Living Clutter Free Forever - decluttering tips,home organizing, minimalist living

Caroline Thor - Professional Organizer - KonMari® Consultant
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If you're a busy woman, who feels overwhelmed by the amount of stuff in your home, and you know it's time to declutter, but you just don't know where to start, then this podcast is for you. As a trained KonMari® Consultant I'll be sharing tips and tricks on how to declutter using the KonMari Method®, and just as importantly, how to maintain it. I will also share some personal insights which I'm sure you'll relate to. Sometimes it might feel like I am a fly on the wall in your home! Believe me, I get it. We all aspire to having a tidy home, but it can feel like an impossible task when we're constantly juggling family life, work, and everything else in between. Join me, Caroline, and occasionally my lovely guests, every Tuesday for some inspiration and motivation. Let's get started on decluttering our homes and our lives - forever!🤝 Join the Living Clutter Free Forever Community:  Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook 💻 Want to know more about how we can work together, and all my online offers? Visit https://www.caroline-thor.com 📧 caroline@caroline-thor.com

  1. 2d ago

    Overwhelmed by Paper Clutter? Why ADHD Decision Fatigue Turns 40 Pieces of Paper Into Dozens of Decisions (Even When You Know What to Do) #230

    If you've got unopened envelopes in bags under the bed and a form you've been walking past for weeks, come and deal with them with me during the Paper Reset starting September the 26th. Join me for three days and  leave knowing exactly what to do with the next pile and trusting that you'll come back to it. https://go.carolinethor.com/paper-reset-sept26pod Have you ever felt frustrated that a pile of paper is still on the dining room table when you know exactly what to do with it? In this episode, I'm talking about why knowing what to do with paper doesn't make ADHD decluttering easier, and how ADHD decision fatigue grows with every piece you pick up. Sometimes it starts with one question, "Do I need this?", and ends with you on the floor surrounded by folders three hours later. You'll discover: What ADHD decision fatigue has to do with a leaflet you might want somedayWhy out of sight out of mind ADHD leaves a letter sitting on your kitchen counterWhat an ADHD filing system needs that 27 beautifully labeled categories can't give youHow ADHD shame can grow out of "I still haven't dealt with that"How a pile of paper turns into the cycle of ADHD avoidanceWhat a 12-minute job left for six weeks says about ADHD procrastinationWhy a five-minute job can bring on ADHD task paralysis when an interesting two-hour one doesn'tWhat ADHD organization tips can make a huge pile of paper small enough to start todayWhat a bill waiting to be paid changes about how to organize paperworkWhy paper with logos on it can feel too important to recycleIf you've been searching for how to declutter paper or how to reduce decision fatigue in a way that actually works for your brain, this episode is for you. Here's to one piece of paper and one decision, Caroline If the avoidance cycle or leaving letters out as reminders sounds familiar, you may also want to listen to Episode 227, Why Do I Keep Avoiding Things I Know I Need To Do? The ADHD Avoidance Cycle at Home and Why Getting Started Has Nothing To Do With Motivation, and Episode 228, Why Mental Load Feels So Heavy When You're Relying On Visual Reminders To Remember Everything You're Trying Not To Forget. 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    Overwhelmed by Paper Clutter? Why ADHD Decision Fatigue Turns 40 Pieces of Paper Into Dozens of Decisions (Even When You Know What to Do) #230

  2. Sep 15

    Buried in Half-Finished Jobs? Why Progress Not Perfection Rebuilds Self Trust When Your ADHD Brain Only Sees the Pile #229

