What happens when the thing that set you free turns into the exact thing keeping you stuck? Jessicka Anne talks with breathwork trainer and business mentor Berenice Schurmann (Ber) about ambition, burnout, and what it costs to build something in public. Ber shares her experience of the unraveling of her first business - a media sensation, thriving by every external measure, and the strange grief of slowly disappearing under everyone's need for her to keep performing joy she'd stopped feeling. Jessicka digs deeper, asking: who actually started the performance in the first place, and the two unpack what had to be forgiven before Ber could walk away from something successful and build again on her own terms. If you’ve ever kept up appearances long after the spark has left, this conversation is going to ask you to face what’s under it. – About Ber: Ber turned childhood trauma into a global mission to empower coaches to heal their communities at scale. She works with established coaches and visionaries to use breath as a vehicle to scale down time, energy and effort, while leveling up their authentic expression and amplifying their impact! Since learning from 40 meditation and breathwork experts worldwide, and building two six-figure businesses, Ber has been featured on Channel 7 News, Destination Happiness, Triple M, as well as various national newspapers, magazines and online media Concrete Playground, Urban Jungle, and MORE. Ber’s unquenchable thirst for creating a conscious, empowered world through meditation and breathwork has led her to work with global tech companies like CSG, Hewlett Packard, and some of New York’s most successful CEOs. Her Australian clients include the University of Swinburne, University of Queensland, Lorna Jane Australia, Wesley Mission Hospital and more! Over 12 months, she built a national phenomenon, Karmably and founded Soulside Breathwork Facilitator Training for the modern world. She is on a mission to empower everyone she meets to connect with their inner wisdom, harness their power and live the life they were BORN to live! Connect with Ber: Teacher Training: https://go.berenicetan.com/bwft Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/berbreathwork/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ber.tan.9 Spotify. https://spoti.fi/3gIa0f7 – Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ – Chapters 00:00 The Roots of Ambition01:11 The Cost of Ambition03:12 Avoiding Toxic Positivity06:07 Journey of Self-Trust and Self-Repair07:21 Evolution of Ambition21:19 Reconciliation of Personal and External Realities32:19 The Unconscious Need for Approval33:32 The Impact of Childhood Conditioning36:26 The Fear of Success and Happiness40:52 The Intersection of Personal Growth and Business Success43:58 Embracing Imperfection and Vulnerability53:29 The Role of Childhood Conditioning in Business58:58 The Fear of Receiving and the Shadow of Perfection