Project Weight Loss

Fina Perez

Your best life is just one project away. The Project Weight Loss Podcast is where you will learn the tools and skills to change what is weighing you down, lose weight and above all, improve your quality of life. This reinvention of your life could have a tremendous ripple effect in all you do and everyone you touch. To learn more and work with us visit https://projectweightloss.org. 

  1. 4d ago

    What Would Love Do?

    Send us Fan Mail When you feel lost in grief, fear, or chaos, sometimes the only thing to do is act.  But not just any action.  This week I share a walk by the bay and one simple question to guide us through the season ahead: What would love do? With a little help from the research on behavioral activation, positive emotions, and values-based living, plus a few lighthearted Halloween-through-Christmas test runs.  Follow along on Instagram @fina.projectweightloss and find every episode at projectweightloss.org.   Quote of the Week "Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails." That's from 1 Corinthians, chapter 13. Sources •       Lewinsohn, P. (early research on behavioral activation and depression, 1970s); Martell, C., Addis, M. & Jacobson, N., Depression in Context: Strategies for Guided Action •       Fredrickson, B. (broaden-and-build theory, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill); Fredrickson, B., Love 2.0: How Our Supreme Emotion Affects Everything We Feel, Think, Do, and Become •       Hayes, S. (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy); Hayes, S., A Liberated Mind •       1 Corinthians 13:4–8, World English Bible (public domain) Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  2. Oct 15

    Money, Planning, and a Comfortable Life

    Send us Fan Mail Gas is up. Groceries are up. And if your stomach does a little flip every time you open your banking app, friend, this one's for you. Last time we talked about money, we talked about the two levers. This week I'm going to what happens inside us when money gets tight… and, believe it or not, what happens when we suddenly get more of it. I'm also sharing what the research says actually helps us stay steady, a few offerings you can start using this week, and some very real, very practical places to turn if you're in the thick of it right now. Not a perfect life. A comfortable one. Come plant a tree with me. 🌳 Quote of the week"Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago." — Warren Buffett "A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in." — Proverb, often attributed to the Greeks DisclaimerI'm a life coach, not a doctor, therapist, or financial advisor. This episode is for information and inspiration. Please talk with a qualified professional about your own health and financial situation. Citations•       American Psychological Association, Stress in America: Paying With Our Health (2015) •       Swaffield, J. (Vancouver Island University / University of Alberta), research on stress and eating; Richardson, T. et al. (University of Southampton), International Journal of Eating Disorders (2015) •       Mullainathan, S. & Shafir, E., Scarcity: Why Having Too Little Means So Much •       Hankins, S., Hoekstra, M. & Skiba, P. M., "The Ticket to Easy Street? The Financial Consequences of Winning the Lottery," Review of Economics and Statistics (2011) •       Federal Reserve community development research, "The Benefits Cliff, Explained" (fedcommunities.org) •       Hendricks, G., The Big Leap •       Ashraf, N., Karlan, D. & Yin, W., commitment savings study, Quarterly Journal of Economics (2006); Thaler, R. & Benartzi, S., Save More Tomorrow (2004) •       Gjertson, L., "Emergency Saving and Household Hardship," Journal of Family and Economic Issues (2016); Ruberton, P., Gladstone, J. & Lyubomirsky, S., Emotion (2016) •       Ameriks, J., Caplin, A. & Leahy, J., "Wealth Accumulation and the Propensity to Plan," Quarterly Journal of Economics (2003) •       Buffett, W., Berkshire Hathaway shareholder meetings (2020, 2022) and 2013 shareholder letter •       Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, financial well-being framework (consumerfinance.gov) •       Mitchell, J., Mueller, A. et al., group CBT for compulsive buying, Journal of Clinical Psychiatry (2008) •       Gollwitzer, P. & Sheeran, P., implementation intentions meta-analysis (2006) •       Soman, D. & Cheema, A., earmarking study, Journal of Marketing Research (2011) •       Hershfield, H. et al., "Increasing Saving Behavior Through Age-Progressed Renderings of the Future Self," Journal of Marketing Research (2011) •       HUD Housing Counseling (hud.gov); IRS VITA free tax help; 211.org •       AAA gas price data, September 2026 Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  3. Oct 8

