Dark Mirror with Jessicka Anne

Jessicka Anne

Business, Alchemy and Transformation

  1. Oct 16

    Hiding at the Front - Lewis Huckstep on Work as an Escape, Discernment and Scaling Transformation

    What if your biggest achievements are still being driven by the parts of you that don’t feel good enough? In this episode of Dark Mirror, Jessicka Anne sits down with purpose and identity coach Lewis Huckstep to dig into the messy relationship between ambition, self-worth, and the wounds that shape what we want. Lewis gets honest about his own relationship with achievement, including the uncomfortable idea that working harder can sometimes be easier than looking inward. Jessicka adds another layer by asking: are our desires ever truly ours, or are they just a response to our wounding? Together, they talk about how our past experiences shape our ambition, the difference between inspiration and attachment, and what it looks like to go after success without losing yourself along the way. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re moving toward something meaningful or running from something unresolved, this one’s for you. – About Lewis: Lewis Huckstep is a Purpose and Identity Coach who has built an audience of over a million people and worked with over 10,000 clients across a decade to help high achievers overcome the patterns sabotaging their life, relationships, and success. He's the author of a best selling book and has run sold out events, and he's known for helping people who look successful on the outside but feel stuck or off on the inside get honest with themselves and actually change.  Connect with Lewis: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishuckstep/    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFydq4ZV3RLWo8dK-nRfMzg   Skool: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/   Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1763651045   – Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ – Grab our 11 targeted questions to alchemise your shadows and reclaim your manifestation power for free here: http://jessickaanne.com/shadow-prompts -- Chapters 00:00 Excitement and Pressure of Growth03:12 Work as an Escape: Self-Reflection05:56 The Theory of Constraints in Personal Growth08:48 Vision and Values: The Driving Force12:10 Checking In: Measuring Fulfillment16:57 Understanding Voids and Conditioning21:09 The Role of Identity in Personal Development25:01 Desires: Higher Self vs. Lower Self34:11 Exploring Validation and Fulfillment39:36 The Concept of Legacy46:35 Scaling Impact vs. Depth01:00:12 Neutralizing Trauma and Perception

  2. Oct 9

    The Price of Success - Bianca Aiono on Burnout, Likability and Ethical Sales

    How much of yourself have you learned to hide just to be taken seriously? In this episode of Dark Mirror, Jessicka Anne and Bianca Aiono get into the uncomfortable relationship between success, belonging and the parts of ourselves we make smaller to stay accepted. From Bianca's experience of building and abandoning a thriving business to the patterns she now witnesses inside powerful organisations, they explore what happens when being liked becomes more important than being honest. Jessicka brings the conversation into the wider systems shaping business and leadership, questioning whether the problem is ambition itself or the rules we've been taught to follow. And Bianca opens up about her own reckoning with being seen as too much. This isn't a conversation about giving up on success. It's about questioning the sacrifices you've stopped noticing because everyone else calls them normal. – About Bianca: Bianca Aiono was once the Queen of Force. She’s represented Australia in six sports and built her business the same way: push harder, want it more, outwork everyone. She took one $35-a-week client and a car boot full of equipment and turned it into $300K award-winning business in 18 months, with five staff, 100 clients, and national media coverage. From the outside, she'd made it. Inside, she was whisper-crying in a bathroom stall at an awards ceremony. You can have everything they told you that you should want. And still be dying on the inside. From there she swore to never abandon herself in the quest for more.  Then came motherhood. And triplets. With four kids under three and just ten hours a week to work, the superpowers that built her first level - were no longer available to her. She finally had to get precise about what she was available for and what she would no longer tolerate. What emerged was a completely different relationship with desire, success and leadership. She went on to close over seven figures in sales while breastfeeding, working ten hours a week, paying off six figures of debt and doubling the size of her home.  Connect with Bianca: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancaaiono  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bianca-aiono/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bianca.aiono.2025/ Website: https://biancaa.com/    Training: https://biancaa.com/training   – Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ – Grab our 11 tailored questions to alchemise your shadows + reclaim your manifestation power for free here: http://jessickaanne.com/shadow-prompts - Chapters 00:00 Unpacking Shadows of Success07:55 The Journey to Authenticity15:51 Rewilding the Concept of Success24:22 Capitalism + Its Discontents30:38 The Lies That Perpetuate Suffering39:46 The Cost of Overriding Intuition42:04 Navigating Personal Ruptures44:20 Deep Listening and Self-Trust46:51 The Power of Surrender50:59 Radical Acceptance + Clarity55:40 Emotional Literacy and Presence01:01:54 Ethical Sales and Client Relationships01:07:38 Mana Order: A New Paradigm for Success01:12:21 Community and Collaborative Ecology

