IGNITE THE SPARK WITHIN

Sebastian Hernandez
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Welcome to a space where I share my journey towards self-mastery through personal experiences and learning. I have been through depression and have experienced the overwhelming emotions of "Hell," but I have also experienced the joy and happiness of "Heaven." Every week, I will share my thoughts on self-mastery and invite amazing people in my world to share their growth stories and achievements. As a US Navy Veteran, Author, Self-Mastery Coach, and Tantric Shaman Apprentice, I will speak from my experiences in the field. Join me on this journey toward self-mastery!

  1. 4d ago

    King vs. Lover: The Energy Your Partner Actually Needs

    Discover the powerful difference between King energy (leadership, structure) and Lover energy (presence, connection) in this deep dive of Episode 175, “King vs. Lover: The Energy Your Partner Actually Needs.” Coach Sebas explores how detachment becomes liberation, the “masculine wound” of equating provision with love, and practical steps to shift from controlling performance to authentic intimacy.In this episode you’ll learn:- Why high‑performing men excel as Kings but often miss the Lover’s role in relationships.- How true detachment frees you to give love without agenda.- The concept of “priming” – building emotional connection hours before intimacy.- Real‑world stories of celibacy, tantra, and transforming a marriage through presence.- Actionable journal prompts to identify where you’re directing vs. receiving love.Who should watch:Men seeking deeper connection, women wanting to understand what their partners truly need, and anyone interested in personal growth, relationship healing, and mastering the balance of leadership and love.🔔 Subscribe for weekly insights on self‑mastery, relationship dynamics, and emotional freedom.Links & Resources:- Start your Self‑Mastery Journey: https://coach.igniteselfmastery.com- Podcast platforms: Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts- Donate & support CleanPlanet: https://www.wecleanplanet.com/#KingEnergy #LoverEnergy #Detachment #Intimacy #MasculineHealing #RelationshipTips #SelfMastery #IgniteTheSparkWithin

    King vs. Lover: The Energy Your Partner Actually Needs

  2. Aug 29

    Light workers Rising. Regulate, respond, and reclaim your power

    If you've ever caught yourself doom-scrolling through war, disaster, and grief until your chest feels tight and your mind goes numb, this episode is for you. Tonight, Coach Sebas shares something raw: an hour and a half of scrolling that almost swallowed him whole, and the moment he chose to put the phone down and create instead of consume. This isn't toxic positivity. This isn't "just raise your vibration." This is a real, honest conversation about what it means to be a light worker in a world that's getting louder and darker by the day and how personal growth and self-mastery start with regulating your nervous system before you do anything else. Coach Sebas also takes you inside a four-day solo mountain retreat with an Indigenous Kogi guide, three nights of ceremony, and the clarity that came through when the noise finally stopped. From inner child healing to emotional maturity, from discipline to creator identity, this episode covers the full arc of what it actually looks like to respond instead of react. In this episode, you'll learn: Why doom-scrolling isn't awareness, it's a nervous system hijackThe difference between reaction and response, and why it changes everythingHow silence becomes the doorway to real personal growth and self-masteryThe four pillars of the Evolve stage: inner child, leadership, wisdom, and creatorHow to use discipline, not abstinence, as a tool for emotional healingWhy "local before global" is the foundation of genuine service and self-loveYour nervous system is the delivery system for everything you want to give to the world. Protect it. Regulate it. And keep igniting that spark within. For more information, resources, and support on your self-mastery journey, visit: www.igniteselfmastery.com #SelfMastery #LightWorkers #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #NervousSystemRegulation #IgniteTheSparkWithin

