How to Be a Person

Giuliano Grimaudo (@jewleeahno)

A podcast for curious people who like real conversations. The How to Be a Person podcast is built around sitting down with someone and seeing where the conversation goes. No scripts, no real structure… just genuine curiosity. We get into things like identity, relationships, beliefs, personal growth, and whatever else comes up when you actually let a conversation unfold instead of forcing it somewhere. This show came from years of having unexpected, deep conversations with strangers… the kind that stick with you and make you see things a little differently after. It’s not about giving you a bunch of advice or telling you how to live. It’s more about exposing you to different ways of thinking, so you can take what fits and leave what doesn’t. If you enjoy long-form conversations that make you think, question things, and maybe see the world a little differently… you’ll probably like this show :) -Giuliano Grimaudo

  1. Aug 21

    Why Helping Other People Might Be the Secret to Success | Larry Boyd

    Why might helping other people be one of the best things you can do for your own success? In this episode of How to Be a Person, Giuliano Grimaudo sits down with Larry Boyd to talk about his remarkable life and the philosophy that has followed him through every chapter: help people whenever you can, because you never know how that impact might come back around. Larry grew up in a tiny Texas community without running water or an indoor bathroom. His parents couldn’t read or write, his family had very little money, and college hardly seemed like an obvious part of his future. Then football changed everything. Larry shares how the sport eventually brought him to Arizona State University, where relationships with coaches, teammates, mentors, and fraternity brothers helped transform the direction of his life. From there, his story took him through professional football, working with at-risk kids, the North Dakota oil fields, building a group home with his wife, and eventually starting a successful family food business. Through all of it, one pattern kept appearing: people helped Larry when he needed it, and Larry did the same for others. Sometimes those relationships came back around years later in ways he never could have predicted. This conversation explores success, poverty, hard work, mentorship, family, resilience, money, and why looking out for other people might actually make your own life better too. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.instagram.com/kravinsfoodtruck/ How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Person-Gems-Living/dp/B0H155R7JL/ Business funding: https://funding.howtobeaperson.co Life insurance: ⁠https://life.howtobeaperson.co Peaceful Profits: https://author.howtobeaperson.co Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b Please note: Links may be affiliated and may pay the creator a commission.

  2. Aug 17

    If AI Can Do Your Job, What Makes You Valuable? | Mickey Fitch-Collins, Phd

    What happens to work when AI can do more of the things humans have always been paid to do? And if your job can eventually be done by AI or a robot, where does your value as a person actually come from? In this episode of How to Be a Person, Giuliano Grimaudo sits down with Mickey Fitch-Collins, PhD, a Human Skills Facilitator at Learnit, to explore the future of work, artificial intelligence, automation, and the uniquely human skills that may become even more important as technology advances. The conversation begins with a question that seems simple: What do you do? For most people, that question immediately becomes a question about work. But Mickey points out that a job is only one part of a person. She's also a mom, partner, reader, cook, bass fisherman, and plenty of other things that don't fit neatly onto a résumé. That leads into a larger conversation about work-life balance and whether "balance" is even the right goal. Mickey and Giuliano discuss work-life integration, remote work, and how the pandemic challenged assumptions about where, when, and how work needs to happen. From there, the conversation turns toward AI and the enormous changes it could bring to the workplace. As artificial intelligence and robotics become capable of handling more administrative, operational, and even physical work, what happens to the people currently doing those jobs? Mickey and Giuliano explore both sides of that question, including the very real uncertainty people feel about AI replacing jobs, but also the opportunities that could emerge if technology frees humans from work that consumes enormous amounts of time and energy. Maybe the skills that matter most in the future will be the things that are much harder to automate: creativity, relationships, empathy, communication, critical thinking, decision-making, and our ability to solve meaningful problems together. Which begs the question: If technology eventually allows people to spend significantly less of their lives working simply to survive, what would they actually do with the time? For people who have spent decades defining themselves by their careers, that possibility can feel threatening. But it could also create an opportunity to reconsider what work is for, what makes a life meaningful, and what humans can contribute when productivity is no longer the only measure of value. Because if AI can do your job, the more interesting question may be what it could never replace about you. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.learnit.com/mickey How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Life insurance: ⁠https://life.howtobeaperson.co Peaceful Profits: https://author.howtobeaperson.co Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b

