The Alphanista Experience

Maryann Reid
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The Alphanista Experience explores relationships, sexuality, and faith topics that affect men and women over 40. Host, Maryann Reid is the founder of Alphanista.com, a platform started in 2008 for alpha females, which later morphed into a leadership platform. The podcast reflects where Alphanista is headed as its fan base grows and matures in their walk in life. Join us as we explore the murky waters of figuring out what matters most in this new phase of our lives while satisfying our mid-life needs.

Episodes

  1. 12/15/2023

    Dating in Your 50s: Girl, It Is Time

    OUR LAST SHOW OF THE SEASON IS A MUST LISTEN! Get ready for a dating shift in the new year. Dating in your 50s can be a challenging yet rewarding journey, particularly for Black women. This phase of life brings a unique set of experiences and priorities, often marked by wisdom, self-assuredness, and a clear understanding of one's desires. However, it can also be rife with time-consuming and frustrating encounters.    In this episode, I am joined by Lioness Feme, an engineering designer producing an array of fashionable apparel and fantasy lingerie for all women and body types, to explore practical strategies for Black women in their 50s to navigate the world of dating, saving precious time and minimizing frustration along the way. Whether you're navigating the dating scene again or embarking on a new adventure, this resource is designed to empower and provide valuable insights for Black women in their 50s, helping them make the most of their dating experiences with simplicity and grace. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics!   Timestamps [01:16] Why dating in your 50s has become a problem [02:06] What a woman in her 50s should look for in a man [05:44] Should women in their 50s go for men that they can build with? [10:20] Dating a man with child support  [14:30] Tyler Perry’s advice on what Black women should look for in a man [16:04] Is it okay to be by yourself in this stage of life? Notable quotes: ●      “If a relationship does not have excess or abundance, it may not be what God wants for you.” ●      “Your buildable years are not in your 50s but in your 20s and 30s.” ●      “Men have standards when it comes to women and finances.”   Connect with us: Lioness Feme Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/black_queen_lioness/ Maryann Reid Website: https://www.alphanista.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alphanistaofficial

  2. 12/13/2023

    Why Am I So Tired?!

    As a black woman over 40, you might find yourself feeling more tired than before, and one significant reason for this fatigue can be attributed to changes happening within your body. During this stage of life, hormonal shifts, such as in menopause, can lead to sleep disturbances, depression, and mood swings, all of which can contribute to feelings of exhaustion. Additionally, age-related changes like decreased muscle mass and metabolism can result in reduced energy levels. Understanding these is essential in managing and addressing the tiredness that midlife Black women may experience.   In this episode, I share four reasons why you could be tired as a midlife Black woman. I talk about decision clutter, hormonal imbalance, dehydration, and too much clutter, period. I also share some things you could do to avoid being tired. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics.   Timestamps [03:00] Why you could be so tired [03:26] #1 Decision clutter [04:42] #2 Hormonal imbalance [05:34] #3 Dehydration [06:42] #4 Too much clutter [08:33] What you could do to avoid too much clatter [10:01] Taking good care of yourself Notable quotes: ●      “Get your things together and make these decisions because when you make the decisions, everything becomes easier.” ●      “Prayer is the most important thing for a vibrant life.” Connect with me: Website: https://www.alphanista.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alphanistaofficial

  3. 11/26/2023

    What to do when you have to start over

    Starting over represents the profound and transformative moment when we step away from the familiar and embrace the unknown with hope and determination. These junctures are the chapters where we reinvent ourselves, whether by choice or circumstance, allowing us to break free from the constraints of the past and embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Like the first rays of dawn, new beginnings illuminate the path ahead, offering the promise of endless possibilities and the chance to create a brighter, more fulfilling future. In this episode, I am joined by Hakim Taliaferro, a speaker, author, and the Founder of The Taliaferro, a company that creates lasting memories through fragrances that transcend trends and generations, to share the strategies for getting into new beginnings and seasons in your life so that you can learn and grow. Hakim talks about knowing your location, recognizing the people around you and the impact they have on your new beginning, and the importance of a strong relationship with God in your new beginnings. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics! Timestamps [02:24] #1 Knowing your location [06:09] Getting the clarity of where you are in life [09:00] How your environment plays a part in knowing your location [11:20] Looking at your location through the eyes of the Lord [12:17] #2 Recognizing the people around you and the impact they have on your new beginning [18:29] The importance of a strong relationship with God in your new beginnings [21:17] #3 Being in a place to learn, give and receive [26:32] The Bible verse that summarises everything about new beginnings Notable quotes: ●      “You have to know where you are to get to where you want to go.” ●      “If you are a believer, one of the ways of knowing who you are is by studying the scripture, meditating, and spending time with people who have the same train of thought.” ●      “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” ●      “If you look at your season from God’s perspective, it will look different. It will be illuminated, there will be light, and you will be able to see clearly where you are.” ●      “Relationships do influence our progress. We can’t get into a new season by ourselves.” ●      “It’s the Lord who leads and guides. When you understand how much He loves you and understands you, you will become more protective of whom you spend time with.” Connect with us: Maryann Reid Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/alphanistaofficial Hakim Taliaferro The Alpha Talk: https://thealphatalk.com/ The Taliaferro: https://thetaliaferro.com/ Website: https://www.alphanista.com/

