The Kiya Davelaar Show

Kiya Davelaar
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Anything and everything goes. On The Kiya Davelaar Show, I look to allow people to tell their stories and have deep impactful conversations. 

  1. 1d ago

    How To Use Discipline And Patience To Your Advantage While Building A Business And A Relationship With Christ

    In this episode of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with Row Gallegos for a powerful conversation about patience, discipline, entrepreneurship, faith, Christianity, and the long-term process of building a meaningful life. We dive into one of the most important lessons in both business and faith: learning to be patient when you aren't seeing the results you want yet. In a world obsessed with instant gratification, overnight success, quick money, and immediate results, it's easy to become frustrated when your hard work doesn't seem to be paying off. Row and I discuss why patience is such an important part of building a successful business and developing a strong relationship with Christ. We talk about what it really takes to build a business over the long term. Entrepreneurship isn't always exciting or glamorous. There are periods where you're working hard without seeing immediate results, making mistakes, questioning your decisions, and wondering whether your efforts are actually going anywhere. We discuss why staying consistent during those seasons can ultimately separate people who succeed from people who give up. Discipline is another major theme throughout this conversation. Motivation comes and goes, but discipline is what allows you to continue moving forward when you don't feel motivated. We discuss creating habits, staying committed to your goals, doing the work when nobody is watching, and understanding that success is usually the result of small actions repeated consistently over a long period of time. We also explore how these same principles apply to developing a relationship with God and growing in Christianity. Faith isn't always about having everything figured out or immediately receiving the answers you're looking for. Sometimes it's about continuing to pray, continuing to seek God, and continuing to trust even when you don't understand what is happening. Row shares his perspective on what it means to be patient with God's timing and why our timeline isn't always the same as God's timeline. We discuss prayer, faith, trusting God's plan, spiritual discipline, perseverance, and what it means to continue pursuing Christ during seasons of uncertainty. The conversation also touches on the relationship between business, purpose, and faith. How do you pursue financial success without allowing money to become your entire purpose? How do you stay disciplined while still trusting God? And how do you know when you need to keep pushing versus when you need to be patient and allow things to develop naturally? We talk about delayed gratification, personal growth, perseverance, consistency, overcoming setbacks, and becoming the type of person capable of handling the success you're asking for. Whether you're trying to start a business, grow an online business, strengthen your relationship with Christ, improve your discipline, develop better habits, or simply become a better version of yourself, this episode offers plenty to think about. Sometimes the hardest part of the journey isn't knowing what to do—it's continuing to do it long enough for the results to appear. If you're interested in entrepreneurship, business growth, Christianity, faith, discipline, patience, self-improvement, personal development, motivation, and trusting God's plan, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Subscribe to The Kiya Davelaar Show for more honest conversations about business, relationships, faith, self-improvement, philosophy, and building a meaningful life. #Entrepreneurship #Christianity #Discipline #Patience #Faith #Business #SelfImprovement #KiyaDavelaar

    How To Use Discipline And Patience To Your Advantage While Building A Business And A Relationship With Christ

