Stonegate Church Podcast

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  1. Aug 16

    Desire Needs Direction // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs

    Sex was never meant to be hidden or hyped — God designed it for a place, a purpose, and a person. This week's discussion guide walks through 1 Corinthians 6-7 and Genesis 2, helping you and your group process what the Bible actually says about sex, brokenness, and grace. Includes reflection questions, table talk prompts for families, and a companion article for parents navigating this conversation with their kids. August 16, 2026 · 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, 7:2-5, Genesis 2:24 Keep the Fire in Its Place Download & Print Guide Parenting Conversations #1: Talking To Your Kids About Sex 01 Key Takeaways God designed sex for a place. In marriage, one man and one woman become one flesh — a covenant of complete, exclusive, and permanent love. Outside that place, the same fire that warms a home can burn it down.Genesis 2:24 God designed sex with a purpose. Scripture points to procreation, pleasure, and a pledge that renews the marriage covenant. None of it embarrasses God — he's the one who designed it.1 Corinthians 7:2-5 Sin has broken all of us sexually. Every person in the room has either sinned or been sinned against in this area. Naming that honestly is the first step toward healing, not shame.1 Corinthians 6:18 Sex is a signpost, not a destination. Even at its best, sex points beyond itself — to the joy we'll know forever with Jesus, face to face. It was never meant to carry that weight alone.Ephesians 5:32 Grace puts broken people back together. Whatever you've done or had done to you, you're not defined by it. Jesus washes, sets free, and welcomes sexually broken people into a new identity — his own.1 Corinthians 6:9-11 02 Community Group Prep Before your group meets, take a few minutes with these: Read 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 and 7:2-5 slowly. Notice where your view of sex has been shaped more by culture or past hurt than by God's design.Sit with one question honestly: which lie about sex — casual, essential, or merely physical — do you find easiest to believe?Pray Paul's words over yourself: 'I am not my own, but belong to God.' Ask him to make your group a place of surrender, not shame. 03 Reflection Questions Where have you seen sex pulled out of its place — in your own story or in the culture around you?Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality. Where do you need to flee — and what would that look like practically this week?Is there a next step of obedience in this area you've been putting off — a conversation, a boundary, a decision?You've been washed, sanctified, and justified (1 Corinthians 6:11). Which is hardest to believe about yourself — and how would believing it change this week? 04 Table Talk Don't let the conversation stop at the door. What's one gift God has given our family that's easy to take for granted?Where do you see our culture telling a different story than God does about love and marriage?A little boy once asked his mom, 'What does God do all day?' She said, 'He fixes broken things.' What's one broken thing you'd love for God to fix? Memory verse this week — read it, say it, learn it together: You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. — 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 05 Prep for Sunday Our whole church family will be together for Enjoy Weekend, August 20-22. It all culminates on Sunday with baptisms all day, in every service. Come celebrate what Jesus has done in people's lives, and see what he might be inviting you into next. Companion Resource Parenting Conversations #1: Talking To Your Kids About Sex A pastoral guide for parents on talking with your kids about sex. READ THE ARTICLE ONLY JESUS SATISFIES · stonegate.church · Midlothian, TX

    Desire Needs Direction // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs
  2. Aug 9

    Marriage: It's Bigger Than You // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs

    Marriage isn't something we invented — it's something we were given. Genesis 2 shows a God who designed marriage before sin ever touched the world. Ephesians 5 shows why: every marriage is a picture of something bigger than the two people in it. This week we ask what marriage is actually for, and why we were never meant to carry it alone. Marriage: It's Bigger Than You | Stonegate Church August 9, 2026 · Genesis 2:18–25, Ephesians 5:31–32 Marriage: It's Bigger Than You Marriage isn't our invention to redefine — it's God's gift, designed to point past itself to Jesus giving his life for his bride. This week's guide walks through Genesis 2 and Ephesians 5, with questions to carry the conversation home. Download & Print Guide 10 Diagnostic Questions August 9, 2026 · Genesis 2:18-25, Ephesians 5:31-32 Marriage: It's Bigger Than You SG 01 Key Takeaways Marriage is a gift, not our invention. God designed marriage before sin ever entered the world. It's his idea to define, not ours to redefine. Genesis 2:18-24 One flesh means a life fully shared. Marriage is a comprehensive oneness — two lives, one story, held together without shame or hiding. Genesis 2:24-25 Earthly marriage points past itself. Every marriage exists to be seen through, not just seen — a living picture of Jesus giving his life for his bride. Ephesians 5:31-32 Don't fight for your marriage alone. When your marriage is struggling, slow down before it becomes a crisis. Let your pastors and your community in — you were never meant to carry this by yourself. Galatians 6:2 Loving well starts with being loved first. We can't manufacture sacrificial love on our own. We love our spouse only after we've been loved by Jesus. 1 John 4:19 02 Reflection Questions What stands out to you about God's design for marriage in Genesis 2:18-25? Is there a person you need to forgive, or a wrong you need to own and confess, before you can move forward? Go on a date this week and talk through the 10 Diagnostic Questions together. Which one are you both willing to answer honestly? 03 Community Group Prep Before your group meets, take a few minutes with these: Read Genesis 2:18-25 slowly. Notice what God calls "not good," and what he does about it. Marriage is a gift, but it's not ultimately about us. On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your marriage right now? Pray through the sermon's three questions: your love for Jesus, your pursuit of your spouse, any bitterness you're carrying. 04 Table Talk — Carry the Convo Don't let the conversation stop at the door. What's one thing you've seen modeled — in your family or someone else's — about what a good marriage looks like? Why do you think weddings still make people emotional, even strangers at a wedding they don't know well? Who's one couple you look up to, and what do you notice about how they treat each other? Memory verse this week — read it, say it, learn it together: We love because he first loved us. — 1 John 4:19 05 Prep for Sunday We're continuing our new series called Table Talks: honest conversations about marriage, sex, community, money, and what it looks like to enjoy Jesus in the middle of life. A Note for Parents Our Sunday message on August 16 is covering the conversation around sex. We'd encourage parents to use discernment for any kids under the age of 10. This sermon will create great discipleship discussion for your older children. Download & Print Guide Companion Resource 10 Diagnostic Questions for Marriage A car's dashboard shows you what's going on before a small issue becomes a big one. These questions work the same way for your marriage — not a scorecard, not ammunition for an argument. Answer honestly, and ask God to show you one next step. Download the 10 Questions (PDF) Only Jesus Satisfies · stonegate.church · Midlothian, TX

    Marriage: It's Bigger Than You // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs

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