Doing Me So I Don't Read You

Hertis & Tiffani
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Sister and Brother conversations about what's going on in the world and our different interests in sports and makeup. 

  1. Oct 14

    The Atlanta Dream Sold Out Arenas, Yet Still Had to Fight for Finals Space

    Atlanta’s Dream are selling out games, yet still have to fight for the arena they deserve. Tiffi Tool Time makes the case for women’s sports, while she and Hertis bring you the joy, community, and hard-won visibility of Atlanta Pride. Tiffi shares her Pride Parade highlights, from walking with the crowd to meeting a young girl whose handmade bracelet becomes a powerful reminder of how much it matters for kids to see people being themselves. Hertis tells why showing up for his sister was the highlight of his weekend, too. Then the conversation turns to the Atlanta Dream’s championship run and the unequal treatment women’s teams face. Tiffi calls out the arena scheduling fight, challenges dismissive sports commentary, and explains why supporting women athletes means more than cheering when they win. You’ll also hear about Atlanta’s free Pride festival, the drag kings who deserve more recognition, and Tiffi’s push to use a podcasting opportunity to raise awareness about epilepsy and support families affected by it. A candid, funny sibling conversation about showing up for your people, celebrating queer community, and speaking up when women are treated as an afterthought. Press play for the Pride stories, stay for the Dream debate.

  2. Sep 23

    From Horror Shows to Pride Parades: Two Siblings Talk Culture, Sports, and Survival

    From American Horror Story and Survivor to WNBA playoff math, Pride events, suspicious delivery fees, and the importance of protecting your community, Tiffi Tool Time and Hertis bring their unfiltered sibling energy to a wide-ranging conversation that refuses to stay in one lane.Tiffi and Hertis trade TV recommendations, including the return of American Horror Story, the latest Resident Evil, and the shows keeping them entertained while life stays chaotic. They also look ahead to Atlanta Pride, local performances, and Tiffi’s upcoming stand-up appearance at Tucker Pride’s “Stand Up for Pride.”

  3. Sep 9

    Flock Cameras, AI Abuse, and the Surveillance Threat Hiding in Plain Sight

    Hertis shares the highlights from Atlanta’s Black Pride weekend, including a Beyoncé-themed celebration, a drag show, dancing, and getting tipped while performing. Tiffi brings the Virgo pride, allergy-season chaos, and plenty of commentary on everything from pool etiquette to the celebrities who make the sign look good. But the conversation takes a serious turn as Tiffi raises concerns about AI-generated child sexual abuse material and the legal loopholes surrounding it, along with the growing use of Flock surveillance cameras. They discuss how license-plate cameras can expose people’s movements and personal information, including the disturbing story of a police officer who allegedly used one to stalk a woman after she rejected him. You’ll also hear their thoughts on Beauty in Black and whether the series is improving as its cast develops their acting skills, plus reactions to the US Open, Coco Gauff, Naomi Osaka’s bold Allen Iverson-inspired look, and the relentless demands placed on women athletes. Tiffi questions the pressure surrounding Caitlin Clark, A’ja Wilson’s importance to the WNBA, and the lack of adequate rest and maternity support for women in sports. From the “pink rhinestone bandit” to movie updates, poolside reading, twerking lessons, and the reminder that your job, relationship, family, or friendships should never come before your own well-being, this episode moves effortlessly between laughter, culture, outrage, and real-life advice.

  4. Aug 19

    The Birthday Week Mix-Up That Almost Wrecked a Movie Plan

    A playful catch-up turns into a surprisingly sharp pop-culture and sports rundown, with Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time trading takes on everything from Spider-Man and Children of the Blood and Bone to the latest reality TV, birthday plans, and the weirdly chaotic world of live events. What starts with nail talk and movie plans quickly opens into a bigger conversation about what’s worth watching, what’s coming next, and why some stories feel more relevant than the headlines. Tiffi breaks down why Spider-Man works as more than just a blockbuster, while Hertis connects the movie’s themes to bigger questions about AI, human judgment, and the way people navigate secrets, loyalty, and identity. You’ll also hear: why Spider-Man hit differently this time the upcoming films and shows they’re actually looking forward to thoughts on The Real Housewives of Atlanta, Heart & Hustle, and American Horror Stories a lively sports check-in covering the WNBA, college football, women’s college sports, and Russell Westbrook’s retirement a very real birthday-week scheduling conflict that turns into an on-the-fly plan change why live shows, celebrity doubles, and “finessing” audiences are part of the modern entertainment game Tiffi Tool Time also spotlights Funny People in the Living Room, shares the love from new followers, and reminds listeners where to find the show and join the conversation. Hertis keeps the energy grounded with updates from everyday life, a fresh haircut, and the kind of off-the-cuff honesty that makes the episode feel like you’re listening in on friends who know how to keep it moving. Perfect for listeners who like their pop culture with personality, their sports takes unfiltered, and their conversations full of quick wit, random detours, and real opinions. Hertis hosts with a casual, witty style and shares the everyday updates, movie plans, and listener sign-off. Tiffi Tool Time brings the sharper commentary, pop-culture energy, sports opinions, and social shout-outs, including the plug for Funny People in the Living Room and her IG presence.

