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Mind Your Midlife: Confidence and Success for Midlife Women, with Cheryl Fischer

Cheryl Fischer, Life Coach for Midlife Women

Did you wake up one morning and realize that you’ve hit midlife? Your forties (or fifties!) are here. You thought by now you’d have six figures in your retirement fund, have the confidence to speak up at work and in your relationships, and would have learned to love your body by now.  As a woman over 40, you've read and listened to all the self help and taken the experts’ advice, whether it’s thinking positively, joining the 5am club, or posting notes to yourself around the house. With every next attempt, though, you’re left with even more frustration - or wanting to numb the pain with wine and Netflix. But what if self talk and mindset shifts could actually work? Have you ever considered that it’s not what you do, but it’s how you think and the emotions you feel that create real change?  What if you could wake up each morning looking forward to the day instead of hitting snooze four times? What if you could feel confident and beautiful in your body instead of comparing yourself to others and wishing perimenopause had been easier? What if you could spend each day doing work that matters and brings you success instead of just wishing for the weekend? As an award-winning Midlife Coach, teacher, and trainer, Cheryl Fischer has helped hundreds of midlife women find success and confidence. This midlife transformation does not have to be about adding more tasks and habits to your day; change comes from inside and you can start now.  Join us each week as Cheryl and her guests share with you how to feel confident in your midlife body, your decisions, and your "second act" goals - and create a midlife that you love. (Formerly OMG Teach Me podcast) Popular topics include: mindset for women over 50, menopause and perimenopause, hormone balance, self talk and self confidence, redefining aging for women, mindset shifts, midlife crisis, brain health, midlife body positivity, energy in midlife, confidence in midlife, finding community after 50, midlife isolation, staying active in midlife, mental benefits of movement, healthy habits for midlife women, Gen X women and community

  1. Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy Part Three: Rewrite Your Story

    1D AGO • SUBSCRIBERS ONLY

    Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy Part Three: Rewrite Your Story

    Part 3: In this third part of our special "Confidence Deep Dive" mini-series, I’m breaking down how to stop walking through life "hypnotized" and start making intentional decisions that light you up. If you’re tired of shuffling along without a plan — or if you’re ready to finally understand the hidden story cycle that drives your every move — this episode is for you.  **Remember that you have personal email access to me as a subscriber.  Send your questions or comments to bonus@cherylpfischer.com.** What You’ll Learn: ✔ How to identify the specific activities and environments that truly light you up and give you energy  ✔ Practical steps to map out your Story Cycle (S-S-E-A-O) and see how it impacts your daily success  Take Action Today: Download your free Story Cycle Tool and Wheel of Emotions at cherylpfischer.com/storycycle Brainstorm your "Lit Up" list: Write down 3-5 activities or situations that make you feel happy and energized, then look for the common pattern Audit your circle: Identify one person who brings your energy down and decide on a plan to respond with calm and redirection next time you meet Choose your intentional story: Pick a goal for this week and work backward: what outcome do you want, and what story do you need to tell yourself to feel the emotion required to get there? Why This Episode Matters Midlife is a powerful turning point. It’s when we often realize we’ve been living on default settings, allowing "head trash" or old habits to dictate our confidence. By learning to recognize your emotions and intentionally scripting your internal narrative, you reclaim control over your future.

    24 min
  2. 65. Money, Self-Worth, and Deserving More in Midlife, with Denise Duffield-Thomas

