With U Podcast

Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke
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Real conversations about relationships, family, marriage, and the moments that shape us. Each week, hosts David and Tara Van Dyke explore the science, stories, and practical insights that help people build deeper connection and live with greater purpose. David is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and professor. Tara is a childbirth educator, doula, and relationship educator. Married for more than 34 years and parents of 4 children, they combine decades of professional experience with candid conversations to help you strengthen connections, navigate life's transitions, and thrive.

  1. 1d ago

    103. Tricky Topic #2: Birds + Bees (with Jon Gabriele)

    Why do we say “the birds and the bees” when we really mean developing bodies, sex, and reproduction? Maybe our euphemisms are a pretty good clue about just how awkward these conversations can be! In this episode, we’re joined by parent and teacher Jon Gabriele to explore why talking with our kids about sex can feel so tricky, whether avoiding the conversation makes it harder, and whether it’s ever too early to start. Jon shares what he’s learned teaching 4th and 5th graders through the Created by God program and offers practical ways to talk about anatomy, puberty, and sexuality in ways that are honest, positive, and developmentally appropriate. — Jon Gabriele has been teaching professionally at the elementary level for 37 years in both public and private school settings. He has enjoyed teaching the boys’ class of Created by God at Glen Ellyn Bible Church for close to 20 years. He and his wife, Glenna, have been married for 33 years and have five adult children, three daughters-in-law, and one granddaughter. He and Glenna are thankful for the invaluable support of their church family through the years and continue to enjoy serving in children’s ministries in hopes of passing on the blessings their whole family has received. — Created by God Program (per Glen Ellyn Bible Church website, gebible.org) Every year we offer a 5-week biblically-based program designed to communicate to 4-5th graders that they were incredibly created by God for His purposes. Kids will understand what is happening to them physically, emotionally, and sexually as they begin maturing. The topics of human sexuality, values and relationships are approached in a frank, honest and Bible-based manner by qualified teachers.  — Extra Resources: Learning About Sex Series (used in Created By God Class), published by Concordia Publishers God’s Design For Sex Series (4 books) by Stan Jones & Brenna Jones The Story of Me (age 3-5) Before I Was Born (age 5-8) What’s the Big Deal? (age 8-12) Facing the Facts (age 12-16) How and When to Tell Your Kids about Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child’s Sexual Character by Stan Jones & Brenna Jones10 Questions Kids Ask About Sex:  Knowing What to Say, Guiding Them to Wise Decision, Giving Age-Appropriate Answers by Bill and Pam Farrell  God Made All of Me by Justin & Lindsey Holcomb (ages 2-8)  — With You in Marriage: A Family Systems Approach to a Healthy Relationship by David & Tara Van Dyke launches February 2! Please help us get the word out, and preorder the book on Amazon or at IVPress.com If you’d like to bring a marriage workshop to your organization or church, reach out to us on our website, withuprojects.com — Don’t miss next week’s podcast conversation with Dr. Mark Yarhouse on gender & sexual identity. — Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    103. Tricky Topic #2: Birds + Bees (with Jon Gabriele)

  2. Sep 10

    102. Tricky Topic #1: Breakups (with Chris & Alisa Grace)

    Breaking up is hard to do—but sometimes the hardest part is knowing when it’s time to let go. Why do we avoid the conversation we know we need to have? In the first episode of our new Tricky Topics of Conversation series, we’re joined by Chris and Alisa Grace of Biola University’s Center for Marriage and Relationships to talk about the complicated world of breakups. From avoiding hurt feelings and awkward face-to-face conversations to fearing loneliness, we explore why ending a relationship can be so difficult, what it looks like to break up in a healthy way, and how to move forward after the hurt. — Dr. Chris and Alisa Grace met in 1986 when they were seated at the “singles” table at a friend’s wedding. He fell in love with her quick wit, she fell in love with his motorcycle, and (after selling the motorcycle to buy her engagement ring) they were married just a year later. Now, for more than 35 years, the Graces have been writing, teaching, and speaking nationally to thousands of couples, families, and college students on healthy, Christ-centered relationships. Together, they founded and direct the Center for Marriage and Relationships at Biola University, where Chris is also a social psychologist/full professor, and Alisa is an adjunct faculty member. They also co-host the popular podcast,The Art of Relationships. Chris and Alisa live in Southern California where they have three adult children married to fabulous spouses and four absolutely perfect grandchildren. — Extra Resources: The Art of Relationships Podcast with Chris & Alisa GraceFree Download: Healthy vs. Unhealthy RelationshipsBiola University Center for Marriage & Relationships offers free relationship advice appointments, which can be booked by clicking our link here or by calling (562)392-4459.  Dr. Chris Grace’s online course “The Art (and Science) of Relationships” — Now’s the time to preorder our book, With You in Marriage: A Family Systems Guide to a Healthy Relationship. Whether you’re engaged, newly married, celebrating decades together, or working through a challenging season, With You in Marriage provides depth and practical wisdom to strengthen your marriage in every season of your life together.  You can find it on Amazon, or anywhere you buy your books!  — Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    102. Tricky Topic #1: Breakups (with Chris & Alisa Grace)

