Leaderful

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Leaderful explores human-centred, systems-conscious approaches to leadership and building high-functioning teams. We focus on the core problems of burnout, disconnection, conflict, misuses of power, unethical leadership and stuckness on teams and within organizations.

  1. 1d ago

    Power, Grief and the Illusion of Control

    In this special live-audience episode of The Leaderful Podcast, Nic Etheridge-Calder sits down with Dr. Amanda Aguilera, lineage holder for The Right Use of Power and author of Shaping Power for Good, for a wide-ranging conversation about how power shapes our relationships, organizations, communities, and systems. Joined by participants from Calgary’s social sector, they explore the six dimensions of power (personal, role, status, collective, systemic, and universal) and what it means to use power with others rather than over them. The conversation examines how socialization and organizational systems shape our beliefs about authority, belonging, agency, and influence, and how leaders can create greater space for participation, disagreement, feedback, and shared power. The group also challenges conventional approaches to leadership development, exploring why self-awareness is not a checklist or personality assessment, but an ongoing practice of self-reflexivity, empathy, accountability, and change. They consider how organizations can move beyond individual leaders “sharing power” by embedding participation and community voice into structures, relationships, and decision-making. The conversation takes an unexpected turn toward grief, exploring the relationship between grief, control, power, and complexity. Together, they consider how tending grief, individually and collectively, can help us let go of the illusion of control and approach power with greater humility, responsibility, and care. In this episode, we explore: The six dimensions of power and how they interact Why personal power shapes how we use every other form of power How systems influence our beliefs, behaviours, and sense of belonging The difference between power over and power with How leaders can create space for agency, disagreement, feedback, and accountability Why meaningful self-awareness requires ongoing practice How organizations can structurally embed client and community voice The relationship between power, grief, control, and complexity How collective grieving and community can transform the way we lead If you’re navigating questions of leadership, power, accountability, or organizational change, this conversation offers a compelling invitation: power isn’t simply something we possess or give away. It’s something we participate in, shape, and practice together. Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development community for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

  2. Sep 11

    Conflict Transformation with Julie Hrdlicka

    In this episode of The Leaderful Podcast, we sit down with Julie Hrdlicka, founder of Conflict Revolution and a transformative mediator, to explore what conflict can teach us about ourselves, our relationships, and the systems we work within.   Drawing on her experience in mediation, facilitation, community development, politics, and education, Julie offers a powerful reframe: conflict is not simply a problem to manage or eliminate. It is often a crisis in human interaction, and an opportunity for greater awareness, connection, growth, and change.   Julie and Jeff explore why individuals and organizations so often avoid conflict, rush toward compromise, or get stuck in artificial harmony. They examine how these patterns can silence disagreement, conceal harm, and ultimately leave people feeling isolated, disempowered, or compelled to leave their workplaces.   This conversation moves beyond traditional conflict-management approaches. Instead, Julie introduces the principles of transformative mediation, which centers agency, self-determination, and the possibility that people can move through conflict without needing to agree. Together, they explore how leaders can create space for honest feedback, build their capacity to tolerate discomfort, and recognize when their attempts to control or resolve conflict may be undermining the people they are trying to support.   They also discuss the importance of understanding our own conflict responses, reconnecting with the body, identifying what matters to us, and shifting from reactive patterns toward more grounded and intentional choices.   In this episode, we explore: Why conflict is a natural part of being human and a potential source of growth How avoidance, forced compromise, and artificial harmony allow conflict to fester Why leaders need to understand their own conflict patterns and nervous-system responses How transformative mediation differs from traditional conflict management Why power, systems, and workplace cultures shape how conflict is experienced How empowerment and recognition shifts can transform difficult interactions Why leaders must learn to tolerate discomfort rather than reactively control conflict How knowing what you care about can help you respond with greater clarity and courage If you’re a leader navigating team tension, difficult relationships, workplace dysfunction, or the pressure to make conflict disappear, this episode offers a compelling alternative: conflict does not have to be a sign that something is broken. When approached with curiosity, self-awareness, and care, it can become a pathway toward stronger relationships, greater agency, and meaningful change.   Learn more about Julie and Conflict Revolution → conflictrevolution.ca   Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development opportunity for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

