An Ode to Life's Extraordinary Fuckups

Hayley Elliss
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Failure. We’ve all been there. Yup, it’s normal, inescapable and can be really hard. Yet, it can also be all sorts of beautiful. So, f**k letting it block the wild, messy brilliance of Women from shining like the fire of a thousand suns. It’s time for a culture change to celebrating the messy way we grow. Revel in the delicious wisdom of women who have shifted from being stuck in shame and inaction to rising like a phoenix into a more powerful version of themselves. Dive in, heart first, for some intimate, juicy conversations unravelling these transformations and the wonders it can catalyse.

Episodes

  1. 01/02/2023

    7: How you are hypnotising yourself with where you place attention and what you value? Resource yourself with love, pleasure and play with Sarah Fleetwood

    Welcome to 2023 you beautiful souls.  And what a way to start the year with this beautiful conversation with Sarah Fleetwood. Her journey out of a deeply challenging relationship resonates deeply with me and my own similar journey. I just love how Sarah shares the magnitude of simple shifts and the time that these changes took to deeply root in and support her in changing her inner critic stories.  If you are someone who might be aware of the negative self talk and how it's holding you back, but you aren't really sure where to go now, then listen in. We share the importance of recognising our highest values and if that is what we are actually valuing through the actions in our life? Where can we take responsibility for the creation or magnification of repeating patterns and behaviours.  And my favourite - the magic of resourcing yourself through the things that you love. It's an angle of self love not often talked about, what things bring us joy and pleasure? how can we PLAY more, have more fun, be more in our bodies and in the moment? What does this do for us, other than stress relief? It gives us access to a part of ourselves outside our inner critic, where we are resourced, powerful, loving and THAT space allows us to make new choices.  Listen in, loved ones and let us know what you think on the episode 7 Post @iam.wildly.me and jump on over to visit Sarah and keep an eye out for her 'Glow' program and many more juicy offers she's launching this year @sarahjfleetwood. Big Love x

  2. 12/19/2022

    6: The magical power of Rest and the many gifts it can bring to your life and those around you with Sabrina Oliver

    Recording this was such a blessing for me - a beautiful reminder to create intentional spaces of rest in my day, no matter how busy it is. This particularly resonated with me recording in the midst of the silly season, with Christmas, end of year, birthdays and the brilliance of summer all vying for time and attention.  I invite you to create 5-10mins today, anywhere - when you wake up, while having coffee, sit in the park for lunch, when you hop in the car after work - to just BE, without scrolling, without doing, just to sit (or lay down) with yourself and practice rest and intentionality. Of course if you want longer in this deliciousness, please go for it.  Join myself and Sabrina Oliver as she takes us through some lifechanging health challenges and how with courageous spirit she sought another way to breathe LIFE into herself and her world, through the power of rest and being deeply in tune with herself, her body and her needs. Simple, and so profound. In the past I have found myself overlooking the simple, for the next, the new, the complicated, and yet more and more I have been brought back to where it starts. With myself, and honouring my needs, which often means changing the cultural mindset of 'busy means productive' to 'filling my own cup uplifts myself and the ripples are endless'  Thank you Sabrina for this delicious time, and beautiful wisdom - 'Nature never hurries, and yet everything get's done.' Find this beautiful soul at https://www.instagram.com/salamba.with.sabrina/ or https://facebook.com/salamba.with.sabrina/  Keep an eye out for her magic retreats - can absolutely recommend. See you there!  Big Love x

  3. 11/21/2022

    5: How empowering self-responsibility and the 4 R's of Reformation can support you to create a more joyful life of your choosing with Eleanor Crawford

