The Mental Mettle Podcast

Matt Thomann

Helping coaches forge mental toughness in student-athletes

  1. 11h ago

    Ep. 173: Mental Toughness Doesn’t Just Happen | Raphael McMaster

    Mental toughness doesn’t just happen. We spend years teaching athletes the skills of their sport. We train their bodies. We develop their technique. We build strength, speed, and conditioning. But what about the mental skills? In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, I sit down with Raphael McMaster, Founder and Executive Director of Indivisible Arts, mindset coach for the Mira Costa Basketball Team, and creator and author of the Fundamental Life Tools book and curriculum. Raphael’s work centers around mindful awareness, emotional resilience, human potential, and developing practical tools that people can use to navigate life more effectively. Indivisible Arts was named Hermosa Beach’s Non-Profit of the Year in 2025, and Raphael has also been named Hermosa Beach Person of the Year. His background is incredibly diverse. He has worked in art, photography, music, design, entrepreneurship, snowboards, and clothing—including product design for Puma and award-winning website work, including a site created for Matthew McConaughey. But his passion today is helping people develop the mental tools necessary to pursue their potential. Raphael and I talk about why mental skills need to be developed and practiced, just like physical skills. We dive into the Fundamental Life Tools, mindful awareness, breathing, visualization, gratitude, compassion, forgiveness, and the importance of practicing these tools before you need them. We also talk about something I believe strongly: athletes have three skill sets—the game skills, physical skills, and mental skills. We have spent decades intentionally developing the first two. It's time to give the mental game the same attention. And these skills aren't just for athletes. They're life skills. In this episode: Why mental toughness needs to be trainedThe Fundamental Life ToolsWhy practice is essential to using mental skills under pressureMindful awareness and staying presentVisualization and the power of imaginationForgiveness and moving forward after mistakesBuilding emotional resilienceThe role of coaches and parents in developing athletesWhy mental skills should be developed before adversity hitsPursuing human potentialTurning mental concepts into practical toolsConnect with Raphael on Instagram: 📸 Instagram: @indivisible_arts 📸 Instagram: @resin_hermosa 📸 Instagram: @mcmaster.peace Connect with Mental Mettle Coaching: Mental Mettle Coaching www.mentalmettlelifecoaching.com The Mental Mettle Podcast Hosted by Coach Matt Thomann If you're a coach, parent, or athlete who believes the mental game deserves the same attention as the physical game, this conversation is for you. The mental game isn't something you simply have. You build it. You practice it. You Forge your Mettle.

  2. Sep 14

    Ep. 172: "Find Something That Makes You Dream" with Travis Vaughn

    What happens when you find something that makes you dream—and then decide to pursue it even when it's hard? In this episode of the Mental Mettle Podcast, I sit down with Travis Vaughn of Upward Sports and Upward Running to talk about running, faith, mental toughness, community, setbacks, and the pursuit of goals that push us beyond our comfort zones. Travis shares his own seven-year journey toward qualifying for the Boston Marathon, including injuries, setbacks, and the mental shifts that helped him keep moving forward. We also talk about the mental side of running, the power of community, how faith fits into competition and endurance, and why focusing on what you can control can change the way you approach difficult challenges. But ultimately, the message is simple: “Find something that makes you dream and makes you want to go achieve something that you've never done before. Make it hard. Do hard things.” Whether you're an athlete, coach, runner, or simply someone looking for the next challenge, I think there's something valuable in this conversation. Connect with Travis & Upward Running Upward Running: Upward Running Kinda Fast Podcast: Kinda Fast Podcast — Upward Running Kinda Fast is hosted by Claire Boyce and Travis Vaughn and covers running, training, faith, and the real-life challenges that come with pursuing your goals. Upward Sports: Upward Sports Connect with Mental Mettle Coaching Mental Mettle Coaching If this conversation resonates with you, subscribe to the Mental Mettle Podcast and share it with an athlete, coach, runner, or someone who needs a reminder that doing hard things can be exactly what helps us grow. #MentalMettle #MentalToughness #TravisVaughn #DoHardThings #Running #FaithAndSports #MentalPerformance #AthleteDevelopment