    You've Got Another Think Coming

    Send us Fan Mail Did you know the saying is actually "you've got another think coming," not "another thing"? I didn't either, until I heard one of my Maesters, Ryan Holiday, explain it, and it blew my mind. It really just means think again, and this week I'm talking off the cuff about why that little phrase points right back to what we talk about here all the time: our thoughts. I share how my Liberal Studies degree turned out to be a gift I didn't know I was getting, what employers say they value more than any college major, why AI is a tool and not the it, and how a habit like worrying can quietly turn into something we call our identity ("I'm just a worrier"). I also bring it back to project management, sales, and even dating, to show how every "no" is one more rung on the ladder. So the next time a thought shows up like it owns the place, maybe give yourself another think. Come hang out with me, my friend. Quote of the Week If any man is able to convince me and show me that I do not think or act right, I will gladly change; for I seek the truth, by which no man was ever injured. But he is injured who abides in his error and ignorance. — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, Book 6.21 Citations ·      Holiday, R., YouTube short on "another think coming" Holiday, R., The Daily Stoic; The Obstacle Is the Way; Ego Is the Enemy; Stillness Is the Key ·      Association of American Colleges & Universities & Hart Research Associates, It Takes More Than a Major: Employer Priorities for College Learning and Student Success (2013) ·      Finley, A., How College Contributes to Workforce Success: Employer Views on What Matters Most (AAC&U, 2021) ·      Jobs, S., Stanford University Commencement Address (2005) ·      Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, Book 6.21 (G. Long, Trans.) ·      Perlman, M., "And Another Think," Columbia Journalism Review (2008) Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  4. Oct 1

    The Healthy Soul Maester: Socrates

    Send us Fan Mail This week I'm going waaay back, 2,400 years to ancient Athens, to hang out with one of the fathers of Western philosophy and, in my book, the original life coach: Socrates. I share a quick bio of this fascinating Maester, from his days walking barefoot on ice as a soldier to calling himself a "midwife of ideas." Then we dig into his idea of a healthy soul. My hope is that you walk away seeing that the body and the soul are on the same team, and that you are worth caring for, inside and out. Quote of the Week "You, my friend, — a citizen of the great and mighty and wise city of Athens, — are you not ashamed of heaping up the greatest amount of money and honour and reputation, and caring so little about wisdom and truth and the greatest improvement of the soul, which you never regard or heed at all? … For I do nothing but go about persuading you all, old and young alike, not to take thought for your persons or your properties, but first and chiefly to care about the greatest improvement of the soul. I tell you that virtue is not given by money, but that from virtue comes money and every other good of man, public as well as private." — Socrates, in Plato's Apology (translated by Benjamin Jowett) Citations: Plato, Apology, trans. Benjamin Jowett, in The Dialogues of Plato (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1871), 20e–23b (the Oracle at Delphi) and 29d–30b (quote of the week)Plato, Charmides, trans. Benjamin Jowett, in The Dialogues of Plato (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1871), 155e–157c (the headache cure and treating the whole person)Plato, Republic, Book IV, trans. Benjamin Jowett, in The Dialogues of Plato (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1871), 427e–444e (the four virtues, the three-part soul, and justice as inner harmony)Plato, Phaedrus, trans. Benjamin Jowett, in The Dialogues of Plato (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1871), 279b–c (Socrates' closing prayer)Plato, Symposium, trans. Benjamin Jowett, in The Dialogues of Plato (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1871), 220a–b (barefoot on the ice at Potidaea)Plato, Theaetetus, trans. Benjamin Jowett, in The Dialogues of Plato (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1871), 149a–151d (Socrates as "midwife" of ideas)Xenophon, Memorabilia, trans. E. C. Marchant, Loeb Classical Library (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1923), 1.2.4 (care of the body), 1.3.5–6 (moderate eating and hunger as sauce), and 3.12 (Epigenes)Xenophon, Symposium, trans. O. J. Todd, Loeb Classical Library (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1922), 2.17–19 (Socrates dancing for exercise)Xenophon, Apology of Socrates, trans. O. J. Todd, Loeb Classical Library (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1922), 14 (Xenophon's version of the Oracle story)Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  5. Sep 24