  4. 11/17/2023

    Is Man Really the Head of Woman?

    The Biblical concept of a man being considered the head of the woman is rooted in certain religious texts, particularly in Christian theology. Many proponents of this belief point to passages in the Bible, such as Ephesians 5:23, which states, "For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior." This interpretation suggests that just as Christ is the spiritual leader of the church, husbands are called to be the spiritual leaders of their wives.  In this episode, I am joined by Marlon Browne, the host of Straight Talk and the co-host of 2 Strong, to talk about the role of a man as the head of the woman. Marlon shares why he chose this topic, the difference between a man and a male, the role of a man as the head of the wife and the role of a woman in the household, and the difference between subservient and submission. He also shares some tips for women to find the right man to submit to and what a worshiping man looks like. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics!   Timestamps [01:19] Marlon Browne’s background information and why he chose the topic [02:22] The difference between a man and a male [04:03]The role of a man as the head of the woman and the role of a woman in marriage [07:01] The difference between subservient and submission [11:54] Tip for women to find the right man to submit to [19:00] What comes first, women submitting to their men or men submitting to the Lord? [22:10] How does a worshiping man look like? Notable quotes: ●      “The terms head, leader, and submission are not bad, especially when you look at them from a Biblical perspective.” ●      “When you don’t have God as your mainstay, you can easily lead your wife into anger, resentment, and dismay, but when you follow God, the chain of command flows downward in a positive way.” ●      “If God is your head, you will not go wrong.” ●      “There is so much power in women submitting to their husbands and their husbands submitting to the Lord.” Connect with us: Maryann Reid Website: ⁠https://www.alphanista.com/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/therealalphanista/⁠   Marlon Browne Website: https://tellitlikeitis.godaddysites.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@straighttalkmb 2 Strong: https://www.youtube.com/@2Strong-FAIRMEDIA

  5. 11/10/2023

    Self-Care Essentials for Thriving in Midlife Are A Must

    Self-care in midlife for Black women encompasses a holistic approach to well-being, acknowledging the unique challenges and experiences that come with this phase of life. It involves a deliberate commitment to physical, emotional, and spiritual nourishment. To navigate this journey successfully, it's essential to prioritize self-compassion, foster a strong support system, and seek professional help when needed. Embracing one's identity and cultural background, connecting with like-minded individuals, and setting boundaries are critical steps in crafting a self-care regimen that not only sustains but empowers Black women to thrive during their midlife journey.   In this episode, I am joined by Laura Rutledge, an award-winning entrepreneur and the Founder of lushness.com, a platform that educates Black women on self-care, to talk about what self-care looks like for Black women and the steps you can navigate through this part of life. Laura shares what lushness.com is all about, what drives her to help Black women - of all ages - live healthy and look good, and tips to improve your environment for your wellness. Tune in to learn more about this and more.   Timestamps [08:34] What lushness.com is all about [06:19] Self-care tips for midlife Black women [10:53] What drives Laura to help Black women live healthy and look good [14:51] Tips to improve your environment for your wellness [18:32] How to incorporate wellness in our daily life, especially in midlife Notable quotes: ●      “Most people don’t understand how nature heals. It gives you an opportunity to connect outside of work and your daily routine.” ●      “Create a space that always motivates, cultivates, and relaxes you.” Connect with us: Maryann Reid Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/alphanistaofficial⁠ Laura Rutledge Website: https://www.lushness.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lushness/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lushnessofficial Website: https://www.alphanista.com/

