The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®

Laura Jane Layton

This podcast is for you. A capable woman who has built a full life with work, family, responsibilities, and people counting on you. Somewhere along the way the demands on your time grew heavier and the space for yourself grew smaller. If you feel tired, stretched thin, and ready for a different way to live inside the life you already built, this podcast is here to support you. This podcast is a sanctuary where the focus is not fixing you. It is about changing the way you speak to yourself. Laura Jane invites you to become your own best friend and begin silencing the inner bully that has been whispering pressure, doubt, and impossible expectations for far too long. Designed with busy professionals in mind, this podcast speaks to women who carry a lot of responsibility and want to live their success with more kindness and less self pressure. You have already proven your strength. Now it is time to direct some of that dedication toward your own well being. Each week Laura Jane offers a short challenge episode, a small idea listeners can try in their real lives. These simple shifts in language, perspective, or daily habits invite you to experiment with a more supportive inner voice and a steadier way of moving through your days. The show also features conversations with experienced leaders, authors, and experts who share practical ideas about confidence, boundaries, communication, and living with more balance. These conversations feel less like lectures and more like sitting down with thoughtful friends who have walked similar paths. The Laura Jane Layton Show® is a place for capable women who want to keep growing while learning to treat themselves with the same kindness they offer everyone else. If you have spent years showing up for others, this podcast is here to stand beside you as you learn to show up for yourself. It is time to put yourself back into your own life and remember how good that can feel. 🌻

  1. 1d ago

    EP473: How to Reconnect with Yourself Through Creativity with Ellen Benfatti

    What if the version of you that felt free, creative, and fully alive never disappeared at all? In this episode, Ellen Benfatti shares her journey from banker to artist and how creativity became the doorway to healing, self-discovery, and reconnecting with her authentic self. Laura Jane and Ellen explore intuition, inner child work, self-expression, and why creativity is about much more than making art. Tune in to discover how one small creative step can help you reconnect with joy, process life's challenges, and find your way back to yourself.    Key takeaways to listen for  The unexpected life transition that led one banker to discover a hidden creative gift Why your next breakthrough may start with a tiny spark of curiosity instead of a major life overhaul How creativity helps process thoughts and emotions that words often can't reach What happens when you stop creating for results and start creating for joy A simple reflection exercise that can help you rediscover what truly lights you up   Resources mentioned in this episode Caterpillar Soup by Ellen Benfatti | Kindle   About Ellen Benfatti Ellen Benfatti is an artist, speaker, and founder of Resonance By Ellie™, where she explores the connection between art, vibrational frequencies, healing, and personal transformation. Trained in Art Therapy at UC San Diego, Ellen began painting as a way to navigate personal challenges and discovered a lifelong path of creativity and self-discovery. Her immersive exhibitions in Laguna Beach, Italy, and Sedona have showcased not only her artistic vision but also her belief in the transformative power of frequency and resonance. Through her artwork, events, and personal sessions, Ellen invites others to experience creativity as a catalyst for healing, renewal, and deeper connection to their own personal guidance system.   Connect with Ellen Website: Artist Ellen Benfatti Facebook: Contemporary Artist, Ellen Benfatti  Instagram: @benfattiellen  LinkedIn: Ellen Benfatti  Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR    Tired of feeling tired? Optimize your hormones and reclaim your energy. Test, don't guess – book your free coaching call today at coachadamhq.com!   All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.    Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.    If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.    Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.    Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.    Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    45 min
  2. 3d ago