  2. Sep 1

    Accept Your Current Reality And Accepting The Love You Receive

    In this episode of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with Row Gallegos for a deeper and more reflective conversation about poetry, love, relationships, accepting reality, spirituality, and the messages we believe God sends us throughout our lives. This episode takes a different direction as we explore the connection between poetry and emotion and why putting our thoughts and feelings into words can be such a powerful way to understand ourselves. We talk about what poetry means to us, why certain words can capture emotions that are difficult to explain, and how writing can become a way to process experiences, relationships, heartbreak, growth, and everything happening inside our minds. A major part of the conversation revolves around love and relationships. We share our thoughts on what love actually means, what makes a relationship meaningful, and why loving someone can sometimes require accepting things that aren't necessarily what we wanted. We discuss vulnerability, expectations, attachment, heartbreak, and the difference between loving someone for who they are versus loving an idea of who we wish they would become. We also dive into the difficult but important concept of accepting reality. Life doesn't always give us the answers, outcomes, or relationships we want. Sometimes growth comes from recognizing that we can't control everything around us. We discuss learning to let go, accepting circumstances we can't change, understanding that certain chapters of our lives may need to end, and finding peace in reality rather than constantly fighting against it. The conversation eventually moves into faith, God, spirituality, and divine messages. We discuss moments in life that can feel like signs from God, how people interpret coincidences and unexpected events, and whether certain experiences may carry a deeper meaning. We explore the idea that God can communicate with us through people, circumstances, relationships, opportunities, and even difficult experiences. We also talk about faith during periods of uncertainty and how difficult experiences can change the way you view God and your purpose. Sometimes the moments that feel like setbacks can ultimately become some of the most important experiences in our lives. Throughout the episode, we explore the intersection of love, faith, philosophy, poetry, relationships, personal growth, and self-discovery. Rather than trying to give definitive answers, this is a conversation about asking better questions and being willing to sit with uncertainty. If you've ever wondered whether a relationship was meant to happen, struggled to accept something you couldn't control, searched for signs from God, experienced heartbreak, or simply spent time questioning what your life is trying to teach you, this episode is for you. This is a slower, more introspective conversation about the things that make us human—the people we love, the experiences that change us, the reality we have to accept, and the possibility that there may be meaning behind the moments we don't always understand. If you enjoy conversations about love, relationships, poetry, Christianity, spirituality, God, philosophy, personal growth, heartbreak, self-improvement, and finding meaning in life, make sure to subscribe to The Kiya Davelaar Show for more honest and thought-provoking conversations. #Poetry #Love #God #Relationships #Spirituality #Christianity #SelfImprovement #KiyaDavelaar

    Accept Your Current Reality And Accepting The Love You Receive

  3. Aug 25

    Starting A Business From Scratch And Hiring A Team

    In this episode of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with Row Gallegos for a conversation about entrepreneurship, starting an online business, building a team, and what it really takes to create a business that can grow beyond just yourself. We break down the process of starting an online business from the ground up, including finding an idea, getting your first customers, creating an offer people actually want, and turning a side hustle into something capable of generating serious income. Row shares his perspective on the realities of entrepreneurship and the mindset required to keep going when you're starting with little experience, limited resources, and no guaranteed results. One of the biggest topics we discuss is how to build a business without trying to do everything yourself. As an online business grows, there eventually comes a point where doing every task yourself becomes the biggest limitation. We talk about hiring a team, delegating responsibilities, finding the right people, creating systems, and learning how to trust other people with important parts of your business. We also discuss the difference between simply owning a business and actually building a business that can operate without you being involved in every single detail. From virtual assistants and contractors to sales, customer service, content creation, and operations, we explore how entrepreneurs can leverage a team to create more freedom and scale their businesses. Another major theme throughout this conversation is time freedom. Many people dream about quitting their 9-to-5, working from anywhere, making money online, and having more control over their lives—but building that lifestyle requires more than motivation. We talk about the work, discipline, consistency, risk, and patience involved in creating an online business that can eventually provide financial and personal freedom. We also dive into the psychology of entrepreneurship, including overcoming fear, taking action before you feel ready, dealing with failure, staying consistent, and avoiding the trap of constantly jumping from one business idea to another. If you've ever wanted to start an online business but keep finding reasons to wait, this conversation offers a realistic look at what it takes to finally get started. Whether you're interested in entrepreneurship, online business, digital marketing, making money online, hiring employees, building a remote team, personal branding, or escaping the traditional 9-to-5 lifestyle, this episode is packed with ideas and lessons you can apply to your own life. This is a conversation about building something of your own, creating leverage, surrounding yourself with the right people, and turning an idea into a real business. If you're an aspiring entrepreneur, content creator, freelancer, or someone who wants to build an online income stream, make sure you listen to the full episode and subscribe to The Kiya Davelaar Show for more conversations about business, self-improvement, relationships, mindset, and creating a life on your own terms. #OnlineBusiness #Entrepreneurship #Business #MakeMoneyOnline #Entrepreneur #SelfImprovement #KiyaDavelaar

    Starting A Business From Scratch And Hiring A Team

  4. Aug 17

    Working Through Anxiousness And Approaching New Relationships After Heartbreak With Row Gallegos

