The Happy Music Teacher

Jeanette Shorey
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Feeling alone in the craziness that is your classroom? Looking for someone to rescue you from the exhaustion and overwhelm of your everyday music teacher life? Hi, I'm Jeanette. A passionate music teacher with over 2 decades of experience working with students, balancing the mayhem, and helping educators like you navigate the chaos. Join me as we explore what makes teaching general music so darn hard, tackle the unique challenges we face, and transform our music teacher lives so that every day brings happiness to our music classrooms.

  1. 3d ago

    Stop Feeling Like a Bad Teacher (Try This Tomorrow)

    Have you ever walked out of your classroom at the end of the day, slumped your shoulders, and thought, “Well, I sucked today”? If you’re struggling to stop feeling like a bad teacher, I have a confession: for a long time, I truly hated my job—and as a naturally happy person, that hit really hard. In this episode, Jeanette Mihalchik breaks down the brain chemistry behind why we dwell on "dumpster fire days" while letting our best teaching moments slide right off. You’ll learn how human evolutionary biology hardwires us for negativity, why you don't actually lack wins (you just lack a system to capture them), and how a simple, 15-second daily routine can rewrite your brain's evidence file so you can leave work at school and enjoy your weekends again. In this episode, you’ll discover: The evolutionary reason your brain files 5 great classes away as junk mail while obsessing over 1 rough period.Why trying to stop feeling like a bad teacher requires capturing data, not writing long journal entries.The 15-second daily habit you can do in Google Keep, a notes app, or on paper before leaving your classroom.How to track hyper-specific micro-wins (like the student who finally caught the steady beat or found your lost earring!).How to use your success tracker on Sunday nights as physical "receipts" to stop a nervous system spiral. Resources Mentioned: Download your free quick-wins tracker ebook (this month only!) at thehappymusicteacher.com/free.

  2. Sep 16

    Most Music Teachers Lose Control Here — Are You

    Do your perfectly planned music lessons keep going sideways the moment students move from their spots to the xylophones? If you find yourself constantly hushing, repeating directions, or playing "fun police," the problem isn't your teaching—it's your transitions! In this episode, Jeanette Mihalchik reveals why controlling your elementary music classroom comes down to treating transitions as core instructional content rather than downtime. You’ll learn how to use "Silly Guardrails" to satisfy your students' need for play, how to sing your instructions for instant focus, and how to weaponize line-up chatter so the energy stays locked in all the way to the doorway. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why nature (and twenty-five 2nd graders) abhors a structural vacuum.How "Silly Guardrails" keep kids safe while channeling their natural goofy energy.The simple secret of singing your transition directions instead of speaking them.How to weaponize line-up chatter and turn the exit line into a high-value privilege.How to use non-verbal resets when a transition goes sideways—without raising your voice. Resources Mentioned: Grab your free music classroom resources at thehappymusicteacher.com/free.

  3. Sep 9

    I Ditched Behavior Charts - Here’s What Happened

    Have you ever had a class of kindergartners falling out of their chairs, making each other laugh, and filling every second of dead air with utter chaos? Dealing with silly behavior in the music classroom can feel overwhelming, but trying to squash it completely usually backfires. If you don't design the fun, your students will direct it for you! In this episode, Jeanette Mihalchik reveals how to stop being the "squasher of silly" and become the ultimate "designer of fun." Learn how to build structured chaos directly into your lesson plans, establish clear guardrails before the play begins, and shift from competitive individual rewards to joyful community building. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why pacing is your best classroom management tool to eliminate dead air.How to harness silly behavior in the music classroom by scheduling structured chaos into games like Four Corners.Community-building exit rewards like "Drumming Departure" and "Dancing Departure".How to set safety guardrails before the play begins to avoid mass chaos.A conscious approach to correcting boundary-testing without resorting to punitive discipline. Resources Mentioned: Grab your free music classroom resources at thehappymusicteacher.com/free.

