Bumbai You Learn

Bumbai You Learn

Talking story, philosophizing, conversations and thoughts on growth and self-improvement. Follow us on Twitter @BumbaiYou_Learn

  1. 10/10/2023

    Pod12 - Hedonic Treadmill

    What is hedonism? hedonism bot - Futurama - the pursuit/indulgence in pleasure. These desires and emotions drive our behavior - maximize pleasure, minimize pain where does it come from? cultural/environmental (extrinsic) vs intrinsic Why are we talking about it: The hedonic treadmill is a psychological theory that suggests that humans have a tendency to return to a relatively stable level of happiness or subjective wellbeing, despite changes in their circumstances or external conditions. I was wondering would we be able to reframe it for positivity? What is the principle of neuroplasticity The term “neuroplasticity” (or “brain plasticity”) refers to the ability of our brains to reorganize, both physically and functionally, throughout our lives, due to our environment. Some quotes in the show: Shaolin Monk - What is the meaning of life? Life is the result of the actions we take. “The way of Dao is simple stop striving, defeat desire, in absence of striving there is peace. In absence of desire there is satisfaction.” Tao te jing - Lao Tzu Philip Zimbardo - The Stanford Prison Experiment There have been controversy around this experiment. "He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” - Freidrich Neitzsche It is commonly attributed to Viktor Frankl in his book “A Man’s Search for Meaning.” Where having a why gave the prisoners of war a reason to live, where as others who did not tended to lose their lives.

  2. 09/04/2023

    Pod10 - Reflection and Self-Awareness

    Reflecting on actions and decisions made grants us the ability to make a choice. As we get better at recognizing the triggers and reactions we have, we can make better choice and focus our energy into growing. I cringe at the first story I share. But it isn't all bad. It helped me to find fuel me to be better. We discuss often times we find that an emotional trigger is what starts us down the path of questioning ourselves and decisions we made or didn't make. Whatever action or inaction we take next is ultimately our choice. Having a moment a time to reflect can help bring a mirror to ourselves and have us question why and what are we doing. Correction, it was a Soviet Naval officer, Vasili Arkhipov who is known for preventing a Soviet nuclear torpedo launch during the Cuban missile crisis. Which ultimately people have speculated that he prevent the start of another world war and potentially a nuclear war. Ultimately we ask these two questions: Why is reflection important? How do you apply it to your practice of growth? Mike: Reflection gives us a choice. Pain is a common trigger - conditioning to think and reflect on what could be wrong here? Craig: Reflection is triggered by a feeling of emotion. Trying to understand what caused that emotion, peel back the layers to understand the core of the decision. Being honest with your emotions and yourself. Create some time in the week, reflect on how it went. Are you moving the direction you want to go?

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