Eyewitness to Therapy

Cort Curtis
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I am a Gestalt psychologist and therapist. In this podcast, I conduct real-life therapy sessions with individuals who volunteer to experience a taste of Gestalt therapy. The purpose of Gestalt therapy is to transform your experience of living, helping you to clear up the situations and emotions you are currently dealing with.

  1. 4d ago

    Facing A Parent’s Debt And A Hoarded Home

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. A single house becomes a pressure cooker for everything else: grief, money, loyalty, and the old wounds you thought you’d outgrown. I sit down with an anonymous guest for a one-time therapy session and they arrive with one word that says it all: exhaustion. They’re the executor of their mother’s estate, the mortgage is behind, creditors are pushing, and the courts want closure. On top of it, the home is packed with decades of belongings, making cleanup feel impossible and the decision to sell feel like a point of no return. As we slow down, the stress of estate debt and the fear of foreclosure opens into something deeper: a lifetime of craving security. The guest connects today’s panic to growing up poor with an alcoholic parent, learning to read the room for danger, and being forced into caretaker roles long before adulthood. Bitterness makes sense in that context, especially when a parent’s death leaves one more mess to manage. We also name the hidden cost of self-protection. Strong boundaries keep them safe, but the constant expectation of being taken advantage of has narrowed relationships and joy. We explore how intuition can be a gift and how it can be dialed too high, plus what it could look like to judge trust in the present moment instead of living inside a permanent warning signal. If you’ve been carrying family responsibility, financial stress, childhood trauma, or trust issues, listen along and see what lands for you. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  2. Jun 30

    You Can Plan Without Feeding Worry

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. Worry can masquerade as “being prepared,” but what happens when the prep turns into a nonstop mental movie of everything that could go wrong? We sit down with JC for a one-time, real therapy session as she steps into a new missions job building software tools for Bible translation and scripture engagement. The work excites her. The pressure comes from the people side: raising monthly donor support, traveling to an in-person training, and trying to communicate clearly when social cues feel hard to read. JC speaks candidly about being autistic and living with sensory processing challenges. Crowds, loud rooms, strong smells, touch, and unfamiliar environments can overwhelm her focus, and subtle facial expressions can be easy to miss. That uncertainty fuels a deep fear: if she misunderstands someone, she might seem rude, lose trust, or even lose support. We explore how she copes today, including asking for direct verbal feedback, deciding when to educate someone about the autism spectrum, and when a simple smile and a topic change protects the relationship. Then we go straight at the core loop: “I’m worried that I won’t be worried.” Together we separate useful planning from unhelpful anxiety, map the real costs of stress, and test a Gestalt therapy exercise that shifts attention into the body and turns the worry dial down in the moment. If you’ve ever wanted practical anxiety tools that still respect the need to plan, this conversation gives you a clear place to start. Subscribe for more real therapy work, share this with someone who overthinks for a living, and leave a review with one strategy that helps you plan without spiraling. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  3. May 27

    When Your Parents Feel Like Strangers

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. When your parents are physically present but emotionally checked out, it can feel like you’re right back in childhood, waiting to be noticed. We talk with Olivia about the heartbreak of wanting engaged grandparents for her toddler, and the exhaustion of feeling like she has to “babysit” her parents instead of getting support. As the story unfolds, a familiar pattern emerges: conversations that revolve around a favored sibling, a relationship that stays polite but distant, and the gnawing sense of being left on the sidelines. From there, we go deeper than family logistics and into the internal belief those patterns can create: “I don’t matter.” We trace it to a vivid childhood memory and name the emotions underneath it: fear, anxiety, confusion. Then we work with something practical and surprisingly immediate: noticing that this belief is a thought happening now, feeling how it lands in the body, and experimenting with letting it go for a moment. You’ll hear what shifts when the nervous system gets even a small break from negative self-talk. We also explore expectations as a major source of stress in family relationships and parenting. “Should” thinking can turn daily life into a constant fight with reality, especially with a two-year-old and complicated parents. We end with a simple, repeatable tool for emotional regulation and self-awareness: a short sequence of questions you can say out loud when you feel triggered, overwhelmed, or ready to snap. If you’ve searched for help with emotionally unavailable parents, family favoritism, low self-esteem, or letting go of expectations, this one will land. Subscribe for more real conversations, share this with someone who feels unseen, and leave a review to help others find the show. What’s one expectation you’re ready to release today? For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  4. Apr 27

