Grace in Real Life

Deborah Hawkins and Wendy Coop

Welcome to Grace in Real Life, the Christian podcast where co-hosts Deborah Hawkins and Wendy Coop have conversations about faith and life to equip and empower women to live authentically. Join them every week as they discuss how to understand the Bible better and apply its teachings to daily living. Deborah and Wendy bring their unique perspectives to the table. Deborah is a wife, mom, military spouse, and life coach with a passion for helping women understand the Bible and grow closer to God. Wendy, on the other hand, is a veteran, military spouse, podcast producer, pastoral counselor, and Bible teacher who is dedicated to helping women understand the Bible and know what they believe and why. Together, they tackle a range of topics related to the Bible and Christian theology, from the basics of biblical interpretation to how to live out faith in practical ways. Whether you're a seasoned Bible scholar or just starting out on your faith journey, this podcast is for you. So, join them as they explore the Bible and discover how to apply its teachings to their everyday lives. These are conversations on faith and life. Find us online: https://graceinreallife.com You can find them on social: Wendy Coop https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop Deborah http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins (http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins)

  1. 08/11/2023

    Understanding and Managing Anxiety Through Faith and Prayer

    Ever wondered why you feel anxious when there doesn't seem to be a reason for it? Or how to differentiate between everyday 'nerves' and clinical anxiety? This episode takes you on a journey to understand the twists and turns of anxiety, revealing its potential triggers and the value of professional help. We discuss the human physical response to anxiety, using Jesus's experience in the Garden of Gethsemane as a reference point to affirm that fear and anxiety do not equate to inadequacy. Plunge into the teachings of Paul and the wisdom of the Proverbs as they guide us in managing our anxiety. Find solace in the Bible's instructions to lean on God during overwhelming times. Learn how to discern between regular anxious moments and more serious anxiety conditions and harness the power of prayer and hope. We offer practical strategies to cope, including recalling God's past faithfulness and understanding that God is not a variable but a constant in our lives.  The episode concludes with an exploration of the power of gratitude and kindness in redirecting our focus and altering our circumstances. We discuss the importance of biblical memorization and provide specific verses to help remember God's faithfulness. Don't miss the chance to discover how prayer can be your strongest tool in managing anxiety. We wrap up with a heartfelt prayer for those battling anxiety and depression and a review of the episode's key insights. This is your invitation to join us in a conversation that could change your perspective on anxiety and provide you with practical tools for navigating life's anxious moments. In a world as incredibly affluent as the United States you would think that anxiety levels would be the lowest in the world. It really shows you that anxiety and peace have less to do with things than it does with something else.  In this episode, listen for: What is Anxiety Examples of anxiety in the bible5 implications of Be anxious for nothing and Verses to memorize for anxietyHow to apply the trial testWhy prayer is a powerful tool  Resources + Links Join the FREE Community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword  Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/graceinreallifemedia  Visit the show website: https://graceinreallife.com  Deborah Hawkins on Instagram http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins  Wendy Coop on Instagram https://instagram.com/savvybudgetgirl https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop  Inerrancy and Infallibility of Scripture  https://www.logos.com/grow/inerrancy-of-scripture/  Fighting Words by Ellie Holcomb https://amzn.to/3DQuVrW  Anxiety Journal from The Daily Grace Co https://thedailygraceco.com/products/scripture-for-anxiety-journal  Seizing God’s Promises Fearlessly  https://a.co/d/ifdq6Cg Bible Verse Memorization Tattoos https://dwelldifferently.com/ Proverbs 16:3  Matthew 6:34 Isaiah 41:10  Joshua 1:9  1 Peter 5:6-7  Proverbs 12:25  Psalms 77 Philippians 4:6-7