  3. Aug 3

    Can Curiosity Heal Political Division? | David Deighton

    Can curiosity heal political division? This conversation explores why the answer may have less to do with politics itself and more to do with our willingness to genuinely listen to one another. Artist David Deighton has spent years inviting complete strangers to have thoughtful political conversations, not to change their minds, but to better understand how they see the world. David is the creator of Triptych Dialogue, an ongoing art experiment designed to bridge societal divides by redefining how we talk to one another in an age of digital echo chambers. What begins as a conversation about his work quickly becomes a much broader exploration of curiosity, human connection, and why meaningful conversations have become so rare. Along the way, Giuliano and David explore whether a podcast can itself be a form of art, why talking to strangers often feels easier than talking to the people closest to us, and how curiosity creates opportunities that judgment never can. They discuss why genuine listening is becoming a lost skill, how online environments shape the way we communicate, and why the people we disagree with are often far more similar to us than we'd like to believe. The conversation also reflects on Giuliano's years driving Uber and Lyft, where thousands of conversations with strangers fundamentally changed the way he sees humanity. Rather than confirming the common belief that people are selfish or hostile, those experiences convinced him that most people are decent, thoughtful, and simply looking for someone willing to hear them. David shares how his own artistic journey led him to similar conclusions after inviting hundreds of strangers to discuss one of society's most polarizing subjects without debating, persuading, or trying to "win." Instead of offering easy solutions to political polarization, this episode asks a deeper question. What if the problem isn't that we've become too different, but that we've stopped being curious about one another? Through stories, unexpected insights, and plenty of philosophical detours, this conversation explores what becomes possible when we replace certainty with curiosity and arguments with genuine human connection. Whether you're fascinated by psychology, communication, politics, art, or simply understanding people better, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on how small conversations can have a surprisingly lasting impact. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.triptychdialogue.com/ How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Person-Gems-Living/dp/B0H155R7JL/ Peaceful Profits: https://author.howtobeaperson.co Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b

  4. Jul 24

    Are We Rewarding the Wrong Things as a Society? | Adam Zeidman

    In a world driven by algorithms, outrage, and endless scrolling, what if we've accidentally built systems that reward attention instead of connection... and profit instead of people? Adam Z., co-founder of Metacomet Studio and co-director of The Shelf Life podcast, joins Giuliano for a wide-ranging conversation about storytelling, social media, human connection, and the kinds of values that shape the world around us. What begins as a discussion about creating meaningful content quickly grows into something much bigger: a conversation about what happens when society rewards the loudest voices, the quickest reactions, and the easiest clicks over depth, curiosity, and genuine relationships. Together they explore why long-form conversations still matter in an age of bite-sized content, how social media can distort our perception of reality, and why it's becoming more important than ever to remember that every username, comment, and opinion belongs to an actual human being. The conversation also dives into the tension between profit and purpose, the future of work in an AI-driven world, and whether many of the systems we've inherited are overdue for rethinking. Rather than pretending to have all the answers, Giuliano and Adam ask bigger questions about what kind of society we're building, what we actually value, and whether we're rewarding the things that truly lead to happier, healthier lives. Along the way, they discuss the difference between pleasure and joy, why volunteering can be one of the most meaningful things a person can do, how authentic storytelling creates deeper connections than clickbait ever could, and why hope might start much closer to home than we often realize. Adam also shares why his creative studio invests so much of its time helping nonprofits tell their stories, and how using your own skills to serve your community can create an impact that's impossible to measure with views, likes, or followers. This is a conversation about optimism without naivety, disagreement without contempt, and why meaningful change may begin by paying a little more attention to the people right in front of us. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.metacometstudio.com/ How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Person-Gems-Living/dp/B0H155R7JL/ Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b Please note: Links may be affiliated and may pay the creator a commission.