    What a juicy conversation with Eleanor Crawford. She has so much of her life to share, so much wisdom and spending this time chatting with so filled with grace, nuggets and boundless compassion.  She shares vulnerably and powerfully about some of her biggest challenges and turning points and how it lead into a rediscovery of self, authenticity, creativity and so much more joy. Taking radical self-responsibility for where she was and the life that she had created, doused with compassion for self and a determination to begin to experience life differently and share that with the world has lead to a more joyful life, where she can now create an impact. I so love hearing her talk about her newly coined 4 R's of Reformation. Simple and yet what a way to reset ourselves.  We share about emotions and language as energy and how conscious awareness of this can create tremendous impact. I do mention an experiment that was done some years ago. I had no recollection of date or by who at the time of recording, but if you are interested - check out dr. Masaru Emoto and water consciousness, and hold front of mind that a large percentage of our bodies is water.  Find out more about Eleanor and Manifest on Fire, her manifesting circles and so much more juice - find her on instagram @life.creation.academy. *caution* if you have been touched by child loss, this is mentioned with deep compassion throughout, however we do not go into great depth here. Sending huge love to each of you should you choose to listen or not.* For added content and to be part of the conversation - join my brand new budding online community, 'ExtraOrdinary Women.'  This is for women just like you and me, who are sometimes imperfect and oftentimes brilliant. Come and share your takeaways, what you loved, what you'd like to see unfold, and any women in your communities that you'd love to hear on this show.  Click on the link, https://www.facebook.com/groups/504260558216871 or find connect with my Instagram @iam.wildly.me and click on the link in the bio to be taken there. Look forward to seeing you soon! Enjoy x

  4. 11/06/2022

    4: Cara West on how following our desire, our turn on, and deeply connecting to self can catalyse our life in unexpected and beautiful ways.

    With the greatest pleasure I bring to you this juicy conversation with Contemporary Love Coach, Cara West. She's passionately advocating and supporting women to become their truest selves, create the relationships they dream of with others, and with themselves.  I loooove conversations about desire, pleasure, creativity and a deepening into trust in our bodies and our selves. That's what this is, Cara brings it all with her beauuutiful share about how she began to come alive again, to make choices that served her and her unfoldment (and by an overflowing cup, her family too) and how she began to lean into her desires with abounding curiousity. Deeping and cultivating a deep support for herself in creating space to feel FEELings and develop her body wisdom and inner knowing. Now she has a deep trust in herself, in the support of the universe and is able to follow her desire, her turn on, her creativity to find new openings in her relationship, new possibilities for growth and expansion, and into the creation of a new body of work to support this deepening in others. Head over to her Instagram @hello.carawest for future updates on her new program 'Self Centered' and send her a DM to take advantage of her generous offer to all of you.  I so love the permission Cara highlights for us, to go to where the aliveness is, where your fire is, your heart desires, this is where magic happens. For added content and to be part of the conversation - join my brand new budding online community, 'ExtraOrdinary Women.'  This is for women just like you and me, who are sometimes imperfect and oftentimes brilliant. Come and share your takeaways, what you loved, what you'd like to see unfold, and any women in your communities that you'd love to hear on this show.  Click on the link, https://www.facebook.com/groups/504260558216871 or find connect with my Instagram @iam.wildly.me and click on the link in the bio to be taken there. With love, Hayley

  5. 10/20/2022

    3: Hayley reveals Curiousity, Deeper Knowing and Reframing Failure AND Success as her superpowers to self actualisation.

    Having gone from complete an utter nervous system burnout a few years ago to a thriving empowered women, stepping into her visibility. I am so excited, scare-cited, to be sharing with you how I moved through 3 of the deeply painful experiences of failure over the last few years. Of course there are many more, but these 3 directly led to making the choices that lead me to where I am today.  For added content and to be part of the conversation - join my brand new budding online community, 'ExtraOrdinary Women.'  This is for women just like you and me, who are sometimes imperfect and oftentimes brilliant. Come and share your takeaways, what you loved, what you'd like to see unfold, and any women in your communities that you'd love to hear on this show.  Click on the link, https://www.facebook.com/groups/504260558216871 or find connect with my Instagram @iam.wildly.me and click on the link in the bio to be taken there. Look forward to seeing you soon!  Enjoy x