    If you've got unopened envelopes in bags under the bed and a form you've been walking past for weeks, come and deal with them with me during the Paper Reset starting September the 26th. Join me for three days and  leave knowing exactly what to do with the next pile and trusting that you'll come back to it. https://go.carolinethor.com/paper-reset-sept26pod Why do you keep looking at what's left instead of what you just did? In this episode, I'm talking about what happens when you start something and don't finish it, and why progress not perfection is the only standard a home can hold.  I walk you through the third option that sits between finishing the whole thing and not bothering at all, and how shrinking the job is what makes decluttering with adhd workable on a day when you've got 20 minutes. We'll also look at what's happening in your head when you stop halfway.  You'll learn: What your brain does with the pile that's still on the tableWhy we decided a job only counts when the whole thing is finishedWhy adhd procrastination starts with a job that looks like hoursHow adhd overwhelm turns half an hour into a reason to not startHow to declutter with adhd when the whole job won't fit in your dayWhat to do when you keep expanding the job while you're doing itWhy unfinished tasks become evidence in a story you tell about yourselfHow stopping on purpose at 20 minutes builds self trustWhat to ask yourself before you walk away from a sessionWhy three days won't clear your paper clutter, and what it can do insteadIf you've been searching for how to start decluttering when the job feels too big, or for adhd decluttering advice that does not assume you've got a whole free afternoon, or for paper clutter organization you can actually keep up with, this episode is for you. Here's to leaving it better than you found it, Caroline If this is something you struggle with, you may also want to listen to Episode 198 – Still Thinking About Decluttering but Not Starting? 1 Gentle Reframe That Changes Everything, and Episode #159 – How to Start Decluttering When You’re Overwhelmed — One 15-Minute Step at a Time. 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    Buried in Half-Finished Jobs? Why Progress Not Perfection Rebuilds Self Trust When Your ADHD Brain Only Sees the Pile #229

  3. Sep 8

    Why Mental Load Feels So Heavy When You're Relying On Visual Reminders To Remember Everything You're Trying Not To Forget #228

    How many things around your home are there because you’re trying not to forget about them? The unopened letter on the counter. The parcel by the door that needs returning. The school form waiting for a signature. The insurance claim you still need to submit. Each one might seem small, but together they create a lot for your brain to keep track of. In this episode, I’m talking about the mental load of all those things we keep meaning to deal with, and why leaving a visual reminder out can feel like the safest way to remember it, especially if you have ADHD or recognise yourself in ADHD traits. You’ll learn: Why unfinished tasks often turn into visual clutter, even when you know exactly where those things belong.Why your brain may be relying on objects as reminders, and what happens when there are too many competing for your attention.Why an ADHD brain often needs to see things in order to remember themHow to notice paper clutter and paper piles before they build upWhy a seemingly simple task can feel much bigger than it looks, particularly when it involves several hidden steps.How putting things off can start costing you money as well as timeA simple way to look at the things sitting around your home differently, without immediately deciding you need a whole new organising system.And if paperwork is one of the things you’ve been telling yourself you’ll deal with later, this episode is your invitation to start noticing your own patterns with curiosity instead of judgment. Here's to noticing our patterns instead of judging them, Caroline I also touch on how this connects with Episode 193, Why Visual Reminders Turn Into Clutter, and Episode 173, Clutter Distractions, Procrasticleaning, and Mental Load. Struggling with Paper Clutter? Join the Paper Reset HERE! 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    Why Mental Load Feels So Heavy When You're Relying On Visual Reminders To Remember Everything You're Trying Not To Forget #228

  4. Sep 1

    Why Do I Keep Avoiding Things I Know I Need To Do? The ADHD Avoidance Cycle at Home and Why Getting Started Has Nothing To Do With Motivation #227

    Why do you keep avoiding things you know you need to do? You know what I mean. The unopened post sitting on the side. The form that would probably take five minutes. The donation bag you keep walking past. The email you still haven’t sent. Task avoidance can be so frustrating, especially when you know the job itself is small. But avoidance is not always about how long something will take. Often, it is about the emotional weight attached to the task, the uncertainty around it, or simply not knowing how to begin. In this episode, I’m talking about ADHD avoidance and why small tasks can start taking up so much mental space when we keep putting them off. If you have ADHD, avoiding tasks can also be connected to executive function and task initiation, which can make getting started feel much harder than it looks from the outside. We’ll look at what is really happening when you keep putting something off, including the avoidance cycle that so many of us get stuck in, why telling yourself to “just do it” usually doesn’t help, and how to make taking action easier. You’ll learn: Why a five-minute task can feel much harder than it actually isWhat can be happening underneath avoidanceHow uncertainty and hidden steps can make small tasks feel overwhelmingWhy avoidance gives you temporary relief but can create more stress laterHow ADHD can affect task initiation and getting startedWhy the emotional weight of a task can grow the longer you leave itHow guilt and self-criticism can make task avoidance even harderSimple ways to make the first step feel smaller and more manageableHow to identify the next physical action instead of thinking about the whole taskWhy you do not need to finish everything for your progress to countIf you’re looking for help to take action the things you’ve been avoiding, this episode is for you.  Here’s to fewer things competing for your attention, Caroline If this is something you struggle with, you may also want to listen to Episode 203, 3 Shifts to Finally Start the Tasks You Keep Putting Off, and Episode 211, Why Tiny Tasks Start Feeling Huge When You’re Overwhelmed. 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    Why Do I Keep Avoiding Things I Know I Need To Do? The ADHD Avoidance Cycle at Home and Why Getting Started Has Nothing To Do With Motivation #227

