In this episode of the Witnessing Christ Podcast, Mike and Molly are joined by Truth in Love Ministry's seminary evangelist interns Charlie, Calvin, and Aaron to discuss Torn, a book by Latter-day Saint author Jeff Strong that examines why so many members are leaving the LDS Church and what their experiences reveal about its culture, teachings, and expectations. After three of his five children left the LDS Church, Strong began asking difficult questions about faith, family, and the pressures facing Latter-day Saints. Drawing on research and personal experiences, he explores the challenges that lead people to distance themselves from the church, including spiritual exhaustion, questions about church history, social issues, and a lack of spiritual nourishment. The team discusses Strong's findings with empathy for the families and individuals experiencing these struggles. They also explore an important question: If the expectations of a religious community are leaving people spiritually exhausted, where can they find genuine rest? In this episode, you'll hear: Why Jeff Strong wrote Torn and what motivated him to investigate why Latter-day Saints leave the church.What Strong's research suggests about religious disaffiliation and the pressures facing LDS members.Why spiritual burnout, perfectionism, and expectations of obedience can create feelings of guilt and inadequacy.How Strong distinguishes between LDS doctrine and church culture—and why that distinction raises important theological questions.What differing reactions to Torn reveal about conversations happening within the LDS community.Why the relationship between prophetic authority, institutional loyalty, and following Jesus deserves careful consideration.How Christians can respond compassionately when LDS friends and family members express doubts or struggles.Why changing religious expectations cannot ultimately provide the rest that sinners need.How the biblical gospel offers something different from continual spiritual progression and self-improvement.Why Christ's perfect obedience and completed sacrifice provide certainty that our own efforts never could.Practical ways to use Torn to begin meaningful, gospel-centered conversations with Latter-day Saints.One of the most striking observations from the book is the feeling that “rest feels like failure.” For many Latter-day Saints, the pressure to continually improve, fulfill responsibilities, and meet religious expectations can become exhausting. Strong recognizes these struggles and encourages a more compassionate and welcoming church culture. But the conversation raises a deeper question: What if the solution to spiritual exhaustion isn't becoming better at meeting expectations, but discovering that Jesus has already met God's expectations for us? The biblical gospel offers a kind of rest that human effort cannot provide. Jesus did not come merely to help us become worthy of God's acceptance. He lived the perfect life we could never live, suffered the punishment our sins deserved, and rose again in victory. Through faith in him, we receive the forgiveness and righteousness that he has already won for us. Our confidence before God does not rest on how much we have improved, how faithfully we have served, or how successfully we have followed religious expectations. It rests entirely on Jesus Christ. For Christians witnessing to Latter-day Saints, Torn provides an opportunity to listen carefully and love people who may be carrying burdens we don't fully understand. Ask your LDS friends what they think about the book. Listen to their experiences. Give them space to express questions or struggles without immediately trying to correct them. And when the opportunity comes, share the beautiful promise of the gospel: Jesus has already done everything necessary for our salvation. Ultimately, the goal of witnessing isn't simply to convince someone to leave the LDS Church. It's to introduce them to the Savior who gives sinners forgiveness, peace, and eternal life as a free gift. We don't need to become worthy enough for Jesus. Jesus has made us worthy through his finished work. Music used in this episode under license. License code: BSIPX0EWJ87RCGZL Share this podcast with your Christian friends and subscribe on your favorite podcasting platform! Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Subscribe to our YouTube channels!