This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life

Erica J. Schmidt
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Welcome to This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life! In this podcast, writer Erica J. Schmidt talks to people who may—or may not—have had the chance to transform their lives into spectacular TED talks. Cherished guests include Erica’s beloved grandmother, talented fringe performers, and more fascinating folks from across generations and communities. Discover new takes on creativity, morning routines, art, mental health, eating disorder recovery, perfectionism, and healing, plus a loving advice column segment in almost every episode. Oh, and sometimes there are tiny singsongs! About the host: Erica J. Schmidt is a writer, translator, storyteller, and recovering gifted child living in Montréal. She is currently querying a novel about that time she fell in love with her eleventh therapist. To learn more, check out Erica’s generously personal essays at ericajschmidt.com/blog

  1. Sep 15

    How My DORKY, Hot BF Quit Doomscrolling - 200-Page Book Club - Kukum by Michel Jean

    Our guest today claims he's winning the war against nighttime doomscrolling. If you also want to win this war, he has a simple rule: read seven pages a night. Promises include better sleep, deeper conversations with your dogs, a sexier vocabulary, and more. Introducing the 200-Page Book Club! If you’re one of those people who can’t remember the last time you’ve finished a book, there is hope! Step one: We’ll pick a book that is 200 pages or less. Step two: Read seven pages of this book every day. One month later: You have finished a book! And for our inaugural pick of the 200-Page Book Club, we have KUKUM by Michel Jean. It’s a novel set in rural, Indigenous Quebec more than 100 years ago, yet its themes feel surprisingly familiar in an era when Big Tech Companies are reshaping our work, our communities, and even our childhoods without asking for our input. Spoiler Alert: There are no spoilers, but you may not be surprised by certain historical events. And listen to the end for a listener questioner from Stressed and Enmeshed, our poster child for the helicopter-parented generation. Disclaimer: Erica and Jahon are non-Indigenous readers so there are some limitations to our perspective. To learn more and go deeper on topics we are not qualified to explore, please check out our list of resources. KUKUM by Michel Jean in English‍ ‍ KUKUM de Michel Jean en français‍ ‍ Our guest today is Jahon Mousavi-Torbati! Maybe you remember him from our riveting episode Unhinged Ways to Learn French in Quebec. He loves public transit, pineapples, and kobo e-readers. Listen to the show for more wildly exciting fun facts. Follow Jahon on Instagram: @jahonart Check out his Concept Art Drink and Draw: @conceptartdrinkanddraw Jahon’s website and Quebec fantasy illustration project: artstation.com Jahon on LinkedIn Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Substack: @ericajschmidt Website: ericajschmidt.com The Donate Button More on KUKUM, the INNU Nation, and Residential Schools Michel Jean on Writing and the English Translations of His Novels Article: Quebec's residential school system started later than most in Canada — and also has history of abuse Article: Claude Boivin, survivor of Pointe-Bleu residential school, on finding peace Nametau innu: Memory and knowledge of Nitassinan: a website dedicated to the Innu nation in which elders pass on their skills and knowledge to younger generations. Other Books and Resources Histoire Populaire de l’amour au Québec T.1 : Avant 1760 Erica’s essay called How to Start Reading Again How to Start Reading Again, Part Two The Anxious Generation Atomic Habits Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Time Stamps: Kukum by Michel Jean on the 200-Page Book Club 00:00:00 How our guest today eliminated nighttime doomscrolling 00:01:34 The big reveal! Introducing our guest, Jahon Mousavi-Torbati! 00:02:10 This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life Theme Song. Lovebirds Erica and Jahon introduce each other the way they introduce new people on Love on the Spectrum, one of our favourite shows.  00:05:11 Jahon Mousavi-Torbati’s literary debut.  00:06:32 Jahon shares wisdom on the 200-Page Book Club. How to create the winning conditions to quit scrolling and start reading.  00:11:08 Jahon introduces the inaugural pick for the 200-Page Book Club. No Spoilers! The book is Kukum by Michel Jean. Please note that Erica and Jahon are non-indigenous readers and therefore there are some limitations to our perspectives. Please see links and resources in the show notes for deeper reading.  00:12:17 Kukum was written by Michel Jean, an Innu author. Fun fact about where the Innu lived compared to the Inuit. Difference between narrator Almanda’s settler Christian upbringing compared to the Innu way of life. Often Innu culture allowed for more freedom for women. 00:14:32 Kukum begins with a love story. We loved the romantic vibes! Jahon tells us the surprising reasons  why the book is relevant to our times. 00:16:44 Jahon asks Erica about the writing style. Fictionalized memoir of Michel Jean’s grandmother’s life. Slow burn. Love the short chapters! 00:19:23 Jahon talks about culture and language preservation. 00:21:25 Transition from nomadic to sedentary lifestyle 00:22:32 Jahon notes the differences in anxiety levels and childhoods for Almanda’s children and our own experience as children of the 90s. 00:26:26 The benefits of connection to nature, jahon’s dream of making social media and phones in public except for designated areas.  00:30:32 Listener Question from Stressed and Enmeshed. Jahon recommends the book, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature People. Erica recommends the goal of financial independence.  00:40:57 Where to find and follow Jahon online  Listener Question from Stressed and Enmeshed Dear Erica and Jahon,  My parents never let me do anything alone as a kid and now that I’m an adult, I have a really hard time trusting myself. I’m a 26-year-old woman and I only just moved into my own apartment with roommates. I feel like I am entirely indecisive and I struggle with everything from lunch choices, what clothes to buy, and how to spend my weekends. I feel like at this age, I should feel more independent but I find I’m constantly calling my parents, especially my mother, for advice. After talking to her, I tend to feel more stressed than before I called.  Is this normal? What can I do to feel more grown up and independent?  Love, Stressed and Enmeshed

