Wholistic Wednesdays

Amy Barriga & Shelly Berkowitz

Join Integrated Healing Arts Practitioner's Amy Barriga and Shelly Berkowitz every Wednesday as they dig deep into a New Holistic topic to offer hope, healing and transformation.

  1. 2d ago

    WHERE DID THE YEAR GO?!

    WHERE DID THE YEAR GO?! Why Time Feels Like It’s Flying, Your Brain’s Weird Relationship With the Clock & How to Stop Rushing Through Your Life Wait… HOW is it already November?! 😂🍂 Didn't we just celebrate New Year's? Weren't we just making summer plans? And why does it feel like the older we get, the faster the years fly by? In this episode of Wholistic Wednesdays with Amy & Shelly, we're talking about something almost everyone experiences: that feeling that time is moving faster and life is somehow passing us by. Why did childhood summers feel like they lasted forever, but now an entire month disappears before we even realize it? Why do busy weeks blur together? And why are we so focused on getting everything done that we sometimes forget to actually enjoy the lives we're working so hard to build? Shelly brings the science behind memory, attention, and our perception of time, while Amy explores mindfulness, subconscious patterns, and the importance of being intentional with the moments we're living. ✨ In this episode, we're talking about: Why time seems to speed up as we get older. How routine and repetition affect our memories. Why busy days can blur together. The connection between mental overload and feeling like you're always rushing. Why we spend so much time thinking about yesterday and tomorrow instead of today. Simple ways to create more meaningful moments and feel more present. Plus, we're sharing a Five-Minute Presence Reset to help you step out of autopilot and reconnect with the life happening right in front of you. Because you don't need to make your life bigger to make it feel fuller. Sometimes you just need to slow down enough to notice it. 🎧 Listener question: Do you feel like the years are flying by? What's one moment from this year you want to remember? Why Time Feels Like It’s Flying, Your Brain’s Weird Relationship With the Clock & How to Stop Rushing Through Your Life How is it already November?! Amy and Shelly explore why time seems to move faster as we get older, how memory and routine affect our perception of time, and why constantly rushing through life can leave us feeling like we’re missing the moments that matter. In this episode: ● Why the years seem to fly by ● How routine affects memory and time perception ● The connection between mental overload and feeling rushed ● Why we live in the past and future instead of the present ● Simple ways to slow down and create more meaningful moments Your Homeplay: Make the Moment Count! For the next seven days, choose one ordinary moment each day to experience intentionally. Put your phone down, enjoy your coffee, take a walk, or spend time with someone you love. Ask yourself: ● What did I notice today? ● What moment would I like to remember? ● What can wait until tomorrow? You can’t slow down the clock, but you can become more present for the life you’re living. 💗 Connect with Wholistic Wednesdays: TikTok & Instagram: @Wholistic_Wednesdays
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  2. Oct 28

    Why Did I Walk Into This Room?

    Have you ever walked into a room with a mission, stopped in the middle, and thought… “WHY DID I COME IN HERE?!” 😂 You had a thought. It was important. You were on a roll. And now? Absolutely nothing. Just you standing in the kitchen wondering what your brain was doing five seconds ago. 🤦‍♀️ Welcome to another episode of Wholistic Wednesdays with Amy & Shelly, where we explore the funny, frustrating, and fascinating things our brains do! This week, Amy and Shelly are digging into the mystery of forgotten thoughts, mental clutter, distractions, and why switching from one task to another can make your original mission disappear. Shelly brings the science of memory, attention, and how our brains process information, while Amy explores the subconscious side of mental overload, intuition, and creating space to hear yourself again. We’ll talk about why stress and constant notifications can leave us feeling mentally scattered, why your brain isn’t necessarily failing you, and how small changes can help you feel more focused and present. ✨ In this episode, we explore: Why walking through a doorway can sometimes make you forget what you were doing. How distractions and multitasking affect attention and memory. The connection between stress, mental clutter, and forgetfulness. Why your brain sometimes feels like a junk drawer full of random thoughts. Simple ways to reset your focus and clear some mental space. 🎧 Plus, we’re sharing practical tools you can try when your brain has too many tabs open! Because sometimes you don’t need to try harder to remember everything. You might just need to slow down, reduce the distractions, and give your brain a little breathing room. 💗 Tell us: What’s the funniest or most ridiculous thing you’ve walked into a room to do… and immediately forgotten? ✨ Short Show Notes Why Did I Walk Into This Room? Ever walk into a room and completely forget why you’re there? You’re not alone! 😂 Amy and Shelly explore the science and psychology behind forgotten thoughts, attention, distractions, stress, and mental overload. Discover why your brain sometimes loses track of what you were doing, how constant interruptions affect focus, and simple ways to clear mental clutter and feel more present. Your weekly challenge: For seven days, notice how often you have a “Why did I come in here?” moment. When it happens, pause, take a breath, and retrace your steps instead of immediately getting frustrated with yourself. Sometimes your brain doesn’t need criticism—it needs a little space. 🧠✨ Connect with Wholistic Wednesdays TikTok: @Wholistic_Wednesdays Instagram: @Wholistic_Wednesdays Facebook: Wholistic Wednesdays YouTube: Wholistic Wednesdays Email: WholisticWednesdays@gmail.com