  6. 11/03/2023

    Working Harder Is Hardly Working

    THE FIRST SHOW OF THE SECOND SEASON IS HERE! Working harder doesn't always lead to success. Sometimes, putting in excessive effort without a clear plan or strategy can be counterproductive. It's like spinning your wheels in mud, expending energy but making no progress. Instead, it's smarter to work smarter. Focus on efficiency, prioritize tasks, and set achievable goals. This way, you can accomplish more with less stress. Remember, it's not about working endlessly; it's about working effectively. So, step back, plan your moves, and watch how working smarter can lead you to greater achievements without the burnout of working harder. In this episode, I am joined by Todd Ledbetter, an award-winning Jazz musician and a personal growth entrepreneur. Hehelps accomplished professionals and entrepreneurs go from 'hustle and grind' to living on purpose. Todd talks about why working hard does not always produce great results and why working less sometimes produces great results. He also discusses the things that we should take immediate action on and the things we should know and understand in our lives. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics!   Timestamps [01:08]  Todd Ledbetter's background  02:45]  Why working hard is not working [04:52]  Achieving great results by doing less [08:09]  Where does God fit in our daily struggles? [13:08]  Where can we start as Christians if we are not in the mood [16:03]  The things you should take immediate action on  [18:35]  The things we should know and understand in our lives Notable quotes ●      “When striving for success, it's essential to tune into the right wavelength. Keep yourself on a certain frequency.” ●      “We are in a universe of principles. Fundamentals, laws, and principles govern this world.” ●      “To chase your goals and success, you must have the capacity to recognize your desires and effectively express them.”   Connect with Us:  Maryann Reid Website: https://www.alphanista.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alphanistaofficial Todd Ledbetter Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tledjazz/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TLedJazz/ Coupon Link: https://urls.builderall.com/Alphanista1123

  7. 06/09/2023

    What Is A Professional Wife?

    Last episode of the season! The concept of a "professional wife" refers to a woman who is employed by high-profile men to help them with their business relationships, act as a mediator in their personal relationships, and gain leverage over other men. This unique role involves entering into a contract with a high-profile man and performing various duties, such as attending events and meetings, hosting dinners, and managing social interactions with clients and business partners. While the idea of a professional wife may seem controversial, it has become increasingly common in certain circles as a means of leveraging the social skills and charm of a woman to enhance business outcomes. In this episode, I explain the role that the professional wife plays in the book and the world of today. I talk about what the professional wife does in the lives of the high profile men, the importance of the professional wife, and the advantages and disadvantages of a professional wife over other women today. I also share what other women can learn from the professional wife. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics! Timestamps [01:22] About the title of the book: The Professional Wife [02:08] What does the professional wife do? [03:15] The importance of a professional wife [07:59] The advantages and disadvantages of a professional wife over other women today [10:21] Can a professional wife be a real wife? [12:40] What women can learn from the professional wife [16:15] About the book: The Professional Wife Notable quotes: “A professional wife is hired by high-profile men who need a wife to help them with business relationships, mend broken relationships, or get some leverage over other men.” “You can’t apply for a professional wife position. The role looks for you.” “Many deals in the high-profile world are not built on business. They are built on personal relationships, and the way to do that is to have a wife.” Episode resources: The book: The Professional Wife by Maryann Reid Connect with me: Maryann Reid Website: https://www.alphanista.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealalphanista/

  8. 06/02/2023

    Changing our Destiny by Changing Direction

    As humans, we often find ourselves in a place where we feel stuck as if we are not moving forward or growing in our lives. However, it is important to remember that our destiny is not set in stone, and we have the power to change it by changing the direction we are headed in. This is especially true when we consider our spiritual journey and relationship with the Lord. By making conscious choices and taking intentional steps towards growth, we can transform our destiny and fulfill our potential as individuals. In this episode, I am joined by Hakim Taliaferro, a speaker, author, and serial entrepreneur. He is also the founder of Alpha Talk, which encourages people to embrace authenticity and to make an impact by allowing the Word of God to mold our minds. Hakim shares how we can change our destiny by nurturing our relationship with God. He talks about the journey to freedom, nurturing relationships to create new opportunities, and the things that we can do when changing direction. Tune in to learn more! Timestamps [01:30] Hakim Taliaferro’s background information[03:19] What Alpha Talk is all about[05:22] The benefits of building a relationship with God[07:40] How to become the best alpha male[10:02] Changing our destiny in the Lord so that we can grow[16:26] The journey to freedom[18:19] Nurturing relationships to create new opportunities[21:06] The things that people should do when changing direction[21:29] 1# Finding out your identity in Christ[23:14] 2# Improve your communication skills with the Lord and people Notable quotes: “Matthew 6:33 - But seek first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.” “The currency of the kingdom of God is relationships. So, God introduces a new season or opportunity through people.” “Your identity is hidden in Christ. You will not know who you are as an individual until you know who you are in Christ.” Connect with us: Hakim TaliaferroWebsite: https://thealphatalk.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealphatalk/?hl=en Maryann ReidWebsite: https://www.alphanista.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/

