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Welcome to our transformative podcast, where the wisdom of two distinct generations merges, blending old-school mentalities with new-school vibes, all aimed at enriching your life. Our singular mission? Equipping you with knowledge for a more fulfilling existence. Our motto, "Closed Minds Don't Get Fed," embodies our belief that an open mind is the gateway to nourishing your soul. Join us as we navigate life's intricacies, drawing from our diverse experiences to offer invaluable insights. We're here to empower you, encouraging thoughtful decision-making and highlighting that the most meaningful solutions often stem from deeper exploration. Embracing a growth mindset is critical—unveiling your genuine purpose lies at the heart of our discussions. In this podcast, expect unfiltered conversations and substantive content aimed at stimulating your intellect. We're not serving empty calories; we focus on delivering nourishment that fuels real change. Remember, transforming your life requires dedication and deliberate action. Let's embark on this journey together as we provide the sustenance needed for your personal growth.

  1. 5D AGO

    THE TRUTH: Today's Dating World is a Jungle, Here's WHY!!!(AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to On The Mic with the M & T 🎙️ Today’s episode gets REAL. We’re breaking down the harsh truth about modern dating — from transactional relationships 💰 to lack of accountability, deception, and why men and women keep pointing fingers instead of fixing themselves. Is dating really broken… or are people just making bad choices? In this episode, we talk about:  Why dating feels like a “jungle” today The rise of transactional relationships Who’s really responsible — men or women?  Why accountability is missing in modern relationships  The difference between boys, men, and grown men How social media is distorting reality 📱  Why discipline, purpose, and self-awareness matter This is not sugar-coated. This is real talk. If you’re tired of the games, confusion, and chaos in dating… this conversation is for you. 💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments:  Is dating broken… or are people the problem? Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    1h 4m
  2. Single Moms or Difficult Women (AUDIO ONLY)

    12/23/2025

    Single Moms or Difficult Women (AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us Fan Mail In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we break down one of the most controversial topics in modern relationships: single motherhood, absent fathers, and the cultural blame game that’s destroying families. Sparked by a viral clip labeling women as “single moms” versus “difficult women,” this episode dives deep into the real reasons families break down — broken boundaries, unresolved resentment, poor leadership, and emotional immaturity on both sides. We talk about: Why respect is non-negotiable in co-parenting How men abandoning responsibility creates generational damage Why women’s anger doesn’t come from nowhere The emotional, psychological, and social cost paid by children How sexual irresponsibility fuels STD surges and community breakdown Why saying “I don’t need a man” or “I don’t need a woman” is a lie This episode isn’t about blaming men or women — it’s about accountability, discipline, and raising children who don’t end up broken by adult mistakes. If you care about family, community, and the next generation — this conversation is necessary. 🎧 Listen. Reflect. Share. CHAPTER BREAKDOWN: 01:00 – “Single Moms” vs “Difficult Women” Explained Reacting to the viral clip and defining the controversy. 04:30 – Men Leaving During Pregnancy & Emotional Fallout Why abandonment creates rage, trauma, and long-term damage. 08:30 – What Single Motherhood Really Means Why support ≠ not being a single mother. 11:30 – Why Struggle Is Wrongly Attached to Single Moms Challenging stereotypes across communities. 14:20 – Children Are the Real Victims How adult resentment damages kids permanently. 17:00 – Co-Parenting Without Respect Is a Lie Why disrespect kills cooperation. 20:00 – Boundaries, Responsibility, and Time Respect Why “I’ll call you whenever” is toxic. 23:00 – Men Avoiding Courts, Child Support & Accountability Hard truths about manipulation and weak leadership. 27:00 – Why Sleeping With Your Child’s Mother After Breakups Is Dangerous False hope, confusion, and emotional sabotage. 31:00 – The Role of Fathers in Raising Strong Boys Why absence creates emotional and social dysfunction. 36:00 – When Fathers Try to Return Too Late Why grown children don’t forgive abandonment. 41:30 – STD Surges & Sexual Irresponsibility How reckless behavior becomes a public health crisis. 46:00 – The Lie of “There’s a Pill for Everything” Why prevention, discipline, and boundaries still matter. 49:30 – Parenting, Crime, and Consequences Why bad parenting leads to irreversible outcomes. 55:00 – Men & Women Need Each Other The core message: partnership, not warfare. 59:30 – Final Message to Parents & the Community A call for maturity, accountability, and leadership. Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    1h 1m