  2. 08/04/2023

    Exploring the Intricacies of Developing a Deeper Relationship with God

    In a world of fast information, it can be hard to determine what is fact and what is opinion. it is important to have a close personal relationship with the Lord so you know what is true and what is not.  In this episode, listen for: How to develop relationshipsThe difference between book knowledge and experience knowledgeTips for developing a relationship with the LordWhy obedience is an important part of our walk with God Ever wondered about the foundation of your relationship with God? How communication and understanding play key roles in nurturing it? Join us, Deborah and Wendy, as we pull back the curtain on the intricate dynamics of developing a deeper connection with God and how this shapes your relationships with others. We dive into the heart of the matter, discussing how relationships are like work, requiring constant nurturing and initiation of contact to flourish. In a world where we tend to rush conversations and relationships, slowing down and paying attention to the nuances of communication is vital. In our second segment, we explore this power of communication in establishing a personal relationship with God. We navigate the delicate balance between book knowledge and personal experience, emphasizing the need for active participation and understanding different population dynamics to empathize better with others' experiences. Towards the end, we roll up our sleeves and examine the essential role of obedience in our relationship with God, and the pitfalls of legalism. We highlight how the core of loving God is intertwined with adhering to His commands. We round off our conversation by discussing the Bible's crucial role in discerning truth, ending on a note of prayer for all our listeners on their journey of deepening their relationship with God. Don't miss this enlightening discussion! Resources + Links Join the FREE Community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword  Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/graceinreallifemedia Visit the show website: https://graceinreallife.com  Deborah Hawkins on Instagram http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins  Wendy Coop on Instagram https://instagram.com/savvybudgetgirl https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop  X: Multiply Your God-Given Potential by John Bevere (husband of Lisa Bevere) https://amzn.to/3KpduCG  Prevenient Grace https://www.gotquestions.org/prevenient-grace.html   The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer https://amzn.to/3Oie7Pp  Verses: John 6:35 John 8:12 John 10:11 John 11:25 John 14:6 John 15:1 Proverbs 27:17  John 14:23 1 John 2:3-6  Psalm 81:10

  3. 07/28/2023

    Breaking Down Legalism: A Journey Toward Grace and Compassion in Faith

    Have you ever felt that you're missing the mark in your spiritual journey because of imposed expectations? Is it possible that legalism is creeping into your faith, muffling the message of the gospel and causing feelings of insignificance? We're stepping into this critical conversation, breaking down the barriers of legalism, and illuminating the path of grace and compassion.  We tackle the heavy issues, such as instances where legalism has been a shield for abusers within the church. By exploring Eileen Gray's heart-wrenching story, publicly denounced by John MacArthur for separating from her abusive husband, we underscore the need for accountability and restitution. We also delve into the shocking revelations of child sex abuse cover-ups in Hillsong Church as exposed in the documentary series The Secrets of Hillsong.  Finally, we shine a light on the transformative power of grace. We share inspiring stories of biblical figures such as Noah, Moses, David, Paul, Mary Magdalene, and the Samaritan woman, reminding you that God's power, not our own, enables us to do amazing things. Our discussion pivots towards the importance of compassion and mercy as powerful antidotes to legalism. Let's walk together in understanding, compassion, and spiritual growth, embracing our individual faith journeys free from the shackles of legalism. In light of the heavy legalistic IBLP movement from the last two weeks. A discussion regarding legalism in today’s church is essential!  If we do not have the wisdom to understand and see legalism we are liable to cause hurt.   “Legalism is any action added to the gospel in order to please God.” - Phylicia Masonheimer in Stop Calling Me Beautiful In this episode, listen for: Stories about Leglaism Tips for recognizing legalismA tip for how we can behave when we are confronted with legalismA wealth of resources for learning how not to be legalistic  Resources + Links Join the FREE Community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword  Deborah Hawkins on Instagram http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins  Wendy Coop on Instagram https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop   Visit the show website: www.graceinreallife.com Verity Podcast - Reconstructing After Legalism https://veritybyphylicia.libsyn.com/114-reconstructing-after-legalism?_ga=2.27405116.1265463938.1688853304-750706461.1686248478  Verity Conference with Phylicia Masonheimer https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/verity-conference/ Every Woman a Theologian by Phylicia Masonheimer https://amzn.to/3NJ1i0b Stop Calling Me Beautiful by Phylicia Masonheimer https://amzn.to/3NJ1n3Z  Legalism in the church https://biblereasons.com/legalism/  It -  by Craig Groeschel https://a.co/d/2PpvWBW Wendy’s Fundraiser for the NYC Marathon (Team for Kids) https://runwithtfk.org/Profile/PublicPage/100737  Matthew 23:23 Ephesians 2:8-10, ESV 1 Corinthians 3:18-23