    How My DORKY, Hot BF Quit Doomscrolling - 200-Page Book Club - Kukum by Michel Jean

  2. Jul 30

    Creative Joy, Finding Flow, and How We Are and Are Not Like Elizabeth Gilbert

    I practically invented my podcast for today’s guest. His name is William Burr. William incarnates how to follow your curiosity and creativity. He has had so many strange and beautiful lives along his journey. He is a trained journalist and has spent years working at Radio-Canada (The French side of CBC) reporting in FRENCH. This is incredibly impressive because William is not francophone. And no matter what his job is, he remains committed to writing, painting, dancing, singing, meditating, and staying aligned with his heart and deepest self. He wrote and performed in two smash-hit and entirely poignant plays at the Montréal Fringe Festival. During the pandemic, William made a courageous move from Montréal to Vancouver to study theology and become a minister for the Presbyterian church. I cannot think of anyone the Presbyterian church needs more than William Burr. And I could not more be more thrilled to welcome William to This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life. Make sure to listen to the end for a groundbreaking take on Elizabeth Gilbert’s new memoir, All the Way to the River, plus deep thoughts on sex and love addiction, and a half-bad ukulele segment for the ages. Infinite thanks, William Burr! Follow William Burr William Burr on Instagram: @w_burr William Burr’s website: williamburr.wordpress.com William Burr’s Substack: @williamburr2 William Burr’s Brilliant Substack on Elizabeth Gilbert: After Eat Pray Love, the Love Addiction Follow Erica J. Schmidt Erica on Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt YouTube: @ericajschmidt Substack: ericajschmidt.substack.com Website: ericajschmidt.com The Donate Button Will Burr Time Stamps 00:00:00 Teaser: William Burr’s Healing Thoughts on Creativity, Elizabeth Gilbert’s Sex and Love Addiction, and the Painful Pleasure and Pleasurable Pain of Falling in Love 00:01:38 The Erica Choir Theme Song + William Burr’s bio 00:03:52 William Burr’s Creative Oranges/Origins: What did creativity look like as a child and how did you start to explore writing, painting, and creative projects? (Shout-out to Aunt Kelsey!) 00:05:22 Why did William quit drawing and painting at age 15? 00:08:45 How did Will decide to go to journalism school? How did this help his creativity? 00:14:04 The Creative Spark. Does Will Burr relate to transforming his despair into creativity? How does he get his inspiration and drive to create? The despair of doing the dishes and how to move out of stasis and lethargy. How to release and express what’s inside of us. 00:18:37 But how do you choose the right medium, vehicle, and containers for expression? (Erica’s great source of despair: I want to do something but I don’t know what and I don’t know what I CAN do.) 00:19:39 How does William work within such a broad spectrum of vehicles and creative outlets? How does he fit it all in or decide what to focus on? (+ Elizabeth Gilbert’s theory that some of us are woodpeckers and dig one hole as our creative vehicle but a bunch of us are hummingbirds so we fly around pollinating the world.) 00:22:35: William Burr’s spiritual calling and how he went from attending Buddhist meditation to going back to school to become a Presbyterian church minister. 00:30:59 William Burr’s Routines. What is his morning routine? In case you haven’t read the Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron 17 times, here is a more elaborate explanation of Morning Pages. Morning Pages: Write three stream-of-consciousness pages as soon as you wake up in the morning. Water and coffee are optional. Erica and William discuss the pros and cons of journalling and Morning Pages and The Artist’s Way. Erica is concerned that everything in her life is going to be the same forever. She really wants to be not obsessed with herself and that is not going so well. She knows that “where attention goes, energy flows,” but she also heard that “what you resist, persists” and she’s wondering which one is it. 38:17 Does William Burr have a creative routine? 00:42:02 Erica summarizes a writing workshop where she learned about the three categories of writing: Drafting, Revising, and Creative Play. But we only seem to value drafting and generating new material and maybe that is not fair. Will we ever not beat ourselves up for not writing enough. 00:45:27 Does Will Burr have a cleaning routine? (No. Except for iPhone timers) 00:48:27 Elizabeth Gilbert Fan Club: From Eat Pray Love to a new life thesis on Sex and Love Addiction. We believe in Liz’s love addiction, but do we trust her new thesis? 01:05:15 Erica failed Man’s Search for Meaning but it’s not too late. Liz Gilbert gets an open invitation to This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life. 01:07:56 Half-Bad Ukulele Segment: Someone Like You by Adele. Best. 01:12:04 Wrap-up, Thank yous and where to find Erica and Will on the interwebs. If you enjoyed this episode, you might also love: How to Make an Album and Hundreds of Exquisite Paintings with Sandra Taylor How to Be a Writer with Kyle Stevenson Moments of Joy with Al Lafrance Art, Death, and Spiritual Care with Jennifer Hamilton Art, Drugs, and Meditation with James Paterson “Sometimes it lasts in love and sometimes it hurts instead.”

