Wellspoken" Podcast

DelRae Messer

Where transformational leaders explore the mindsets, motivations and methodologies of impact driven businesses.

  1. 06/15/2023

    10 Ways to Feel Better Naked with Dr. Jennie Hilleren

    This is your reminder today that you do NOT need to spend one more moment of your life or relationship feeling unworthy, disconnected or not good enough.    Consider this a permission slip to feel like your most confident, sexiest, sensual self, NOW.    Why you may ask?    Did you know that how you feel about your naked body directly impacts your openness to intimacy?    Your relationship with yourself is a part of sexual pleasure, confidence, vulnerability and deeper intimacy.   Did you know that there are simple practices you can implement TODAY to shift your relationship to yourself and feel better naked? In this episode, Dr. Jennie and DelRae deep dive into 10 ways you can feel more confident - right now.   Whether you're single, dating, married or divorced– feeling better naked can positively impact your life in so many ways: Higher self-esteem (in and out of the bedroom) Increased openness to vulnerability and connection Better, more intimate sex life 1 - show your body you care for her (drink water, exercise, listen to her wisdom) 2 - fire inner perfectionist (talk to your body with grace & tenderness) 3 - kill comparison habit 4 - challenge negative self- talk 5 - practice - be naked more often 6 - write your body & self a letter of appreciation 7 - lovingly tend to your skin ( biggest sex organ) with moisturizing and self touch 8 - start loving on one part of your body at a time (I appreciate my arms. They allow me to embrace life experiences & loved ones).  9 - work on your posture ( shoulders back, bottom in, chin up, spine long). 10 - choose well fitting clothes - makes being in your body a more frequent comfortable experience.  We appreciate your help in sharing the gift of confidence - please rate, review, and share the Wellspoken Podcast!

    46 min
  2. 05/30/2023

    Parenting Down from Our Wisest Self: Cultivating Self-Awareness with Jen McVann

    This episode is specifically designed for individuals who are currently in or seeking to establish intimate relationships. Whether you're single, dating, in a committed relationship, or married, operating from our highest self in intimate relationships can be transformative. This episode offers valuable insights, strategies, and guidance for individuals who wish to deepen their connection, enhance their communication, and cultivate a loving and fulfilling relationship from a place of authenticity, self-awareness, and personal growth. In today's episode, we are honored to have Jen McVann, a renowned sexual health expert, join us to delve into the topic of parenting down from our wisest self. Jen will share her expertise on cultivating self-awareness and internal validation and how it can positively influence intimacy in our relationship with self and partners. The concept of "parenting down" from our wisest self emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and personal growth in cultivating intimacy.   Self-awareness is the ability to consciously recognize and understand one's own thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and patterns of thinking. It involves developing a deep understanding of oneself, including strengths, weaknesses, values, and beliefs. Self-awareness is a fundamental component of personal growth and emotional well-being. By becoming more self-aware, individuals gain insight into their inner world, which can lead to greater clarity, self-acceptance, and the ability to make informed choices in life. Self-awareness allows us to recognize our triggers, biases, and emotional reactions, enabling us to respond to ourselves and our partner in a more thoughtful and compassionate manner. It helps us understand how our own upbringing and experiences may influence our relationship style and empowers us to make conscious changes if needed. Self-awareness is closely intertwined with emotional intelligence, which refers to the ability to perceive, understand, and manage our own emotions and the emotions of others. By developing self-awareness, we enhance our emotional intelligence, as we become more attuned to our own emotional landscape and are better equipped to empathize with and support our emotional needs. Join Dr. DelRae and Dr. Jennie's Unlocking Intimacy Course with guest expert, Jen McVann to cultivate deeper connection and greater intimacy. Launching June 24th: https://wellspoken-inner-circle.mn.co/landing/plans/297467 As always, we appreciate you and your desire to help us share educational and empowering content. Subscribe, review and share The Wellspoken Podcast!

    51 min

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