    6D AGO

    65. Money, Self-Worth, and Deserving More in Midlife, with Denise Duffield-Thomas

    Are you a woman in midlife who knows she wants more ease, freedom, or financial security — but still feels uncomfortable receiving, charging, asking, or even wanting more? You’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone. In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, I’m joined by money mentor and bestselling author Denise Duffield-Thomas for an honest, compassionate conversation about money mindset, hidden money blocks, gratitude, the upper limit problem, and why so many women feel unsafe with success, ease, or abundance — even when they’ve worked incredibly hard for it. We talk about the subconscious beliefs that quietly run the show, how midlife changes our capacity, and why learning to receive is just as important as learning to give. If money brings up guilt, discomfort, fear, or a sense that “this isn’t for me” — this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn: ✔ Why gratitude does not mean you can’t want more ✔ What the “upper limit problem” is — and how it shows up in midlife ✔ Why success, comfort, and ease can feel unsafe in your body ✔ Why midlife (and perimenopause) often forces a reevaluation of hustle, capacity, and ambition ✔ Simple ways to begin choosing what you want — without guilt 🎯 OMG Moment: You don’t just serve — you deserve. Receiving money, care, ease, and comfort doesn’t make you selfish or greedy. It makes you human. Take Action Today: Get curious (not judgmental) about your money stories and family rules around moneyPractice choosing what you want in a low-stakes moment — a meal, clothing, rest, or time offExplore Denise’s work, including her books Get Rich, Lucky Bitch and Chill and Prosper, and her podcast Chill and ProsperConnect with Denise on Instagram @denisedtWhy This Episode Matters Midlife is often when we notice how much energy we've spent proving, pleasing, pushing, and holding it all together. It’s also when the old rules about money, worth, and success stop working. This episode is an invitation to loosen the grip of those rules — to build a life that feels safe, spacious, and aligned now, not someday.  **Find bonus episodes by subscribing where you find Mind Your Midlife on Apple podcasts - or go to cherylpfischer.com/bonusepisodes. Support the show 🌸 Liked this episode? Share it with fellow Gen X women navigating hormone balance, an empty nest, and/or self-confidence! 🫶 Love this show? Leave a review to help more women over 50 find us. 💡Want menopause support, mindset shifts, or support with midlife transitions? Build a mindset for success with the private bonus episodes! Book a free Mindset Coaching / Intro Call: cherylpfischer.com/coaching Let’s talk midlife body positivity, self-talk, and redefining aging for women — without the “midlife crisis” narrative. Every week I'm adding new success strategies for midlife women. Connect with Cheryl, Midlife Coach: Instagram | LinkedIn | Website

    50 min
  3. 64. Hormones, Health, And Vibrant Aging - Putting It All Together, with Dr. Prudence Hall

    12/26/2025

    64. Hormones, Health, And Vibrant Aging - Putting It All Together, with Dr. Prudence Hall

    Ever wondered what it would look like to age with energy, clarity, and confidence instead of decline? What if midlife—especially menopause—wasn’t something to just “get through,” but an opportunity to feel better than you have in years? In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, I sit down with renowned OBGYN Dr. Prudence Hall to talk about what she calls vibrant aging—a holistic, empowering approach to perimenopause, menopause, and life beyond it. This conversation builds beautifully on last week’s episode where I shared my own hormone journey, and together they paint a much bigger, more hopeful picture of what’s possible for women in midlife. Dr. Hall shares decades of experience working with women to optimize hormones, reduce inflammation, restore energy, and reconnect with purpose. This is about so much more than symptom relief—it’s about reclaiming joy, passion, and confidence in your 40s, 50s, and beyond. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: ✔ What “vibrant aging” really means—and why aging doesn’t have to equal decline  ✔ Why menopause can be a powerful turning point rather than a midlife crisis  ✔ How hormone balance affects sleep, mood, weight, brain health, and confidence  ✔ Why many chronic diseases associated with aging are not inevitable ✔ How purpose, passion, and self-trust play a critical role in women’s health 🎯 OMG Moment: How you handle menopause now can shape the next 40 to 50 years of your life—your energy, your health, your confidence, and your joy. Take Action Listen to episode 63 and episode 50 for related HRT topicsFind Dr. Hall's recommended books at cherylpfischer.com/readCatch the bonus episodes here (or subscribe on Apple podcast)Connect with Dr. Hall at https://www.drprudencehall.com/Why This Episode Matters So many women over 40 and 50 have been told that exhaustion, weight gain, sleep issues, and loss of motivation are “just part of aging.” This conversation challenges that belief in a big way. Vibrant aging is about informed choices, self-care, mindset shifts, and believing that you deserve to feel good in this chapter o **Find bonus episodes by subscribing where you find Mind Your Midlife on Apple podcasts - or go to cherylpfischer.com/bonusepisodes. Support the show 🌸 Liked this episode? Share it with fellow Gen X women navigating hormone balance, an empty nest, and/or self-confidence! 🫶 Love this show? Leave a review to help more women over 50 find us. 💡Want menopause support, mindset shifts, or support with midlife transitions? Build a mindset for success with the private bonus episodes! Book a free Mindset Coaching / Intro Call: cherylpfischer.com/coaching Let’s talk midlife body positivity, self-talk, and redefining aging for women — without the “midlife crisis” narrative. Every week I'm adding new success strategies for midlife women. Connect with Cheryl, Midlife Coach: Instagram | LinkedIn | Website

