Counselor Chat Podcast

Carol Miller, School Counselor

Counselor Chat is a podcast for School Counselors. If you're looking for inspiration, collaboration, easy to implement strategies and a bit of joy, you'll want to listen along with your host, Carol Miller from Counseling Essentials. Share in some real talk and get tips, tricks and learn about tools of the trade with Carol and listen in as she interviews other school counselors who are experts in the field as they share their advice and enjoy a few laughs.

  1. 149.  Lives Worth Living with Steve Sharp and Perri Rosen

    5D AGO

    149. Lives Worth Living with Steve Sharp and Perri Rosen

    Episode 148: Lives Worth Living with Steve Sharp and Perri RosenIn this episode, I’m joined by Steve Sharp (a middle school counselor in Pennsylvania) and Dr. Perri Rosen (a nationally certified school psychologist and former special educator) to talk about their new book, Lives Worth Living: Applying the Zero Suicide Approach in Schools. We have an honest, practical conversation about how suicide prevention in schools has often been treated as “crisis response only”—and why the work we do before a crisis (SEL, belonging, school climate, connection) is a critical part of prevention too. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why suicide prevention is often seen as “its own box” in schools—and how to broaden that mindsetWhat the Zero Suicide framework is and why it can be adapted for school systemsHow SEL, belonging, and school climate function as real protective factorsWhat school counselors may need to unlearn about suicide preventionWhy “refer out and hope it resolves” isn’t the full picture—and how schools still play a role in recoveryWhy re-entry and connection matter so much after a suicide-related crisisHow data and continuous improvement can strengthen a school-wide prevention system over time “You don’t have to layer on all of these other things… it’s many of the things you’re already doing. It’s just making those connections.”Key Takeaway:Suicide prevention isn’t just a training or a risk assessment—it’s the systems we build, the connections we create, and the culture of belonging we protect, so students can truly live lives worth living. If this episode encouraged you, I’d love for you to follow the podcast and leave a review—it helps other school counselors find support, resources, and reminders that they’re not alone in this work. Resources Mentioned: Lives Worth Living Mentioned in this episode: Perks Membership

    47 min
  2. 147.  Midyear School Counseling Data Check (Without the Stress)

    JAN 28

    147. Midyear School Counseling Data Check (Without the Stress)

    January has a way of sneaking up on me—and usually bringing one big question with it: How’s your data looking?In this episode, I’m sharing a realistic, no-pressure approach to doing a midyear data check, without the guilt, the overwhelm, or the unrealistic expectation of having “perfect” charts and reports. This conversation is all about using what you already have to guide meaningful next steps for your students, instead of stressing over what you didn’t collect. In This Episode, I Talk About:Why “real data” doesn’t always live in spreadsheets and graphsWhat actually counts as meaningful data in a real school settingSimple reflection questions I use to spot trends and changing needsHow I know when it’s time to adjust groups, lessons, or interventionsWhy January is more about course correction than evaluationHow my own energy and workload often point to important patterns Reflection Questions I Share:What feels heavier than it did in the fall?What feels lighter?Who am I seeing more often—and who am I seeing less?What has surprised me so far this year? “You don’t need more data to prove you’re doing meaningful work. You just need enough information to guide your next steps.”Key Takeaway:Midyear data isn’t about proving everything worked—it’s about asking one powerful question: What do students need now? If this episode encouraged you, I’d love for you to follow the podcast and leave a review—it helps other counselors find support, ideas, and practical strategies too. Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcast Join Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months! Connect with Carol: TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors...

    14 min
  3. 146.  How School Counselors Can Help With Attendance, Motivation, and Engagement

    JAN 21

    146. How School Counselors Can Help With Attendance, Motivation, and Engagement

    January is often when attendance challenges start to feel impossible (for students and for counselors). In this episode, I break down why attendance dips during the winter months, how to reframe attendance as a support issue rather than a compliance issue, and what counselors can realistically do to help students re-engage with school. This episode focuses on compassion, collaboration, and practical strategies that honor what students are really experiencing. You’ll Learn:Common reasons attendance declines in January (illness, anxiety, routine changes, weather, and more)Why framing attendance as a symptom changes how students respondLanguage counselors can use to talk about attendance without blameLayered counseling supports for students with chronic absencesHow small wins (fewer tardies, staying longer, asking for help) matter more than perfect dataEngagement strategies that increase motivation and belonging Quote from the Episode“Students don’t avoid school because they don’t care. They avoid school because something feels really hard.” Resources Mentioned:Attendance Small Group Middle School Attendance Lesson (grades 6-7) Barriers To Attendance Lesson (grades K-1) Academic Success Attendance Lesson (grades 2-3) Barriers to Attendance (grades 4-5) Chronic Attendance Intervention Lesson (grade 8) Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcast Join Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months! Connect with Carol: TpT StoreCounseling Essentials Websitea...