  5. Aug 25

    The Money Hiding in Your Home: How Home Decluttering and Organizing Help You Save Money and Find Financial Wins #226

    Have you ever felt the frustration that comes from buying something, bringing it home, and then discovering you already owned it? Maybe it was hiding at the back of a cupboard. Maybe you forgot about it completely. Maybe you knew you had one somewhere, but finding it was more effort than simply buying another. Those moments can feel small, but they say a lot about the hidden ways clutter costs us money. In this episode, I’m sharing what happened when I started a Financial Wins Challenge inside Clutter Free Collective. I thought it would be a fun experiment in saving money and becoming more aware of our shopping habits. I didn’t expect it to reveal quite so clearly how much our home clutter, belongings, habits, and spending are connected. And once we started paying attention, the financial wins began showing up everywhere. As we discuss what happened, you’ll learn: How clutter can lead to unnecessary spending and why decluttered items can create unexpected financial wins.Why being able to see and find what you own makes saving money much easier.How small changes to your shopping habits add up to meaningful savings over time.Why your fridge, cupboards, paperwork, subscriptions, and storage spaces are probably affecting your money awareness.How impulse spending contributes to clutter, especially for women with ADHD.Why organizing products isn’t always the solution when your home already feels full.How becoming more aware of what you own helps you make better decisions without guilt or deprivation.Why addressing home clutter changes the way you think about what you buy, use, keep, and waste.If you want to become more intentional about your shopping habits, and see the connection between your home and your finances in a completely different way, this episode is for you. Here's to noticing what you already own, Caroline ps. Once you start looking, you’ll be surprised by how much money is hiding in your home. 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    The Money Hiding in Your Home: How Home Decluttering and Organizing Help You Save Money and Find Financial Wins #226

  6. Aug 18

    Scared to Let Go of Sentimental Items? The One Question That Makes ADHD Decluttering and Home Organization Easier #225

    What if the way you say I love you has nothing to do with flowers or a beautifully written card?  In this episode, I walk you through what everyday acts of love have to do with ADHD clutter and the piles that build up at home. In this episode, I talk about a reel I posted called saying I love you in ADHD, and why so many people saw themselves in it. I talk about the ADHD traits that shape how we love and how we forget, and why clutter overwhelm gets read as proof that we don't care enough. I also talk about how much of what we own arrived here through love, and what that does to our decisions. In this episode, you'll learn: Why doom piles keep appearing in the same corner of the same roomWhat the reel about saying I love you in ADHD touched in so many peopleWhy ADHD hyper focus can turn one passing comment into three hours of researchWhat the gap between caring deeply and executing consistently looks likeWhy just ‘put it away’ can be unhelpful advice for an ADHD brainHow to notice the everyday acts of care you've never counted as loveWhat to ask yourself about sentimental items you're scared to let go ofWhy the object isn't the relationship, even when the memory is strongWhy executive functioning explains the gap between what you intended and what happenedIf you've been searching for sentimental clutter answers, home organization help, or honest conversations for ADHD women, this episode is your invitation to look at your home with more kindness and less blame. Here's to noticing the small ways we love the people around us, Caroline Join me for ADHD Doom Piles Decoded, my free live workshop for women with ADHD who can't understand why keeping their homes tidy is so much harder than it should be: https://go.carolinethor.com/adhd-workshop 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    Scared to Let Go of Sentimental Items? The One Question That Makes ADHD Decluttering and Home Organization Easier #225

  7. Aug 11

    Overwhelmed by Clutter? What A Tiny House Stay Taught Me About Home Clutter (And Why Organizing Keeps Failing) #224

