What if you're already a 10 — and everything you've been trying to "fix" was never broken? Javier sits down with Steve Barton — coach, entrepreneur, and creator of The Game of Ten®, a registered framework now used by therapists, coaches, and wellness professionals worldwide. Steve took over his family's flower business at 22 after his father had a major stroke. Over 30+ years, he grew it past $2M and quietly built a framework presented at Harvard, taught alongside Marianne Williamson, and co-authored into a book with his son Spencer. His premise: you're either at 10 — flow, alignment, authentic self — or you're playing "the game often played": fear, self-doubt, guilt, shame. There is no middle ground. Inside: the radical separation between who you ARE and what you do, 33 years of A Course in Miracles, working with Marianne Williamson, and why radical self-acceptance is "the cure of everything." ABOUT STEVE Founder of Over the Looking Glass Coaching, creator of The Game of Ten®, GISC-certified coach with 40+ years of business leadership, graduate of Marianne Williamson's Miracle Minded Coaching, and a 33+ year student of A Course in Miracles. Co-author of The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment with his son Spencer. WHAT WE COVER (00:21) The origin of The Game of Ten® and the two games we're all playing (02:33) Why high-performers rate themselves 7s, 8s, 9s (05:29) Why "less than 10" is its own form of arrogance (06:55) Separating who you ARE from what you HAVE or DO (08:32) Taking over the family business at 22 after his father's stroke (11:22) Why family businesses struggle with healthy boundaries (15:48) Presenting The Game of Ten® to a Harvard case team (17:44) "Don't do b******t. Do THE b******t." (18:07) Co-writing a book with his 18-year-old son (18:47) 33 years of A Course in Miracles and meeting Marianne Williamson (25:11) Licensing The Game of Ten® to coaches and therapists (28:11) Why radical self-acceptance is "the cure of everything" (30:11) Stay curious — every belief is a limiting belief MEMORABLE QUOTES "Ten is flow." "You have thoughts. You are not your thoughts. These are tools — what are you using them for?" "You can always improve what you do. But who you are is a constant." "Radical self-acceptance is the cure of everything." CONNECT WITH STEVE 🌐 OverTheLookingGlass.com 🔟 thegameof10.com (free digital book) 📚 Amazon: The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment REFERENCES The Game of Ten® · A Course in Miracles · Marianne Williamson · Difference Press · Gestalt International Study Center · iPEC Energy Leadership Index CONNECT WITH JAVIER 🎙️ Javier Llerena — Host, Positive Leadership Academy Podcast | Re-Invent Consulting 📅 meetings.hubspot.com/llerena 🎧 Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube 🔗 Follow on LinkedIn & Instagram If this episode resonated, please rate and review — it helps more leaders find the show. Want to be a guest on Positive Leadership Academy – Inspires, Guides and Transforms? Send Javier Llerena a message on PodMatch: podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/positiveleadershipacademypodcast