    16 min
  4. 145.  How School Counselors Can Support Big Feelings in the New Year

    JAN 14

    145. How School Counselors Can Support Big Feelings in the New Year

    January can feel especially tough in schools. Big emotions, increased anxiety, mood changes, and shutdown behaviors often show up as students transition back from break. In this episode, I’m breaking down why January feels so hard, and what school counselors can do to support students in ways that are compassionate, practical, and sustainable. In this episode, I discuss:Why January creates emotional and behavioral shifts for studentsHow anxiety shows up differently across age groupsThe difference between behavior problems and regulation problemsWhy predictability is essential for reducing anxietyCounselor strategies to restore safety and routineLow-pressure Tier 1 lesson ideas for JanuarySmall group supports for anxiety, coping skills, and transitionsTrauma-informed practices that prioritize connection before correction Key Quote from the Episode“Anxiety increases when predictability decreases.” Counselor TakeawayJanuary isn’t about fixing feelings or pushing through. It’s about regrounding, rebuilding routines, and helping students feel safe enough to learn again. Small supports matter—and they add up. Thank you for showing up for your students and for yourself. Your work matters more than you know. Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcast Join Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months! Connect with Carol: TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook Groupa...

    12 min
  5. 144.  New Year, Same Counselor

    JAN 7

    144. New Year, Same Counselor

    January has a way of making counselors feel like they should start over with new systems, new routines, new everything. But what if that pressure is actually working against your effectiveness? In this episode of Counselor Chat, I'm offering a grounded reframe for the new year: you don’t need to become a brand-new counselor just because the calendar changed. Instead, this episode invites you to slow down, protect your energy, and focus on what already works. In this episode, you’ll hear:Why January pressure can lead to burnout instead of clarityA simple explanation of the law of diminishing returns in school counselingHow “doing more” can actually reduce your impactWhy small tweaks matter more than big overhaulsPractical ways to carry fall systems into the springThree gentle reflection prompts to guide your January planning “Sometimes less truly is more — especially when it comes to protecting your energy and sustaining your impact.”January Reflection Prompts:What is one counseling routine that felt manageable in the fall?What is one lesson, group, or system I don’t need to reinvent?What is one thing I can stop doing to protect my energy? This episode is a reminder that: You are not starting overYour relationships still matterYour systems didn’t disappearAnd sustainability is what carries you through March, April, and May ✨ New year. Same counselor. Stronger boundaries. Smarter focus. Thanks for being here, counselor friend. You’re doing important work — even when it doesn’t feel loud or new. ⭐ If this episode helped you, a quick review means more than you know Until next time — I hope you have a really great week. Links Mentioned in the Episode: Episode 83 Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcast Join Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months! Connect with Carol: TpT StoreCounseling Essentials...

    9 min
  6. 143.  What If I Don't Feel Motivated To Go Back To Work (ICYMI)

    12/31/2025

    143. What If I Don't Feel Motivated To Go Back To Work (ICYMI)

    As the calendar turns to a new year, many school counselors find themselves holding a mix of emotions about heading back to work. Motivation might feel low, energy might feel scattered, and that sense of readiness may not be there yet. In this New Year’s Eve re-listen, I'm revisiting Episode 41 of Counselor Chat Podcast, a conversation counselors return to again and again when break comes to an end. This episode is a reminder that feeling unmotivated, heavy, or unsure about returning to school is normal. Motivation does not magically appear on January 1st, and you do not need to have everything figured out before heading back. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why mixed emotions after a break are completely normalHow different breaks can bring different feelings from year to yearThe importance of acknowledging your emotions instead of pushing through themHow reconnecting with your “why” can ground you when motivation feels lowSimple strategies to ease back into work, including building white space into your calendarWhy prioritizing tasks and letting go of doing everything at once mattersThe power of reconnecting with colleagues for support and perspectiveGentle reminders about self care and protecting your energy You are not alone, and you are allowed to take this transition one step at a time. Mentioned in the Episode: Energy Inventory: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1eXT5jXvwueU39AGvkFYq7-wvom9TiSns/view?usp=sharing Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcast Join Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months! Connect with Carol: TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook Group Mentioned in this...

    15 min
  7. 142.  Advice from Counselors to Counselors (ICYMI)

    12/24/2025

    142. Advice from Counselors to Counselors (ICYMI)

    As the holiday season arrives, we’re revisiting one of the most meaningful episodes of Counselor Chat — a conversation filled with honest advice, encouragement, and reminders from counselors who truly understand the work. In this episode, counselors from across the country share the wisdom they wish they had when they were new to the profession — advice that’s just as powerful for seasoned counselors navigating full plates, shifting priorities, and year-end reflection. You’ll hear thoughtful insights on: The importance of visibility and relationship-buildingGiving yourself grace and letting go of perfectionAsking for help and leaning on your support systemBalancing heart work with realistic expectationsCaring for yourself while caring for othersRemembering that even the smallest moments matter This episode feels like sitting down with colleagues who get it — the challenges, the joy, the exhaustion, and the purpose behind the work you do every day. Whether you’re listening on a walk, at the gym, or during a quiet moment of rest, my hope is that this re-listen meets you exactly where you are and reminds you that you are not alone. Ready to share your tips and advice on a upcoming episode? Just hit this link, and then press record on your phone or device. Easy peasy! https://www.speakpipe.com/msg/s/325646/26/h0ldegvcaj9roa3k Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcast Join Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months! Connect with Carol: TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook Group Mentioned in this episode: Perks Membership

    29 min
4.9
out of 5
64 Ratings

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Counselor Chat is a podcast for School Counselors. If you're looking for inspiration, collaboration, easy to implement strategies and a bit of joy, you'll want to listen along with your host, Carol Miller from Counseling Essentials. Share in some real talk and get tips, tricks and learn about tools of the trade with Carol and listen in as she interviews other school counselors who are experts in the field as they share their advice and enjoy a few laughs.

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