  3. Sep 3

    101. We're back!!!

    After a year-long break, we are so glad to be back—and there’s a lot to catch up on! In this season-opening episode, we share what’s been happening in our lives, what exciting projects we’ve been working on behind the scenes, and what’s ahead for the With U Podcast. Then get ready for a new series on tricky topics of conversation—the conversations that can be awkward, uncomfortable, or just plain hard to start. We’re glad you’re here for the next chapter! —- We’re happy to announce that our new book, With You in Marriage: A Family Systems Framework for a Healthy Relationship, will launch on February 2, 2027. It’s available for preorder now, so get your copy wherever books are sold! —- produced by Zach Van Dyke

    101. We're back!!!

  4. 12/17/2025 ·  Bonus

    Christmas Reading 2025: The Promise and the Gift

    🎄 A gift for the season from our family to yours. In this special Christmas bonus episode, we invite you to step into the ancient story of hope fulfilled. The Promise and the Gift is a Scripture-based Christmas reading that traces the story of Christ from the dawn of creation, through the words of the prophets, to the quiet wonder of a child born in Bethlehem. We'll walk through the promise of redemption, the long wait, and the moment when the Light entered the darkness—and the darkness could not overcome it. The Messiah has come.And His name is Jesus. --- Scripture included:John 1:1–5, Genesis 3:15, Isaiah 7:14; 9:2, 6–7, Micah 5:2, Luke 1–2, Matthew 1–2, John 3:16–18, John 1:14 --- Music by Clavier Clavier from Pixabay Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Christmas Reading 2025: The Promise and the Gift

  5. 09/18/2025

    LIVE SHOW: Stories of Friendship, Faith & Formation

    Welcome to the 100th episode of With U Podcast! Recorded live in the Czech Republic, this special episode celebrates three decades of friendship, ministry, and intentional Christian living through the European Summer Study Program (ESSP). We sit down with David & Kriste Sveen, Kurt & Meg Tillman, Bill & Sandy Skowera to share stories of showing up, walking alongside others, and seeing God at work in Central and Eastern Europe.Join us for a conversation about legacy, community, and the simple faithfulness that changes lives. — See the With U Podcast website for extra behind-the-scenes photos of our live recording. https://withuprojects.com/withupodcast Check out these Wheaton College programs that provide opportunities for global partnerships and top quality academic engagement. ⁠European Summer Study Program⁠  ⁠European Initiative Partnership⁠ ⁠MA in Marriage and Family Therapy⁠ — Recorded on location in Josiah Venture’s ⁠Malenovice Conference Center⁠ in the Moravian Hills. We are extremely thankful for the audio & video recording help, technology expertise, and most importantly emotional support and encouragement from Draho Poloha and Rob Chestnut. Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    LIVE SHOW: Stories of Friendship, Faith & Formation

  6. 09/11/2025

    [Movie Review] The Ballad of Wallis Island

    In this episode we discuss the storyline and themes from the film The Ballad of Wallis Island. Brought to a windswept Welsh island to play a private gig, folk music duo McGwyer Mortimer revisit their mismatched dreams and reasons for breaking up the band. Through beautiful music, lonely landscapes, and quirky character interactions we explore themes of regret, loss, letting go, and loving again. —- This episode was recorded while away from our studio working on an upcoming writing project that we can’t wait to share. Any reduction in audio quality is due to our temporary equipment. —- Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    [Movie Review] The Ballad of Wallis Island

  7. 09/04/2025

    A Friend for Every Season

    Friendship changes as much as we do over the years. In this episode, we get a little nostalgic about our earliest playmates, our situational sideline pals, and our long-lasting authentic friends. We share the challenges of staying connected in busy times, and highlight why friendship is essential to human thriving. With a few personal stories about baseball and hula hoops, we reflect on our gratefulness for the friendships that have shaped our lives. --- produced by Zach Van Dyke

    A Friend for Every Season

  8. 08/28/2025

    Coworking On the Road

    On many past road trips, we’ve taken time to enjoy the scenery. But this time, we’re working while driving—and bringing you along for the ride. On our way to a secret sabbatical destination to kick off a new writing project, we share our thoughts on what makes a good coworker, how to nurture a healthy work culture, and our hopes for blending our work styles in both our professional and personal partnership. Join us for some on-the-road reflections about collaboration, culture, and the adventure of building something together — Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Coworking On the Road
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Real conversations about relationships, family, marriage, and the moments that shape us. Each week, hosts David and Tara Van Dyke explore the science, stories, and practical insights that help people build deeper connection and live with greater purpose. David is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and professor. Tara is a childbirth educator, doula, and relationship educator. Married for more than 34 years and parents of 4 children, they combine decades of professional experience with candid conversations to help you strengthen connections, navigate life's transitions, and thrive.

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  • Creator
    Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    105
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke
  • Show Website
    With U Podcast

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