  9. 05/26/2023

    Using Self Seduction to Avoid Burnout

    Are you feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and on the brink of burnout? It's time to use the art of self-seduction to take care of yourself and avoid burning out. Just like seducing someone else, you can seduce yourself into taking the necessary self-care actions to prevent burnout. By prioritizing yourself and implementing self-seduction techniques, you can recharge, rejuvenate, and ultimately become more productive in both your personal and professional life. In this episode, I am joined by Perle Noire, the Black Burlesque Queen. Perle is a keynote speaker, creative director, transformative coach, and the creator of The Healing Through Seduction program. She specializes in guided sensual touch, empowerment workshops, and burlesque-inspired healing rituals. Perle shares how we can use the power of self-seduction to heal and prevent burnout. She talks about how we can give ourselves the feeling of being seduced, the benefits of committing to self-seduction, and how self-seduction helps us heal from burnout and dancing through self-seduction for men. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics! Timestamps [02:09] What is self-seduction? [05:00] The benefits of committing to self seduction [05:34] How we can give ourselves the feeling of being seduced [08:28] Dancing and healing through self-seduction for men [15:04] How self-seduction helps us heal from burnouts [18:58] Tapping into the feminine energy in self seduction [20:11] How self-seduction helps women become great receivers Notable quotes: -“Self-seduction is being mindful of healing ourselves consistently the same way we prioritize healing our body with food and water consistently.” -“Once you commit to the self-seduction, it will actually make you a better lover, mother, partner, friend, and a better entrepreneur.” -“A lot of men will find much joy in finding time to dance with other male friends because a lot of times men are having sex when they really want intimacy, and dance is another form of intimacy.” Connect with us: Perle Noire Website: https://blackburlesquequeen.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theperlenoire/ Maryann Reid Website: https://www.alphanista.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealalphanista/

  10. 05/14/2023

    Is Black Love Better Now Than Ever?

    The state of Black relationships has been a topic of much discussion in recent years. One particular aspect that often goes unaddressed are black men, who are expected to be the sole providers for their families while also being held to a high financial standard to prove their worth as high-value men. Some black women have even neglected their traditional gender roles of appreciating their man and taking care of the family, leading to an imbalance in the dynamics of black relationships. In the black community, traditional gender roles have always played a significant role in the success of relationships. In this episode, I am joined by Marlon Browne, the host of Straight Talk and the co-host of 2 Strong, to talk about the state of black relationships right now. Marlon shares his thoughts on the “black female voice”, the origin that men should provide everything in a relationship, and the biggest cure of modern black relationships. He also talks about how the lack of traditional gender roles has affected modern black relationships and shares his thoughts on the concept of high-value men as defined by women. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics! Timestamps [01:24] Marlon Browne’s background [02:23] Marlon’s thoughts on the rising of the black female voice [05:12] The origin of men providing everything in a relationship [06:55] The biggest cure of modern black relationships [09:34] How the lack of traditional gender roles has affected relationships [14:15] Marlon’s thoughts on the concept of high-value men as defined by women [15:03] The actual definition of a high-value man and woman [17:25] What men and women over 40 should look for in a relationship [22:29] The importance of God in our relationships   Notable quotes: “Society has told women that their value is way more than what it actually is. They have been lied to. So, you can be a trash human being, but as long as you are a female, you have something valuable, and I don’t think that is completely true.” “If your emphasis on a high-value man is continually on what you can get, it doesn’t matter how soft you are. You are still a punk.” “A high-value man is one that can increase your character, one that can improve you as a person and not a rich man.” “At the age of 40, your physical accomplishments should never trump your relationship accomplishments with God…" “Relationships are a God thing and not a man thing, so if you want it to function the right way, you go talk to the person who created the thing and tell you how to run it.” Connect with us: https://www.youtube.com/@straighttalkmb⁠⁠ h⁠ttps://www.youtube.com/@2Strong-FAIRMEDIA⁠⁠ https://www.alphanista.com/⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/Alphanista/⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/therealalphanista/

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The Alphanista Experience explores relationships, sexuality, and faith topics that affect men and women over 40. Host, Maryann Reid is the founder of Alphanista.com, a platform started in 2008 for alpha females, which later morphed into a leadership platform. The podcast reflects where Alphanista is headed as its fan base grows and matures in their walk in life. Join us as we explore the murky waters of figuring out what matters most in this new phase of our lives while satisfying our mid-life needs.

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