The Un-Edited Project

Shareef J.
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Season 2 - Theme: Uncharted Chapters & Intentional Growth & Healing Hosted by Shareef J, The Unedited Project returns for Season 2 with deeper conversations about uncharted chapters and the intentional work of healing. From revisiting relationships that shaped us, to navigating grief, mental health, family dynamics, and the ever-changing definitions of love, this season leans into what it truly means to grow beyond the stories we thought we’d be living.

  1. Feb 1

    Bonus Episode: A Conversation with my Ex Part 2, The Story That Needed one More Chapter ft. SIM

    Summary In this special bonus episode, Shareef Phillips and his ex, SIM, revisit their relationship, exploring the lingering emotions and unresolved questions from their past. They reflect on their initial connection, the dynamics of their relationship, and the impact of their breakup. Through candid conversations, they discuss personal growth, the importance of emotional clarity, and the possibility of friendship after love. The episode serves as a heartfelt exploration of love, loss, and the lessons learned along the way. Chapters 00:00 The Unfinished Story 03:02 Reflections on Connection 05:37 How We Met: A Journey Begins 08:02 First Date Memories 10:56 Chemistry and Connection 13:46 Emotional and Physical Chemistry 16:29 Unresolved Feelings and Tension 19:22 What We Never Said 23:06 Navigating Family Dynamics in Relationships 28:28 Reflections on Relationship Needs and Communication 34:48 The Role of Therapy in Understanding Relationships 42:29 The Breakup: A Shared Perspective 49:00 Regrets and Lessons Learned from the Breakup 49:55 Growth Through Breakup 52:39 Healing and Reflection 56:27 Lessons Learned from the Past 01:01:25 Possibility of Reconnection 01:06:09 Navigating Friendship After Love 01:10:50 Final Thoughts and Moving Forward Keywords: relationship, breakup, emotional chemistry, personal growth, storytelling, connection, friendship, healing, LGBTQ+

  2. Jan 15

    Episode 8: The Words That Stayed with Shareef J.

    Summary This review finale encapsulates the key themes and insights from each episode of the season, exploring topics such as closure, grief, mental health, family dynamics, love, and healing. Shareef J. reflects on the emotional journeys taken with guests, emphasizing the importance of honest conversations and the complexities of relationships. Each episode is dissected to reveal its significance and the lessons learned, culminating in a powerful reflection on personal growth and the anticipation of future endeavors. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Review Finale 07:49 Exploring Episode One: Closure and Clarity 14:21 Delving into Episode Two: Grief in Real Time 19:22 Navigating Episode Three: Mental Health and Masculinity 24:53 Understanding Episode Four: Family Ties and Boundaries 26: 24 Unpacking Episode 5: Love Beyond Romance 30:28 Becoming in Episode 6: Healing Through Heartbreak and Growth 36:00 Dear Mama: A Conversation 30 Years in the Making

  3. Jan 1

    Episode 7: Dear Mama, A Conversation 30 Years in the Making..

    Summary In this heartfelt conversation, Shareef J and his mother Bernie reflect on their 30-year journey together, exploring themes of love, sacrifice, and identity. They discuss the impact of military life on their family dynamics, the challenges of navigating black motherhood and queerness, and the importance of mutual protection and support. Through candid anecdotes and shared experiences, they highlight the significance of communication, understanding, and unconditional love in their relationship. In this heartfelt conversation, they explore their deep bond, reflecting on their shared experiences, personal growth, and the lessons learned throughout their lives. They discuss the challenges of adulthood, the importance of financial responsibility, and the healing power of their relationship. Bernie shares her aspirations for her legacy, emphasizing the importance of giving and living life to the fullest, while Shareef expresses gratitude for the support and love he has received. Together, they highlight the significance of family, identity, and the journey of becoming oneself. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a 30-Year Journey 02:05 Mommy's Herstory: A Glimpse into Bernadette's Childhood 09:10 The Path to Military Life 14:33 Meeting Dad: A Love Story in the Military 21:46 Reflections on Military Life and Its Impact 26:48 Navigating Change: The Challenges of a Military Childhood 30:03 Black Motherhood and Raising a Black Gay Son 34:02 Understanding Identity and Mannerisms 39:19 The Protective Instinct of a Mother 45:12 The Balance of Protection and Freedom 48:46 Strengths in the Mother-Son Relationship 57:38 Emotional Connections and Understanding 59:49 Money, Adulthood, and Growing Pains 01:12:46 Identity, Purpose, and Becoming Myself 01:18:47 Healing Through Love and Connection 01:22:49 Legacy Questions: Understanding Our Roots 01:31:35 Leaving a Lasting Legacy Keywords: motherhood, military life, black identity, LGBTQ, family dynamics, personal growth, love, sacrifice, parenting, relationships, mother-son relationship, personal growth, financial lessons, identity, legacy, healing, family dynamics, love, support, life lessons