    Creative Joy, Finding Flow, and How We Are and Are Not Like Elizabeth Gilbert

  3. Jul 9

    How to Make an Album and Hundreds of Exquisite Paintings with Sandra Taylor

    Sandra Taylor is a wildly talented painter, singer-songwriter, and pianist. Her watercolours bring us exquisite explorations of nature, (shout-out to the birds), and truly unique abstract designs. In 2024, Sandra launched her album “Life Beautiful Life,” which combines down-to-earth, whimsical lyrics with her soothing voice and impressive musicality. Sandra was also my first-year university roommate, back when we were almost as young and full of promise as we are now. It is such a gift to have kept in touch after all these years, and a true dream to have her on the show. Thank you, Sandra! (And please listen to the end for a beautifully special surprise!) Sandra Taylor on the interwebs Follow Sandra Taylor on Instagram: @sandrataylormusic Buy her album Life Beautiful Life on bandcamp: More on Sandra’s watercolours and music at sandrataylormusic.com *All excerpts from Life Beautiful Life were used with Sandra’s permission. Life Beautiful Life was produced by Chris Stringer and engineered by Darren McGill. Erica J. Schmidt on the Interwebs Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Substack: @ericajschmidt Website: ericajschmidt.com The Donate Button If you would like to be a beta reader for one of Erica’s two manuscripts, please get in touch! THANK YOU SO MUCH! Timestamps for Life Beautiful Life: Music, Watercolours, and Creativity with Sandra Taylor 00:00:00 Theme song and Sandra Taylor’s bio 01:52:11 How Erica and Sandra Taylor met (at the cool kids residence, Solin Hall, Mcgill University, 2003) Their moderate approach to cleaning routines lined up great. Erica was trying to make her boobs grow with 2% milk. 00:04:30 How did Sandra’s creativity start? When did she start being creative?  As a kid, Sandra loved running around outside, putting on plays with her siblings, and writing stories. But she also got really far in the Royal Conservatory of Music. Her Bach is lit! 00:08:43 But did the Internet take over your life in grade eight or nine? What about MSN messenger and ICQ? Sandra doesn’t let her life revolve around a device. Erica does her best. 00:12:32 Erica and Sandra are McGill dropout twins. Does Sandra have advice for people hoping to go to university and become an artist? 00:18:47 Now Sandra is back at university finishing the music degree she started when we first met. How is that going? 00:20:23 Special excerpt of Sandra’s music video LIFE BEAUTIFUL LIFE. Watch and listen to the whole thing here! 00:21:27 How Sandra keeps the faith and how she keeps making things. 00:24:14 It’s time for Sandra Taylor’s routines! Hurray! Starting with her morning routine. 00:25:44 Erica and Sandra discuss yoga routines of yore. 00:29:36 Sandra Taylor’s creative routine. “A lot of this stuff is just putting the hours in.” 00:32:44 The value of setting a specific goal, like when she tried to work on her portrait skills. 00:32:18 Special Bach Surprise. More where that came from here. 00:37:45 Sandra Taylor’s Cleaning Routine 00:41:17 Special excerpt of “Downhill Too Fast” from Sandra Taylor’s album, “Life, Beautiful Life.” Watch the whole video here! 00:42:29 Listener Question from I.T. GUY. APPARENTLY. 00:52:46 Sandra Taylor’s spectacular TED talk 00:58:11 Where people can find Sandra Taylor online. The hyper-free links: https://www.instagram.com/sandrataylormusic/ https://sandrataylormusic.com/shop-music https://sandrataylor.bandcamp.com/album/life-beautiful-life 00:59:53 If you enjoyed this episode, you will also enjoy Hot Dates and Frenching withLou Laurenceand Singing for Bliss with Kathy Kennedy 01:00:16 Wrap-up and Thank yous 01:01:26 Modern Life by Sandra Taylor mixed with miscellaneous video clips. Listen to the entire album, Life Beautiful Life. Thank you for listening to this episode of This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life. LOVE YOU, BYE!