    39 min
  4. Bonus: Eat To Lower Inflammation, with Dr. Prudence Hall

    12/24/2025 • SUBSCRIBERS ONLY

    Bonus: Eat To Lower Inflammation, with Dr. Prudence Hall

    Bonus topic! **Remember that you have personal email access to me as a subscriber.  Send your questions or comments to bonus@cherylpfischer.com.** Looking for a saner way to start the New Year? We pressed pause on big, brittle resolutions and asked Dr. Prudence Hall to map a simpler path: anti-inflammatory eating you can actually live with.  The approach is grounded and flexible—eat from the land, lean on fiber-rich plants and clean proteins, and make healthy fats a daily habit. Along the way, we talk through realistic meals, smart beverage choices, and a short elimination test that lets you pinpoint your personal food triggers without guesswork. And yes, dark chocolate gets a thoughtful green light when it’s 72 to 85 percent cacao. Personalization is the throughline. If you suspect gluten, soy, dairy, or nightshades are stirring up bloat, joint pain, headaches, or afternoon crashes, try a focused two-week elimination and a single-day reintroduction to read your body’s signals clearly. No moralizing, no shame—just data you can use to build meals that make you feel steady and clear.  Save this for your January reset and pick one upgrade to start: swap refined grains for wild rice, switch your cooking fat to extra-virgin olive oil, or trade an afternoon slump for matcha. Connect with Dr. Hall at drprudencehall.com. See you next week as we resume the series on How to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy!

    10 min
  5. 63. What HRT Changed About My Midlife Health, Mindset, and Hormones

    12/19/2025

    63. What HRT Changed About My Midlife Health, Mindset, and Hormones

    Ever wonder if the way you’re feeling in midlife is just “how it’s supposed to be now”—or if something deeper is going on? In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, I’m sharing my own hormone replacement therapy (HRT) journey and what ultimately led me to say yes to exploring it. I’ve interviewed experts on menopause and hormones before, but this time, I’m telling my story. From unexpected physical symptoms to mood changes, low energy, and a surprising high cholesterol wake-up call, this episode is about listening to your body, advocating for yourself, and realizing that feeling “not great” doesn’t have to be your new normal. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER: ✔ The menopause and perimenopause symptoms I didn’t realize were hormone-related  ✔ Why my cholesterol results became a turning point in my decision  ✔ How estrogen levels can affect far more than hot flashes  ✔ What actually changed for me after starting HRT  ✔ Why getting the right medical support in midlife matters so much 🎯 OMG Moment: Just because your symptoms are common doesn’t mean you have to live with them. Feeling “off” is information—and you’re allowed to do something about it. Take Action If any part of this episode sounds familiar, start by paying attention. Track your symptoms, notice patterns, and don’t downplay how you’re feeling. Then, talk with a medical professional who is trained in menopause care and willing to listen. You deserve options—and informed ones. Listen to episode 50 - how to talk to your doctorsListen to episode 18 and episode 41 about sleep issuesTake the menopause quiz!Why This Episode Matters For women over 40 and 50, midlife health conversations are often minimized or oversimplified. This episode is about reclaiming your voice, understanding the role hormones play in your physical and mental health, and recognizing that self-care in midlife includes advocating for your well-being. You’re not broken—and you’re not alone. **Find bonus episodes by subscribing where you find Mind Your Midlife on Apple podcasts - or go to cherylpfischer.com/bonusepisodes. Support the show 🌸 Liked this episode? Share it with fellow Gen X women navigating hormone balance, an empty nest, and/or self-confidence! 🫶 Love this show? Leave a review to help more women over 50 find us. 💡Want menopause support, mindset shifts, or support with midlife transitions? Build a mindset for success with the private bonus episodes! Book a free Mindset Coaching / Intro Call: cherylpfischer.com/coaching Let’s talk midlife body positivity, self-talk, and redefining aging for women — without the “midlife crisis” narrative. Every week I'm adding new success strategies for midlife women. Connect with Cheryl, Midlife Coach: Instagram | LinkedIn | Website