  3. Sep 1

    Intention and Impact with Chris Downey

    In this episode of The Leaderful Podcast, we sit down with Chris Downey, Vice President of Consulting Services at Achieve Center for Leadership and co-author of You Can Manage, to explore what it really means to lead with intention, curiosity, and accountability. Drawing on more than 25 years of leadership experience, Chris offers a grounded perspective on the gap between how leaders intend to show up and how others actually experience them. He shares how his own leadership journey shifted when he began asking a simple but transformative question: How do I want to be as a leader? This conversation moves beyond generic leadership advice and one-size-fits-all practices. Instead, Jeff and Chris examine how leaders can develop their own leadership philosophy, recognize the influence of systems and workplace cultures, and use self-awareness to make more intentional choices in difficult moments. Together, they unpack the role of curiosity, the importance of acknowledging harm, and why apology and repair can strengthen relationships rather than undermine authority. They also explore how leaders can create environments where people feel safe to make mistakes, speak honestly, and contribute without constantly second-guessing themselves. In this episode, we explore: Why sincere curiosity is essential for healthier relationships and teams How leaders can close the gap between their intentions and their impact Why individual accountability and systemic responsibility must be held together How acknowledging harm and apologizing can repair and strengthen relationships Why leaders should model that mistakes can be addressed rather than hidden How a leadership charter can clarify how you want to show up Why self-care, reflection, and awareness of power are essential to effective leadership If you’re a leader navigating workplace dysfunction, strained relationships, fear of mistakes, or the gap between your intentions and your impact, this episode offers practical tools and a powerful reframe: effective leadership begins by getting clear on who you want to be, then paying attention to how others experience you. Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development opportunity for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

  4. Aug 20

    Power, Participation, and Accountability: How Teams Decide with Nic Etheridge Calder

    In this episode of The Leaderful Podcast, we sit down with Nic Etheridge-Calder to explore what it really takes to make effective decisions as a team - and why so many organizations get stuck trying. Drawing on his experience working with leaders and teams, Nic offers a nuanced perspective on team-based decision-making: not as a choice between individual authority and group consensus, but as a practice that can be intentionally designed around purpose, accountability, inclusion, and context. This conversation moves beyond the assumption that every decision needs either one leader or the entire team. Instead, Jeff and Nic examine the complexity of deciding who decides, how power shapes participation, and why collaboration can sometimes become a substitute for accountability. Together, they unpack how unclear decision-making processes create resistance, backchannel conversations, perfectionism, and organizational stuckness - and how teams can create more adaptive, equitable, and effective ways to move forward. In this episode, we explore: Why team-based decision-making often swings between over-involvement and under-involvement How to clarify who owns a decision and who needs to be involved The difference between information gathering, consultation, and decision-making Why collaboration should support accountability rather than replace it How power dynamics can silence voices and cause people to acquiesce Why “good enough for now” and “safe to try” can lead to better decisions How consent differs from consensus and helps teams avoid perfectionism The value of separating problem framing, input, solutioning, and decision-making How safe-to-fail experiments help teams navigate complexity Why noticing your team’s decision-making patterns is the first step toward change If you’re a leader navigating slow decisions, unclear ownership, power dynamics, or team-wide stuckness, this episode offers practical frameworks and a powerful reframe: you may not have a decision-making problem - you may have a decision-design problem. Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development opportunity for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

  5. Aug 7

    Equity, Power and Systems Change with Vinciane de Pape

    Time-sensitive learning opportunity if you're in the Calgary area - check out these Right Use of Power workshops for professionals, HR teams and leaders. And for more learning opportunities with The Ally Co. and our trusted partners (both virtual and in-person), you can head over to this website. Now on with today's show! We recently had the pleasure of sitting down with Vinciane de Pape for a deeply practical conversation about creating more equitable and inclusive workplaces through systems-focused DEI work. Vinciane is a DEI consultant and leader who spent nearly a decade in the tech industry before pivoting to help organizations build genuinely equitable cultures. In this episode, she joins us in exploring the real challenges leaders face when trying to move beyond performative DEI initiatives toward meaningful, lasting change. Together, we dig into: 👉 Why so many DEI efforts feel performative, checkbox-oriented, or disconnected from real organizational change 👉 How the "DEI industrial complex" created a cottage industry of training solutions that avoid the hard systems-level work 👉 The hidden ways well-intentioned policies (unlimited vacation, open communication norms) can unintentionally harm marginalized employees 👉 How structural issues like DEI being buried in HR departments limit the scope and authority of equity work 👉 The critical role power dynamics play in psychological safety, voice, and whether people feel safe raising concerns 👉 What successful equity work actually requires: time, resources, and leadership buy-in from the top 👉 How middle managers and individual leaders can drive meaningful change within their sphere of influence 👉 Why mentorship and sponsorship aren't the same thing—and how to do both well 👉 The importance of leaders examining their own role in creating cultures where people don't feel safe to voice dissent 👉 Practical strategies for slowing down and creating space for reflection in hustle-driven workplaces This conversation is an honest look at the gap between DEI intentions and impact, especially in organizations where leadership genuinely wants to do better, but systemic barriers, time constraints, and lack of clarity about what real change looks like get in the way. Interested in joining a community of impact-conscious leaders, levelling up their power awareness, communication and leadership skills? Check out The Co. here.