  4. 05/11/2023

    How to Deal with Doubt as a Christian

    Overcoming doubts in faith is a normal human struggle, and this episode of Theological Thursday dives into the root of the issue and shares personal experiences of doubt and how to deal with them. In this episode, listen for: Wendy’s struggle with faith, doubt, and IslamDeborah’s own faith struggleThe role of doubt in the life of a Christian Here are some must-listen moments from this episode: 00:02:05 - Wendy's Struggle with Doubt 00:08:08 - Deborah's Struggle with Doubt 00:11:42 - The Story of Doubting Thomas 00:18:22 - It's Okay Not to Have All the Answers Are you tired of feeling like doubt is a weakness in your faith? Have you been told to just pray harder or have more faith but still find yourself struggling? Join us in this episode as we explore how embracing doubt as a normal part of our spiritual journey can actually lead to a deeper connection with God. We'll help you anchor your beliefs in Biblical teachings, identify potential roadblocks, and tap into the power of your faith community for support and strength. Say goodbye to ineffective solutions and hello to a stronger, more resilient faith. Resources + Links Join the FREE Community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword  Deborah Hawkins on Instagram http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins  Wendy Coop on Instagram https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop   Visit the show website: https://theologicalthursday.com  Faith in Seasons of Doubt https://wellwateredwomen.com/faith-in-seasons-of-doubt/ 7 Ways to Deal With Doubt https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/7-ways-to-deal-with-doubt/ Verses John 20:24-29 Matthew 28:16-17 Deuteronomy 29:29 1 Corinthians 15:3 Mark 9:24

  5. 05/04/2023

    The Dangers of Cherry-Picking Verses

    Did you know there’s a danger in taking verses out of context? Let’s discuss the problem with cherry-picking verses. Join the FREE Community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/doersoftheword This episode is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links, meaning we'll receive a small commission if you buy something. Verses: Jeremiah 39:16 Jeremiah 44:11, 27 Jeremiah 29:11 Matthew 7 2 Timothy 2:15 2 Timothy 3:16-17 Ephesians 4:11-15 📒 Show Notes  + Resources 📒 Dangers of Cherry-Picking the Scriptures https://testeverything.blog/2019/12/23/the-danger-of-cherry-picking-the-scriptures/ Slave Bible on History.com  https://www.history.com/news/slave-bible-redacted-old-testament Taking Verses Out of Context https://www.gotquestions.org/Scripture-verse-out-of-context.html  Emotionally Healthy Discipleship by Peter Scazzero https://amzn.to/412LM3X Radical Candor by Kim Scott https://amzn.to/3AOCXjz  Hermeneutics - the branch of knowledge that deals with interpretation, especially of the Bible or literary text (Google) How to Interpret the Bible Correctly: Exegesis & Hermeneutics (How to Faith a Life) https://youtu.be/hHR1_stDqn0  NKJV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible ​​https://amzn.to/3APJquw  Every Woman a Theologian book and workbook by Phylicia Masonheimer https://amzn.to/3NyGkTa  Got a question for a future episode? Leave your question here or a confidential prayer request: https://www.speakpipe.com/bibletalk On social: Wendy Coop https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop Deborah http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins

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Welcome to Grace in Real Life, the Christian podcast where co-hosts Deborah Hawkins and Wendy Coop have conversations about faith and life to equip and empower women to live authentically. Join them every week as they discuss how to understand the Bible better and apply its teachings to daily living. Deborah and Wendy bring their unique perspectives to the table. Deborah is a wife, mom, military spouse, and life coach with a passion for helping women understand the Bible and grow closer to God. Wendy, on the other hand, is a veteran, military spouse, podcast producer, pastoral counselor, and Bible teacher who is dedicated to helping women understand the Bible and know what they believe and why. Together, they tackle a range of topics related to the Bible and Christian theology, from the basics of biblical interpretation to how to live out faith in practical ways. Whether you're a seasoned Bible scholar or just starting out on your faith journey, this podcast is for you. So, join them as they explore the Bible and discover how to apply its teachings to their everyday lives. These are conversations on faith and life. Find us online: https://graceinreallife.com You can find them on social: Wendy Coop https://instagram.com/mrswendycoop Deborah http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins (http://www.instagram.com/the_deborahhawkins)