    Practice Being a Super Ager

    Send us Fan Mail Hi my dears! This week I'm diving into one of my favorite topics: how to strive to have a great and long life. These are the amazing folks in their 80s and beyond whose memory is as sharp as someone 20 or 30 years younger. I share what researchers at Northwestern University, Massachusetts General Hospital, and beyond have discovered about how super agers keep their brains young, and I break it down into three simple strategies you might try: challenge your brain, move your body, and get your rest. We talk about Type 2 fun (the kind that's miserable in the moment but amazing looking back), why learning to quilt might do more for your memory than easy puzzles, how walking can actually grow your brain's memory center, and why sleep is when your brain takes out the trash. And yes, I bring back the Blue Zones too! But first, I had to share my latest library jackpot: the Libby app! If you have a library card, you may have free access to hundreds of digital magazines, audiobooks, and e-books right from your tablet. I also share a little about my walks in the woods and by the bay, a story from my husband about why "it's not only about fun," and how a bedtime routine helped my kids sleep.  Quote of the Week "Stress + rest = growth. This equation holds true regardless of what it is that you are trying to grow." — Brad Stulberg & Steve Magness, Peak Performance Citations •     Rogalski, E., Mesulam, M. et al. (research from the SuperAging Program, Mesulam Center for Cognitive Neurology and Alzheimer's Disease, Northwestern University); Harrison, T. et al., Superior memory and higher cortical volumes in unusually successful cognitive aging (J. of the International Neuropsychological Society, 2012); Cook, A. et al., Rates of cortical atrophy in adults 80 years and older with superior vs average episodic memory (JAMA, 2017); Cook Maher, A. et al., Psychological well-being in elderly adults with extraordinary episodic memory (PLOS ONE, 2017) •     Barrett, L. F., "How to Become a 'Superager'" (The New York Times, 2016); Sun, F., Stepanovic, M., Andreano, J., Barrett, L. F., Touroutoglou, A. & Dickerson, B., Youthful brains in older adults (Journal of Neuroscience, 2016), Massachusetts General Hospital •     Park, D. et al., The Impact of Sustained Engagement on Cognitive Function in Older Adults: The Synapse Project (Psychological Science, 2014), University of Texas at Dallas •     Buettner, D., The Blue Zones: Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who've Lived the Longest; bluezones.com •     Erickson, K. et al., Exercise training increases size of hippocampus and improves memory (PNAS, 2011), University of Pittsburgh •     Watson, S., Weeks, B., ... & Beck, B., High-Intensity Resistance and Impact Training Improves Bone Mineral Density and Physical Function in Postmenopausal Women: The LIFTMOR Randomized Controlled Trial (Journal of Bone and Mineral Research, 2018), Griffith University •     Nedeltcheva, A. et al., Insufficient sleep undermines dietary efforts to reduce adiposity (Annals of Internal Medicine, 2010) •     Tasali, E. et al., Effect of Sleep Extension on Objectively Assessed Energy Intake Among Adults With Overweight in Real-life Settings (JAMA Internal Medicine, 2022), University of Chicago •     Nedergaard, M. (research on the glymphatic system, University of Rochester); Xie, L. et al., Sleep drives metabolite clearance from the adult brain (Science, 2013) •     Stulberg, B. & Magness, S., Peak Performance: Elevate Your Game, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive with the New Science of Success •     Libby app by OverDrive (libbyapp.com) Disclaimer I'm not a doctor. This episode is for information and inspiration only. Before starting a new health or exercise routine, especially heavy lifting, or if you have sleep concerns, please check in with your healthcare provider. Connect with Fi Website: projectweightloss.org  |  Instagram: @fina.projectweightloss In This Episode •     The Libby app: using your free library card for ebooks, audiobooks, and 550+ digital magazines like Magnolia, Better Homes & Gardens, Country Living, and Time •     What is a super ager? Northwestern University's 25-year SuperAging program, slower brain shrinkage, a thicker anterior cingulate cortex, and strong social connections •     Strategy 1, Challenge: the Fun Scale (Type 1, 2, and 3 fun), Lisa Feldman Barrett and Bradford Dickerson's research on doing hard things, and Denise Park's Synapse Project (quilting and digital photography vs. easy, familiar activities) •     Strategy 2, Movement: Dan Buettner's Blue Zones and "moving naturally," Kirk Erickson's walking study showing about 2% hippocampus growth, and the LIFTMOR trial on heavy strength training and bone density in postmenopausal women •     Strategy 3, Sleep: how short sleep shifts weight loss from fat to muscle, Esra Tasali's finding that extra sleep led to about 270 fewer calories a day, and Maiken Nedergaard's glymphatic system (the brain's "rinse cycle") •     Bringing it together: why challenge, movement, and sleep feed each other, plus one small strategy to try this week Researchers & Experts Featured •     Northwestern University SuperAging Program (Emily Rogalski, M. Marsel Mesulam, and team) •     Lisa Feldman Barrett, neuroscientist, Northeastern University •     Bradford Dickerson, Massachusetts General Hospital •     Denise Park, University of Texas at Dallas (The Synapse Project) •     Dan Buettner, Blue Zones •     Kirk Erickson, University of Pittsburgh •     Belinda Beck, Griffith University (LIFTMOR trial) •     Esra Tasali, University of Chicago •     Maiken Nedergaard, University of Rochester •     Brad Stulberg & Steve Magness, authors of Peak Performance •     Joanna & Chip Gaines, Magnolia (mentioned) Related Episodes •     Blue Zones episode   •     Sleep episode  Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  6. Sep 10