  4. Sep 2

    Most Music Teachers Skip This Literacy Connection

    Have you ever felt like your music room is more than just a place to sing songs? In this episode, I’m sitting down with my dear friend, world-traveling percussionist and author Dave Holland. We discuss how body percussion games are actually a form of "social prescribing"—a proactive health protocol that builds community, belonging, and emotional regulation. Dave shares his incredible journey from a struggling reader to a children’s book author and gives us a "Monday-ready" body percussion routine you can use to bridge the gap between rhythm and literacy today. In this episode, you’ll learn: The "Connection Cure": Why music teachers are actually providing essential health services through rhythm.The Power of the Pivot: How Dave turned a "no" from a consultant into a successful book series by listening to teachers in the trenches.Monday-Ready Routine: A step-by-step breakdown of a body percussion game using "rhythm cells" and rhyming couplets.The 5 Tenets of Social Prescribing: Movement, Art, Nature, Belonging, and Service—and how they live in your classroom.Dino Dan & Friends: A sneak peek at the newest book in the Rhythm Rhymes series. What we Talked About:Dave’s Website: InteractiveRhythm.com/resources Author Visit Info: BeatandPathRhythmEvents.com Dave’s Music: Drummin' Songs and Jamalong on Spotify or Tidal Body Music Resource: Keith Terry’s Crosspulse Book Mention: The Connection Cure by Julia Hotz Book Mention: Music and Mind curated by Renée Fleming

  5. Aug 26

    Stop Pushing Through Lessons That Aren't Working

    Stop Pushing Through Lessons That Aren't WorkingYou spent hours building an Orff arrangement, a movement game, or a whole setup, and in less than five minutes, it becomes a total dumpster fire. Sound familiar? When music lesson plans aren't working, our first instinct as music teachers is often to white-knuckle our way through, push harder, and blame ourselves or the kids. But powering through a tanked lesson actually makes everything worse! In this episode, I’m sharing why you need to stop taking failed lessons personally and how to treat a tanked lesson as neutral "data" instead of a personal failure. We’ll talk about how to seize the 30-second "pivot window," give yourself permission to drop expectations during high-stress weeks, and switch seamlessly to guilt-free "fluffy lessons" that save your sanity and preserve your joy. In this episode, you’ll learn:The Powering-Through Trap: Why forcing a broken lesson plan creates behavior issues and drains your energy.Treating Lessons Like Science: How to view a tanked lesson plan as neutral data rather than a reflection of your teaching ability.The 30-Second Pivot Window: Exactly what to do when you decide to stop mid-lesson (including why you should never apologize to your students!).Guilt-Free Swaps for High-Stress Weeks: How to handle testing weeks, the Friday before spring break, and Halloween dress-up chaos without losing your mind.The Fluffy Lesson Lifesaver: How using low-prep, high-engagement activities makes you the exact teacher your students need on tough days. Important Links Mentioned in the Episode:Grab Free Fluffy Lessons: Download free, zero-prep lesson plans at The Happy Music Teacher Freebies.Join the Academy Community: The Happy Music Teacher Academy 🛋️ Want more Monday-ready strategies? You don't have to keep struggling through a chaotic schedule. Check out my FREE Music Teacher Resources for some fabulous fluffy lessons.

  6. Aug 19

    The Picture Books That Make Concert Etiquette Stick Before You Ever Reach the Auditorium

    Classroom teachers get all the fun back-to-school books about first-day jitters, so why shouldn't music teachers have their own? In this episode, I’m sitting down with my wonderful friend, music teacher, composer, and children’s book author Bethany Main! We’re diving into how you can use children’s books for the music classroom to make your back-to-school routines magical and front-load concert etiquette expectations before your big performances. Bethany shares the story behind her hit book, Our First Day of Music, and gives us an exclusive sneak peek at her brand-new book, Pippa Goes to the Orchestra! Plus, we chat about cross-curricular literacy connections, teacher resource manuals, and her new choir resource, Choir Up. Grab your cup of coffee and let's talk picture books! In this episode, you’ll learn:The Inspiration Behind the Books: Why music teachers deserve dedicated picture books to celebrate the first day of school.Front-Loading Concert Etiquette: How using a social story like Pippa Goes to the Orchestra helps students learn audience behavior before they sit in an auditorium.Cross-Curricular Literacy Extensions: Simple ways to partner with classroom teachers using KWL charts, discussion prompts, and point-of-view writing.Musical Cues in Storytelling: How adding singable rhymes and "cues" to picture books makes interactive reading effortless.Quick Choir Director Tips: A look at Bethany's new resource, Choir Up, designed to help middle and elementary choir directors tackle classroom management. Important Links Mentioned in the Episode:Get Bethany's Books: Grab Our First Day of Music & Pippa Goes to the Orchestra at Endeavor Music Publishing.Find Choir Up: Available through Alfred Music and JW Pepper.Connect with Bethany: Email her at bethany@youthchoruskc.org or follow her on Instagram @mrsmainsmusicians.Join the Academy Community: The Happy Music Teacher Academy 🛋️ Want more Monday-ready strategies? You don't have to keep struggling through a chaotic schedule. Check out my free music teacher resources by clicking this link.