  5. Jul 13

    Can You Forgive Someone Who Doesn't Deserve It? | Katharine Giovanni

    What does it actually mean to forgive someone who doesn't deserve it? And is forgiveness really about them... or about you? In this episode, Katharine Giovanni returns to the podcast to challenge one of the biggest misconceptions about forgiveness. A three-time award-winning bestselling author and Practical Forgiveness Educator, Katharine shares why forgiveness isn't about excusing someone's behavior, forgetting what happened, or inviting them back into your life. Instead, she argues that forgiveness is about reclaiming your own peace by getting them out of your head. The conversation begins with an unexpected discussion about writing books, self-publishing, and why so many people overcomplicate the creative process before shifting into a deep exploration of resentment, emotional healing, and the memories that continue to shape our lives long after the events themselves have passed. Katharine explains her unique approach to forgiveness, including why she encourages people to forgive not only the person involved, but even the places, objects, and memories connected to painful experiences. Together, the conversation explores how repeated thoughts reinforce emotional patterns, why letting go is rarely an overnight process, and how changing your relationship with a memory can change the way you experience the present. The discussion also ventures into unexpected territory, including the connection between forgiveness and money, why so many people unconsciously return to familiar emotional patterns, and how our most difficult experiences often become our greatest teachers. Along the way, Giuliano and Katharine explore questions about human nature, whether people are truly doing the best they can with the tools they have, and how shifting perspective can transform even life's hardest moments. Toward the end of the conversation, they dive into bigger philosophical questions about why we're here, whether our struggles serve a larger purpose, and the possibility that the people who've hurt us may have shaped us in ways we couldn't recognize until much later. Whether you've been carrying resentment for weeks or decades, this conversation offers a different way of thinking about forgiveness. Not as something you do for someone else, but as a path toward greater freedom for yourself. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.katharinegiovanni.com How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Peaceful Profits: https://author.howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b Please note: Links may be affiliated and may pay the creator a commission.

  6. Jul 3

    What If Your Life's Purpose Is Just to Be Here? | Sarah Collins

    What if your life's purpose isn't something you have to find... but something you're already living? After spending years searching for meaning, many people arrive at the same unexpected question: What if the point isn't to discover a purpose, but simply to be fully present in the life that's already unfolding? In this episode, Giuliano sits down with intuitive life coach Sarah Collins for a thoughtful conversation about purpose, happiness, spiritual awakening, identity, and what it actually means to live in the present moment. Drawing from her own journey of spending more than 20 years as a civil engineer before realizing she was searching for fulfillment in all the wrong places, Sarah shares how her perspective on life has completely changed. Together they explore why so many of us feel compelled to chase purpose, success, and certainty, only to discover that fulfillment may have been available all along. They discuss the nature of thoughts, why we become attached to the past and anxious about the future, and how much of our suffering comes from believing we need life to be different than it is. The conversation also dives into topics like spiritual awakening, synchronicities, non-duality, dreams, free will, reincarnation, past life regression, and the stories we tell ourselves about reality. Whether you agree with every idea or not, the discussion invites listeners to become more curious about the assumptions they make every day and whether there might be another way to experience life. Rather than offering easy answers, this episode explores questions that many people quietly wrestle with. What is purpose? Are we creating our own reality? Why do we spend so much of our lives searching for something that may already be here? And what happens when we stop trying to force life to look a certain way and simply experience the moment we're in? If you've ever felt like you've done everything you're "supposed" to do and still sensed there had to be something more, this conversation will likely resonate. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.livingfullywithsarah.com/ How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Peaceful Profits: https://author.howtobeaperson.co Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b Please note: Links may be affiliated and may pay the creator a commission.