    How to Make an Album and Hundreds of Exquisite Paintings with Sandra Taylor

  4. May 7

    Unhinged Ways to Learn French in Quebec (with Jahon Mousavi-Torbati)

    Erica and Jahon are two artsy, nerdy, anglophone Montrealers. And today, we’re coming together for our special episode, Unhinged Ways to Learn French in Quebec. Join us for adventures in French stand-up comedy, cringe slam poetry, and becoming a Quebec Grey’s Anatomy superfan. We talk education, French immersion in Perth Ontario, reading in French, dating in French, hobbies in French, and more. Make sure to listen to the end for a riveting listener question from Girl Who Just Wants to French Some Dudes. Please note that this episode is in English, making it a wonderful start for learners of all levels. Wherever you are in your French journey, it’s never too late and it’s always worth it. Jahon Mousavi-Torbatiis a talented concept artist and regular artist who has made a recent pivot to storytelling and stand-up comedy. Jahon has great enthusiasm for urban transit, kobo e-readers, pineapples, and ending doom-scrolling for all time. In general, Jahon is  someone who exudes great enthusiasm for just about everything. Also, he is Erica J. Schmidt’s boyfriend! Erica J. Schmidt grew up in Perth Ontario, where she enjoyed half-day immersion from grade five to eight. Then there was a touch of extended French in high school, but odds for mastery were not in her favour. Despite this, she moved to Montreal and proceeded to become a French-to-English translator. These days, she is proud to be able to read full novels in French with the help of her trusty kobo. Jahon Mousavi-Torbati on the Interwebs Follow Jahon on Instagram @jahonart Check out his Concept Art Drink and Draw: @conceptartdrinkanddraw Jahon’s Quebec fantasy illustration project Jahon on LinkedIn Jahon’s Website: artstation.com Erica J. Schmidt on the Interwebs Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Substack: @ericajschmidt Website: ericajschmidt.com The Donate Button If you would like to be a beta reader for one of Erica’s two manuscripts, please get in touch! THANK YOU SO MUCH! How to Learn French in Quebec: Art, Books, and Resources C’est L’Halloween (Est-ce que tu as peur? Oui, oui, oui, oui, oui!) Watch STAT on icitouttv‍ ‍ Book: 99 Francs, a novel by Frédéric Beigbeder Book: Spoken Here: Travels among Threatened Languages LOVING SHOUT-OUT TO OUR FABULOUS TEACHERS From Stewart School, Perth Ontario: Mme. Shelley Fillipoff, Mme. Renée Capello, Mme. Denise Baker, Mme. Danielle Normandin ‍From John Abbot College, Saint-Anne-de-Bellevue:Frédéric Laganière ‍How to Learn French in Quebec: Timestamps 00:00:00 Theme Song 00:00:34 Introduction to  VIP guest, Jahon and his extra special episode, Unhinged Ways to Learn French in Quebec. Teasers about Jahon’s slam poetry and fun facts on how to pronounce poutine. Disclaimer about how this episode will NOT address language politics 00:02:54 Official Bio: Jahon Mousavi-Torbati 00:04:20 Jahon’s incredibly biased bio for host Erica J. Schmidt. Slide into Erica’s DMs if you’d like to be a beta reader for one of her manuscripts. 00:07:17 Erica and Jahon’s linguistic origins. Jahon was Montréal born and raised by French-Canadian mother and Persian father who both spoke English at home. He went to French immersion school and eventually was accepted to a French program at university. 00:11:12 Erica grew up in the metropolis of Perth Ontario. Her French career started with core French songs like C’est l’Halloween before she embarked on four years of half-day immersion from grade 5 to grade 8. 00:16:55 Jahon feels he did not read enough books in French. Shout-out to his teacher Frederic who had him read the book 99 Francs and dessicrate it 00:18:27 How Jahon’s father ended up in Quebec, and his French story. The moments Jahon realized that his French was not at an adequate level. Jahon reads book Spoken Here and commits to improving his French and he applies to Université de Montréal.    00:23:11 The moments when Erica realized her French was not at an adequate level.  00:24:54 Erica binge watches STAT on icitoutv. (Quebec’s Grey’s Anatomy) 00:28:50 The first time Jahon was referred to as le Quebecois, and how that became part of his identity. 00:32:19 Deeper into unconventional ways Jahon and Erica learned French, especially improv and stand-up comedy. 00:39:19 Erica explains Shadowing, the technique she used while practising to become an interpreter. It involves listening to the language you are practising and then repeating the words while you are still listening to what comes next. 00:41:45 One last conventional way to learn French: Read! And ideally get a Kobo which lets you take books out of the library and look up words without checking your phone. 00:44:19 Listener Question from A Girl Who Just Wants to French Some Dudes 00:58:02 Always read books with your girlfriend. Stay tuned for an exciting surprise on This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life 59:22 Thanks and wrap-up. Follow Jahon and Erica on the Interwebs. Go to Jahon’s Concept Art Drink and Draw. Never give up on your French. LOVE YOU, BYE!!!

