Send us Fan Mail When Alexa loses her mother to a sudden heart attack on Mother’s Day—just one year after her father dies of cancer—grief doesn’t arrive as a single blow, but as a cascade. At 23, she becomes a de facto parent to her teenage brother alongside her younger sister, the three of them bound together by loss, responsibility, and a fragile, hard-won love. Alexa’s story moves through the complexity of mourning two very different parents: a deeply optimistic, spiritually driven father whose mantra—think positive—still echoes, and a mother whose long struggle with alcoholism left behind both compassion and unresolved pain. As Alexa reckons with identity, faith, and the aftershocks of an abusive relationship, she begins to rebuild: through community, sobriety, grief work, and a renewed relationship with God. Across months of conversation, a portrait emerges—not of someone lost, but someone actively finding her way. In the end, the poem she thought she needed becomes something else: not a map out of grief, but a blessing forward. A father’s voice, refracted through a stranger, reminding her that the life she’s building—grounded in love, responsibility, and choice—is already its own kind of answer. CHAPTERS 1. Mother’s Day Alexa gets the call no one is prepared for, and within hours she and her siblings are standing in a hospital room, clinging to each other as a new understanding takes hold: it will be the three of them now. 2. When Loss Compounds Just a year earlier, their father died of cancer. As even more family members pass in close succession, Alexa feels like the ground beneath her life is continually giving way, forcing her into adulthood faster than expected. 3. The Three of Us At just 23, Alexa steps into a role she never imagined, helping to raise her teenage brother alongside her younger sister. Together, they form a fragile but determined unit, learning how to divide responsibility, resolve conflict, and become each other’s anchor in a world unmoored. 4. What Remains of Them Alexa struggles to juggle contrasting legacies of her parents: her father’s relentless positivity and spiritual conviction, and her mother’s complicated battle with alcoholism. Grief becomes tangled with identity, faith, and unanswered questions—especially the kind that come from loving someone you couldn’t save. 5. Patterns We Inherit Alexa begins to see how her parents’ fractured marriage shaped her understanding of love, a blueprint that followed her into an abusive relationship of her own. Breaking free, she is choosing herself for the first time. 6. Finding a Way Forward Months later, small but meaningful changes begin to take hold as Alexa turns toward healing—through grief groups, Al-Anon, and a growing sense of purpose. She begins to imagine a future in health and life coaching. 7. Faith, Reclaimed In an unexpected turn, Alexa reconnects with spirituality, discovering a version of faith that feels expansive rather than divisive. 8. The Blessing Todd's poem, "Blessing,"—woven around her father’s own handwritten words—lands not as an answer to grief, but as an affirmation of the path she’s on. Support the show Join the conversation and get bonus content at poeminthat.com ... or become a listener supporter by pitching in monthly to help us make TAPIT magic, here. Do you think there's a poem in your story? Leave Todd a voicemail on our Haiku, Hawaii, listener line: 808-300-0449. Follow us on Facebook.
