Credits: Music Track Title: Everybody Loves a Catastrophe; Licence type: Standard Licence; Artist: Twirl; Composer: Neal Busby & Huguette Arsenault (SOCAN); Publisher: Lynne Publishing (PRS - CAE#: 541626758) Logo Artist: Avril Orloff; Outsidethelines.ca Transcript: Welcome to the podcast. Risk is the new kale. Each episode I talk with folks who have figured out how to extract opportunity from risk. As someone who has spent a career controlling risk, I want to know those who embrace it. Risk is the new kale. Good for you, hard to take. Say I'm super grateful that the two of you agreed to do this, and I was picturing what you were doing this morning, and I thought Liz, you probably went to your mom and dad's house for brunch and your dad has roped you into doing this to a woman you've never met. What is pretty accurate? He's a board director and investor and a dad. He's had a stellar career as a very successful business person and philanthropist, and if he's all in, he's all in. She is his daughter. She's the youngest Canadian ever to have climbed the highest peak on all 7 continents. And she did all of that by the time she was 26 and then wrote a book and then became a firefighter. This is a family that doesn't do anything by have so welcome to John Rose and Liz Rose. Thank you so much for having us thank you. Oh, it's super to have you. OK so I'm going to start with the really big question first John is parents. What was it like waiting to hear from Liz to know if she had survived summiting Everest? Yeah, that's that's was quite a time. So maybe I'll back up and say we decided that when she was going to go and climb Everest that for those days. Everest is a two month journey where you're you know acclimatizing, et cetera. But when we got down to the three or four days, Susan and I decided to go to Salt Spring Island and be on a boat and just. Be together ourselves and then we got a phone call from a colleague that said, I hope Liz isn't climbing today because someone just died up there. And I know I just kind of thought, how could you do end up making a call like that? But what was interesting at the time? Because we didn't. We didn't have the time to to get too nervous about her venture to Everest because. Three weeks prior was when she had met. A fellow climber in Akagawa and decided and was invited to go to to Everest. But what was really interesting is we had everybody light a candle. To to send her best wishes. Yeah, and it was. It was really interesting. There were just tons of people that really got behind Liz's quest. And then we heard that she had submitted. And then the worry began because it was what happens in the in the descent. Whenever you look at any of the climbing movies, it's not on the way up. It's on the way down. So we worried a lot. Tried not to. You heard from social media, so not directly from me for when I submitted exactly 0 communication. OK, yeah, so yeah. So zero communication from Liz. Heard from social media and then I'll let Liz tell some more of the story. But I happen to be in a colleague's office and I see this huge number come across my iPhone, which I figured it had to be a satellite phone. And I got so emotional that I just press the button and then spoke to Liz and it was. It was just emotionally overwhelming. I'd never had such a flood of emotion hit me like it did, so I think sometimes you you end up having this pentop feeling, and it isn't until you're able to just release that it. You know you think back and say wow that just uh, I'm so glad she's safe. Yeah, I had asked my mountain guy if I could call my parents from the top and they said like they would rather they had a satellite phone there but they're like no. I think it's best to wait until you're safely down to make that phone call so. Anyway, it's got down a couple days later and that was probably the most excited phone call I've ever made, so you had to wait like more than 24 hours to actually let them know what was that. Like for you knowing they were on the other side of the world, worrying about you. Yeah, I just tried to stay focused. It was pretty treacherous coming down, so all my focus was on that and some of my group had stayed an extra night on the mountain at one of our first camps just to rest. But I had asked if I could go with a guide all the way down just to be down as safe as quick as possible so. Yeah, but I didn't realize anyone there was three people that had died while I was up there summitting, but we don't hear any of the news besides what's going on around us, so I was happy not to know any of that until I was down. It's amazing, I think this is one of the things I so admire about the two of you and Liz. Your your focus and your presence of mind in a very, very complex critical situation is something I'm really fascinated by because I'm talking to all these people who make these choices under quite a bit of pressure. And in that moment you know you focused on getting