  3. Sep 7

    EP. 171: "Always another mountain" with Ripon Coach Lauren Busalacchi

    Lauren Busalacchi is entering her 14th season as the head women’s basketball coach at Ripon College, after spending three years as an assistant and two years as a part-time assistant. During her time at Ripon, she has built one of the most successful programs in the Midwest, winning eight consecutive Midwest Conference championships, making five NCAA Tournament appearances, and earning induction into the Ripon College Athletic Hall of Fame in 2025. She has also been named the Wisconsin Basketball Coaches Association’s Private College Coach of the Year twice and has led her staff to seven consecutive Coaching Staff of the Year honors. But this conversation isn't really about the championships. It's about what happened when Lauren realized that X's and O's weren't enough. After struggling early in her tenure—including a 2–21 season—Lauren recognized that building a successful program required something deeper: an intentional culture. That led her to the Tribal Leadership model, which now provides the framework for the language, behaviors, and culture within Ripon's program. Lauren and I talk about what it means to intentionally build culture, how coaches can teach athletes to respond to adversity, and why mental toughness can't simply be demanded—it has to be trained. We also dig into two concepts that have become important parts of the Ripon program: E + R = O and the Chinese proverb, “Behind the mountains, there are more mountains.” Lauren believes one of the most important responsibilities of leadership is to continually help and challenge people to respond better. We may not control the events we experience in life, but we do have control over our responses—and those responses affect everyone around us. We talk about vulnerability, asking for help, player ownership, leadership, adversity, family, faith, and the ongoing challenge of becoming better leaders and coaches. Because no matter how much success you've had, you never really arrive. There is always a next mountain. Connect with Lauren & Ripon College Women's Basketball Facebook: Ripon College Women's Basketball Instagram: @riponwomensbasketball Connect with Coach Matt Thomann & Mental Mettle Coaching Mental Mettle Coaching: www.mentalmettlelifecoaching.com matt@mentalmettlecoach.com Mental Mettle Coaching helps athletes, coaches, and educators develop the mental skills necessary to handle adversity, build confidence, and perform at their best. Forge Your Mettle.

  4. Aug 31

    EP. 170: "Attack the Process". Building Mental Toughness with Jeremy Clodfelder.

    In this episode of the Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann sits down with Jeremy Clodfelder, Head Football and Softball Coach at Paris High School, for a powerful conversation about leadership, mental toughness, personal growth, and what it really takes to build a strong culture. With more than 20 years of coaching experience, three rebuilt football programs, over 100 career football victories, and a record-setting career as a softball coach, Jeremy brings a wealth of experience to the conversation. But his greatest lessons haven't necessarily come from winning. They've come from overcoming adversity, confronting his own struggles, and learning how to lead differently. Jeremy believes mental toughness is a skill. Just like any other skill, it has to be intentionally developed and trained. In this episode, we talk about: • Why you shouldn't just trust the process—you have to attack the process • The power of standard over feelings • Jeremy's Code of Standards: Consistency, Ownership, Discipline, and Excellence • Why winning is a byproduct rather than the ultimate goal • How to hold young athletes accountable while still giving them grace • Why coaches need to be demanding without demeaning • Creating environments where athletes feel safe enough to be vulnerable • Why mental toughness requires daily, intentional practice • Discovering your personal "burn" and what drives you to show up • Jeremy's powerful mantra: Master Your Mirror • How coaches can develop mental skills as part of their everyday culture This is a conversation about overcoming challenge and adversity, continually pursuing peak performance, and becoming the kind of coach who develops more than athletes. Connect with Jeremy Clodfelter 📧 Email: coachclodcompanies@gmail.com Facebook: Jeremy Clodfelder Instagram: @jeremy_clodfelder X: @Coach_Clod LinkedIn: Jeremy Clodfelder Speaking: Leadership • Culture • Mental Conditioning Connect with Coach Matt Thomann Mental Mettle Coaching Helping coaches, parents, and young athletes develop the mental skills necessary to perform, grow, and thrive. 🌐 Website: www.mentalmettlelifecoaching.com 🎙️ The Mental Mettle Podcast: Helping coaches develop mentally tougher athletes through better coaching and intentional mental skills training. If you got something from this episode, like, subscribe, and share it with another coach. And always remember to Forge Your Mettle.

  5. Aug 24

    Ep. 169: Better Youth Coaching. Better Development. Better Athletes. — Dan Stratford

    In this episode of the Mental Mettle Podcast, I sit down with Dan Stratford, owner and partner at Kick It 3v3 Soccer, for a conversation that goes far beyond soccer. Dan and I dig into a problem I think every youth sports coach and parent needs to think about: Are we giving our youngest athletes the coaching they actually need? Too often, the youngest players get the least experienced coaches, even though coaching young athletes requires a very different skill set. We talk about why youth coaches need to understand the developmental stage of the kids they're coaching—and why development should be the priority over simply winning games. We also get into the role of 3v3 soccer and why small-sided games can be such a powerful developmental tool. More touches. More decisions. More creativity. More opportunities to make mistakes, solve problems and learn. Some of the big ideas we discuss:  Why our youngest athletes may need our best coaches Why development is always winning, but winning isn't always development The danger of parents tying their ego to their child's success  Why being on the "best" team isn't necessarily best for development  How small-sided games encourage creativity and decision-making  Why kids shouldn't be coached like miniature professional athletes  How we can redefine what "winning" means in youth sports  And ultimately, why we have youth sports in the first placeDan brings decades of experience as a player, coach, parent and youth-sports leader to this conversation, and I think there's something here for coaches and parents in every sport, not just soccer. Learn more about Dan and Kick It 3v3 Soccer: Kick It 3v3 Soccer About Coach Matt Thomann & Mental Mettle I'm Coach Matt Thomann, an ICF-certified coach and the founder of Mental Mettle Coaching, where I help athletes, coaches and educators develop the mindset and mental skills needed to perform, lead and thrive. Through individual coaching, team coaching, professional development and speaking, Mental Mettle focuses on building confidence, resilience, self-awareness and mental toughness. 🌐 Mental Mettle Coaching: mentalmettlelifecoaching.com

  6. Aug 17

    Ep. 168: It's Supposed to Be Hard. How to Use Adversity in Athletics to Build Mental Toughness.