    Why Did I Walk Into This Room?
  3. Oct 21

    🚨🥪 WHO ARE YOU BEFORE LUNCH?! 😂

    One minute you’re a perfectly reasonable human being… and the next, someone asks you one innocent question and suddenly you’re ready to fight the entire world. 😭🤣 Shelly knows the signs with Amy: “Have you eaten?”
Amy: “I’m fine!”
Shelly: “When was the last time you ate?” 👀 And somehow, coffee has entered the conversation as a legitimate food group. ☕😂 In Season 4, Episode 14 of Wholistic Wednesdays, we’re talking about why hunger can change your mood, patience, focus, and the way you respond to literally EVERYTHING. 🧠 The science behind hunger and mood
⚡ Blood sugar, stress, and energy
✨ How to tune into your body before you assume you’re having an emotional crisis
🥪 Simple ways to recognize what you actually need Because sometimes it’s not a life crisis. Sometimes you just need a sandwich. 😂 🎧 Tune in, laugh with us, and tell us in the comments: Are you a completely different person when you’re hungry? What’s your biggest hangry warning sign? 👇 💗 Follow Wholistic Wednesdays for more conversations where science meets spirit! #WholisticWednesdays #AmyAndShelly #Hangry #HungerAndMood #NervousSystem #HolisticWellness #SelfAwareness #MentalWellness #ScienceMeetsSpirit Season 4, Episode 14: Why Does Your Personality Change When You’re Hungry? The Science, Energy & Psychology of Being a Completely Different Person Before Lunch Have you ever been perfectly fine until hunger turns you into someone you barely recognize? 😂 Amy and Shelly explore the connection between hunger, mood, concentration, stress, and the nervous system—and why checking your basic needs can make a difference in how you feel. In this episode: Why hunger can affect your mood and patience How food, hydration, sleep, and stress work together Recognizing your personal hangry warning signs Checking in with your body before reacting Simple ways to reset when you’re running on empty Your weekly challenge: For the next seven days, notice when your mood shifts and ask yourself: Have I eaten? Am I hydrated? Did I sleep? Am I overwhelmed? What do I need right now?Sometimes the most powerful wellness tool isn’t complicated. It’s paying attention to the basics. 💗Connect with us:TikTok & Instagram: @Wholistic_WednesdaysFacebook & YouTube: Wholistic WednesdaysEmail: WholisticWednesdays@gmail.com

    🚨🥪 WHO ARE YOU BEFORE LUNCH?! 😂
  4. Oct 14

    Why Did I Say That?!- When Your Brain Won’t Stop Replaying the Conversation

    Have you ever left a conversation and immediately started replaying EVERYTHING you said? 😂 The comment you made, the joke that might not have landed, the thing you wish you’d said differently… and suddenly you’re having an entire imaginary conversation in the shower three hours later. Welcome to the Overthinking Olympics! 🏆 In this episode of Wholistic Wednesdays, Amy and Shelly explore why our brains get stuck replaying conversations, what psychology and the nervous system have to do with it, and why we sometimes worry so much about what other people think. Shelly brings the science behind social anxiety, memory, and the brain’s tendency to look for potential threats, while Amy explores subconscious patterns, self-trust, and how to stop giving one awkward moment the power to ruin your entire day. We’ll share practical ways to interrupt the replay loop, quiet your inner critic, and give yourself permission to be human—because chances are, everyone else is too busy overthinking their own conversations to analyze yours! 😉 ✨ In this episode, we explore: Why you replay conversations long after they’re over. The difference between reflecting and overthinking. How stress and fear of judgment keep the mental loop going. Ways to interrupt the “Why did I say that?!” spiral. How to practice self-compassion and let awkward moments go. 🎧 Tune in for relatable laughs, a little science, a little soul, and tools to help you stop replaying yesterday’s conversation and get back to living today. Connect with Wholistic Wednesdays: TikTok: @Wholistic_Wednesdays Instagram: @Wholistic_Wednesdays Facebook: Wholistic Wednesdays YouTube: Wholistic Wednesdays 📧 WholisticWednesdays@gmail.com ✨ Show Notes Why Did I Say That?! — When Your Brain Won’t Stop Replaying the Conversation Ever replayed a conversation and wished you could take back that one comment? You’re not alone! Amy and Shelly unpack why we overanalyze social interactions, fear judgment, and get caught in mental replay loops. Discover the science behind overthinking, explore subconscious patterns, and learn simple ways to quiet your inner critic and move forward with more self-compassion. Your weekly challenge: When you catch yourself replaying a conversation, ask: “Is there something useful I can learn from this, or am I just punishing myself for being human?” Take the lesson if there is one—and let the rest go. 💗 Find us: @Wholistic_Wednesdays on TikTok and Instagram, Wholistic Wednesdays on Facebook and YouTube, or email WholisticWednesdays@gmail.com.

