The Outsiders

The Outsiders Stories

Spotlighting minority stories from Nigeria.

  1. 3d ago

    Bodies Bodies Bodies – Christopher James

    In this final episode of The Outsiders (Season II), CJ reflects on masculinity, softness, and the freedom to define manhood on his own terms. An intriguing conversation in the Bodies Bodies Bodies ensemble, he speaks unapologetically about being a feminine man who identifies with he/him pronouns, rejecting the notion that femininity diminishes masculinity. Drawing from experiences of abandonment, insecurity, and the complexities of queer intimacy in Lagos, Christopher critiques the hierarchies of dominance that persist both within and beyond queer communities. Instead, he advocates for a politics of gentleness: protecting one's softness, nurturing self-love, and refusing the abandonment of oneself or others. His reflections invite a more expansive understanding of what men—and masculinity—can be. Hosted by Tomide Odu ___________ Bodies Bodies Bodies is originally an experimental photo documentary by Temiloluwa Johnson, supported by Obodo Nigeria, a youth-led organisation advancing queer rights through creative expression, community building, and cultural production. The project explores the body as a site of memory, resistance, desire, care, and becoming. Expanded into an accompanying audio series by The Outsiders Stories, it brings together intimate conversations with queer Nigerians whose stories illuminate the many ways people inhabit, understand, and reclaim their bodies in contemporary Nigeria. Subscribe to The Outsiders Stories: https://theoutsidersstories.substack.com/

  2. Aug 7

    Bodies Bodies Bodies – Bola Yahaya

    In this episode of The Outsiders (Season II), Bola Yahaya reflects on growing up as an effeminate child while navigating queerness within a Muslim home, where public and private scrutiny shaped an early struggle with body dysmorphia. As part of Bodies Bodies Bodies, they explore how fashion became both refuge and language, using fabric, silhouette, and performance to embrace what they describe as an innate “fairy-ness”—a softness and spectacle often suppressed by rigid gender norms. Bola also speaks candidly about living with HIV, arguing that silence and misinformation remain more burdensome than the condition itself. The conversation traces a journey from trauma-informed intimacy to pleasure, affirmation, and creating space for others to feel seen. Hosted by Tomide Odu ___________ Bodies Bodies Bodies is originally an experimental photo documentary by Temiloluwa Johnson, supported by Obodo Nigeria, a youth-led organisation advancing queer rights through creative expression, community building, and cultural production. The project explores the body as a site of memory, resistance, desire, care, and becoming. Expanded into an accompanying audio series by The Outsiders Stories, it brings together intimate conversations with queer Nigerians whose stories illuminate the many ways people inhabit, understand, and reclaim their bodies in contemporary Nigeria. Subscribe to The Outsiders Stories: https://theoutsidersstories.substack.com/

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