  6. 10/06/2022

    2: Navigating your inner critic, feeling big feelings, and connecting deeply with your inner body wisdom as a pathway to more conscious aligned living with Kristin Nelson

    Have you ever experienced a time where your head and your heart are in disagreement- where one is telling you one thing, and the other, the opposite? It can be really challenging to know what is truly in alignment with us and what is coming out of fear or old traumas and patterns.  It can be really challenging to believe and understand how living in alignment with yourself, your deeper wisdom and your purpose is for the highest good of yourself, all those in your life and those you are wishing to impact, even when some of the voices around you are telling you otherwise. I so love this conversation I had with Kristin Nelson as we dive into her experience of letting go of a business that she worked so hard to create, not because it wasn't successful, but because she realised that her old story of success looked like no longer aligned with who she was and the life she wanted to create. In this episode we look at some of the challenges that came up in making this choice and some of the ways in which Kristin has cultivated support from herself and her family in ongoing ways. In this honest, relatable conversation about the ways in which we muck up even while knowing better, ignore ourselves when we are bodies are so damn wise and get caught in all the feelings, we discover just how valuable and necessary these experiences are as opportunities for continued practice in deepening the connection and healing with ourselves and our loved ones around us.  To connect with Kristin find her here https://www.wholenesswithkristin.com/ and here https://www.instagram.com/wholenesswithkristin/ To connect with me, follow me on IG @iam.wildly.me and let me know what social media you'd like to see created to share more extraordinary fuckups.

  7. 09/22/2022

    1: Courageously practicing imperfect action as a key to greater clarity, self trust and confidence with Shana Brownell

    I'm super excited to share this first episode with you. Are you someone who has a deep yearning to live a life of purpose, impact, freedom and abundance? Are you also stuck in cycles of overwhelm from taking on too much, only to swing into complete procrastination, avoidance and inaction and then feel frustrated, confused and annoyed at yourself that you just can't seem to get out of your way. If this is you, you are absolutely not alone. For both Shana and I, one of our biggest breakthroughs in our own journey's came from experiences of finally realising that we weren't alone in our struggles, in our experiences of failure, of how the experience of failing or even the fear of failing kept us stuck in shame and unable to move towards our dreams in any real way. At the time we had felt broken and yet, having others share their experiences and realise they echoed our own opened up space and possibility like never before. We weren't broken. We were Human.  When I discovered that she had a similar experience, as did so many other women, I decided I wanted to create a space to share our stories, to bare ourselves powerfully and vulnerably in hope that it might touch others in the way it did me. A space where we can celebrate all our failures as messy, beautiful, essential parts of growth.  Join Shana and I as we dive into one of her biggest experiences of failure, and what that felt like on the inside, the thoughts that we so rarely share or get to see in others. It's always easy in the midst of breakdown to lose hope of living the life you deeply sense is possible for you and so we take a good look at what shifts she made to get from that space to where she is now - An incredible woman, coach and entrepreneur empowered to show up imperfectly, courageously taking action despite the fear, trusting herself that she can cope with whatever the results. To see how she shifted from being terrified to do anything without it being perfect, to witnessing how she can be imperfect and have her brilliance shine all the more, is beautiful. This episode will take you through exactly how she did it, in an easy, relatable way, that will absolutely not add to your to-do list. You may even find yourself taking items off it.   Connect with Shana Brownell here: https://shanabrownell.com/ and https://www.facebook.com/TheRisingLioness/

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Failure. We’ve all been there. Yup, it’s normal, inescapable and can be really hard. Yet, it can also be all sorts of beautiful. So, f**k letting it block the wild, messy brilliance of Women from shining like the fire of a thousand suns. It’s time for a culture change to celebrating the messy way we grow. Revel in the delicious wisdom of women who have shifted from being stuck in shame and inaction to rising like a phoenix into a more powerful version of themselves. Dive in, heart first, for some intimate, juicy conversations unravelling these transformations and the wonders it can catalyse.

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