    In this episode of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with Row Gallegos for an honest and deeply relatable conversation about anxiety, relationships, heartbreak, healing, and learning how to open yourself up to love again. We talk about what it actually looks like to work through anxiousness instead of allowing fear, overthinking, and insecurity to control your relationships. Row and I explore the ways anxiety can affect the way we communicate, trust, attach to people, and interpret situations when we care deeply about someone. One of the biggest topics in this conversation is navigating relationships after heartbreak. Getting hurt by someone you loved can completely change the way you approach the next relationship. We discuss the fear of being vulnerable again, comparing new relationships to past relationships, carrying emotional baggage into something new, and the difficulty of trusting someone after your trust has already been broken. How do you know when you're actually ready for a new relationship? How do you stop letting your past dictate your future? And how can you build a healthy relationship without constantly expecting something to go wrong? We dive into the importance of healing before moving forward, learning from past relationships, and becoming comfortable with vulnerability. Rather than avoiding relationships because you're afraid of getting hurt again, this conversation explores how you can use heartbreak as an opportunity to grow, develop emotional resilience, and better understand yourself. We also talk about anxious attachment, overthinking, insecurity, communication, self-worth, boundaries, and the importance of being honest about what you're feeling. Sometimes the biggest obstacle in a relationship isn't the person you're with—it's the unresolved experiences you're bringing into the relationship with you. If you've ever experienced heartbreak, struggled with relationship anxiety, been afraid to love again, or found yourself overthinking every interaction with someone you're dating, this episode is for you. This is a conversation about learning how to move forward without allowing your past to control your future. It's about becoming more self-aware, understanding your emotions, and realizing that getting hurt doesn't mean you have to close yourself off from love. Whether you're currently single, dating again after a breakup, in a new relationship, or simply trying to become a healthier version of yourself, there are lessons in this conversation that can apply to anyone. If you enjoy conversations about relationships, anxiety, heartbreak, emotional growth, self-improvement, dating, mental resilience, and personal development, make sure to subscribe to The Kiya Davelaar Show for more honest conversations about life, relationships, and becoming the best version of yourself. #Relationships #Heartbreak #Anxiety #Dating #SelfImprovement #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #KiyaDavelaar

    Working Through Anxiousness And Approaching New Relationships After Heartbreak With Row Gallegos

  5. Jun 20

    Sprinkler Repair Business Owner: "It Took Me 15 Years To Learn The Secret To Doubling A Business" - Travis Richardson

    In this episode of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with entrepreneur Travis Richardson to discuss the realities of building a successful service business, the power of customer relationships, and the lessons learned from decades of hard work, family, and community. Travis is the owner of Allthrive Irrigation & Backflow, a business that has grown through trust, consistency, and a commitment to serving customers at a high level. We dive into the journey of building a local business from the ground up, the challenges of entrepreneurship, and the strategies that have helped Allthrive continue to grow in an increasingly competitive marketplace. One of the most valuable parts of this conversation is our discussion on client acquisition and marketing. Travis shares how something as simple as postcards has become one of the most effective tools for generating leads, attracting new customers, and creating long-term business growth. We break down why many business owners overcomplicate marketing, the importance of staying visible in your community, and how traditional marketing methods can still produce incredible results in today's digital world. We also discuss the importance of customer service and building genuine relationships with clients. In a world where many businesses focus only on transactions, Travis explains why trust, communication, and reliability are the true foundations of long-term success. Whether you're a business owner, entrepreneur, salesperson, or someone looking to grow a customer base, there are valuable lessons throughout this episode. Beyond business, this conversation shifts into family, sports, and the experiences that shape who we become. Travis shares stories about his son's success in hockey and the dedication, discipline, and sacrifice required to compete at a high level. We discuss youth sports, parenting, competition, and the life lessons that athletics can teach young people. We also talk about his other son's passion for bull riding, hunting, and fishing. From rodeo culture to the outdoors, Travis shares what it's like raising kids with different interests and supporting them as they pursue their own paths. The conversation touches on resilience, personal responsibility, hard work, and the values that are often learned through sports, outdoor activities, and family experiences. One of the most entertaining parts of the episode is reminiscing about stories from growing up with my dad. Travis and I share memories, funny experiences, and life lessons that helped shape our perspectives. These stories offer insight into family, community, and the people who influence us throughout our lives. This episode is a mix of entrepreneurship, marketing, business growth, family values, youth sports, outdoor culture, and personal development. Whether you're interested in starting a business, improving customer retention, learning about effective marketing strategies, or simply hearing authentic conversations about life and success, there's something here for everyone. If you're looking to grow a business, build stronger relationships, improve your mindset, or learn from people who have created success through consistency and hard work, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share the podcast if you enjoy long-form conversations focused on entrepreneurship, self-improvement, business, family, and real-life experiences.