  3. Oct 2

    Raw Entrepreneurial Instinct - Victoria Bardovic on Eros, Business and Brand-Building

    What if the way you actually get things done is the very thing you're secretly embarrassed by? On this episode of Dark Mirror, host Jessicka Anne talks with Victoria Bardovic about instinct: the urge that moves your body before your mind weighs in, and what it does to the way you build a business. Victoria wondered if she was just a bad entrepreneur, so she set her gut aside on purpose and did it someone else's way to find out. Jessicka asks where that story came from, and when it's worth swallowing another person's method versus spitting it out. That second question pulls them through bro culture, brand, and why copying everyone else usually gets you there too late. Which brings it back to "that's just not me." If you've said it lately, Victoria has a theory about what that sentence is actually doing for you. Listen in and see if you can argue with it. – About Victoria: Victoria Bardovic didn't learn brand-building from a textbook. She learned it by building brands, several times over, from the ground up.
 Victoria is a brand strategist who helps founders build both the inner and outer worlds of their brands. The inner world is the voice, the values, the instinct and the story that make a brand feel alive. The outer world is the positioning, the offers, the experiences and the presence that let people find it and feel it. Most brands get one right. Victoria builds both, and makes them speak the same language.
 Her own track record is the proof. She created and developed a signature, globally accredited modality and grew it into a six-figure international school that she successfully sold in 2023. She built two franchise speaking events, including Beyond the Bedroom, which she scaled to 12 locations across Australia, the USA, the UK and Ireland. 

She is also the Director of Yoni Elixir, a first-to-market Australian product brand. Her work has been featured in The Guardian, The Daily Mail, The Irish Sun, Metro, The Herald Sun, International Business Times and News.com.au.
 Victoria works with founders who are ready to stop blending in. She brings strategy with soul, instinct with structure, and she does it with sass, warmth and zero apology. – Connect with Victoria: Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/victoriabardovic Website: https://www.victoriabardovic.com/ – Grab our 11 targeted questions to alchemise your shadows and reclaim your manifestation power for free here: http://jessickaanne.com/shadow-prompts - Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ - Chapters 00:00 Understanding Instinct and Eros03:13 The Role of Instinct in Business06:03 Navigating Entrepreneurial Challenges12:09 The Intersection of Feminine and Masculine in Business18:07 Maturing Instinct and Business Literacy24:12 Embracing Discomfort for Growth29:48 Exploring Magic and Sexuality32:53 The Alchemy of Business36:59 Yoni Elixir: A Journey of Self-Discovery41:59 Trusting the Illogical47:58 Finding Resonance in Marketing and Dating54:55 Embracing Instinct in Business