    Unhinged Ways to Learn French in Quebec (with Jahon Mousavi-Torbati)

  5. Mar 20

    In Loving Memory of Mary Adamson Owen

    For our first-ever encore episode, we have Mary Adamson Owen, otherwise known as the best grandma in the world. Grandma was my inaugural podcast guest and reason for starting This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life. After a long, strange, and beautiful life, Grandma died on November 14, 2025. She was 99. To honour her memory, I am reposting the extra special interview we did back in March of 2023. We recorded from her tiny room in long-term care, where she had just moved in. Unsurprisingly, she was an all-star guest. It is such a treasure to be able to listen to her voice and her stories now that she is “gone,” whatever that means. I have added an only slightly teary intro and some VIP footage at the end. Check out the video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PQACTE_CduA To learn more about Mary’s life, you can read her obituaryor watch a wonderfully extensive interview series, created by the Crestwood history project, created when Grandma was 98! Bravo, Grandma! We miss you so much. Thank you everyone for listening. Love, Erica Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Substack: ericajschmidt.substack.com Website: ericajschmidt.com The Donate Button. Thank you so much!

    In Loving Memory of Mary Adamson Owen

  6. Feb 5

    As Good a Place as Any with Rebecca Păpucaru’s

    Today we have a writer’s writer’s talk with the accomplished author and poet Rebecca Păpucaru. Rebecca has published an impressive variety of poetry and fiction, and she is someone who works very hard and long on her creative projects. Legend has it that some of her published poems and her recent novel have taken years (and even a decade or so) to make them what they are today. So,if you’re someone who’s been toiling on a project forever, if you feel like you’re stuck, or even if you haven’t started yet, this interview is bursting with hope, tips, and inspiration. Bio: Rebecca Păpucaru (also known as Rebecca Schwarz) Growing up in Montréal, Rebecca Păpucaru was always the English teacher’s pet. During her youth, she won second prize in an Archie comics’ writing contest. Her essay on how to change the world beat out hundreds of American and Canadian competitors. In 2018, her collection of poems, The Panic Room won the Canadian Jewish Literary Award for Poetry. Her novella Yentas won the Malahat Review’s 2020 Novella Prize. And her recent novel, As Good a Place as Any has met great acclaim, making all kinds of lists including the CBC’s selection for Best Canadian Fiction Book of 2025. As Good a Place as Any tells the story of 16-year-old Paulina, who is forced to flee Chile with her brother after the 1973 coup. They land in Toronto, and no spoilers but Paulina has a much better time than her brother Ernesto does, and we get to read about her unlikely quest for freedom as a queer woman and aspiring actress. It’s a historically relevant, emotionally compelling coming-of-age novel. You’ll love it as much as you’ll love this episode! Thank you, Rebecca for coming on the show. Follow Rebecca on Instagram: @rebeccapapucaruwriter Rebecca’s author page on Facebook Book of Poetry: The Panic Room (Nightwood Editions) Novel: As Good a Place as Any (Guernica Editions) Erica on Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Erica on Substack (new!): @ericajschmidt Erica's website: ericajschmidt.com Full shownotes: