T-Time with Tori Totlis

Tori Totlis
  • 4.8 (240)
  • Golf
  • Updated Weekly

If you are a female golfer, you have landed in the right place. Join Tori and her weekly guests as they chat about all things women’s golf. Host Tori Totlis will bring you everything you need to grow your golf game with tips, strategy, mindset shifts, a place to vent, inspiration and motivation. Along with sharing her own golf experience, we have amazing weekly guests & cohosts that will share their wins, loses, challenges, top tips, and real stories from the golf course. Let’s come together, spread the word, and share our passion because this is women’s golf and its amazing. INSTAGRAM: @tori_totlis FACEBOOK: @tori_totlis TIKTOK: @tori_totlis

  1. 2d ago

    EP190: Golf Etiquette 101 with Alex Anderson (Part 2)

    In Part 2, Tori and Alex dive into the world of tournament golf and all the things no one really teaches you when you first start competing. From scorecards and Golf Genius to rules mishaps and handling nerves, this episode is packed with lessons learned through experience. The conversation covers how tournament golf differs from casual rounds, why playing in uncomfortable situations can actually make you a better golfer, and the importance of knowing the rules while still remembering that golf is supposed to be fun. In This Episode: The biggest differences between casual golf and tournament golfHow to handle first-tee nerves and competitive pressureTournament scoring, Golf Genius, and avoiding scorecard mistakesStories about rule infractions, provisional balls, and learning the hard wayPace of play and staying patient during long tournament roundsProper etiquette when calling rules on fellow competitorsWhy sportsmanship matters, whether you're winning or strugglingLearning to separate your golf score from your self-worthCreating a positive experience for yourself and your playing partnersWatch this episode on YouTube About Alex Anderson Alex Anderson is the founder of Babes Golf, a women's golf community dedicated to creating welcoming spaces for women to learn, play, and connect through the game of golf. Check out Babes Golf and their upcoming events Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Alex Instagram: @alex_babesgolf Instagram: @babesgolf Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP190: Golf Etiquette 101 with Alex Anderson (Part 2)

  2. 4d ago

    EP189: Golf Etiquette 101 with Alex Anderson (Part 1)

    This week, Tori welcomes back Alex Anderson, founder of Babes Golf, to discuss all things golf etiquette. Before diving into the topic, Alex shares exciting updates on Babes Golf's expansion across the country, including recent pop-up events in Cape Cod and New York City, upcoming plans for Chicago, and details from their latest Babes Vacation at PGA West. The conversation then shifts into the unwritten rules of golf and how understanding proper etiquette can make the game more enjoyable for everyone. Tori and Alex cover everything from pace of play and ready golf to respecting other players, caring for the golf course, and navigating common situations that can feel intimidating for newer golfers. This episode serves as a great resource to share with any woman who is just getting into golf. It is a reminder that everyone starts somewhere, and learning the small details of the game can help build confidence and create a better experience on the course. In This Episode: Babes Golf's nationwide growth and community-building effortsHighlights from the recent La Quinta golf getawayPace of play tips and beginner-friendly adviceCommon golf etiquette mistakes and how to avoid themHow to be considerate of your playing partners and the golf coursePrivate club etiquette, tipping, and understanding local golf cultureTune in next week for Part 2, where Tori and Alex will dive into tournament etiquette and share even more stories and lessons from their golf journeys. Watch this episode on YouTube About Alex Anderson Alex Anderson is the founder of Babes Golf, a women's golf community dedicated to creating welcoming spaces for women to learn, play, and connect through the game of golf. Check out Babes Golf and their upcoming events Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Alex Instagram: @alex_babesgolf Instagram: @babesgolf Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP189: Golf Etiquette 101 with Alex Anderson (Part 1)

  3. Jul 8

    EP188: How Many Shots Your Mental Game is Costing You with Kathy Hart Wood

    How much is your mental game really affecting your score? This week, Tori welcomes back Kathy Hart Wood for a conversation about the hidden ways your mindset can impact your performance on the course. From closing the gap between your range game and tournament play to learning how to bounce back after a bad shot, Kathy shares practical strategies that every golfer can start using immediately. Whether you're chasing lower scores or simply looking to enjoy golf more, this episode is packed with simple, actionable mental game tips that can transform the way you play. In This Episode Why your mental game may be costing you more shots than you realizeHow to close the gap between your range game and your course performanceThe four reasons golfers truly miss a shotHow to stop one bad shot from turning into a bad roundBuilding routines that create confidence and consistencyThe importance of letting go and committing to every shotCommon mental game myths that hold golfers backKathy's "18 Proud" mindset for enjoying golf regardless of your scoreAbout Kathy Hart Wood Kathy Hart Wood is the creator of Your Mental Caddy and author of Mastering Your Golf Brain, a golf mental performance coach, and the host of the Think Above Par podcast. She helps golfers build confidence, improve focus, and lower scores through better mental game strategies. Kathy is also a trusted instructor at women's golf events, including the Desert Classic and Dallas Shootout. Watch this Episode on YouTube Links & Additional Resources Kathy Hart Wood: https://kathyhartwood.comTake Kathy's Mental Game QuizLearn more about Your Mental CaddyListen to the Think Above Par podcastDon’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP188: How Many Shots Your Mental Game is Costing You with Kathy Hart Wood