    27 min
  6. Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy Part 2: Words Have Power

    12/17/2025 • SUBSCRIBERS ONLY

    Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy Part 2: Words Have Power

    Ever notice how your inner voice can quietly sabotage your confidence, your mood, and even your motivation—without you fully realizing it? Imagine understanding exactly how that happens, and learning how to interrupt it before it derails your day. In this second episode of How to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy, I take you deeper into the real work of mindset change. We move beyond why your brain gets negative and into what to do about it. This episode is all about awareness, language, and the stories you’re telling yourself on repeat—and how those stories shape everything that follows. 🎯 OMG Moment: It’s not the situation that creates how you feel—it’s the story you’re telling yourself about it. Change the story, and everything downstream can change. Take Action Once or twice a day, pause and ask yourself: What story am I telling myself right now? Notice patterns without judgment. And if you want help with this, download the free Story Cycle resource at cherylpfischer.com/storycycle to start spotting where your self-talk might be working against you. **Remember that you have personal email access to me as a subscriber.  Send your questions or comments to bonus@cherylpfischer.com.** Why This Episode Matters Midlife is full of transitions, challenges, and new chapters—and the way you talk to yourself determines whether those moments build confidence or chip away at it. This episode helps you shift from self-criticism to self-awareness, which is the foundation for lasting confidence, calm, and forward momentum.

    11 min
  7. 62. What Every Midlife Woman Needs to Know About Money and Retirement Planning, with Shari Rash

    12/12/2025

    62. What Every Midlife Woman Needs to Know About Money and Retirement Planning, with Shari Rash

    Are you a woman over 40 or 50 feeling stressed, behind, or unsure about money, retirement planning, or your financial future? You’re NOT alone — and you’re not stuck. In this episode of Mind Your Midlife, financial advisor Shari Rash joins me to break down money mindset, retirement planning, financial confidence, and the real emotional side of finances for midlife women navigating career changes, aging parents, kids leaving the nest, and the fear of not saving “enough.” If money makes you anxious — or if you’re ready to feel more empowered, confident, and informed — this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn: ✔ How money mindset affects financial decisions for midlife women ✔ Why women over 50 often feel behind on retirement planning ✔ Practical steps to build financial confidence in midlife ✔ What women REALLY need to save for retirement (and how to understand it) ✔ How to balance enjoying life now with planning for long-term financial wellness 🎯 OMG Moment: Your mindset about money matters just as much as your bank balance. When you shift how you feel about money, you transform what becomes possible. Take Action Today: Connect with Shari at gwawealth.com and listen to Everyone's Talkin' Money podcastListen to Shari on OMG Teach Me and learn more about money mindsetReview your retirement accounts; check whether you're getting your full employer match; start or revisit an emergency fundChoose ONE small step to build your financial confidence this weekWhy This Episode Matters  Midlife is a powerful turning point. It’s when so many women feel the weight of money stress — from paying for college to caring for aging parents to wondering whether retirement will be possible. You don’t need perfection — you just need a starting point. **Find bonus episodes by subscribing where you find Mind Your Midlife on Apple podcasts - or go to cherylpfischer.com/bonusepisodes. Support the show 🌸 Liked this episode? Share it with fellow Gen X women navigating hormone balance, an empty nest, and/or self-confidence! 🫶 Love this show? Leave a review to help more women over 50 find us. 💡Want menopause support, mindset shifts, or support with midlife transitions? Build a mindset for success with the private bonus episodes! Book a free Mindset Coaching / Intro Call: cherylpfischer.com/coaching Let’s talk midlife body positivity, self-talk, and redefining aging for women — without the “midlife crisis” narrative. Every week I'm adding new success strategies for midlife women. Connect with Cheryl, Midlife Coach: Instagram | LinkedIn | Website