    Sprinkler Repair Business Owner: "It Took Me 15 Years To Learn The Secret To Doubling A Business" - Travis Richardson

  6. Jun 6

    Wenatchee Rapper: "The Doctors Told Me I Would Never Walk Again" - Rich Money

    In episode #30 of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with local rapper and rising artist Rich Money for an in-depth conversation about the realities of building a music career, growing a loyal fan base, and what it actually takes to get your music heard in today's highly competitive industry. Whether you're an aspiring musician, content creator, entrepreneur, or simply a fan of hip-hop culture, this episode is packed with insights about the music business, personal branding, social media growth, and the mindset required to stand out in a crowded market. Rich Money shares his journey as an independent artist, breaking down how he started making music, the challenges he faced early on, and the strategies he used to gain exposure and build a dedicated audience. We discuss the importance of consistency, marketing, networking, and why creating great music is only one piece of the puzzle when it comes to achieving success in the modern music industry. One of the biggest topics in this episode is how artists can get more exposure for their music. We explore social media algorithms, TikTok, YouTube, Instagram, streaming platforms, content creation, and the evolving relationship between music and online attention. Rich explains what works, what doesn't, and why many talented artists struggle to get discovered despite making quality music. We also dive into the controversial topic of "pretty privilege" and whether physical appearance plays a role in success. In an era dominated by social media, image can often be just as important as talent. We discuss how appearance influences perception, opportunities, and audience growth across music, entertainment, and content creation. Another interesting conversation centers around diss tracks and rap beef culture. We discuss why diss tracks have become such a major part of hip-hop history, what makes a great diss record, and whether rap rivalries help or hurt artists in the long run. From classic rap feuds to modern-day conflicts, we explore why competition continues to be one of the driving forces behind the genre. We also tackle one of the most misunderstood topics in music: Auto-Tune. Rich breaks down common misconceptions about Auto-Tune, explaining how it is actually used by artists and producers. We discuss the difference between using technology as a creative tool versus relying on it as a crutch, and why so many listeners misunderstand the role Auto-Tune plays in modern music production. One of the most powerful moments of the episode comes when Rich shares a near-death experience that changed the way he views life. We talk about mortality, perspective, gratitude, and how life-changing moments can completely alter your priorities and ambitions. His story serves as a reminder of how quickly everything can change and why it's important to pursue your goals while you have the opportunity. Throughout the conversation, we explore music, entrepreneurship, mindset, self-belief, personal growth, internet culture, and the challenges of building something meaningful from the ground up. Rich provides an honest look into the highs and lows of pursuing a career in music and the sacrifices required to make it happen. If you're interested in rap music, hip-hop culture, music marketing, artist development, personal branding, entrepreneurship, social media growth, or hearing the real story behind an independent artist's journey, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Make sure to like, subscribe, and share the podcast if you enjoy long-form conversations about music, business, self-improvement, and culture.

    Wenatchee Rapper: "The Doctors Told Me I Would Never Walk Again" - Rich Money

  7. May 31

    NBA Fanatic: "Tim Duncan Was A Far Better Player Then Kobe Bryant" - Tylen Davelaar