  6. Jun 18

    Building Teams That Actually Work with Daniel Doersken

    We recently had the pleasure of sitting down with Daniel Doerksen for a practical and thought-provoking conversation about management, leadership, and the critical role managers play in creating healthy workplaces. Daniel is the co-author of You Can Manage: A Practical Guide to Becoming the Manager Everyone Wants and a leadership consultant with a deep passion for helping organizations become places where people can thrive. In this episode, we explore why work so often falls short of its potential - and what managers can do to close the gap. Together, we dig into; 👉 Why so many people feel disengaged at work (and why that matters for individuals, teams, and organizations) 👉 The surprising influence managers have on employee wellbeing, engagement, and performance 👉 Why most managers are promoted without training, and the challenges that creates 👉 The five essential practices of effective management: Start with You, Invest in People, Build the Team, Advance the Work, and Strengthen the Organization 👉 How managers can move beyond individual leadership and unlock the power of teams 👉 Why clarity, alignment, and accountability are foundational to healthy team culture 👉 Practical approaches to improving decision-making and reducing organizational bottlenecks 👉 How silos form, and what leaders can do to build stronger cross-functional relationships 👉 The difference between managing performance and enabling performance 👉 Why self-care isn't optional for leaders, and how your wellbeing directly impacts the people around you This conversation is an honest exploration of what it takes to be an effective manager in today's workplaces. Daniel brings together research, real-world experience, and practical tools that managers can immediately apply to build stronger teams, healthier organizations, and more meaningful work experiences. If you're a manager, aspiring leader, or someone responsible for helping teams perform at their best, this episode offers actionable insights, fresh perspectives, and a compelling reminder that great management is a skill that can be learned. Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development community for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

  7. May 21

    How to Design a Meaningful Meeting with Monica Pauls

    We recently had the pleasure of sitting down with Monica Pauls for a deeply practical conversation about designing and facilitating high-impact meetings. Monica is the Chair of the Department of Child Studies and Social Work and an Associate Professor at Mount Royal University. In this episode, she joins us (along with Nic Etheridge Calder) in real-time to workshop an upcoming full-day team meeting, exploring the very real challenges leaders face when trying to create meetings that are engaging, productive, and genuinely meaningful. Together, we dig into; 👉 Why so many team meetings feel overloaded, unfocused, or performative 👉 How unclear purpose creates confusion, disengagement, and “meetings after the meeting.” 👉 The hidden role power dynamics play in participation, decision-making, and silence 👉 How leaders can design meetings that create both efficiency and authentic engagement 👉 The importance of balancing process, pace, and presence in group facilitation 👉 Practical strategies for increasing participation without forcing consensus 👉 Why designing for human connection is just as important as designing for outcomes 👉 How small, intentional shifts can dramatically improve team meetings over time This conversation is an honest behind-the-scenes look at the complexity of leading collaborative spaces - especially in environments where relationships are strong, but underlying tensions or disengagement may still exist beneath the surface. If you lead teams, facilitate meetings, or are trying to create spaces where people feel genuinely included, heard, and invested, this episode offers practical tools, thoughtful reflection, and a powerful reminder that great meetings rarely happen by accident. Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development opportunity for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

  8. May 13

    Decolonizing Leadership and AI with Christian Ortiz

    If you're listening from Calgary, Alberta (before June 18th, 2026) - join us for an afternoon workshop exploring Power, Equity, Bias and AI. In this episode of The Leaderful Podcast, we sit down with Christian Ortiz, an Afro-Indigenous decolonial social scientist, technologist, and founder of Justice AI GPT, the first decolonial AI framework designed to confront systemic bias at its roots. Drawing on decades of experience in digital transformation, systems thinking, and decolonial research, Christian explores how bias operates not just at an individual level, but as part of the invisible operating systems that shape our workplaces, relationships, leadership, and society. This conversation dives into the intersections of power, language, bias, leadership, and AI - and what becomes possible when leaders begin questioning the systems they’ve inherited rather than simply adapting to them. Together, Jeff and Christian unpack how implicit conditioning shapes the way we lead, communicate, and make decisions, and why meaningful organizational change requires more than surface-level diversity initiatives or individual bias training. In this episode, we explore: • Why bias is a systemic issue, not simply an individual problem • The difference between “implicit bias” and “implicit conditioning” • How language functions as power (and how it shapes organizational culture and policy) • Why AI tools can either reinforce systemic harm or help uncover it • How Justice AI GPT helps leaders identify hidden bias in communication, policies, and decision-making • The relationship between power, responsibility, and leadership • Why duality, nuance, and deep listening are essential leadership skills • How leaders can create more human-centred organizations without relying on shame or blame • The role of curiosity, self-awareness, and powerful questions in creating meaningful change If you’re a leader navigating complexity, culture, equity, or organizational change - and you’re curious about how power and bias shape the systems around you - this episode offers a thoughtful, challenging, and deeply human conversation about what it means to lead with greater awareness and responsibility. Learn more about The Co. → a leadership development opportunity for impact-conscious and power-curious leaders.

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Leaderful explores human-centred, systems-conscious approaches to leadership and building high-functioning teams. We focus on the core problems of burnout, disconnection, conflict, misuses of power, unethical leadership and stuckness on teams and within organizations.

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  • Creator
    The Ally Co.
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Explicit
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