Culture Vs. Purpose

Fatiha Alam

On Culture Vs. Purpose, your host Fatiha Alam shares stories and experiences to inspire hope and faith in your purpose. Fatiha shares how we are not bound by the rules and expectations of the world and people around us. We have to be confident in ourselves and walk our own path that set us apart. We dive into growing closer to God, mental health, breaking generational cycles, post grad journey, setting boundaries, navigating cultural struggles, God centered relationships, resilience, testimonies, and more. With streamers in five different countries, Culture Vs. Purpose continues to grow and up

  1. Navigating Godly Friendships | Iron Sharpening Iron

    06/21/2025

    Navigating Godly Friendships | Iron Sharpening Iron

    In today’s episode, I’m joined by two of my close friends for a conversation that’s been heavy on my heart lately: Godly friendship and iron sharpening iron. Since coming to Christ, the friendships that truly challenge me and keep me accountable have radically transformed my walk. We talk about how the people you surround yourself with can either pull you toward God or push you away — and how to know when it’s time to release what no longer aligns. We dive into: Why ungodly friendships are so spiritually harmful Red flags to look for and what unequally yoked really looks like How to build Christ-centered community from scratch (especially post-grad) The fruit of real God-ordained friendships and how they sharpen you Giving and receiving correction in love without offense Personal testimonies of growth, conviction, and spiritual intimacy within our own friend groupIf God has been tugging on your heart about letting go of certain people or preparing you to find your people — this one’s for you. Whether you’re in community or praying for it, I hope this episode gives you clarity, encouragement, and courage to walk faithfully into your next season. Follow Culture Vs Purpose ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/culturevspurpose/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow your host ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/tiha.alam/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow on TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tiha.alam?lang=en⁠⁠ Shop my Storefront https://www.amazon.com/shop/fatihaalam Marisa's IG: @Marisagracepennypel Joshua's IG: @Sowellio._

    1h 1m
  2. 04/26/2025

    God Placed This Dream In You For a Reason

    In this episode, we dive into the reality of walking with a dream that doesn’t seem to be moving, at least not in the way or timing you thought it would. I build on a previous episode about dreams and share what it’s looked like to carry a promise from God, only to find myself in a season of waiting, pruning, and quiet transformation. This episode is for the ones who are still waiting. The ones who feel unseen, stuck, or like they missed something. I talk about the difference between purpose and calling, how to test if your dream is really from God, and the danger of chasing what looks good instead of what’s in His will. For over a year, I prayed and worked and showed up, wondering why the dream God gave me still felt so far away. It wasn’t until I truly surrendered, letting go of control, idols, and even my own timeline, that I began to see the fruit. But before the breakthrough, there was a breaking. And before the testimony, there was a long stretch of obedience with no applause. I also share notes from a recent sermon that lit a fire in me — reminding me that success in the Kingdom looks like faithfulness, not fame. And sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is staying the course when nothing seems to be shifting. If you're in a season where the wait feels heavy, I pray this episode meets you right where you are. You’re not behind, you’re being built. And God is still writing your story. Let’s talk about how to stay rooted, surrendered, and hopeful while you wait for the dream to come alive. Follow Culture Vs. Purpose ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/culturevspurpose/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow your host ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/tihaalam/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow on TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tihaalam?lang=en⁠⁠ Follow on YouTube www.youtube.com/@tihaalam

    17 min
  3. 02/28/2025

    Finding Freedom in The Fire

    Welcome to Culture Vs Purpose. In this episode, I open up about a season of unexpected challenges—one that has tested my faith, stretched my obedience, and revealed the deeper work God is doing in my life. Recently, I made the unexpected decision to move back home, a choice I never imagined making but one that God placed on my heart. What I anticipated as a season of purpose quickly became a season of hardship, as past wounds resurfaced and the weight of my upbringing settled heavily on me. I found myself questioning: Why would God bring me back to the very place that once broke me? This episode is about what it means to trust God in the fire—when His promises feel distant, when suffering seems unrelenting, and when faith is tested beyond measure. It’s about believing in His plan even when circumstances feel unbearable and understanding that sometimes, God calls us to return not just to transform our surroundings, but to heal the brokenness within us. If you’ve ever felt like you’re standing in the middle of a trial, uncertain of how God is working, this one is for you. I see you, I hear you, and I feel you. Let's talk about what it means to endure through hardship, embrace obedience even when it's difficult, and hold onto the unshakable truth that God never leaves us—especially in the fire. Follow Culture Vs Purpose ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/culturevspurpose/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow your host ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/tihaalam/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow on TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tihaalam?lang=en⁠⁠

    23 min
  4. 04/07/2024

    Growing Pains

    In this episode, we delve into the concept of growing pains, building on discussions from previous episodes. Your host, Fatiha Alam, shares a personal experience of facing a harsh reality check when her structured life plan didn't unfold as expected. We reflect on the common societal script of milestones—graduating, getting a job, starting a family—and the pressure to adhere to these norms. However, Fatiha highlights the importance of realizing that we can't always control our paths, and true peace comes from surrendering to a higher purpose. Fatiha recounts struggles with cultural expectations, where individual purpose clashes with familial and cultural expectations. She's had to confront difficult truths and have challenging conversations with her family, leading to emotional turmoil. Despite the pain, she recognizes this as a necessary process to break generational cycles. Amidst job challenges and personal growth, