Life, Death, and Cookies

Life, Death and Cookies

Death is almost universally a difficult topic to talk about, but it affects us all. None of us can escape this life without facing death, whether our own or the deaths of those we love, and we take a deep look at death and what it can mean for living life. Hosts Char and Oliver Tanner face these topics through the lens of their own experiences and the ongoing experience of dealing with a genetic mutation that is slowly killing Char. Finally, each episode is finished with a mini celebration of another day of life through the sharing of a different cookie each week.

  1. 07/17/2023

    S2:E23 | Can I Really Forgive an Estranged Parent?

    Join Oliver and Char Tanner for our season finale! We discuss forgiving an estranged family member -Required to forgive -forgiveness is for you: doesn't clear the guilty -calling out wrongdoing Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions: The Four Things That Matter Most by Dr. Ira Byock Cookie Co: https://cookieco.com/ Doctrine and Covenants 64: 10 Matthew 5: 43-45 Luke 23: 34 Numbers 14: 18 Hebrews 12: 6-11 Doctrine and Covenants 95:1 Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E23 | Can I Really Forgive an Estranged Parent?
  2. 07/07/2023

    S2:E22 | Please Forgive Me: Reconciliation

    Oliver Tanner is back co-hosting as we discuss Repentance and Reconciliation as part of asking for forgiveness. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions:⁠ The Four Things that Matter Most⁠ by Dr. Ira Byock Myths of Repentance by Wallace Goddard: Matthew 5: 23-24 Crazy Deaths from Ranker Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E22 | Please Forgive Me: Reconciliation
  3. 06/29/2023

    S2:E21 | "Please Forgive Me"

    Lyndie Tanner joins me again as my co-host as we discuss saying "Please Forgive me" to a loved one before death. We discuss humility. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions:The Four Things that Matter Most by Dr. Ira ByockCoaching at End of Life by Dr. Don EisenhauerHercules in New York MovieHen House Iced Sugar Cookie Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E21 | "Please Forgive Me"
  4. 06/20/2023

    S2:E20 | Tic-Toker Fakes Death and MLK Quote

    Please welcome with me our special guest co-host: Lyndie Tanner! Today we talk about a quote about life and death from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and discuss a current event regarding death: A tic tok creator faking his own death. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions: Man faked death articleButtermilk cookies recipe Nathan Hales Hazardous Tales book Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E20 | Tic-Toker Fakes Death and MLK Quote
  5. 06/01/2023

    S2:E19 | Thrown Back into Grieving Process

    A new development pulls Char back into the grieving stages for her chronic illness. Anger, grief, sadness, hopelessness and some bargaining. Oliver talks about Memorial Day. Mentions: https://www.thelmastreats.com/ Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E19 | Thrown Back into Grieving Process
  6. 05/25/2023

    S2:E18 | Saying "I Forgive You" Before Death

    Char and Oliver Tanner discuss saying "I forgive you" before you or someone you love dies. We talk about:-The definition of forgiveness-Requirement to forgive-Awkwardness of saying the words Extra segments:What is your dream jobOliver rants: F-22 and F-35 fighter jets Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions:The Four Things that Matter Most by Dr. Ira ByockSam's Club chocolate chunk cookiesCoaching at End of Life by Dr. Don EisenhauerMatthew 6: 14-15Doctrine and Covenants 64: 9-10 Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E18 | Saying "I Forgive You" Before Death
  7. 05/17/2023

    S2:E17 | Saying I Forgive you- Introduction

    Char and Oliver Tanner introduce saying "I forgive you" and "please forgive me" based off of Dr. Ira Byock's book The Four Things That Matter Most. We discuss:-I'm sorry vs. please forgive me-forgiveness will take action, not just words-repentance linked to forgiveness Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions:-Repented->forgiven (Moroni 6:8)- if he repents->forgive him (Luke 17:3)-King Arthur Cookie Companion Cookbook-Hope in Humanity story -Weird Al- Lame Claim to Fame Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E17 | Saying I Forgive you- Introduction
  8. 05/10/2023

    S2:E16 | The Secret to Helping Others Grieve

    Today Char and Oliver Tanner discuss Char's top advice for helping someone you love to grieve.-Less talking more listening-Let them tell their story Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Cursed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Won⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We are now on Rumble: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rumble.com/c/c-2253010⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions:Coaching End of Life Brookie Is a Brownie a cookie? Dr. Oliver Jeffery Jesus Wept - John 11:35 Have any questions?  Make sure to ask them on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email us at lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Contact us: lifedeathandcookies@gmail.com Our  website will take you to all our adventures: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://scratchmadeliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/lifeanddeathpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Link to our Tanner Style Youtube channel ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TannerStyle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music in this episode: Barrel Full of Sea Monkeys by⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Whole Other⁠⁠⁠⁠ *Disclaimer: We are not doctors or health professionals. Statements made in this podcast are our opinions and should not be used as medical advice. Please see your medical professional for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment

    S2:E16 | The Secret to Helping Others Grieve

About

Death is almost universally a difficult topic to talk about, but it affects us all. None of us can escape this life without facing death, whether our own or the deaths of those we love, and we take a deep look at death and what it can mean for living life. Hosts Char and Oliver Tanner face these topics through the lens of their own experiences and the ongoing experience of dealing with a genetic mutation that is slowly killing Char. Finally, each episode is finished with a mini celebration of another day of life through the sharing of a different cookie each week.