    Light workers Rising. Regulate, respond, and reclaim your power

  3. Aug 4

    How Unspoken Wounds Destroy Relationships

    This is Season 4, Episode 173 of Ignite The Spark Within. Have you ever quietly built a case against someone you love, collecting evidence in silence, growing colder day by day, while they had no idea what was happening? That's what unspoken wounds do. They don't announce themselves. They just slowly poison the connection from the inside out. In this episode, Coach Sebas gets brutally honest about a real relationship experience that took three weeks, two failed recordings, and a medicine ceremony to finally tell. From silent resentment and hidden expectations to repair attempts that didn't land clean the first time, this is a raw, unfiltered look at how attachment wounds show up even after years of deep personal growth work, and what it actually takes to repair, release, and move forward with integrity. This isn't a polished breakdown. It's proof that emotional maturity isn't about never falling into the pattern, it's about catching it, naming it, and doing something real about it. If you've ever struggled with communication in relationships, unspoken expectations, or knowing when to fight for something versus let it go with love, this one will hit home. In this episode, you'll learn: Why unspoken expectations become silent verdicts — and how they slowly destroy your closest relationshipsWhat negative sentiment override is and how it changes the way you see someone you loveThe real difference between a standard, an expectation, and a spoken agreementWhy hinting instead of asking directly keeps the wound alive and the resentment growingHow repair attempts work — and why emotional repair doesn't always mean alignmentHow self-love helps you stop begging for nurturing and release relationships with gratitude If this episode stirred something in you, follow the podcast and keep doing the work. For more resources and support on your self-mastery journey, visit www.igniteselfmastery.com #RelationshipHealing #SelfMastery #EmotionalHealing #CommunicationInRelationships #AttachmentHealing #PersonalGrowth

    How Unspoken Wounds Destroy Relationships

  4. Jul 1

    The Permission You Are Waiting For

    Welcome to Ignite the Spark Within Podcast!This is Season 4, Episode 172: The Permission You Are Waiting For Most of us aren't actually waiting to be ready. We're waiting for a guarantee that we won't fail, won't look stupid, or won't have to feel the discomfort of actually doing the thing. In this episode, we get honest about the difference between real preparation and fear dressed up as productivity. We talk about why the readiness you're waiting for doesn't show up before you move, it shows up during. We go into what it means to stop needing external permission to become who you already know you are, and why trying to be the "good guy" is often what keeps you stuck. Real stories from coaching sessions and circles. Practical tools you can use today. And one simple question that might change everything: What are you waiting for permission to do? This one's for everyone who's been "almost ready" for way too long. #IgniteTheSparkWithin #SelfMastery #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #Mindset #Leadership #LetGo #Detachment → Start your Self-Mastery Journey #WeCleanPlanet Info: → Visit Our CleanPlanet Website→ Donate Here PODCAST I RECOMMEND Available on All Platforms → Damn Dude Podcast → Ignite The Spark Within

    The Permission You Are Waiting For

  5. Jun 18

    The Emotions You Won't Feel Are Running Your Life

    Welcome to Ignite the Spark Within Podcast!This Season 4, Episode 171: The Emotions You Won't Feel Are Running Your Life What if the emotions you've been avoiding your whole life are the ones quietly making your decisions for you? This week, Coach Sebas digs into something most people spend their entire lives running from — their own feelings. Not in a therapy-speak kind of way. In a real, raw, "why am I having a panic attack when nothing is even wrong?" kind of way. We talk about the woman in the circle who woke up at 4am thinking she was having a heart attack... and realized she was just happy. We talk about the man who prided himself on staying calm — until he didn't. And we break down why stuffing your emotions down doesn't make them go away. It just makes them louder. You'll learn the difference between regulating your emotions and suppressing them, why your body stores what your mind refuses to feel, and a simple 4-step method to actually process what's been sitting in your chest for years. This one's not comfortable. But that's kind of the point. Join the Inner Circle → igniteselfmastery.com CleanPlanet Day → wecleanplanet.com