    45 min
  8. Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy, Part 1: Five Self Talk Traps

    12/10/2025 • SUBSCRIBERS ONLY

    Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy, Part 1: Five Self Talk Traps

    Part 1: Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Why am I the one standing in my own way again?” You’re not broken. You’re human. And in midlife, when change is everywhere, our brains can get extra loud trying to keep us “safe.” In this first episode, I’m kicking off a mini-series on how to stop being your own worst enemy. We’re getting super clear on the five sneaky mental traps that fuel self-sabotage, shrink your confidence, and keep you stuck in patterns you’re ready to outgrow. The good news? Once you can spot these traps, you can start stepping around them. **Remember that you have personal email access to me as a subscriber.  Send your questions or comments to bonus@cherylpfischer.com.** 🎯 OMG Moment: You are not your thoughts. These traps are brain-protection patterns, not truth—so once you name them, you can change them. Take Action As you go through your week, notice which trap pops up most for you. Is it comparison? Fear of failure or success? The feeling that you can’t do something because you’ve never done it before? Just name it in the moment: “Oh, that’s the trap talking.” Awareness is the first real shift. Why This Episode Matters Midlife is not the time to play small. But if 77% of our thoughts skew negative, it’s no wonder women over 40 and 50 sometimes feel stuck, second-guess themselves, or stay quiet about what they want. This episode helps you catch the patterns that create self-sabotage—so you can start choosing confidence, momentum, and a mindset shift on purpose. Next in the Series In part two, we’ll talk about the power of words and how your self-talk shapes your results—often more than you realize.

    9 min
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Did you wake up one morning and realize that you’ve hit midlife? Your forties (or fifties!) are here. You thought by now you’d have six figures in your retirement fund, have the confidence to speak up at work and in your relationships, and would have learned to love your body by now.  As a woman over 40, you've read and listened to all the self help and taken the experts’ advice, whether it’s thinking positively, joining the 5am club, or posting notes to yourself around the house. With every next attempt, though, you’re left with even more frustration - or wanting to numb the pain with wine and Netflix. But what if self talk and mindset shifts could actually work? Have you ever considered that it’s not what you do, but it’s how you think and the emotions you feel that create real change?  What if you could wake up each morning looking forward to the day instead of hitting snooze four times? What if you could feel confident and beautiful in your body instead of comparing yourself to others and wishing perimenopause had been easier? What if you could spend each day doing work that matters and brings you success instead of just wishing for the weekend? As an award-winning Midlife Coach, teacher, and trainer, Cheryl Fischer has helped hundreds of midlife women find success and confidence. This midlife transformation does not have to be about adding more tasks and habits to your day; change comes from inside and you can start now.  Join us each week as Cheryl and her guests share with you how to feel confident in your midlife body, your decisions, and your "second act" goals - and create a midlife that you love. (Formerly OMG Teach Me podcast) Popular topics include: mindset for women over 50, menopause and perimenopause, hormone balance, self talk and self confidence, redefining aging for women, mindset shifts, midlife crisis, brain health, midlife body positivity, energy in midlife, confidence in midlife, finding community after 50, midlife isolation, staying active in midlife, mental benefits of movement, healthy habits for midlife women, Gen X women and community