Between Us

Jill & Shakira
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Candid, unfiltered conversations between two friends in midlife sharing life as it really happens—no scripts, no polish, just truth. Between Us is where honest stories, real friendship, and meaningful connection come together. Through conversations about life's transitions, personal growth, relationships, identity, and self-trust, we explore what it means to navigate life with authenticity and courage. These aren't expert answers or perfectly packaged solutions. They're real conversations about being human—the messy, beautiful, challenging, and transformative parts of the journey. Because sometimes hearing someone else tell the truth helps us reconnect with our own. Pull up a chair and join us. You're not alone in the questions you're asking or the path you're walking.

  1. Apr 10

    45. Dancing with the Rhythms of Life

    In this episode, we trace a funny, awkward wedding dance story into a deeper conversation about fear of being seen, judgment, and the longing for more ease, fun, and romance in life. Shakira shares a surreal five rhythms “dance church” experience that forces her to confront discomfort in a brightly lit room full of mirrors and strangers, while Jill recounts a powerful breath work session that offers emotional release and a safe space to scream, cry, and let go. Together we explore how dance, breath work, and other “spiritual toolkit” practices help us stay with discomfort, soften our egos, trust ourselves more, and move toward lives with less fear, less mundane routine, and more intention, connection, and romance. Because who doesn't want that experience.   Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    30 min

  2. 12/21/2024

    44. Doing Nothing is Everything

    What if indulging in your guilty pleasures could lead to a life-changing journey of self-awareness and creativity? On this episode of the Listener Don't Podcast, we embark on a lively exploration of fashion, inspiration, and personal balance. Our conversation kicks off with a playful exchange about the personal "drugs" that light up our days, from the allure of television marathons to the thrill of shopping. As we navigate the often uninspiring world of fast fashion, particularly on platforms like Instagram, we celebrate the liberation and creativity found in street fashion across bustling cities like New York and Chicago. The discussion takes a reflective turn as we ponder the pressures of productivity and the guilt that accompanies downtime. We share personal anecdotes about the challenge of transitioning from 'fun employment' to a structured work routine and the societal pressures that equate self-worth with daily achievements. Through candid reflections, we champion the idea that doing nothing is not only okay but valuable, encouraging listeners to embrace moments of rest without guilt. Our experiences remind us of the importance of maintaining energy-boosting practices and finding balance in both personal and professional spheres. In a final spirited exchange, we dive into the captivating world of TikTok trends and the musical genius of Kendrick Lamar. We discuss the intriguing "black wife effect" trend and the fascinating transformation it represents, while also appreciating iconic interracial couples like Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa. Wrapping up with a heartfelt conversation on appreciating unique personal qualities, we highlight the beauty of kindness, humor, and generosity in our relationships. This episode is a rollercoaster of laughs, love, and self-discovery, and we hope you enjoy the ride as much as we did creating it. Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    31 min

  3. 05/10/2024

    43. Feathers & Paddles, Oh My!

    In this heart-to-heart, we lay bare the threads of personal growth, the nuances of relationships and the gentle art of cultivating patience and self-compassion. Witness the beauty of metamorphosis as we explore how self-responsibility draws the map of our journey through the world's changing landscapes. From the vibrant heartbeat of Los Angeles to the tranquility of a yoga studio sanctuary, travel with us on a voyage of spiritual and romantic discovery. A friend's poignant struggle with love and the face of death serves as a poignant reminder of how spiritual evolution can redefine our relationship goals. And as we mark milestones like Jeff's 50th birthday, we delve into how a life unaccompanied by children colors our experiences of aging and wellness. Join us for a conversation that intertwines meditation, holistic living, and the pursuit of a life in harmony with one's deepest truths—a discussion that promises not just insights but a mirror to our own lives. Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    32 min

  4. 04/19/2024

    42. Permission to be Authentically You

    Have you ever slipped into a scent that reshaped your day as effortlessly as a favorite outfit? Shakira and I invite you to a world where every splash of perfume and swipe of lipstick is an act of self-celebration and expression. Our heart-to-heart unfolds the layers of personal care rituals that embolden our spirits, from my lavish 'everything shower' complete with dry brushing and Turkish exfoliation, to JIll's knack for elevating her presence through her master class finesse. Join us as we exchange notes on the small, yet profound, personal touches that keep us feeling our most radiant selves. Amidst the sensory symphony of self-care, we traverse the introspective tide of eclipse energy, contemplating its profound impact on personal growth and the all-too-familiar weariness it can bring. As the celestial dance prompts us to reflect on our paths, we embrace rest not as an indulgence but as a radical act of resistance—against societal pressures and our own relentless hustle. Imagine giving yourself permission to pause, to align with the universe's rhythms, and to honor rest as essential to our well-being and creativity. Navigating the tightrope of corporate landscapes often means measuring the gap between personal values and workplace culture. With candid vulnerability, we dissect the importance of recognizing when professional demands begin to gnaw at the essence of who we are. We share stories and strategies for upholding boundaries, ensuring that in the quest for success, we do not lose the very core that defines us. Whether you're contemplating a career pivot or seeking validation for your next 'nothing' day, let this conversation be your compass, guiding you towards authenticity and tranquility in all aspects of life. Links: ReWilding for Women on Instagram @rewildingforwomen Rest in Resistance Book Turkish Mit on Amazon Perfume by Frederic Malle Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    39 min