    Have you ever wondered if a bigger home would make home organization easier? In this episode, I walk you through what two nights of tiny living taught me about home clutter and the houses we live in every day. I talk about staying in 35 square meters with my son and our dog, and how surprised I was by how calm it was there. I came home with a fresh perspective on my own house and one question I'm still asking myself about the things I keep. In this episode, you'll learn: Why I stopped missing things I'd normally reach for constantlyWhat made my decision fatigue disappear within a dayHow a small space stayed clutter free by designWhat one small detail on the cupboards changed about how I moved through the houseWhy a smaller fridge changed more than just my shoppingWhat a genuinely simple home made me realize about my own placeWhy the storage space worked so well when there was intentionalityWhat I realized about the hidden cost of every object we ownWhat question I brought home with me that I'm still askingIf you've been searching for living with less inspiration or a reason to rethink what fills your home, this episode is for you. Here's to fewer things competing for your attention, Caroline Find out more about where I stayed, and Tiny Parks by Mobi House here Instagram 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    Overwhelmed by Clutter? What A Tiny House Stay Taught Me About Home Clutter (And Why Organizing Keeps Failing) #224

  8. Aug 4

    KonMari Method© Meets Architecture: Why Home Organization Fails When Your Home Layout Fights Your Routines with Talor Stewart #223

    Does home clutter collect in the same few spots no matter how often you tidy? Have the usual decluttering tips stopped working on your entryway and your bathroom?  You're not the only one who's cleared a room on Sunday and lost it again by Wednesday. In this episode, I'm joined by Talor Stewart, a licensed architect with more than 25 years in the industry, who created Conscious Home Design to help people design their homes around their lives. Talor and I talk about how the layout of a house sets the pattern of a day, from which way you turn when you get out of bed to how far you carry an armload of ingredients across the kitchen. He explains why entry foyers and bathrooms take the heaviest hit, and why that comes down to size and adjacency more than discipline. We also talk about where his work meets the decluttering work I do, because both point towards a home where everything has a place to go back to. In this episode, you'll learn: Why home design shapes your daily routines more than you'd expectHow to spot the friction points in your home layout that you've stopped noticingWhy entryways collect the most chaos in a busy household Why bathroom clutter follows the same pattern as the entryway What to look at first when open plan living makes tidying harder Why ADHD clutter in a household isn't a discipline problem How to balance connection and privacy when you share a home with other people Why the KonMari Method©  and conscious home design point in the same direction How to improve home flow between the rooms you use most What to consider when choosing storage solutions for a small spaceIf you've been searching for clutter solutions, better home organization, and decluttering tips that work, this episode is your invitation to look at your home differently before you change anything. Here's to a home that works with you,  Caroline Connect with Talor: Website https://conscioushomedesign.thinkific.com/?ref=7a026d   Conscious Home Design Book, Audiobook & Workbook Bundle - Digital Package https://conscioushomedesign.thinkific.com/courses/book-bundle-digital?ref=7a026d   Conscious Home Design Book, Audiobook & Workbook Bundle - Physical & Digital Package WITH Consultation https://conscioushomedesign.thinkific.com/courses/book-bundle-physical?ref=7a026d 📄 The ADHD Paper Reset is back! 👉 Join FREE here If unopened mail, important papers and “I’ll deal with it later” piles are taking up too much space in your home AND your head, join me for my FREE ADHD Paper Reset, starting September 26th. (Also great if you don't have ADHD!) Thanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources: Join my online membership Clutter Free Collective Join my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook Visit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

    KonMari Method© Meets Architecture: Why Home Organization Fails When Your Home Layout Fights Your Routines with Talor Stewart #223
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If you're a busy woman, who feels overwhelmed by the amount of stuff in your home, and you know it's time to declutter, but you just don't know where to start, then this podcast is for you. As a trained KonMari® Consultant I'll be sharing tips and tricks on how to declutter using the KonMari Method®, and just as importantly, how to maintain it. I will also share some personal insights which I'm sure you'll relate to. Sometimes it might feel like I am a fly on the wall in your home! Believe me, I get it. We all aspire to having a tidy home, but it can feel like an impossible task when we're constantly juggling family life, work, and everything else in between. Join me, Caroline, and occasionally my lovely guests, every Tuesday for some inspiration and motivation. Let's get started on decluttering our homes and our lives - forever!🤝 Join the Living Clutter Free Forever Community:  Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | Facebook 💻 Want to know more about how we can work together, and all my online offers? Visit https://www.caroline-thor.com 📧 caroline@caroline-thor.com

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