    What if we stopped trying to protect athletes from adversity and started teaching them how to use it? In this solo episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann takes on one of the most important—and misunderstood—aspects of athletics: adversity. Sports are supposed to be hard. That’s the point. The losses, mistakes, pressure, disappointment, difficult practices, setbacks, and failures that athletes experience aren't just obstacles standing in the way of success. They are opportunities to develop the skills that will matter long after the final whistle. Coach Matt breaks down how athletes, parents, and coaches can change their mindset around adversity and use it to build confidence, resilience, perseverance, and the ability to face difficult things without running from them. In this episode, you'll hear: For athletes: How to stop asking, “Why is this so hard?” and start asking, “What can I learn from this?”For parents: How to support your child through adversity without rescuing them from it.For coaches: How to create adversity that is purposeful—not punitive.Why the right amount of adversity should stretch but not snap an athlete.Why the best coaches combine high expectations with high levels of love and connection.How difficult experiences can become evidence that builds confidence.Why winning and losing aren't the ultimate measure of what an athlete gains from sports.How athletics can prepare young people for the mandatory adversity that life will eventually bring.The goal isn't to make kids suffer. The goal is to help them learn that they can do hard things. Because we don't use adversity to create better athletes. We use athletics to create better people. That’s the real purpose of building mental mettle. Connect with Mental Mettle Coaching: 🌐 www.mentalmettlelifecoaching.com PARENTS:  Check out the free email course: The Resilient Parent's Playbook If you enjoyed the episode, like, subscribe, and leave a comment. And share it with an athlete, parent, or coach who needs to hear that sometimes... It’s supposed to be hard. #MentalMettle #MentalToughness #YouthSports #AthleteMindset #SportsParent #Coaching #MentalPerformance #Resilience #SportsPsychology #AthleteDevelopment

  7. Aug 10

    Ep. 167: Better Coaches. Better Athletes with Midland AD Courtney Thomsen

    Most athletic directors spend countless hours investing in their athletes. But what if the greatest investment you could make in your athletes...is investing in your coaches? In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann sits down with Midland University Athletic Director Courtney Thomsen to discuss what really builds successful athletic programs. From coach burnout and athlete retention to vulnerability, leadership, culture, and the true purpose of college athletics, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom for coaches, athletic directors, and anyone who leads people. You'll hear why Courtney believes:  Better coaches create better athlete experiences.  Healthy coaches build healthy team cultures.  Winning is important—but it can't be the only measure of success.  Investing in coaches is one of the best ways to invest in athletes. Whether you're a high school coach, college coach, athletic director, or educator, this conversation will challenge the way you think about leadership and mental toughness. In this episode: 🏆 Why coach development matters more than ever 💪 How healthy coaches create resilient athletes 🔥 Preventing coach burnout before it impacts your team 🤝 The role of vulnerability and relationships in great coaching 🎯 Why culture—not just winning—drives long-term success 📈 How athletic directors can build programs that athletes want to be part of If you're interested in bringing Ember to Inferno, Coach Matt's professional development program for coaching staffs, to your school or athletic department, visit: www.mentalmettlelifecoaching.com If this episode encouraged you, please:  ✅ Subscribe  ✅ Like the video  ✅ Share it with another coach or athletic director www.mentalmettlecoach.com Sign up here for the FREE Resilient Parents Playbook: www.resilientparentsplaybook.com Contact: matt@mentalmettlecoach.com for a free coaching session with Coach Thomann

  8. Aug 3

    Ep. 166: The Principal's Playbook for Building Championship Culture with Metamora's Charlie Zimmerman

    What separates good athletic programs from great ones? In this episode, I sit down with Charlie Zimmerman, principal of Metamora Township High School, to discuss what it really takes to build a championship culture. As a former athlete, coach, and now school leader, Charlie offers a unique perspective on how administrators, coaches, parents, and athletes all play a role in creating an environment where excellence becomes the standard. In our conversation, we discuss: Why culture must be built intentionally—not left to chance.Why the best programs are never satisfied with yesterday's success.Why mental performance training isn't "soft"—it's one of the smartest investments a school can make.How coaches, parents, and administrators can work together instead of pulling athletes in different directions.Why sports should prepare young people for life, not just for the next game.Whether you're a coach, athletic director, principal, teacher, or parent, you'll walk away with practical ideas for building a stronger culture in your school and helping young athletes thrive both on and off the field. Remember: Championship teams are built by championship cultures. For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching: www.mentalmettlecoach.com Sign up here for the FREE Resilient Parents Playbook: www.resilientparentsplaybook.com Contact: matt@mentalmettlecoach.com for a free coaching session with Coach Thomann

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Helping coaches forge mental toughness in student-athletes