ericajschmidt.com/podcast/as-good-a-place-as-any-rebecca-papucaru If you enjoyed this podcast, you may also enjoy: Montréal’s Favourite Anita Anand (Author, Translator, Peace Seeker):Apple Podcasts Spotify True Stories to Save Your Life with Nisha Coleman:AppleSpotify Curiosity with Michelle Syba (Author of End Times):AppleSpotify Rebecca Păpucaru on This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life (Timestamps) 00:00:00 Theme Song, Intro + Rebecca Păpucaru’s bio 00:03:50 Rebecca gushes about Erica’s squatty potty set-up in her bathroom. Erica: You want to give birth and take a dump in a squat. Rebecca and Erica talk ergonomic redemption and the importance of internal plumbing as you age. 00:08:00 Rebecca was born Rebecca Schwarz but prefers her father’s family name Păpucaru, which he changed when he came to Canada.   “If I’m honest, my decision to publish under that name is a certain internalized self-loathing. But on the other hand, I really like the sound of it.” 00:12:05 Writer’s Block Trick: If you don’t have money for a writer’s course, just write an essay on your name. 00:12:47 Rebecca Păpucaru’s creative origins and how she became a writer (Early journals, lots of reading, and winning the Archie comic writing contest) 00:16:55 Theatre school at Dawson college and why Rebecca did not become an actor 00:19:52 The call to read. University of Toronto Rebecca is captivated by Sylvia Plath and decides she wants to write poems. Ends up studying English at U of T. She writes poem but they rarely submits them anywhere. Then her uncle dies when she is 38, and she vows to take the writing thing seriously. 00:27:31 What is most natural, writing poetry or fiction? 00:31:05 The tension between commercial and literary fiction and the pressure to write something high-brow and cerebral. 00:32:03 Elevator pitch for As Good a Place as Any 00:36:19 Did Rebecca do research to authentically and respectfully depict the experience of the queer Chilean woman? Rebecca describes her process and self-doubt, and the trip where she met her main character. 00:42:37 A sign that you’re really stuck with your writing. 00:43:29 Writing through shit in the dark and/or How to get into a flow state and get your characters to talk to you 00:48:30 Rebecca Păpucaru’s Morning and Creative Routines 00:53:31 Rebecca Păpucaru’s Spectacular TED talk 00:54:59 More writing tips! How to write or not write and not hate yourself 01:48:00 Rebecca Păpucaru’s Cleaning Routine 01:03:40 How to read outside reading bubbles and Instagram lists. Reading tips and recs 01:07:59 Wrap-up and where to find Rebecca online and buy her book To support this independent podcast, please consider purchasing a Lil and Bud dog greeting card at ericajschmidt.com/merch. You can also make a one-time donation here at The Donate Button.Feel free to get in touch for other sponsorship possibilities. My infinite thanks for all of this. More infinite thanks, as always, to Taes Leavitt (darling big sister, Big Heart Journey), Sherwin Tjia (technical and creative advisor, Sherwin’s Quirky Events,Episode 22) and my dearly departed aunt Eileen Gun, whose generous gift helped to fund my new podcast equipment. Stay tuned for more episodes extra soon. Don’t forget to followThis Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life on your favourite podcast platform. And if you enjoyed the episode, I would be immensely grateful if you could share it with a friend and/or leave a kind and enthusiastic rating and review.