    EP472: How to Break Free from Patterns That Keep You Stuck with Deepak Chari

    Have you ever shared a great idea only to have it ignored until someone else says the exact same thing? In this episode, Deepak Chari explores the surprising connection between your voice, subconscious patterns, and how others receive your message. Laura Jane and Deepak discuss emotional triggers, childhood conditioning, self-regulation techniques, and why unresolved emotions may be affecting far more than your communication. Tune in to discover how your voice reflects your inner world and learn practical tools to help you show up with greater confidence, clarity, and impact.   Key takeaways to listen for  The surprising reason people may not be hearing the message you think you're sending Why emotional triggers often have less to do with the present moment than you realize A piano analogy that explains how unresolved emotions can distort your message What happens when subconscious patterns silently override your conscious intentions 2 simple techniques that can help calm emotional overwhelm in the moment   Resources mentioned in this episode FREE technique sheet ( Thought Field Therapy tapping sequence +  box breathing pattern)   About Deepak Chari Deepak Chari, M.S., is an engineer, Certified Biofeedback Specialist, and wellness educator dedicated to helping individuals improve their physical, mental, and emotional well-being through science-based self-regulation techniques. Combining his engineering background with expertise in biofeedback, neurofeedback, and stress management, Deepak helps people better understand the connection between mind and body, optimize performance, and build resilience. Through his teaching, coaching, and speaking, he empowers individuals to use measurable physiological data to enhance focus, reduce stress, improve health, and achieve greater balance in their personal and professional lives.   Connect with Deepak Website: Fast Anxiety Help  LinkedIn: Deepak Chari, M.S. Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR  Are you ready to transform with a true BFF by your side? Find the perfect coach who's got your back, inspires your growth, and helps you hit every goal. Check us out at https://laurajanelayton.com/coaches/!    All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.   Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.  If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.  Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.  Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.  Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    52 min
  3. 5d ago

    EP471: Try This to Stop Doing Everything Yourself

    Busy professionals often struggle to ask for help, but this week's challenge could be the game-changer you need. Discover the power of delegation and how to offload tasks that drain your time and energy. Find out how small changes can lead to big impacts on your work-life balance by tuning in!   Resources mentioned in this episode Instacart  Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR  Are you ready to transform with a true BFF by your side? Find the perfect coach who's got your back, inspires your growth, and helps you hit every goal. Check us out at https://laurajanelayton.com/coaches/!    All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.  Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.  If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.  Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.  Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.  Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    7 min
  4. Jun 12

    EP470: How to Shift Your Inner Story and Feel More Like Yourself with Rhonda Farrah

    Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered where the real you went? In this episode, Rhonda Farrah shares why true transformation starts with the relationship you have with yourself, and how your reflection often reveals the story you tell yourself every day. Laura Jane and Rhonda explore self-worth, forgiveness, confidence, gratitude, and the power of changing your inner dialogue before trying to change your life. Tune in to learn simple practices that can help you reconnect with who you are and fall in love with who you're becoming.    Key takeaways to listen for  The surprising reason changing your life starts with changing how you see yourself 3 simple questions that reveal whether you're honoring your past, present, and future self What your reflection can teach you about the story you've been telling yourself Why self-forgiveness may be the missing piece keeping you stuck A powerful mirror exercise that can help rebuild confidence and self-worth   Resources mentioned in this episode N/A   About Rhonda Farrah Rhonda M. Farrah, MA, DRWA, is a LIFEstyle Empowerment Alchemist, coach, author, speaker, and educator with more than 25 years of experience as an Educational Counselor and Psychotherapist. She has worked with individuals and organizations across a wide range of industries, guiding meaningful personal and professional transformation. Combining her expertise in coaching, teaching, and personal development, Rhonda helps people cultivate growth in health, mindset, and spiritual awareness. Recognized for her creativity, visionary thinking, and ability to see the bigger picture, she is known as an inspiring leader and powerful communicator who empowers others to live with greater purpose, authenticity, and fulfillment.   Connect with Rhonda Website: Help Me Rhonda Now Facebook: Help Me Rhonda Now  X: @helpmerhondanow  Email: Rhonda@HelpMeRhondaNow.com    Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR  Tired of feeling tired? Optimize your hormones and reclaim your energy. Test, don't guess – book your free coaching call today at coachadamhq.com!   All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.  Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.  If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.  Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.  Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.  Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    34 min
  5. Jun 10