    The Emotions You Won't Feel Are Running Your Life

  6. Jun 10

    The Conversations We're Too Scared to Have

    Welcome to Ignite the Spark Within Podcast!This is Season 4, Episode 170 Difficult Conversations & The Practice of Speaking Truth We all have that conversation we keep putting off. The one that tightens your chest just thinking about it. The one you've rehearsed in your head a hundred times but never actually had. In this episode, we get real about why we avoid those talks and what it's actually costing us. Spoiler: it's not just awkwardness we're dodging. It's our own power. You'll hear real stories from our Integration Circle, including a woman who let a neighbor walk all over her boundaries for three years because she didn't want to seem difficult. Sound familiar? We break down: Why your nervous system treats hard conversations like a life-or-death threatThe difference between speaking from your truth vs. speaking from your woundWhat "sovereign communication" looks like in real life — clean, owned, and clearHow to stop managing other people's emotions at the expense of your ownWhy the conversation you're avoiding is actually pointing you toward your next levelThis episode is for anyone who's ever swallowed their truth to keep the peace and felt smaller for it. One honest conversation this week can change everything. 🔗 Join the community: coach.igniteselfmastery.com

    The Conversations We're Too Scared to Have

  7. Jun 4

    YOUR BIGGEST BUSINESS PROBLEM ISN'T A BUSINESS PROBLEM

    Welcome to Ignite the Spark Within Podcast! This is Season 4, Episode 169: YOUR BIGGEST BUSINESS PROBLEM ISN'T A BUSINESS PROBLEM Most people think their biggest problems are about business, money, or finding the right people. But here's the truth: the real problem is usually hiding in plain sight — and it's not what you think. In this episode, we break down three invisible patterns that keep high-achievers stuck: the validation trap (where you're running your whole life waiting for someone else's approval), the identity crisis that happens when you outgrow who you used to be but haven't fully become who you're meant to be, and the communication gap that turns small issues into massive dysfunction. Whether you're leading a team, building a business, or just trying to show up more honestly in your relationships, this one hits different. We get into real stories from actual coaching sessions, practical journal prompts you can use today, and the exact framework for having those hard conversations you've been avoiding. This isn't theory. It's the messy, real work of closing the gap between who you say you are and who you actually show up as when it counts. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right but still hitting the same ceiling over and over — this episode is for you. → ⁠Start your Self-Mastery Journey⁠ #WeCleanPlanet Info: → Visit Our CleanPlanet Website→ Donate Here PODCAST I RECOMMEND Available on All Platforms → Damn Dude Podcast

    YOUR BIGGEST BUSINESS PROBLEM ISN'T A BUSINESS PROBLEM

  8. May 28

    How Your Childhood Shaped Your Adult Relationships

    Welcome to Ignite the Spark Within Podcast!This is Season 4, Episode 168: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Adult Relationships Your inner child isn't just a cute therapy term—it's the five-year-old version of you still running your relationships, reactions, and life choices. In this episode, we break down how childhood wounds turn into automatic patterns that keep you stuck in toxic cycles, self-sabotage, and emotional storms you can't escape. You'll learn the five clear signs your inner child has taken the wheel, why you keep choosing the same unavailable partners, and how to actually change the pattern instead of just understanding it. Plus, we get into something nobody talks about: what to do when someone else's wounded inner child shows up and tries to pull you into their chaos. This isn't surface-level advice. This is the real work of rewiring your nervous system, holding boundaries without shutting down, and breaking cycles that have been running your family for generations. If you're tired of repeating the same mistakes, attracting the same type of person, or feeling like you're stuck on autopilot—this episode is for you. #WeCleanPlanet Info: → Visit Our CleanPlanet Website→ Donate Here PODCAST I RECOMMEND Available on All Platforms → Damn Dude Podcast

    How Your Childhood Shaped Your Adult Relationships
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Welcome to a space where I share my journey towards self-mastery through personal experiences and learning. I have been through depression and have experienced the overwhelming emotions of "Hell," but I have also experienced the joy and happiness of "Heaven." Every week, I will share my thoughts on self-mastery and invite amazing people in my world to share their growth stories and achievements. As a US Navy Veteran, Author, Self-Mastery Coach, and Tantric Shaman Apprentice, I will speak from my experiences in the field. Join me on this journey toward self-mastery!

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  • Creator
    Sebastian Hernandez
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    173
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Sebastian Hernandez
  • Show Website
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