  4. Sep 25

    Living with a Jerk - Yasmina McGlone on Self-Acceptance and Disability Inclusion

    How much of your life can disappear while you’re waiting to become a more acceptable version of yourself? In this conversation, Jessicka Anne and Yasmina McGlone explore what it means to live in a body the world doesn’t always understand, and what can happen when you stop treating difference as something that needs to be fixed. Yasmina reflects on growing up ashamed of her movements, shrinking her world to avoid being seen, and later swinging in the opposite direction: determined to prove she could do everything. What emerges is a much messier, more human version of self-acceptance - one that leaves room for grief, limitation, ambition, support and joy at the same time. Because sometimes the thing that looks like strength from the outside is the exact place the shadow is hiding. About Yasmina: Yasmina McGlone is a full-time volunteer with the Moira Kelly Creating Hope Foundation, helping children access life-saving surgery. Having grown up with a rare neurological condition, she’s passionate about changing how we see bodies that work differently. Through sports, storytelling, and speaking, she helps youth recognize the beauty they bring to the world.  Connect With Yasmina: Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/yasminamcglone/ Website - https://linktr.ee/yasminamcglone   Moira Kelly Raising Hope Site: https://creatinghopefoundation.org.au/ Donate to help children access life-saving surgeries: https://creating-hope.raiselysite.com/ -- Grab our 11 targeted questions to alchemise your shadows and reclaim your manifestation power for free here: http://jessickaanne.com/shadow-prompts -- Connect with Jessicka Anne: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ Takeaways Self-acceptance journeyResilience and hope Authenticity in adversityCompassion and understandingImportance of accessibility and inclusionChapters 00:00 Discovering Self-Acceptance03:03 Impact of Rare Neurological Condition06:06 The Journey of Resilience13:22 Running Away and Finding Hope17:02 Embracing Self-Acceptance28:17 The Pendulum Swing34:40 Navigating Adversity38:26 Authenticity and Positivity41:20 Challenges and Growth56:43 Creativity and Healing01:00:45 Accessibility and Inclusion

  5. Sep 19

    Let Me Rant At You About Twin Peaks

    I was 13, in a hotel room at 11:30pm, when red curtains and a zigzag floor flickered onto the TV. My sister was asleep. My mum had stepped out. I've been fascinated by that room ever since. This week on Dark Mirror, I'm stepping outside the usual format for a looser, stream-of-consciousness review of my recent rewatch of Twin Peaks. Third watch and still finding new dimensions. If you're studying magick, working with ritual, or simply drawn to the strange, this show offers something rare: a felt experience of liminal states, the kind of thing that's hard to learn from a book. Are you a Twin Peaks fan? Tell me which rabbit hole to go down next, in the comments or message me on social media. -- Content note: abuse, self-harm, trauma and the murder of a young woman. Please look after yourself and skip ahead if you need to. If any of this is close to home, support is available in Australia: Lifeline: 13 11 14 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 -- Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ -- Takeaways Esoteric and occult symbolism in Twin PeaksExploration of duality and integration of dreams in the series Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Twin Peaks00:50 The Multifaceted Nature of Twin Peaks04:03 The Enigmatic Bob09:37 Mirroring and Duality12:47 The Log Lady and Symbolism17:05 Integration of Dreams21:10 Nuanced Character Depictions27:01 Progressive Depiction of Women

  6. Sep 5

    Stop Beating a Dead Horse - Cody McAuliffe on the Courage to Stay vs. the Courage to Quit

    How do you tell the difference between quitting because it's actually over and quitting because you're scared to find out? Jessicka Anne talks with coach Cody McAuliffe about persistence, quitting, and the razor-thin line between the two. Cody lays out how he's built both a business and a life around walking away the moment his aliveness for something disappears - profitable offers, structures, even relationships and names the shadow riding along with that same instinct: burning things down as an escape from discomfort, not an act of alignment. Jessicka also shares her own experiences, naming how tempting it is to just pick a side and be done with the ambiguity, and the two dig into what actually changes once there's something real to lose. If you've been calling something "not aligned anymore" and you're not fully sure that's true, this conversation is for you. – About Cody: Cody McAuliffe is a keynote speaker and amazon best-selling author. Cody says “I believe that speakers, coaches and leaders are on the forefront of raising humanity’s consciousness at this time.  My part in that is to be responsible, for those responsible for the elevation of the consciousness of humanity.” Over the last almost 2 decades Cody has coached countless TEDx Speakers, NLP trainers, doctors, world champion athletes, federal members of parliament, creators of modalities and hundreds of 6-8 figure coaches.  Cody now works with speakers, coaches and leaders to create lasting change on stages with his world renowned methods. Connect with Cody: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecodymcauliffe/ Contact Cody via Instagram Facebook Personal Page: https://www.facebook.com/cody.mcauliffe/ Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/thecodymcauliffe/ Learn more about Holographics with our FREE guide: www.theholographicmethod.com/guide1  Learn more about selling from stage with our FREE 3 part Stage close: https://thecodymcauliffe.com/optin-3-part-stage-close   – Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ – Grab our 11 targeted questions to alchemise your shadows and reclaim your manifestation power for free here: http://jessickaanne.com/shadow-prompts