    EP469: How to Break Out of the Box Holding You Back with Kathleen Conner

    Feeling stuck in roles, routines, or expectations that no longer fit who you are? In this episode, Kathleen Conner explores how family patterns, people pleasing, and old beliefs can quietly shape the boxes we live inside for years without realizing it. Laura Jane and Kathleen unpack triggers, boundaries, emotional reactions, and practical ways to create change without blowing up your entire life. Tune in to learn how small, intentional choices can help you step out of survival mode and start creating a life that actually feels like yours.   Key takeaways to listen for  The first sign you may be living inside a box you never intentionally chose Why moving too fast toward change can create more chaos instead of clarity A simple pause technique that can stop emotional reactions before they take over What happens when you expect other people to fill emotional needs only you can meet How creating a small "sacred space" can shift the energy in your entire day     About Kathleen Conner Kathleen Conner is a speaker, coach, and founder of Chasing Purpose, where she helps individuals move beyond burnout, self-doubt, and societal expectations to create lives aligned with purpose and authenticity. Through her work, Kathleen focuses on helping people reconnect with their values, navigate major life transitions, and pursue meaningful goals with confidence and clarity. Known for her relatable and encouraging approach, she combines personal experience with practical strategies to empower others to stop chasing perfection and start building lives driven by intention, fulfillment, and purpose.   Connect with Kathleen Website: Chasing Purpose   Podcast: Chasing Purpose | Apple Podcasts YouTube: Chasing Purpose Show Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR  Are you ready to transform with a true BFF by your side? Find the perfect coach who's got your back, inspires your growth, and helps you hit every goal. Check us out at https://laurajanelayton.com/coaches/!    All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.  Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.  If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.  Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.  Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.  Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    56 min
  6. Jun 5

    EP467: How to Break the Thinking Patterns That Lead to Burnout with Tracy Doyle

    Ever feel like you've become the person everyone depends on while quietly falling apart behind the scenes? In this episode, Tracy Doyle shares her deeply personal journey through burnout, from self-sacrifice and resentment to rebuilding her life through boundaries, honest communication, and daily reset practices. Laura Jane and Tracy unpack why so many high achievers lose themselves in doing, how triggers reveal unmet needs, and what it really takes to stop living in survival mode. Tune in to learn simple tools that help you move from constant overwhelm to feeling centered, calm, and connected again.   Key takeaways to listen for  The warning signs your body gives before burnout become impossible to ignore Why constantly being "the reliable one" can quietly disconnect you from yourself What happens when resentment becomes your default instead of your signal to slow down A small communication shift that stops you from carrying everyone else's emergencies One-minute reset technique that can interrupt spiraling thoughts before they take over Resources mentioned in this episode Life Storms Finding Your Clear Sky by Tracy Doyle | Kindle, Paperback, and Hardcover The Aurora Method Academy  FREE women's co-hort and one-on-one consultations    About Tracy Doyle Tracy Doyle is a burnout coach, speaker, and creator of The Aurora Method, a psychology-informed, mindfulness-based framework designed to help people break emotional burnout patterns and reconnect with themselves. After building a successful career and leading an award-winning business while quietly struggling with exhaustion, disconnection, and overwhelm, Tracy discovered that burnout often stems not only from external pressures but also from internalized beliefs that shape how we think, feel, and relate to others. Through her coaching and teaching, she helps high achievers identify the patterns that drive emotional burnout, build healthier relationships, and create lives rooted in calm, clarity, and authentic connection.   Connect with Tracy Website: Tracy Doyle LinkedIn: Tracy Doyle Instagram: @tracydoyle.life      Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR  Tired of feeling tired? Optimize your hormones and reclaim your energy. Test, don't guess – book your free coaching call today at coachadamhq.com!   All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.  Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.  If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.  Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.  Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.  Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    50 min
  7. Jun 3