    Why Did I Say That?!- When Your Brain Won’t Stop Replaying the Conversation
  5. Oct 7

    Coincidence… or Was That Weird?

    Synchronicity, Déjà Vu & Those Moments That Make You Go “Okay…What Are the Odds?” Have you ever thought about someone you haven’t talked to in YEARS… and suddenly they text you? 👀 Or you keep seeing the same number, hear the exact song you were just thinking about, or walk into a situation that feels way too perfectly timed? Coincidence? Your brain noticing patterns? Synchronicity? Intuition? Or just one of those “Okay…WHAT are the odds?!” moments? 😂✨ In this episode of Wholistic Wednesdays, Amy and Shelly are exploring the fascinating space where science meets spirit—why our brains look for patterns, why certain coincidences feel deeply meaningful, what déjà vu might actually be, and how to tell the difference between intuition and simply wanting something to be a sign. Because maybe not every coincidence is a message…
…but that doesn’t mean it can’t make you pause and pay attention. 👀✨ 🎧 Listen now and tell us: What’s the weirdest coincidence that’s ever happened to you? Coincidence… or Was That Weird? Ever experienced a coincidence so perfectly timed that you had to stop and wonder, “Okay…what are the odds?” This week, Amy and Shelly explore synchronicity, déjà vu, pattern recognition, intuition, and meaningful coincidences—looking at both the scientific and spiritual perspectives. We talk about: 🧠 Why your brain naturally searches for patterns ✨ What synchronicity means👀 Why certain coincidences feel so significant🔮 Intuition vs. wishful thinking🔁 Déjà vu and that strange feeling of “I’ve been here before”💫 Why not everything needs to be a sign🌿 How to use curiosity instead of fear when something feels meaningfulYour homework: Start a Coincidence Journal this week. Write down the strange little moments that catch your attention and ask yourself: “What did this make me notice?”Sometimes the meaning isn’t in the coincidence itself—it’s in what it causes you to notice. ✨ Connect with Wholistic Wednesdays:
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    Coincidence… or Was That Weird?
  6. Sep 30

    What If Your Weird Little Habits Are Actually Telling You Something?

    Why do we knock on wood? Why do we have a favorite mug, a certain bedtime routine, or that one little ritual we have to do before something important? In this fun and fascinating episode, Amy & Shelly explore the psychology behind our everyday rituals, habits, superstitions, comfort objects, and quirky little routines—and what they might reveal about how we create safety, predictability, connection, and even joy. We’ll talk about the difference between a harmless habit and a behavior that starts controlling us, why our brains love rituals, the emotional comfort behind certain routines, and how we can intentionally create rituals that support the life we actually want. And, of course, expect some real talk, laughs, relatable stories, and a few moments where you might catch yourself thinking, “Wait… I do that too!” 😂 ✨ Short Show Notes In this episode, we explore: 🧠 Why the brain loves rituals and routines
🔮 Superstitions and the meaning we attach to them
🧸 Comfort objects and emotional safety
💫 Manifestation and intentional rituals
😂 The weird little things we all do
❤️ When a habit supports us—and when it starts controlling us
🌱 Creating intentional rituals that bring more joy into everyday life Your weird isn’t necessarily something to fix. Sometimes, it’s something to understand. 📩 Contact Amy & Shelly Have a question, story, or topic you’d love us to discuss? Email: [Your podcast email]
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Science Meets Spirit. Real Talk. Real Healing.