  4. Jul 1

    EP187: Tournament T-Time Series: Best Ball with Phyllis at Stafford

    Tori and Phyllis are back for another installment of the Tournament Series, this time heading to Stafford Country Club in western New York for an RDGA two-person best ball event. Tori had never played the course before, but Phyllis assures her it's one of the best — home to a legendary ladies' invitational and built by white-collar Buffalonians who wanted a hidden gem in the middle of nowhere. The pre-round logistics are chaotic (Phyllis has loans to lock, a jackhammer blocking her street, and exactly 23 minutes to get there), but they make the first tee with seconds to spare. At just 4,515 yards from the yellow tees, Tori goes in expecting birdies all day — and the course promptly humbles her. The short yardage turns out to be a trap: the greens are fast, hard, and nearly impossible to hold, leaving Tori stuck hitting awkward 50-yard shots from the rough all day. Phyllis, meanwhile, keeps chipping and one-putting like clockwork. They finish second in gross and win overall low net — beating a field where the gross winner shot one under on a course that should have played much easier. Along the way, there's a memorable rules moment involving a chalk ball marker (completely legal, but you have to erase it before you putt), and plenty of honest reflection on what the round revealed about both their games heading into the next event. Don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP187: Tournament T-Time Series: Best Ball with Phyllis at Stafford

  5. Jun 24

    EP186: Trying Out This YouTube Golf Thing

    All four episodes of the Creek Cup series are officially live on YouTube — and yes, they dropped out of order (episode four first, naturally). Click the playlist link below to watch them in the right sequence. In this episode of T-Time, Tori and Ashley are joined by Aubrey, the editor behind both the Desert Classic and Creek Cup series, to pull back the curtain on what it actually takes to turn hours of raw golf footage into a four-part series. Aubrey was on the ground at Bandon Dunes for the first time, racking up 20,000 steps a day while wrangling cameras, voice-noting clip numbers, and somehow capturing one of the most unbelievable moments of the trip — April's hole-in-one on a par three playing 155 yards into the wind. Her second career hole-in-one, by the way. And yes, someone ended up in the ocean because of it. The conversation gets into the full production process — from Aubrey's 20-page pre-production document and cast profiling based on Desert Classic footage, to the post-production challenge of meshing everyone's creative vision as a self-described non-golfer. They also talk about what makes YouTube golf such a massive content category, why the Creek Cup format worked so well on camera, and what they'd do differently next time (GoPros in the carts, for starters). If you haven't watched the series yet, head to the playlist link — and if you find them even remotely interesting, share it with your golf crew! Making of The Creek Cup: Bandon Dunes - Playlist The Making of the Desert Classic: 2026 - Playlist Watch this podcast episode on YouTube The Good Vibe Studios is a women-owned and operated creative studio space based in Phoenix, and built for podcasters, photographers, videographers, and entrepreneurs. With 2,000 square feet of creative space and a team that brings serious energy to every project. Follow them at @thegoodvibestudios or visit thegoodvibestudios.com. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP186: Trying Out This YouTube Golf Thing

  6. Jun 18

    EP185: (Part Two) Misses and Fixes, Short Game with Justin Klemballa

    In this second part episode on misses and fixes, Justin and I tackle the most frustrating short-game mistakes that cost golfers strokes: the chunk shot, the fat bunker shot, and the dreaded shank, and we teach you exactly how to fix them. We break down the mechanical flaws and mental triggers behind these misses, and we offer simple cues that help you stop hitting behind the ball and start making crisp, solid contact. Justin also shares his expert advice on wedge fitting, mastering the short putt, and the critical mindset shifts needed to trust your technique under pressure. Whether you're struggling with wedges or fearing the bunker, this conversation provides actionable fixes you can implement immediately. Download a free Misses and Fixes Cheat Sheet for your short game! Plus, don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Watch this episode on YouTube About Justin:Justin Klemballa is the founder of Breaking Bogeys, a golf coaching platform built to help everyday players break through scoring barriers and rediscover their love of the game. With over a decade of experience working with golfers at every level, he spent years as Director of Instruction and Lead Master Instructor at the prestigious Jim McLean Golf Schools, one of the most respected development programs in the world.Recognized by Golf Digest as one of the Top 100 Best Young Teachers in America (one of only two instructors in Arizona to earn this distinction), Justin's coaching goes well beyond mechanics. His methodology blends elite technical systems including the Jim McLean System, Trackman Data and Analytics, Mental Management Systems, and Neuro Learning for Golf, giving players a complete foundation across the full swing, short game, course management, and the mental game.Follow Justin breakingbogeys.com. YouTube: Justin Klemballa Golf. Instagram: @justinklemballagolf. Find Out More Get Your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100. 2027 Desert Classic. Breaking Bogeys Workbook. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP185: (Part Two) Misses and Fixes, Short Game with Justin Klemballa