    EP466: How to Stop Questioning Yourself and Trust Your Growth with Stevon Lewis

    Feeling like everyone else has life figured out while you're barely keeping your plate from overflowing? In this episode, Stevon Lewis breaks down why imposter syndrome thrives when our self-worth becomes tied to productivity, perfection, and unrealistic expectations. Laura Jane and Stevon explore boundaries, self-compassion, rest, delegation, and practical ways to stop letting your inner critic run the show. Tune in to learn how to celebrate what's already working and reconnect with the version of yourself that was never a fraud to begin with.    Key takeaways to listen for  What happens when your self-worth becomes tied to how much you can produce A simple mindset shift that turns an overwhelming to-do list into success Why constantly pushing through exhaustion may worsen imposter syndrome The hidden damage of comparing your behind-the-scenes struggles  One small question that can stop your brain from turning setbacks into failure   Resources mentioned in this episode Silencing Your Inner Bully by Stevon Lewis LMFT | Paperback   About Stevon Lewis Stevon Lewis is a licensed psychotherapist, speaker, and relationship expert who helps individuals navigate imposter syndrome, self-worth challenges, anxiety, and emotional wellness. Through his therapy practice, speaking engagements, and educational content, he focuses on helping clients build confidence, strengthen relationships, and overcome limiting beliefs that keep them stuck. Known for his relatable and practical approach, Stevon combines evidence-based therapeutic techniques with real-world strategies to support personal growth, emotional resilience, and authentic self-confidence.   Connect with Stevon  Website: Stevon Lewis  LinkedIn: Stevon Lewis Instagram: @stevonlewismft     Connect with Us For more information, visit https://LauraJaneLayton.com  For more tips, see https://www.facebook.com/TheLauraJaneLaytonShow For more updates, follow us on https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurajanelayton/   SPONSOR    Are you ready to transform with a true BFF by your side? Find the perfect coach who's got your back, inspires your growth, and helps you hit every goal. Check us out at https://laurajanelayton.com/coaches/!    All the content found on our website or podcast at LauraJaneLayton.com and The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully ®, including images, audio, text, videos, infographics, and any other format of content, are provided for informational and/or educational purposes only.    Our content is not meant to be a substitute for professional medical or health advice, and you should not accept it as such.    If you need medical and/or health advice, evaluation, or consultation, then you must seek the advice of a qualified physician or healthcare provider in your area regarding any health and/or medical questions you have for your health condition.    Do not ignore or delay your physician's advice or orders based on something you read on our site or hear on our podcast. If you're having a medical emergency or are dealing with health issues, please consult your physician and/or go to the hospital.    Although every effort is put into making sure that all the information provided on laurajanelayton.com and on The Laura Jane Layton Show – Silencing Your Inner Bully® is accurate and updated, your reliance on any information provided by Laura Jane Layton LLC is solely at your own risk.    Laura Jane Layton LLC is not responsible or liable for any claims made by external websites or education companies.

    52 min
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44 Ratings

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This podcast is for you. A capable woman who has built a full life with work, family, responsibilities, and people counting on you. Somewhere along the way the demands on your time grew heavier and the space for yourself grew smaller. If you feel tired, stretched thin, and ready for a different way to live inside the life you already built, this podcast is here to support you. This podcast is a sanctuary where the focus is not fixing you. It is about changing the way you speak to yourself. Laura Jane invites you to become your own best friend and begin silencing the inner bully that has been whispering pressure, doubt, and impossible expectations for far too long. Designed with busy professionals in mind, this podcast speaks to women who carry a lot of responsibility and want to live their success with more kindness and less self pressure. You have already proven your strength. Now it is time to direct some of that dedication toward your own well being. Each week Laura Jane offers a short challenge episode, a small idea listeners can try in their real lives. These simple shifts in language, perspective, or daily habits invite you to experiment with a more supportive inner voice and a steadier way of moving through your days. The show also features conversations with experienced leaders, authors, and experts who share practical ideas about confidence, boundaries, communication, and living with more balance. These conversations feel less like lectures and more like sitting down with thoughtful friends who have walked similar paths. The Laura Jane Layton Show® is a place for capable women who want to keep growing while learning to treat themselves with the same kindness they offer everyone else. If you have spent years showing up for others, this podcast is here to stand beside you as you learn to show up for yourself. It is time to put yourself back into your own life and remember how good that can feel. 🌻