    "Confronting Shadows: A Personal Narrative of Family and Regret"

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  5. Mar 2

    "Guarded Hearts: The Desire for Closeness and Independence"

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  6. 12/27/2024

    Healing Family Wounds: Navigating Estrangement and Emotional Turmoil

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. What are the emotional costs of estrangement, and how do we navigate the murky waters of family dynamics? Join us as Dahlia opens up about her journey through the complex network of sibling relationships and the emotional turmoil that comes with maintaining distance from a volatile family member. With a new job adding to her stress, Dahlia shares the duality of her emotions—cherishing the love within her immediate family while grappling with past traumas and the birth of her nephew stirring up feelings of guilt and a longing for connection. This candid discussion reveals the intricacies of family ties and the difficult choices we often face in pursuit of emotional well-being. In our heartfelt conversation, Dahlia offers her insights on the challenges of interacting with a sister who has a history of impulsive and abusive behavior, further complicated by mental health issues. We explore how she manages the lose-lose situation of wanting a healthier relationship but being met with criticism and unrealistic expectations. Through a recent enlightening meeting, Dahlia gains a fresh perspective on managing anxiety and expectations, learning to embrace the present and move forward with an open mind. Her story is a testament to the power of connection and understanding, and the continual quest for personal growth and peace amidst the complexities of family relationships. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  7. 12/20/2024

    From Worry to Wisdom: A Parenting Insight

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. What happens when worry becomes an unwelcome lifelong companion? Our guest courageously shares their personal journey of battling worry amidst life's joys and challenges, offering a glimpse into their persistent quest for understanding and effective coping mechanisms. By exploring the intricate dance between stress, control, and worry, this episode promises to unveil strategies that could open new pathways to serenity as we age. We also shine a spotlight on the dynamic world of parental worry. Join us as we explore a mother's constant concern for her college-aged daughter, which starkly contrasts with her husband’s more relaxed demeanor. Through their story, we unravel the compulsive nature of worry and its profound psychological and physical impacts, offering listeners insights into managing these overwhelming emotions. Finally, the power of self-awareness and positive affirmations takes center stage in our conversation. Our guest reflects on their therapeutic journey, highlighting the significance of self-talk and the vital role support systems play in alleviating anxiety. With newfound strategies in hand, they leave the session feeling empowered and hopeful for a future less burdened by worry. Tune in to witness the transformative potential of therapy and find inspiration in the shared insights on this path to mental well-being. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

  8. 12/13/2024

    Unveiling Anxiety and the Path to Inner Peace

    Send me a text message to let me know how you feel about this episode. Have you ever held a mirror to the chaos of your past and seen it reflected in your present? Our latest episode offers just such a journey, as our brave guest opens up about a life tinged with anxiety stemming from a childhood shrouded in turbulence and the rigors of military life. We traverse together through personal chronicles of control struggles and the quest for peace amidst the storms of anxiety. Our guest's voice brings to life the burning sensations of a nervous stomach, the heart's palpitations, and the struggle to emerge from the silence that anxiety often imposes. Brace yourself for a candid look at the repercussions of early exposure to substances and the profound panic that can set in, even years later. Our guest recounts an adolescence punctured by a harrowing encounter with marijuana, casting a long shadow over their adult life's decisions. We unpack these experiences, examining the crippling internal dialogues and the ceaseless anticipation of doom that accompany anxiety. It's a raw, revealing session that peels back the layers of coping mechanisms, from abandoning caffeine to addressing the incessant whispers of self-criticism. The episode culminates with glimmers of hope, epitomized by the strength found in mindset shifts. We probe the possibility of shedding the weight of anxious thoughts to embrace the present moment fully. Our guest's narrative serves as a beacon, encouraging listeners to clear away the obstructions to their inner light. Join us as we extend a heartfelt thank you for the shared insights and the mutual recognition of the complex human journey we all navigate. This is not just an account of confronting anxiety; it's a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of embracing one's true self. For tools and techniques on awareness, forgiveness, and movement visit... https://www.wayofawareness.com/

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I am a Gestalt psychologist and therapist. In this podcast, I conduct real-life therapy sessions with individuals who volunteer to experience a taste of Gestalt therapy. The purpose of Gestalt therapy is to transform your experience of living, helping you to clear up the situations and emotions you are currently dealing with.

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  • Creator
    Cort Curtis
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Eyewitness to Therapy
  • Show Website
    Eyewitness to Therapy