  3. 12/08/2025

    WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT MODERN DATING(audio only)

    Send us Fan Mail Discover why modern dating is completely broken 💔 in this raw, unfiltered episode of "On the Mic w/M & T." From superficial social media-driven dating to the myths surrounding gender roles, we tackle the harsh realities of today's relationship landscape. Join the candid conversation on the good, the bad, and the ugly of dating in the modern world—touching on emotional intelligence, healing, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're navigating the dating game or trying to better understand love and connection, this episode offers valuable insights, real talk, and a call to grow beyond the chaos. Hit play and dive into the truth behind the trends. #datingstruggles #onlinedating #datinggame #datingtrends #datingissues CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:15 - The Dating Game Issues 02:30 - Men Being Taken Advantage Of 05:00 - The Games in Relationships 07:30 - The Hurt People Carry 12:41 - Healing Together vs Alone 17:35 - Men Taught to Suck It Up 21:37 - Men Beyond Financial Roles 24:35 - Raising Young Men Today 26:50 - Understanding Yourself 28:55 - The Masks We Wear 33:10 - Emotional Intelligence & Control 40:00 - Caution with Quick Relationships 41:37 - Stopping the Love Search 43:19 - Living for More Fulfillment 48:49 - Imperfect Relationships Exist 49:35 - Importance of Self-Love 50:00 - Thank You for 35K Subscribers 50:17 - Like, Comment, Subscribe Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    50 min
  4. PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE: Every Convo not for the Internet

    10/30/2025

    PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE: Every Convo not for the Internet

    Send us Fan Mail Hey there, friends! I’m thrilled to share some juicy insights from our latest episode of On the Mic with The M and T. This week, we dove into the nitty-gritty of marriage, especially when it’s lived under the public eye. Here’s a sneak peek of what we covered: Key Takeaways: Public vs. Private: We debated the fine line between sharing personal struggles and keeping certain aspects of marriage private. Is honesty always the best policy?High-Profile Pressures: We discussed the unique challenges faced by women married to celebrities and athletes. The scrutiny is real, and it’s intense!Communication is Key: We emphasized the importance of having those deep, honest conversations with your partner rather than airing grievances publicly.Protect Your Empire: Your family and personal life are precious. Be mindful of what you share and with whom.Financial Realities: Sometimes, it’s not just marriage or kids holding you back—it could be a lack of money or discipline. Let’s count our blessings and move forward!Regret and Reflection: We reflected on how public comments can be misunderstood and the importance of having a good support system to navigate the fallout.Discretion and Boundaries: Not everyone is invested in your happiness. Keep some conversations private to maintain peace and protect your relationship. Curiosities and Lessons: Margarita Mondays: We joked about how some discussions are best reserved for close friends over drinks rather than public platforms.Teatime vs. Locker Room Talk: We compared private conversations among women to men’s locker room talk—share just enough without revealing too much.The Power of Words: Your words are powerful. Use them wisely to avoid unintended damage.This episode is packed with candid, humorous, and heartfelt discussions that you won’t want to miss. Whether you’re married, single, or somewhere in between, there’s something here for everyone. Call to Action: Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and take care of yourselves. Protecting your personal life and relationships is a vital part of self-care and happiness. Tune in to On the Mic with The M and T for more real talk and valuable insights. I can’t wait to hear what you think! Warmly, The M Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    37 min