    5 Truths to Lift us Up

    Send us Fan Mail Hey friends, welcome! What if the weight we're really carrying isn't on our bodies at all? I walk through five things I've watched show up again and again in every real transformation I've witnessed — in my own life, with my coaching clients, and on the teams, I led over 31 years in public service — honesty, acceptance, commitment, humility, and love. And how each one helps you set down whatever's heavy right now, whether that's a habit, a relationship, a job, or anything else.  Quote of the Week “Do you want to be right more than you want to know the truth? It's the truth that set me free. Acceptance, peace, and less attachment to a world of suffering are all effects of doing The Work. They're not the goals. Do The Work for the love of freedom, for the love of truth.” — Byron Katie Citations•       Hayes, S.C., Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life: The New Acceptance and Commitment Therapy; ACT-for-weight research reviewed in Effectiveness of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy on Weight, Eating Behaviours and Psychological Outcomes: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis, Eating and Weight Disorders (2023) •       Ferrari, J.R., Groh, D.R., Rulka, G., Jason, L.A. & Davis, M.I., Coming to Terms With Reality: Predictors of Self-Deception Within Substance Abuse Recovery, Addictive Disorders & Their Treatment (2008) •       Ayres, I., Carrots and Sticks: Unlock the Power of Incentives to Get Things Done; Milkman, K., How to Change: The Science of Getting from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be; commitment-making research reviewed in The Effect of Commitment-Making on Weight Loss and Behaviour Change in Adults with Obesity/Overweight, BMC Public Health (2019) •       Collins, J., Good to Great (Level 5 Leadership); Chandler, J.A. et al., A Meta-Analysis of Humble Leadership: Reviewing Individual, Team, and Organizational Outcomes of Leader Humility, The Leadership Quarterly (2023) •       Waldinger, R., The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness; Harvard Study of Adult Development (adultdevelopmentstudy.org) Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

  7. Sep 3

    Eyes on Your Plate, Eyes on Your Lane

    Send us Fan Mail This week I want to talk about something I've been sitting with: eyes on your plate, eyes on your lane.  I was actually writing these notes when I found out Dolly Parton had passed away, and it sent me into a whole reflection on boundaries — how easy it is to want to fix people, to give unsolicited advice about their food, their choices, their life, even when we mean well.  I'm sharing what almost thirty years in leadership, addiction training, and life coaching have taught me about staying in your own lane, what real support looks like when someone you love is struggling with serious addiction, and why doing the wellness work for yourself is the most powerful thing you can offer someone else. If you've ever gotten advice nobody asked for — or caught yourself giving it — this episode is for you.   Citations ●     Dolly Parton tribute reference — NPR, "Dolly Parton, one of country music's most singular performers, has died at age 80" (Aug. 25, 2026) — https://www.npr.org/2026/08/25/nx-s1-3650175/dolly-parton-obituary   ●     Additional source — The Washington Post, "Dolly Parton, country music singer and cultural icon, dies at 80" (Aug. 25, 2026) — https://www.washingtonpost.com/obituaries/2026/08/25/dolly-parton-country-music-singer-cultural-icon-dies-80/   ●     Film references mentioned: Steel Magnolias (1989) and 9 to 5 (1980)   ●     Weight stigma & unsolicited comments about food or weight — Rebecca M. Puhl, PhD (UConn Rudd Center for Food Policy and Health), "Weight Stigma and Barriers to Effective Obesity Care," Gastroenterology Clinics of North America (2023) — https://uconnruddcenter.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/2909/2023/05/2023-Puhl-Gastroeneterol-Clin-N-Am.pdf   ●     Supporting research — Levinson, J. A., et al., "A Systematic Review of Weight Stigma and Disordered Eating Cognitions and Behaviors," Body Image (2024) — https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11180546/   ●     Psychological reactance (why unsolicited advice can backfire) — Brehm, J. W., A Theory of Psychological Reactance, New York: Academic Press (1966) — https://search.worldcat.org/title/A-theory-of-psychological-reactance/oclc/565301131   ●     Self-determination theory / autonomy and lasting behavior change — Ng, J. Y. Y., Ntoumanis, N., Thøgersen-Ntoumani, C., Deci, E. L., Ryan, R. M., Duda, J. L., & Williams, G. C., "Self-Determination Theory Applied to Health Contexts: A Meta-Analysis," Perspectives on Psychological Science (2012) — https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1745691612447309   ●     Closing vignette ("the two monks and the river") — traditionally titled "Muddy Road," attributed to Zen teachers Tanzan and Ekido, retold in Paul Reps & Nyogen Senzaki, Zen Flesh, Zen Bones: A Collection of Zen and Pre-Zen Writings (1957) — https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/488121-14-muddy-road-tanzan-and-ekido-were-once-traveling-together Let’s go, let’s get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

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Your best life is just one project away. The Project Weight Loss Podcast is where you will learn the tools and skills to change what is weighing you down, lose weight and above all, improve your quality of life. This reinvention of your life could have a tremendous ripple effect in all you do and everyone you touch. To learn more and work with us visit https://projectweightloss.org.