  7. Jun 16

    EP184: (Part One) Misses and Fixes, Full Swing with Justin Klemballa

    Stop losing strokes to frustrating misses! In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with the incredible Justin Klemballa, founder of Breaking Bogeys, to decode the shots that steal our confidence and our scorecards.We’re tackling the Snap Hook, the Slice, the Topped Shot, and revealing why your grip strength might be the silent killer of your fairway accuracy. Justin also breaks down the Swing Path Clock to help you finally visualize your entry point and stop guessing where the ball is going.Whether you’re struggling with consistency or just want to understand the why behind your ball flight, this episode is your ultimate troubleshooting guide.Download your free Misses & Fixes Cheat Sheet now! Plus, don’t forget to grab your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100! Watch this episode on YouTube. About Justin: Justin Klemballa is the founder of Breaking Bogeys, a golf coaching platform built to help everyday players break through scoring barriers and rediscover their love of the game. With over a decade of experience working with golfers at every level, he spent years as Director of Instruction and Lead Master Instructor at the prestigious Jim McLean Golf Schools, one of the most respected development programs in the world.Recognized by Golf Digest as one of the Top 100 Best Young Teachers in America (one of only two instructors in Arizona to earn this distinction), Justin's coaching goes well beyond mechanics. His methodology blends elite technical systems including the Jim McLean System, Trackman Data and Analytics, Mental Management Systems, and Neuro Learning for Golf, giving players a complete foundation across the full swing, short game, course management, and the mental game.Follow Justin breakingbogeys.com. YouTube: Justin Klemballa Golf. Instagram: @justinklemballagolf. Find Out More Get Your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100. 2027 Desert Classic. Breaking Bogeys Workbook. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP184: (Part One) Misses and Fixes, Full Swing with Justin Klemballa

  8. Jun 9

    EP183: Tournament T-Time Series: 6-6-6 with Phyllis at Locust Hill

    In this episode of T-Time, I’m live on-course with Phyllis Haberer for a real-time breakdown of the 6-6-6 golf format at the historic Locust Hill Country Club. Today, we play 6 holes of Best Ball, 6 of Modified Chapman, and 6 of Scramble, testing our mental and physical endurance on a 100-year-old course that hosted the LPGA for nearly 4 decades (1977–2013). We share our unfiltered tournament experience, scoring predictions, and the strategic mindset needed to compete in the Women’s Rochester District Golf Association (WRDGA) championship. Founded to represent the best interests of amateur women golfers in the region, the WRDGA is dedicated to fostering skilled play, sportsmanship, and friendly competition. Plus, grab your FREE Short Game 100 Workbook and start building your competitive edge, one shot at a time! About Phyllis Haberer Phyllis Haberer is a mortgage loan officer and productivity coach in Rochester, NY. Beyond her mortgage career, Phyllis is President of the Durand Eastman Women's Golf Club, where she champions women’s participation in golf. She is an active competitor in women’s golf, winning her first club championship at the challenging Durand Eastman Golf Course in 2025, and brings the same energy, positivity, and strategic mindset to the course that she does to her clients. Whether on the green or in the office, Phyllis leads with purpose, partnership, and a commitment to lifting others up. Phyllis is also a valued member of the Tori Totlis team, working tirelessly behind the scenes on all our tournaments and retreats. Follow Phyllis Instagram: @mtggirl. LinkedIn: Phyllis Haberer. www.premiummortgage.com. Find Out More Get Your FREE Workbook: Short Game 100. Round Report Card. 2027 Desert Classic. Locust Hill Country Club. Follow Us www.toritotlis.com. Instagram: @tori_totlis. TikTok: @tori_totlis. Facebook: @TeamTotlis

    EP183: Tournament T-Time Series: 6-6-6 with Phyllis at Locust Hill
See All (195)

4.8
out of 5
240 Ratings

About

If you are a female golfer, you have landed in the right place. Join Tori and her weekly guests as they chat about all things women’s golf. Host Tori Totlis will bring you everything you need to grow your golf game with tips, strategy, mindset shifts, a place to vent, inspiration and motivation. Along with sharing her own golf experience, we have amazing weekly guests & cohosts that will share their wins, loses, challenges, top tips, and real stories from the golf course. Let’s come together, spread the word, and share our passion because this is women’s golf and its amazing. INSTAGRAM: @tori_totlis FACEBOOK: @tori_totlis TIKTOK: @tori_totlis

Information

  • Creator
    Tori Totlis
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    195
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2023, Tori Totlis, All Rights Reserved
  • Show Website
    T-Time with Tori Totlis

You Might Also Like