  5. 03/29/2024

    41. Older and Wiser

    Have you ever let the ebb and flow of the ocean's tides slow the pace of your heartbeat? Our latest voyage into the heart of Hawaii has gifted us with tales of serenity, self-discovery, and the surprising joys found in a simple way of being. We unwind the threads of time spent in nature's embrace, where the power of pausing became our greatest ally. Join us as we recount the enchantment of letting go, the challenges of maintaining a connection to the world beyond the islands, and the practicalities of dreaming about a life in paradise. The symphony of life is a delicate balance between movement and stillness, and nowhere is this more evident than in our physical pursuits. Swinging racquets and pounding pavement, we've learned lessons in humility and recalibration that only a return to the body can teach. This episode isn't just about the solo journey of a tennis enthusiast; it's an intimate look at the transformative nature of fitness, the art of listening to the wisdom of our aging bodies, and the liberation found in eschewing relentless routines for a dance with balance. Let's not skirt around the existential; we all face moments where the path diverges, and we must choose between the comfort of old patterns and the courage of growth. Hear the heartfelt story of how a career setback became an unexpected catalyst for enlightenment, self-awareness, and embracing trust over control. Together, we celebrate the spiritual practices that ground us and the anticipation of future gatherings that fill us with joy and readiness. Raise your glass to adventures on the horizon and the beauty of a life lived from the highest self. Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    28 min

  6. 03/15/2024

    40. Trusting in the Ebb and Flow

    As we peel back the layers of life's constant flux, Shakira shares an intimate recounting of the resurgence and serenity of her time away from home, painting a picture of the paradox between comfort and the sense of being adrift. Our exchange transitions to the sun-soaked narratives from a soul-stirring San Diego sojourn, where yoga's communal breath became a poignant connector, and shared loss wove a thread of unspoken understanding with a fellow yogi. Embracing joblessness not as a setback but as a quiet reprieve, we find solace in the idea that sometimes life’s upheavals are veiled invitations to rediscover our truest self. Navigating the professional seas can be tumultuous, as Shakira elucidates from her voyage on an all-female leadership team once poised at the helm of empowerment. Her voice carries the weight of triumphs and the echo of trials faced amidst the ever-shifting boardroom dynamics. The loss of senior female leadership to a more homogenous replacement is not just a narrative twist—it's a call to arms for the cruciality of diversity and strategic thought in the echelons of power. As Shakira bids farewell to a chapter dense with mentorship and growth, the anticipation of new beginnings where inclusive values steer the ship is a lighthouse beckoning on the horizon. Lastly, we confront the stormy weather of toxic workplaces and the courage it takes to hoist the sails and chart a course towards self-respect. A tale of dismissal becomes a tale of empowerment, as Shakira recounts the pivotal awakening to her own worth in the face of professional adversity. This episode is a compass for anyone navigating their own career crossroads, a testament to the importance of integrity, and an anthem for aligning one's vocational journey with personal values. It's a candid reflection on heeding life’s nudges, trusting in the ebb and flow, and remaining open to the wonders that await beyond the bend. Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    26 min

  7. 02/16/2024

    39. Chasing the Illusion

    Ever forked out top dollar for a service that left you both lighter in the wallet and heavy with disappointment? We wade through the murky waters of household cleanliness and the daunting quest for a spotless abode. It's a candid look at the high stakes of dust bunnies and streak-free stainless steel — a tale that might just mirror your own. But it's not all about the dust; we scrub deeper into the world of personal hygiene rituals. Have you ever wondered if there's more to life than a quick shower lather? Prepare to be transported to the steamy rooms of the Turkish Hamam, where exfoliation is an art form and 'noodles' of dead skin are a badge of honor. We debate the merits of a good scrub and the transformative magic of a humble washcloth. It's an eye-opening session guaranteed to make you see your bathroom routine in a whole new light. Lastly, we take a detour through the glitz and glam of Hollywood. From the iconic scent of patchouli to the dramatic physical metamorphoses for the silver screen, we dissect the pressures of maintaining an ageless appearance amidst a culture that idolizes youth. Our conversation veers from nostalgia for the '90s distinctiveness to today's uniform beauty templates, all while celebrating the charm of natural aging. Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    36 min

  8. 02/09/2024

    38. A Lifetime of Choices & Love w/ Special Guest Jeff

    Discover the intricate dance of a relationship that has weathered the test of time, as my husband Jeff joins me at the microphone to weave a tapestry of stories spanning three decades. Our conversation ventures beyond the surface, revealing how the art of communication has both challenged and enriched the bond we share. We take you on a journey from the giddiness of our dating days to the solid foundation we've built in our marriage, passing through the milestones and miscues that have taught us to move in lockstep with one another. As Jeff and I reminisce about our life's narrative, the deliberate choices that have kept our partnership strong and central emerge as the beating heart of our story. From choosing to remain childfree to our bold moves across cities, each step has been a testament to our commitment to one another. Listen as we unfold the layers of leaving behind corporate life for a pursuit of personal fulfillment through life coaching, yoga, and entrepreneurship; a testament to the belief that happiness isn't found in a paycheck, but in living authentically. Join us for this intimate exploration into the enduring love and growth that defines our union. Thanks friends for being part of the conversation.  We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends.    This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. Let's connect at jilldahler.com.   Until next time!

    23 min
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Candid, unfiltered conversations between two friends in midlife sharing life as it really happens—no scripts, no polish, just truth. Between Us is where honest stories, real friendship, and meaningful connection come together. Through conversations about life's transitions, personal growth, relationships, identity, and self-trust, we explore what it means to navigate life with authenticity and courage. These aren't expert answers or perfectly packaged solutions. They're real conversations about being human—the messy, beautiful, challenging, and transformative parts of the journey. Because sometimes hearing someone else tell the truth helps us reconnect with our own. Pull up a chair and join us. You're not alone in the questions you're asking or the path you're walking.

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  • Creator
    Jill & Shakira
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Between Us
  • Show Website
    Between Us