  4. 12/15/2025

    Episode 6: Becoming Again ft. Kayla J.

    In this episode, Shareef J and Kayla J explore themes of healing, growth, and self-discovery through the lens of heartbreak and friendship. They reflect on their personal journeys, the lessons learned from past relationships, and the importance of community and self-love. The conversation emphasizes the significance of recognizing when to let go of unhealthy relationships and the value of friendships that nurture and support personal growth. In this engaging conversation, Shareef and Kayla explore the complexities of navigating relationships, the resilience found in overcoming health challenges, and the importance of empathy in understanding others. They discuss the impact of chronic illness on body image and self-acceptance, the lessons learned in patience and healing, and the vital role of community support. The dialogue also touches on the evolution of self-care practices, the significance of friendship, and the joy found in acceptance. Ultimately, they emphasize the power of duality in life, recognizing that multiple truths can coexist, and share insights on fostering positive interactions in a world that often highlights negativity. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Healing and Growth 02:43 Friendship Foundations: How We Met 12:00 Reflecting on Past Seasons of Life 19:21 Lessons from Heartbreak 25:04 Recognizing When to Let Go 31:26 Finding Yourself in Relationships 39:35 Navigating Relationships and Friendships 40:59 Resilience Through Health Challenges 43:57 The Importance of Empathy 45:24 Understanding Chronic Illness 48:46 Body Image and Self-Acceptance 50:43 Lessons in Patience and Healing 55:56 The Role of Community in Healing 58:06 Self-Care and Unapologetic Living 01:03:17 The Evolution of Friendship 01:09:42 Finding Joy in Acceptance 01:15:01 The Power of Duality in Life 01:18:19 Positive Male Interactions and Healing Keywords: self-discovery, heartbreak, growth, friendship, healing, personal development, self-love, relationships, emotional health, communication, relationships, resilience, empathy, chronic illness, body image, self-acceptance, community, self-care, friendship, joy

  5. 12/01/2025

    Episode 5: Love Beyond Romance Ft. Razzo

    Summary In this episode, Shareef J and Daras aka Razzo, explore the multifaceted nature of love beyond romance, discussing themes of friendship, intimacy, chosen family, and the cultural influences that shape our understanding of love. They share personal stories and insights on how friendships can provide deep emotional connections, the importance of chosen family, and the impact of media on our perceptions of love. The conversation emphasizes the value of being seen for who you truly are and the lessons learned about love in all its forms. Chapters: 00:00 Exploring Love Beyond Romance 02:13 Intimacy Redefined 04:35 Friendship and Being Seen 09:36 The Importance of Chosen Family 14:45 Celebrating Friendships 17:12 The Evolution of Self-Expression through Drag 20:52 The Birth of a Fashion Brand 21:35 Exploring the Depth of Intimacy 25:21 Cultural Influences on Love and Friendship 29:42 The Pressure of Finding 'The One' 34:11 Lessons on Love Beyond Romance Keywords: friendship, intimacy, chosen family, love, romance, community, cultural influences, personal growth, LGBTQ+

  6. 11/15/2025

    Episode 4: Family Ties & Boundaries Ft. Janae(Miz.Proper)