  7. Aug 12

    I Let My Students Vote to Quit the Ukulele Unit - Here's What Happened Next

    Your class hasn't even sat down yet, and you can already feel it—this one’s gonna be a battle! If you’ve ever had a lesson completely go sideways, it’s usually not because your plan was bad. It’s because of an energy mismatch! In this episode, I’m sharing the story behind the moment I let my fifth graders completely vote to quit our ukulele unit mid-stream and what to do when your elementary music lesson plan fails. We’re diving deep into the 15-second energy audit you need to run the moment students walk through your door, how to flip your lesson sequence on the fly without panicking, and why keeping "fluffy lessons" in your back pocket will save your sanity. Grab your coffee and let's talk about how to pivot gracefully when things don't go according to plan! In this episode, you’ll learn:The Energy Mismatch: Why running a high-thinking lesson over tired, post-recess energy feels like driving with the parking brake on.The 15-Second Energy Audit: How to read the room the second kids walk in so you know if your plan actually fits their mood.Why I Let My Class Vote to Quit: The real story behind giving up on a ukulele unit mid-way to preserve my students' love of music.Flipping the Sequence: How switching up your activity order (like moving movement before a storybook) can instantly save a lesson.The Magic of "Fluffy Lessons": Why having zero-prep, zero-thinking backup activities on your Smartboard keeps you from panicking when a plan flops. Important Links Mentioned in the Episode:Grab Free Fluffy Lessons: Download your zero-prep backup activities at happymusicteacher.com/free.Join the Academy Community: The Happy Music Teacher Academy 🛋️ Want more Monday-ready strategies? You don't have to keep struggling through a chaotic schedule. Check out my shop.

  8. Aug 5

    Real Music Teacher Resilience Tuning Out School Toxicity and Protecting Your Peace with Dana Goodier

    Have you ever walked into the faculty lounge expecting a quick breather, only to get sucked into a vortex of workplace negativity? You aren't alone! In this episode, I sit down with author, speaker, and veteran educator Dana Goodier to talk about building true music teacher resilience when you're feeling completely drained. We dive deep into how you can protect your peace, set hard boundaries with your work hours, and navigate the unique isolation that comes with being a music specialist. From shutting off school email on your phone to stepping away from toxic conversations, you'll walk away with realistic, immediate strategies to safeguard your mental energy. Grab your coffee and let's get ready to climb out of the trenches together! In this episode, you’ll learn:Protecting Your Energy: How to step away from faculty lounge negativity and create daily mental health breaks that actually recharge you.Hard Boundaries That Stick: Why removing work email from your phone is the single easiest way to stop bringing classroom stress home.Handling Dysregulated Students: Simple, cross-curricular support strategies to manage student behaviors without draining your personal bandwidth.Overcoming "Specialist Isolation": How to find meaningful professional development and community outside your building when you're the only music teacher in the room.Summer & Weekend Reset Strategies: Practical ways to turn off your work brain during breaks so you can show up energized for yourself and your students. Important Links Mentioned in the Episode:Connect with Dana: Visit Dana Goodier's Website to check out her podcast Out of the Trenches and her book Stories of Resilient Educators.Follow the Podcast: Check out the Out of the Trenches podcast on YouTube or social media @OutofTrenchesPC.Join the Academy Community: The Happy Music Teacher Academy 🛋️ Want more Monday-ready strategies? You don't have to keep struggling through a chaotic schedule. Check out the blog post that accompanies this episode.

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Feeling alone in the craziness that is your classroom? Looking for someone to rescue you from the exhaustion and overwhelm of your everyday music teacher life? Hi, I'm Jeanette. A passionate music teacher with over 2 decades of experience working with students, balancing the mayhem, and helping educators like you navigate the chaos. Join me as we explore what makes teaching general music so darn hard, tackle the unique challenges we face, and transform our music teacher lives so that every day brings happiness to our music classrooms.

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  • Creator
    Jeanette Shorey
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Jeanette Shorey
  • Show Website
    The Happy Music Teacher