    As Good a Place as Any with Rebecca Păpucaru’s

  7. 12/18/2025

    How to Be an Artist with Gretchen Andrew

    “An artist is someone who is celebrated for being themselves. A professional artist is someone who is paid for being themselves.” “It takes as much creativity to make it work as it does to make the work.” —Gretchen Andrew Gretchen Andrew is a viral painter, hacker, and creator of the award-winning FaceTune Portraits, a series of oil paintings that “reveal the hidden scars of social media filters.” Two years after college, Gretchen quit her so-called “dream job” at Google and set out on a performative experiment to become an artist. It was a wild success! Most recently, two paintings from Gretchen’s Facetune Portrait series have been put forth for permanent acquisition at the Whitney. These provocative portraits criticize how AI and plastic surgery are homogenizing and dictating our collective beauty standards. The world needs this series and it was a joy to talk to Gretchen about creativity, algorithms, morning routines, robots, Botox, and how to become an artist. Follow Gretchen on Instagram @gretchenandrew Gretchen Andrew’s website: gretchenandrew.com Erica on Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Erica on Substack (new!): @ericajschmidt Erica's website: ericajschmidt.com Full shownotes: ericajschmidt.com/podcast/artist-gretchen-andrew Gretchen Andrew on This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life 00:00:00 Intro: Gretchen on today’s unreasonable beauty standards 00:01:44 Theme song plus Gretchen’s bio and riveting banter on Botox 00:06:04 Gretchen gets a running scholarship at Boston College. Landed a job at Google, which she quit after two years to illegally move into her art studio. How did this happen and how did it go? 00:09:39 Using the Internet as a force for good. Trying to make it as an artist in San Francisco 00:16:30 Gretchen’s take on the term “self-taught.” How she acquired the technical skills she needed without getting an MFA. How she found mentors like Billy Childs 00:21:00 Gretchen’s artistic origins. Did she draw as a child? Why art now? Gretchen’s dream of becoming part of the art world. Making your life one beautiful piece of art. 00:23:57 Promoting yourself as an artist. “It takes as much creativity to make it work as it does to make the work.” Networking, snail-mail thank you cards. Making it fun. 00:29:52 Using SEO to hack the search term “Next American president” with her vision boards during the 2020 election. How to make the Internet “a global subconscious manifestation machine.” 00:36:23 Gretchen’s morning routine. It involves setting an intention in front of the mirror at 4:55 a.m. She records herself and listens to the recording throughout the day. Seems like it is working? 00:40:21 Robotics and Gretchen’s Facetune Portraits. More on our society’s impossible beauty standards, the effects of AI filters, the cost of Botox, fillers and other interventions. 00:40:34 Specifics about the mechanics of Gretchen’s robots. Check out Erica’ smash-hit YouTube channel for footage! 00:51:41 How the Facetune project has affected Gretchen personally in terms of how she processes appearance expectations for women. More on Botox, haha, and does EMDR therapy make you prettier? 01:04:42 Gretchen Andrew’s creative routine. It can vary by week, month, or even two-to-five year period. And she has stop watches to keep track of it all.  01:13:08 Gretchen Andrew’s cleaning routine. Her house is spotless! And she hits Inbox Zero every afternoon. What a surprise. 01:15:37 Gretchen Andrew’s spectacular TED talk. Listen to the end for the title and topic! 01:16:25 Wrap-up and closing theme song. Sing or dance along. Thank you so much, Gretchen. What a blast and an honour. If you enjoyed this episode, you might also like: How to Be a Writer with Kyle Stevenson, Making It Fun with Mary Owen, and Moments of Joy with Al Lafrance. To support this independent podcast, please consider purchasing a Lil and Bud dog greeting card at ericajschmidt.com/merch. You can also make a one-time donation here at The Donate Button. Feel free to get in touch for other sponsorship possibilities. My infinite thanks for all of this. More infinite thanks, as always, to Taes Leavitt (darling big sister, Big Heart Journey), Sherwin Tjia (technical and creative advisor, Sherwin’s Quirky Events, Episode 22) and my dearly departed aunt Eileen Gun, whose generous gift helped to fund my new podcast equipment. Stay tuned for more episodes extra soon. Don’t forget to follow This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life on your favourite podcast platform. And if you enjoyed the episode, I would be immensely grateful if you could share it with a friend and/or leave a kind and enthusiastic rating and review.