  5. Jul 29

    The Surprising Power of Imagination: Why People Are Fighting Over Fictional Characters

    Your subconscious might be holding back your true potential—until now. In this unpredictable, lively episode of Doing Me So I Dont Read You, Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time peel back the curtain on navigating life’s chaos, societal injustices, and finding light in dark times. What if the biggest shifts happen when you stop following the rules and start trusting your instinct? You don’t want to miss the raw honesty and humor that might just change how you see the world. They dive into the latest buzz around blockbuster movies like Spider-Man and Doomsday, revealing how pop culture sparks intense debates—often driven by ignorance and prejudice. Hertis shares why seeing Into the Spider-Verse and recent Marvel animations helps him stay connected to his roots, while Tiffi reflects on the outrage over casting choices that reveal societal biases. They expose how the entertainment industry unwittingly mirrors our deepest societal issues, and why ignoring this can cost us empathy and progress.

  6. Jul 15

    How Shedding Light on Racism and Resistance Awakens Collective Power

    Most people underestimate the power of small, everyday decisions — but in this episode, Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time reveal how tiny changes can dramatically shift your life’s course. Whether it's navigating travel mishaps, managing drinking experiences, or handling racially charged encounters, you'll discover the subtle yet impactful moves that turn adversity into opportunity. This episode dives into hilarious travel stories from New York, where superficial explorations are replaced by clear priorities, like avoiding overpriced drinks or funny encounters at gay bars. Hertis shares his surprising experience with watered-down liquor and how to spot the fake stuff—crucial knowledge for anyone who’s ever felt duped by establishments. Tiffi breaks down the provocative responses to racial tensions, highlighting how persistent bigotry still manifests in everyday life, from monkey sounds to police encounters, and the empowering ways individuals are standing their ground. You'll also explore the ongoing battle for LGBTQ+ rights amid a shifting societal landscape. Hertis and Tiffi discuss whether fighting back is inevitable or if future loopholes and increased visibility will naturally propel us toward equality. The conversation addresses recent sports controversies, including the protective response around female athletes like Caitlin Clark, revealing the deeply rooted racial and gender biases within modern sports. Plus, get insight into the secret talents of Blue Ivy, the future of the new Spider-Man universe, and the cultural significance of celebrity moments in Atlanta. Why this matters: Ignorance and prejudice threaten progress—yet awareness and strategy are your best weapons. Whether you’re fighting discrimination, navigating social pitfalls, or just want to stay woke about current events and pop culture, this episode equips you with sharpened insight, resilience, and humor to face today’s challenges head-on. Perfect for anyone tired of feeling powerless in the face of hate or injustice, this episode provides real stories with real lessons—proving that even small, deliberate actions can create ripple effects of change. Tune in to stay informed, inspired, and ready to turn life's chaos into your greatest advantage.

  7. Jun 10

    The Surprising Power of Authenticity: Why Embracing Your True Self Wins Support

    Most people think comedy is just about telling jokes — but for Tiffi Tool Time, it’s a powerful tool to challenge stereotypes and build confidence. When he took the stage at a local comedy contest, he didn’t just aim for laughs; he aimed to break barriers about sexuality, identity, and authenticity. Despite facing judgmental stereotypes about being a gay comedian, Tiffi set proved critics wrong, earning him passionate praise from the crowd and victory in the competition. In this episode, Tiffi shares how embracing his truth on stage transforms perceptions and opens doors—whether competing, performing, or just being himself. You’ll discover: the real story behind the comedy contest and why uniqueness wins; how humor can disarm prejudice and spark real conversations; and the mindset that keeps him pushing forward despite societal stereotypes. Plus, insights on navigating the entertainment world as a gay comedian, and how family, community, and authenticity fuel his growth. We also dive into the importance of representation and the impact of owning your narrative as a marginalized creator. Whether you’re a creative, an aspiring performer, or someone who needs a boost of courage to live boldly, this episode lights a fire to embrace your full self—because the world needs your voice, your laughter, and your truth now more than ever. Perfect for anyone feeling overlooked or underestimated because of who they are. If you believe humor can be a gateway to change, you’ll walk away inspired, better equipped, and ready to step into your power—just like Tiffi. Tune in to discover how standing out with authenticity can make you unstoppable. And stay tuned for more stories that challenge, entertain, and transform.

  8. May 20

    The Surprising Power of Authenticity in Comedy and How It Can Break Barriers

    In this episode, you'll get real about the challenges of navigating a saturated nightlife scene subdued by price hikes and urban traffic chaos, plus the clever ways some insiders use to get VIP treatment. We break down how social media platforms are weaponizing your online presence through AI theft, limiting your creative freedom, and censoring genuine content — all while gatekeeping talented voices. Our hosts share unforgettable stories of overcoming industry bias, producers playing favorites, and maintaining authenticity in a world that rewards conformity.

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Sister and Brother conversations about what's going on in the world and our different interests in sports and makeup. 

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  • Creator
    Hertis & Tiffani
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Hertis & Tiffani
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    Doing Me So I Don't Read You