    What If Your Weird Little Habits Are Actually Telling You Something?
  7. Sep 23

    Why Am I the One Who Has to Remember Everything?

    🎙️ Season 4 • Episode 9 Why Am I the One Who Has to Remember Everything? The Invisible Mental Load, Decision Fatigue, and What Happens When Your Brain Never Gets to Clock Out Do you ever feel like you’re the human reminder app for everyone around you? 😂 You remember the appointments, the groceries, the birthdays, the bills, the schedules, the things nobody else even knows need to be done—and somehow, you’re still expected to remember one more thing. In this episode of Wholistic Wednesdays, Amy and Shelly dive into the invisible mental load and why carrying a constant stream of responsibilities can leave you feeling overwhelmed, irritable, exhausted, or like your brain simply won’t shut off. We’ll talk about decision fatigue, the pressure to keep everything together, why asking for help can be difficult, and how to recognize when your mind needs a break—not another productivity hack. Shelly brings the physiology and nervous-system perspective, while Amy explores the subconscious patterns, boundaries, and emotional energy behind always feeling like “the one who has to handle it.” Because sometimes the answer isn’t doing more. Sometimes it’s finally saying: “I don’t have to carry all of this by myself.” 💛 📝 Short Show Notes In this episode, we talk about: ✨ The invisible mental load
✨ Why constantly remembering everything is exhausting
✨ Decision fatigue and overwhelm
✨ The pressure to be the one who “handles it”
✨ Why asking for help can feel so uncomfortable
✨ Boundaries and sharing responsibility
✨ Giving your brain permission to clock out 🌈 Your Takeaway Make a list of everything you’re mentally carrying right now. Then ask: What actually belongs to me?
What can I delegate?
What can wait?
And what was never mine to carry in the first place? You don’t have to be everyone’s reminder system. You are allowed to put something down. 💕 💛 Connect With Us 🎙️ Wholistic Wednesdays with Amy & Shelly 📱 TikTok: @Wholistic_Wednesdays
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    Why Am I the One Who Has to Remember Everything?
  8. Sep 16

    You Need More Fun in Your Life

    You Need More Fun in Your Life Why Play Isn’t Just for Kids—and What Happens When You Forget How to Have Fun When was the last time you did something just because it was fun? Not because it was productive. Not because it checked something off your list. Not because it could make you money. Just… because it made you smile. In this episode of Wholistic Wednesdays, Amy and Shelly are talking about something adults often forget to make room for: FUN! 😂 We’re diving into why so many of us become so serious, scheduled, responsible, and productivity-focused that we actually forget what we enjoy. We’ll talk about play, curiosity, creativity, the inner child, and why giving yourself permission to have fun can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. Shelly brings the science behind play, stress, creativity, and connection, while Amy explores the subconscious and energetic side of joy—and what happens when we reconnect with the parts of ourselves that simply want to PLAY. Because maybe you don’t need another goal. Maybe you need a little more JOY. 💛 📝 Short Show Notes In this episode, we talk about: ​Why adults stop playing​The connection between play, stress, and creativity​Why everything doesn’t have to be productive​Reconnecting with curiosity and joy​The inner child and forgotten interests​Why fun can actually feel uncomfortable when you’re used to being “responsible”​How to rediscover what genuinely makes you happy🌈 Holistic Toolbox The 20-Minute Fun Challenge:Choose something that serves absolutely no productive purpose and do it for 20 minutes. No monetizing it. No improving yourself. No checking it off your list. Just PLAY. 💭 Listener Question “I honestly don’t know what I enjoy anymore. How do I figure that out?” 🏡 Homeplay For the next 7 days, give yourself 20 minutes of purposeless fun every day. And notice what happens when you stop asking, “What should I be doing?” and start asking: “What sounds fun?” Takeaway:You don’t have to earn joy. Fun is allowed. 💕 💛 Connect With Us 📱 TikTok: @Wholistic_Wednesdays
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📧 Email: WholisticWednesdays@gmail.com You can also follow Amy on TikTok & Instagram: @amy_Barriga and Shelly: @ShellyBerkowitz. 🎧 Enjoying Wholistic Wednesdays? Follow the podcast, leave us a review, and share this episode with someone who needs a little more FUN in their life! ✨

    You Need More Fun in Your Life

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Join Integrated Healing Arts Practitioner's Amy Barriga and Shelly Berkowitz every Wednesday as they dig deep into a New Holistic topic to offer hope, healing and transformation.