  5. 09/29/2025

    Stop Blaming Others: Accountability Is Key

    Send us Fan Mail Stop blaming others and take control of your life—accountability is the key to lasting change. In this episode of "On the Mic with DM and T," we dive into the importance of taking ownership of your decisions and actions in relationships, finances, and personal growth. From navigating modern dating and marriage dynamics to adapting in a world of economic uncertainty and AI-driven changes, this conversation sheds light on how to stop making excuses and start making progress. Hear candid discussions about protecting your worth, building meaningful connections, and fostering resilience in challenging times. Are you ready to take responsibility and level up in every area of your life? Tune in for real talk, practical insights, and strategies to help you stop pointing fingers and start making empowered moves. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop your thoughts in the comments below—let's grow together! #selfimprovement #communicationskills #psychology #selfdevelopment #relationshipadvice CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Is Marriage Even Worth It Anymore 01:58 - Protecting Your Assets 03:18 - The Foolishness of Not Protecting Your Assets 04:35 - The Importance of Protecting Your Assets 05:55 - The Emotional Side of Protecting Your Assets 10:41 - Tyrese and His Wife 11:39 - Influences on Your Relationship 12:51 - The Love Left After the Theft 14:22 - What You Don't See in a Healthy Relationship 19:40 - How Did We Get Here 22:49 - Men Need to Slow Down 31:50 - Motivate Him to Get More 37:00 - AI is Here and It's Not Going Anywhere 40:40 - Job Market Challenges 43:00 - Impact on Black Women 46:13 - Effects of Government Assistance 49:24 - Stop Blaming Others 51:57 - College vs. Marriage 56:46 - Start Your Own Business 57:50 - Job Creation Challenges 58:40 - Acceptable Salary Range 01:01:10 - Accountability 01:02:10 - OUTRO Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    1h 3m

  6. 08/20/2025

    Modern Dating is Broken(AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us Fan Mail Modern dating is broken, and this video explores why men and women struggle to connect in today’s world. From unrealistic expectations and financial pressures to a decline in emotional intelligence and leadership, we talk about the challenges destroying modern relationships. Are gender roles outdated? Why are we stuck in a cycle of blame and mistrust? And how do we rebuild healthy connections in a world that overvalues transactions over teamwork? Join us as we unpack these issues with humor, raw honesty, and personal stories, offering insights into what it takes to build meaningful partnerships. Whether you’re frustrated with the dating scene or searching for ways to improve your approach, this video has something for you. Let's navigate the chaos of modern relationships together.  Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real conversations. Share your thoughts in the comments—how do you think we can fix modern dating? #ships #jayshetty #creativewriting #dynamics #relationship CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:25 - Men and Gold Diggers 05:51 - Wife Duties vs Girlfriend Duties 11:28 - Pursuing the Right Woman 14:56 - Emotional vs Logical Thinking 18:50 - Stop Making Poor Choices 22:10 - Self-Control in Relationships 25:40 - Understanding Retainer Fees 28:10 - Leadership in Relationships 32:20 - Importance of Emotional Intelligence 37:49 - Analyzing Your Last Relationship 43:10 - Building a Healthy Relationship 45:48 - Men and Communication 49:48 - Trust Issues Among Men 54:20 - Rules of the Relationship Game 57:05 - Understanding Deception 01:01:50 - Privacy and Trust: Partner's Phone 01:08:20 - Final Thoughts Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    1h 10m
  7. Why Young Men Are Struggling Today 😔(AUDIO ONLY)

    07/04/2025

    Why Young Men Are Struggling Today 😔(AUDIO ONLY)