    Summary In this episode, Shareef J. and Janae(Miz.Proper) discuss the complexities of family dynamics, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of having difficult conversations. They reflect on their personal experiences with family expectations, generational patterns, and the journey of self-discovery. The conversation emphasizes the significance of love, open communication, and the ongoing process of breaking unhealthy family traditions to create a more inclusive and understanding family environment. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Family Dynamics 01:55 Good Trouble and Necessary Conversations 05:56 Navigating Family Expectations 09:57 Breaking Generational Patterns 13:59 Setting Boundaries with Family 18:08 The Challenge of Saying No 21:54 Love and Boundaries 25:57 Revisiting Parental Figures 29:59 Creating New Family Traditions 33:53 Advice to Younger Selves 37:59 Final Thoughts on Family Expectations keywords: family dynamics, boundaries, generational patterns, good trouble, family expectations, open communication, self-worth, love, personal growth, mental health

  7. 11/01/2025

    Episode 3: Mental Health & Masculinity ft. Antonio

    In this episode of the Un-edited Project Podcast, Shareef J. and Antonio explore the complex relationship between mental health and masculinity. They discuss the unwritten rules of manhood, the impact of traditional masculinity on emotional expression, and the importance of vulnerability. The conversation delves into personal experiences with mental health challenges, the significance of setting boundaries, and the role of community support. They also share advice for younger generations and highlight role models who promote mental health awareness. keywords: mental health, masculinity, vulnerability, traditional masculinity, emotional intelligence, identity, support systems, boundaries, role models, advice Chapters 00:00 Exploring Mental Health and Masculinity 02:49 Unwritten Rules of Manhood 04:54 The Pressure of Masculine Presentation 07:35 Navigating Emotions and Vulnerability 09:58 The Impact of Upbringing on Mental Health 12:45 Realizations About Mental Health 15:21 The Importance of Boundaries 17:55 Community and Support in Mental Health Conversations 20:53 Navigating Vulnerability and Trust 23:44 The Importance of Seeking Help 25:32 The Reality of Mental Health Conversations 27:14 Role Models in Mental Health 30:24 Advice to Younger Selves 33:22 Closing Thoughts and Reflections

  8. 10/15/2025

    Episode 2: Grief in Real Life ft. Harold Lloyd

    In this episode of 'Grief in Real Time,' Host Shareef Phillips, and special guest, Harold Lloyd, engage in a heartfelt conversation about the complexities of grief, its impact on identity, and the importance of community support. They share personal stories of loss, exploring how grief shapes their lives and relationships. The discussion highlights the often-avoided topic of grief within black communities and emphasizes the need for open dialogue and understanding. Through their experiences, they reflect on the role of time in processing grief and coping with significant dates that remind them of their loved ones. In this heartfelt conversation, Shareef Phillips and Harold Lloyd explore the profound impact of losing loved ones, particularly fathers. They share personal stories of grief, resilience, and the ways they honor their fathers through art and daily life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, the non-linear nature of grief, and the significance of taking time to heal. They also reflect on messages they would send to their departed loved ones, highlighting the enduring connection and love that persists beyond death. keywords: grief, identity, loss, healing, resilience, black community, coping, family, friendship, emotional health, grief, loss, honoring loved ones, resilience, personal growth, emotional healing, storytelling, vulnerability, family, support Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Grief in Real Time08:07 The Impact of Grief on Identity and Relationships24:33 Processing Grief: Personal Experiences and Reflections27:48 Navigating Grief and Responsibility31:42 Heavy Days: Coping with Loss.32:23 The Impact of Time on Grief43:25 Resilience in the Face of Loss51:08 Honoring Our Loved Ones55:16 Embracing the Gift of Voice58:31 Honoring Legacy Through Performance01:01:48 Navigating Grief and Healing01:10:11 Messages to Loved Ones01:11:56 Advice for the Newly Grieving Music Powered by Producer.Ai

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Season 2 - Theme: Uncharted Chapters & Intentional Growth & Healing Hosted by Shareef J, The Unedited Project returns for Season 2 with deeper conversations about uncharted chapters and the intentional work of healing. From revisiting relationships that shaped us, to navigating grief, mental health, family dynamics, and the ever-changing definitions of love, this season leans into what it truly means to grow beyond the stories we thought we’d be living.

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  • Creator
    Shareef J.
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Shareef J.
  • Show Website
    The Un-Edited Project