  7. Jun 26

    What If You've Been Measuring Success All Wrong? | Roberta Ravella

    What if we've been measuring success all wrong? So many of us spend our lives chasing the things we've been told should make us happy... more money, more achievement, more recognition. But what if the real goal isn't success itself? What if it's building a life you actually enjoy living? In this conversation, Giuliano sits down with Roberta Ravella, speaker, strategist, and founder of The Joy Experiment™, to explore what it really means to pursue joy instead of simply checking society's boxes. Together they unpack why so many people postpone happiness until some future milestone, how expectations shape our experience of life, and why treating life like an experiment can open the door to far more freedom, curiosity, and fulfillment. They discuss the difference between pleasure and joy, why success doesn't have to come at the expense of peace, and how changing a single word ("and" instead of "but") can completely change the way we approach work, relationships, money, and personal growth. The conversation also explores nervous system regulation, why emotionally grounded decisions are often our best decisions, and how many of the beliefs we inherit about work, identity, and happiness deserve to be questioned. Along the way, Giuliano shares why he sees himself as a "scientist of life," why experimenting with different paths has shaped who he is today, and why he believes every person has something that comes naturally to them if they're willing to keep exploring. Roberta explains why curiosity is often conditioned out of us, how many people mistake external achievements for internal fulfillment, and why joy isn't something to earn after decades of hard work. It's something we can begin cultivating today. The conversation also ventures into parenting, expectations, religion, self-acceptance, and the surprising connection between believing people are fundamentally good and creating a more compassionate world. Rather than offering a rigid formula for happiness, this episode invites listeners to question long-held assumptions and consider a different possibility: that a meaningful life isn't built by getting everything "right," but by paying attention to what genuinely brings you alive. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://thejoyexperiment.live/ How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Person-Gems-Living/dp/B0H155R7JL/ Business funding: https://funding.howtobeaperson.co Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b Please note: Links may be affiliated and may pay the creator a commission.

  8. Jun 24

    Why So Many People Struggle to Make Big Life Decisions | Stephanie Peirolo

    Why do some decisions feel impossible to make, even when the answer seems obvious on paper? In this conversation, executive coach, consultant, and author Stephanie Peirolo joins Giuliano for an exploration of why so many people struggle with life's biggest decisions and what it actually means to trust yourself when the stakes are high. Drawing from her book, The Saint and the Drunk: A Guide to Making the Big Decisions In Your Life, Stephanie shares a decision-making framework inspired by centuries-old practices of discernment and adapted for modern life. The conversation explores the tension between logic and intuition, why many people feel disconnected from their own inner knowing, and how cultural expectations, family narratives, and social pressures can make it difficult to hear what they truly want. Along the way, Stephanie reflects on her journey from journalism to business development, executive coaching, and authorship. She also opens up about getting sober at a young age, the role addiction played in helping her avoid difficult emotions, and how those experiences shaped the way she understands personal growth, self-awareness, and decision-making today. Giuliano and Stephanie discuss concepts like the "genius of the body," attraction and aversion, honoring resistance, and the often-overlooked social cost of changing your mind. They explore why so many people stay on paths that no longer fit them, how to distinguish between fear and genuine resistance, and why making a decision doesn't guarantee a particular outcome. This is a conversation about listening more closely to yourself, questioning the stories you've inherited, and recognizing that the decisions that shape your life are rarely as simple as a pros-and-cons list. Whether you're facing a career change, a relationship decision, a major life transition, or simply trying to figure out what comes next, this episode offers a thoughtful perspective on how to navigate uncertainty with greater clarity and intention. Stephanie Peirolo is the author of The Saint and the Drunk, host of The Bad Boss Brief, and writer of the Fierce Grace Substack. Her writing and storytelling have appeared on The Moth, NPR, and The Guardian. And if you enjoy this episode, hit subscribe to drop in on more of these conversations. https://www.speirolo.com/ How to Be a Person: ⁠https://howtobeaperson.co Support the show: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/jewleeahno Get the book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Person-Gems-Living/dp/B0H155R7JL/ Peaceful Profits: https://author.howtobeaperson.co Want to be a guest on How to Be a Person? Send Giuliano Grimaudo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17374246500089236b5dfbb6b Please note: Links may be affiliated and may pay the creator a commission.

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A podcast for curious people who like real conversations. The How to Be a Person podcast is built around sitting down with someone and seeing where the conversation goes. No scripts, no real structure… just genuine curiosity. We get into things like identity, relationships, beliefs, personal growth, and whatever else comes up when you actually let a conversation unfold instead of forcing it somewhere. This show came from years of having unexpected, deep conversations with strangers… the kind that stick with you and make you see things a little differently after. It’s not about giving you a bunch of advice or telling you how to live. It’s more about exposing you to different ways of thinking, so you can take what fits and leave what doesn’t. If you enjoy long-form conversations that make you think, question things, and maybe see the world a little differently… you’ll probably like this show :) -Giuliano Grimaudo