  7. Aug 29

    The Cost of Ambition - Berenice Schurmann on Money, Service and the Myth of Selflessness

    What happens when the thing that set you free turns into the exact thing keeping you stuck? Jessicka Anne talks with breathwork trainer and business mentor Berenice Schurmann (Ber) about ambition, burnout, and what it costs to build something in public. Ber shares her experience of the unraveling of her first business - a media sensation, thriving by every external measure, and the strange grief of slowly disappearing under everyone's need for her to keep performing joy she'd stopped feeling. Jessicka digs deeper, asking: who actually started the performance in the first place, and the two unpack what had to be forgiven before Ber could walk away from something successful and build again on her own terms. If you’ve ever kept up appearances long after the spark has left, this conversation is going to ask you to face what’s under it. – About Ber:  Ber turned childhood trauma into a global mission to empower coaches to heal their communities at scale. She works with established coaches and visionaries to use breath as a vehicle to scale down time, energy and effort, while leveling up their authentic expression and amplifying their impact!  Since learning from 40 meditation and breathwork experts worldwide, and building two six-figure businesses, Ber has been featured on Channel 7 News, Destination Happiness, Triple M, as well as various national newspapers, magazines and online media Concrete Playground, Urban Jungle, and MORE.  Ber’s unquenchable thirst for creating a conscious, empowered world through meditation and breathwork has led her to work with global tech companies like CSG, Hewlett Packard, and some of New York’s most successful CEOs. Her Australian clients include the University of Swinburne, University of Queensland, Lorna Jane Australia, Wesley Mission Hospital and more! Over 12 months, she built a national phenomenon, Karmably and founded Soulside Breathwork Facilitator Training for the modern world. She is on a mission to empower everyone she meets to connect with their inner wisdom, harness their power and live the life they were BORN to live! Connect with Ber: Teacher Training: https://go.berenicetan.com/bwft Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/berbreathwork/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ber.tan.9 Spotify. https://spoti.fi/3gIa0f7 – Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ – Chapters 00:00 The Roots of Ambition01:11 The Cost of Ambition03:12 Avoiding Toxic Positivity06:07 Journey of Self-Trust and Self-Repair07:21 Evolution of Ambition21:19 Reconciliation of Personal and External Realities32:19 The Unconscious Need for Approval33:32 The Impact of Childhood Conditioning36:26 The Fear of Success and Happiness40:52 The Intersection of Personal Growth and Business Success43:58 Embracing Imperfection and Vulnerability53:29 The Role of Childhood Conditioning in Business58:58 The Fear of Receiving and the Shadow of Perfection

  8. Aug 21

    Vulnerability of Being Seen: Michelle Stark (Aleph Studio) on Brand as Magic + The Many True Selves

    What if finally being understood is scarier than staying misunderstood? Jessicka Anne talks with graphic designer and magick practitioner Michelle Stark about the vulnerability of being truly perceived. Michelle shares how visual language became her way of translating an inner world that words never quite reached. And the strange relief and grief she watches surface in clients the moment they're finally seen. Jessicka takes it further, tracing her own experience of representation and otherness to a harder realisation: that staying misunderstood wasn't just painful, it was protective. A story she'd built to stay safe. As well as what happens when that story starts to unravel. This one's for anyone who's felt unseen for a long time, and is curious what's really on the other side of that. – About Michelle: Michelle is a designer and magickal practitioner behind Aleph Studio. For over a decade, she has been building brand identity and visual storytelling for spiritual and creative entrepreneurs, helping ideas move from invisible to visible without losing their essence.  Design is how she speaks. Magick is how she thinks. Connect with Michelle: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.aleph.studio/?hl=en Www.aleph.studio Michelle@aleph.studio    Substack: @creativeconjuring Email list: via www.aleph.studio  The Back Room A private magickal membership for creative ignition and momentum (www.aleph.studio/links ) – Connect with Jessicka: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejessickaanne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejessicaanne0 Website: https://jessickaanne.com/ – Grab our 11 targeted questions to alchemise your shadows and reclaim your manifestation power for free here: http://jessickaanne.com/shadow-prompts

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