    How to Be an Artist with Gretchen Andrew

  8. 10/23/2025

    Comfort Is For Wimps with Jessica O'Reilly

    Jessica O’Reilly is a hilariously unconventional writer, digital nomad, YouTuber, and workout queen. Her YouTube channel, Comfort Is For Wimps dives deep into her life as a digital nomad—couch-surfing in Afghanistan, checking out Medellin’s love hotels, and babysitting rich people’s pets in lieu of rent. Along the way, she examines the disparities in the cost of living between countries, passes the mic to locals, and through it all, rocks a splendid sense of humour. Hit up her Instagram for zingers like, “I don’t fall in love. I audition for the role of ‘lesson I had to learn the hard way.’” Jessica O’Reilly is the perfect complement to your Instagram relationship coach. Make sure to listen to the end for the stellar advice she gives to “Should I LTR or Should I Bounce.” A committed digital nomad falls in love in a city he does not fancy. It’s the deepest connection he’s ever had, but she can’t follow him around the world. What should he do? Jessica and Erica can’t fix it—but we have thoughts. Subscribe to Jessica’s YouTube Channel @comfortisforwimps Follow Jessica on Instagram @comfortisforwimps Erica on Instagram: @erica.j.schmidt Erica on Substack (new!): @ericajschmidt Erica's website: ericajschmidt.com Erica’s Interview with Jessica O’Reilly from Comfort Is For Wimps 00:00:00 This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life Theme Song + Jessica O’Reilly’s bio 00:03:06 How Jessica and Erica met in Varanasi, India 00:06:12 Jessica’s Motto and YouTube channel, Comfort Is For Wimps 00:10:48 Is confidence fake it til you make it? 00:13:00 How to Solve the Problem of Paying Rent 00:20:44 What is a digital nomad? Are you a digital nomad? The challenge of the day job, monetizing your joy and art, etc. 00:28:23 Staying healthy and reasonably sane while travelling. Jetlag hacks, packing cubes, workout schedules and more. 00:37:05 Losing your job and finding your niche 00:41:38 Friendship and Romance on the Road. Is it lonely? (Yes.) 00:48:05 Humour, self deprecation and self-help 00:51:25 Listener question: Do I LTR or do I bounce? A lovestruck digital nomad wonders if he should stick around in a city he doesn’t love for the first real connection he has felt in a while. 00:55:00 Freedom in commitment 01:03:14 Jessica O’Reilly’s Routines and A+ workout habits: 01:05:29 Jessica O’Reilly’s Spectacular TED talk 01:07:58 Wrap-up and final theme song Listener Question from Do I LTR or Do I Bounce? Dear Jessica and Erica, I’ve been a digital nomad for almost a year now. I totally love it! In general, I’ve tried to stay away from serious relationships that could cost me my freedom. However, I recently met a local during my travels, and suddenly I’m head over heels in love. I’ve never managed to connect with someone like this, and it feels awesome. We’ve been hanging out for four weeks now which is way longer than I’d tend to stay somewhere. Now the tricky part is that I want to continue my nomadic lifestyle whereas she wants to stay. She doesn’t have the kind of lifestyle that lets her travel for much longer than a couple weeks at a time, barely a couple of times per year, and never without tons of planning. She has a job that isn’t mobile, a house, and even a dog. I get that this is what a lot of people want in their lives. But it’s not what I want. At least not right now. I’d consider staying a bit longer, but honestly, I don’t really like her city. It’s her I love. I don’t know how to navigate my love for her with my dream of living a location-independent lifestyle. I worry I’m just a selfish avoidant jerk with a closed heart. Do you have any experience with this? Should I extend my stay and see what happens? What do you think I should do? Love, Do I LTR or Do I Bounce If you enjoyed this episode, you might also like: How to Be a Writer with Kyle Stevenson, ChatGPT Is My Therapist, and Funemployment with Erica J. Schmidt. To support this independent podcast, please consider purchasing a Lil and Bud dog greeting card at ericajschmidt.com/merch. You can also make a one-time donation here at The Donate Button.Feel free to get in touch for other sponsorship possibilities. My infinite thanks for all of this. More infinite thanks, as always, to Taes Leavitt (darling big sister, Big Heart Journey), Sherwin Tjia (technical and creative advisor, Sherwin’s Quirky Events,Episode 22) and my dearly departed aunt Eileen Gun, whose generous gift helped to fund my new podcast equipment. Stay tuned for more episodes extra soon. Don’t forget to followThis Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life on your favourite podcast platform. And if you enjoyed the episode, I would be immensely grateful if you could share it with a friend and/or leave a kind and enthusiastic rating and review.

    Comfort Is For Wimps with Jessica O'Reilly
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Welcome to This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life! In this podcast, writer Erica J. Schmidt talks to people who may—or may not—have had the chance to transform their lives into spectacular TED talks. Cherished guests include Erica’s beloved grandmother, talented fringe performers, and more fascinating folks from across generations and communities. Discover new takes on creativity, morning routines, art, mental health, eating disorder recovery, perfectionism, and healing, plus a loving advice column segment in almost every episode. Oh, and sometimes there are tiny singsongs! About the host: Erica J. Schmidt is a writer, translator, storyteller, and recovering gifted child living in Montréal. She is currently querying a novel about that time she fell in love with her eleventh therapist. To learn more, check out Erica’s generously personal essays at ericajschmidt.com/blog

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