    In episode #29 of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with my younger brother, Tylen Davelaar, for a fun, competitive, and surprisingly deep conversation covering basketball, the greatest NBA players of all time, weight loss, childhood memories, and his journey toward building a YouTube career. As lifelong basketball fans, we dive into one of the biggest debates in sports history: Who is the NBA GOAT? From Michael Jordan and LeBron James to Kobe Bryant, Shaquille O'Neal, and Stephen Curry, we break down our top five NBA players of all time and discuss what truly separates the greats from the legends. This episode is packed with basketball talk, NBA debates, hot takes, player rankings, championship arguments, and everything that makes sports conversations so entertaining. Whether you're a die-hard basketball fan or just enjoy hearing people passionately debate the GOAT conversation, there's plenty here for you. Beyond basketball, we take a trip down memory lane and share some hilarious childhood stories growing up together. From funny family moments and sibling rivalries to lessons learned growing up, this episode gives listeners a more personal look into our lives outside the podcast. One of the most inspiring parts of this conversation is Tylen's weight-loss journey. We discuss the mindset required to make a major physical transformation, the habits that helped him lose weight, and the challenges that come with changing your lifestyle. We talk about fitness, discipline, consistency, confidence, and why improving your health can positively impact every area of your life. We also dive into Tylen's ambitions of becoming a successful content creator and YouTuber. In an age where more people than ever are trying to build online businesses and personal brands, we discuss the realities of creating content, growing an audience, dealing with criticism, and staying motivated when results don't come immediately. This episode is a blend of sports, self-improvement, family stories, motivation, and entrepreneurship. Whether you're interested in basketball, weight loss, YouTube growth, mindset development, or simply hearing two brothers have an authentic conversation, this podcast has something for you. We discuss what success means, the importance of pursuing your goals, and why taking risks is often better than living with regret. From NBA legends to life lessons, this conversation covers a little bit of everything. If you enjoy long-form podcasts about sports, self-improvement, fitness, personal growth, entrepreneurship, and real-life conversations, make sure to subscribe and follow the show. Topics Covered:  NBA GOAT Debate  Top 5 NBA Players of All Time  Michael Jordan vs LeBron James  Kobe Bryant's Legacy  Stephen Curry's Impact on Basketball  Childhood Stories & Family Memories  Weight Loss & Fitness Transformation  Self-Improvement & Discipline  Starting a YouTube Channel  Content Creation & Personal Branding  Motivation & Goal Setting  Basketball Culture

    NBA Fanatic: "Tim Duncan Was A Far Better Player Then Kobe Bryant" - Tylen Davelaar

  8. May 23

    Christian Conservative - "LGBTQ & Pride Churches Are Heresy And Insane" - David Leon

    In episode #28 of The Kiya Davelaar Show, I sit down with political strategist David Leon for an intense and wide-ranging conversation on politics, culture, religion, and the growing divide inside the modern conservative movement. This episode dives deep into some of the most controversial and important topics shaping America today, including what it means to be a gay Christian in modern society, the internal conflict happening within conservative politics, the influence of Israel on American foreign policy, the fentanyl epidemic devastating communities across the country, and the power of debate tactics in political discourse. David shares his perspective on navigating faith, identity, and politics simultaneously, opening up about the challenges of balancing Christianity with being openly gay in today’s political and cultural climate. We discuss how religion continues to influence modern politics, why many young people are becoming disillusioned with institutions, and whether Christianity in America is evolving or declining. We also break down the ongoing “conservative civil war” happening online and in real life. From MAGA supporters and America First politics to establishment conservatives and political influencers, this episode explores the fractures developing within the right wing movement. We discuss how political tribes are formed, why ideological purity tests are becoming more common, and what this division could mean for the future of American politics. Another major topic in this episode is Israel’s relationship with the United States and the growing debate around foreign policy in the Middle East. We discuss how global conflicts impact everyday Americans, why conversations surrounding Israel have become increasingly polarized, and how media narratives shape public opinion on international issues. We also touch on discussions surrounding Charlie Kirk and the broader impact political influencers and media personalities have on younger generations entering politics. This conversation explores how social media, outrage culture, and online debate have transformed the way political ideas spread in the digital age. The episode also focuses heavily on the fentanyl epidemic and the devastating effects it’s having across America. We discuss addiction, border policy, drug trafficking, and why so many communities are struggling with rising overdose deaths. David shares his thoughts on how politics, leadership, and culture all play a role in addressing one of the most serious public health crises facing the country today. Toward the end of the conversation, we break down debate tactics, persuasion, and communication strategies used in political discussions. From handling difficult conversations to identifying emotional manipulation and rhetorical traps, this section provides insight into how modern debates are won online and in person. This episode is filled with raw opinions, difficult conversations, and nuanced perspectives on politics, religion, media, and culture. Whether you agree or disagree with the viewpoints discussed, the goal of this podcast is to encourage deeper thinking, open dialogue, and honest conversation without censorship. If you're interested in politics, Christianity, modern conservatism, culture wars, philosophy, debate strategy, or understanding the deeper issues shaping America today, this is an episode you won’t want to miss. Make sure to like, subscribe, and share the podcast if you enjoy long-form conversations focused on politics, self-improvement, philosophy, current events, and free thinking.

    Christian Conservative - "LGBTQ & Pride Churches Are Heresy And Insane" - David Leon
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Anything and everything goes. On The Kiya Davelaar Show, I look to allow people to tell their stories and have deep impactful conversations. 

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  • Creator
    Kiya Davelaar
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Explicit
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