy she left on LGBTQ+ activism, community care, and queer history. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 17. Mobsters & Mos: How the Mafia Owned Gay NightlifeListen to Episode 51. ACT UP: Silence = DeathListen to Episode 58. Gay Icons: Our Friend, DorothyListen to Episode 63. The Stonewall RiotsAdditional Resources: The Mafia’s Control of New York's Gay Bars: A Hidden Chapter in LGBTQ+ HistoryACT UP: The Radical Fight for HIV/AIDS Awareness and LGBTQ+ RightsJudy Garland: The Enduring Legacy of Hollywood’s Timeless Star and Gay IconStonewall Riots: A Catalyst for Pride and the Fight for LGBTQ+ RightsMarsha P. Johnson (National Women’s History Museum)Overlooked: Marsha P. JohnsonMarsha P. Johnson (Britannica)Marsha: The Joy and Defiance of Marsha P. JohnsonThe Gay Liberation Youth Movement in New York: 'An Army of Lovers Cannot Fail'Pay It No Mind - The Life and Times of Marsha P. JohnsonSupport the show Get Your Merch

    18 min

  7. Mar 3

    176. Navigating Disordered Eating Among Gay Men (with Kyle Ridley)

    In previous episodes, we’ve explored the unique body image pressures placed upon gay men, from the intense focus on gym culture and the idealized twink aesthetic to broader societal expectations and body obsession. These pressures can contribute to disordered eating, a struggle that is often overlooked in men despite its prevalence in the gay community. In this episode, Kyle Ridley, an Emmy Award winning journalist, joins us to discuss his personal experiences with disordered eating, the unique body image pressures faced by queer men, and strategies for navigating these struggles. Related Episodes: Listen to Episode 32. Gay Men and Body ObsessionListen to Episode 82. Gay Gym CultureListen to Episode 91. Fat and Fabulous: Embrace Body Positivity (with Matthew Simko)Listen to Episode 130. Pride in Motion: Inclusive Fitness and Body-Positive Coaching (with Roy Belzer)Listen to Episode 151. Twink Death: RIP Skinny JeansAdditional Resources: The Pressure to Achieve Perfection: Body Obsession in the Gay Community and Its Impact on Self-WorthNavigating Gay Gym Culture: Body Image, Societal Masculinity, and Mental HealthEmbracing Body Positivity in the Gay Community: Redefining Beauty Standards and Championing Self-LoveLGBTQ+ Body Image: Embracing Body Positivity and Redefining Fitness StandardsTwink Death: Navigating Aging, Aesthetics, and Body Image in Gay CultureLearn More About Kyle RidleySubscribe to The Tangle with Kyle RidleyFollow Kyle on InstagramConnect with Kyle on LinkedInSupport the show Get Your Merch

    35 min

  8. Feb 24

    175. What is Gender-Affirming Care?

    In today’s political climate, the term gender-affirming care is often framed as controversial and used synonymously with “transgender for everyone.” In reality, gender-affirming care includes a wide range of medical, mental health, and supportive services that both cisgender and transgender people access every day to align their bodies, health, and well-being with their gender. In this episode, we’re exploring what gender-affirming care actually is, its history and evolution, and the medical and political landscape shaping the conversation today. Additional Resources: Read Besties in CrimeGender Incongruence and Transgender Health in the ICDGender-Affirming Care for Cisgender People: Q&A with Theodore Schall and Jacob MosesTo Protect Gender-Affirming Care, We Must Learn From Trans HistoryWhat is Gender Dysphoria?Magnus Hirschfeld and the Quest for Sexual Freedom: A History of the First International Sexual Freedom Movement (Critical Studies in Gender, Sexuality, and Culture)Elmer Belt, Harry Benjamin, and the Birth of Gender-Affirming Surgery in the United StatesTransgender Health Protections Reversed By Trump AdministrationPuberty Blockers for Transgender and Gender-Diverse YouthWhat are Puberty Blockers? What Are the Benefits and Risks for Transgender Children?Gender-Affirming Hormone Therapy (GAHT)Utilization and Costs of Gender-Affirming Care in a Commercially Insured Transgender PopulationHow Many Adults and Youth Identify as Transgender in the United States?Medicaid Program; Prohibition on Federal Medicaid and Children's Heath Insurance Program Funding for Sex-Rejecting Procedures Furnished to ChildrenMACPAC Releases 2024 Edition of MACStats: Medicaid and CHIP Data BookSupport the show Get Your Merch

    26 min
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Living in a world of f******s, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

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  • Creator
    A Jaded Gay
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    183
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