    Send us Fan Mail Why are young men struggling today? 😔 In this eye-opening video, we dive into the challenges young men face in today’s world—rising mental health struggles, loneliness, education gaps, stagnant job opportunities, and societal pressures. From alarming statistics on depression and suicide rates to the economic hurdles and lack of male-focused resources, we break down why so many young men feel left behind. But it doesn’t stop there—we explore actionable steps to find purpose, build skills, and create a brighter future. If you’re ready to understand and tackle these issues, this is a must-watch. Join the conversation and let’s work towards solutions together! 💪 CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:22 - Mental Health Awareness 01:17 - Employment Opportunities 02:26 - Social Connections 04:00 - Big Picture Perspective 05:51 - College Education Insights 07:11 - Immediate Needs Assessment 13:42 - Education and Boys' Learning Styles 16:53 - The Education System Overview 20:33 - Value of a College Degree 22:28 - Exploring Different Paths 24:47 - Mental Health Challenges 27:10 - Benefits of Trade Schools 29:55 - Financial Discipline Strategies 36:55 - Role of Encyclopedias 38:41 - Engaging Today's Children 41:32 - Supporting Men's Development 46:19 - Women's Increased Responsibilities 49:20 - Importance of Teaching 51:10 - Parenting: Married vs Unmarried 55:00 - Men's Hygiene Awareness 56:10 - Impact of Low Aspirations 57:48 - Backlash of "Be a Man" Culture 59:10 - Necessary Changes Ahead 01:01:15 - Who Will Address the Issues 01:06:20 - Importance of Self-Improvement 01:12:32 - Personal Responsibility in Life 01:13:20 - Celebrating 20,000 Subscribers 01:13:40 - Outro Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    1h 14m

  8. 06/04/2025

    95% of Homes Are Missing THIS Key Value in Raising Kids (Audio Only)

    Send us Fan Mail Are 95% of homes missing a crucial code of conduct? 🏠 This thought-provoking discussion dives into the erosion of household values, accountability, and discipline in today’s society. From generational gaps to the decline in instilling respect, manners, and personal responsibility in children, we explore how this cultural shift is impacting families and communities. We talk about the importance of teaching kids key life principles, the role of parents as active guides, and why a strong foundation in morals and standards is vital. Don’t miss this deep dive into a topic that affects us all—let’s talk about what’s missing and how we can fix it. Join the conversation and help restore what matters most. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:40 - Code of Conduct in Relationships 02:30 - Cassie and Diddy Relationship Insights 05:20 - Easy Access to Sex Culture 11:33 - Building a Solid Foundation 17:04 - Importance of Father Figures 22:44 - The Blind Leading the Blind in Society 25:48 - Defining What You’re Looking For 27:30 - Impact of Past Trauma 31:03 - Importance of Accountability 34:40 - Challenges of Accountability 39:54 - Temptation in Modern Life 42:55 - Marriage Perspectives for the Poor and Elderly 43:50 - Recognizing Foolish Behavior 49:28 - Purpose of Marriage 51:14 - Paul Pierce's Influence 55:53 - GPY: Usage and Importance 58:55 - Lack of Teaching Essential Principles 1:00:13 - Consequences of Our Actions 1:05:30 - Keeping It Real in Conversations 1:07:45 - Critique of Young Adult Behavior 1:08:40 - Risks of Sending Nude Photos 1:13:20 - Understanding Revenge Porn 1:16:50 - Selling Self-Worth in Relationships 1:18:23 - Understanding the Real Deal 1:20:18 - Creating Your Own Rules 1:23:00 - Final Thoughts and Reflections Support the show Go  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

    1h 25m
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Welcome to our transformative podcast, where the wisdom of two distinct generations merges, blending old-school mentalities with new-school vibes, all aimed at enriching your life. Our singular mission? Equipping you with knowledge for a more fulfilling existence. Our motto, "Closed Minds Don't Get Fed," embodies our belief that an open mind is the gateway to nourishing your soul. Join us as we navigate life's intricacies, drawing from our diverse experiences to offer invaluable insights. We're here to empower you, encouraging thoughtful decision-making and highlighting that the most meaningful solutions often stem from deeper exploration. Embracing a growth mindset is critical—unveiling your genuine purpose lies at the heart of our discussions. In this podcast, expect unfiltered conversations and substantive content aimed at stimulating your intellect. We're not serving empty calories; we focus on delivering nourishment that fuels real change. Remember, transforming your life requires dedication and deliberate action. Let's embark on this journey together as we provide the sustenance needed for your personal growth.

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  • Creator
    M and T
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    77
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 On Tha Mic with M and T
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