down safely because you're in the long game, you're going to survive this. Dissent and and your parents are in the long game too. In terms of their support, it's amazing. So your mom, Susan, wrote you a beautiful e-mail Liz? Well, you were at one of the camps preparing for the climb up Everest and she said, and this is in your book. Remember, the story is not about the summit. It's an amazing quote. So what does that mean to you? So I think she kind of just meant. Embrace every moment on the whole journey and don't be focused on only making it to the summit. Live in the moment and be present. And like surround yourself. Got to know the people you're with and just don't worry about the outcome and enjoy. Kind of a lesson for life, isn't it? Do you think that you two are high amplitude people and by that I mean like you really experience life. So when you say live in the moment, you're not just like OK yeah, I'm living in the moment but you're like really taking it in. I'd like to do. Well, it was interesting. One of the things that Liz was trying to get me into doing was entering the competition for Amazing Race Canada. Oh, good grief really. Yeah we made it to the final round of interviews we did. Yeah, and wow, yeah we had the one on one interview with him and and then I started to look at some of the things that they were getting them to do and I was thinking oh. You know, but anyway it was we we. We ended up not making it, which at once had gone through it. It was. I mean, it was great to go through, but I think it would have been something that would have been incredibly fun for us to have done. We were heartbroken that we didn't make it, but even the whole experience of making the videos and doing in person interviews and stuff was special. And that's really cool. Memories to look back on. Yeah, totally. You would have eaten ended up eating raw amphibians and stuff to get through. Completely out of our comfort zones, but no, there's some pretty gross stuff on that. That's yeah, great awesome, so I feel like there are other adventures in your future. Do you have a sense of what those are? My bucket list. I would absolutely love to go to space, so I'm trying to get John on board for that one. Nice. Oh dear, I actually had to reconcile because both of my kids said they would sign up for the Mars mission and I had to reconcile that what that meant. His parents might mean that you actually never see them again because. Yeah, I'd be right. I'd be right there with them. My God, I can totally see it all right. So we're going to change gears because I really want to understand if you believe other families and yours have the same kind of conversations around the dinner table. What do you think? That's that's a tough one to answer. We it wasn't though we had these kind of conversations around the dinner table. I think things started back when Liz's twin brothers were about 10 and a friend of mine who had twins said, you know, it's probably good to have a one on one trip with them on a regular basis, so they're not just the twins. And then when Liz. Got to be 10 or 11, she goes well. What about me? And so we started then having our one on one trips and that's really how it got started. And Kilimanjaro, I'll let Liz answer how she roped me into doing that. Umm? I was living in Toronto at the time looking for a job and didn't get my dream job instantly and so I just felt the need to go accomplish something and. I thought of the idea of climbing Kilimanjaro and then I was like, oh, you know, what like my dad might be interested. So I talked to my mom 1st and she's like, oh I don't know. But I mean if anyone can convince him it would probably be you. So yeah, and called you up. I had three weeks notice. I didn't have hiking boots. She gave you three weeks notice. Wow, yeah, nice of me. I think you said something like Liz. Do you have any idea how tall Kilimanjaro is not realizing what the next three years we're going to be about for her? Yeah, yeah, really. Just start out as another adventure and I sort of remember saying, do you think we can do it? And Liz says yes, Dad, we can do it. So I thought, OK, you know she's done the research and the way we went so Liz, I just want to ask you because you have this mantra that all you need is to say yes to your goals. And you really live your life that way. So tell me about following Kilimanjaro, how you actually knew that you were going to be determined about this next phase of your life. Yeah, so I feel like so many people talk about ideas that they want or goals that they want to achieve in life. But until you decide yourself and take the first step of saying yes and doing research making plans. Right, it will then start to become a reality. So after Kilimanjaro, I absolutely loved it. I had no idea that it was going to lead to me climbing anymore mountains at all. I was working on a cruise ship at the time, so it was six months on two months off. So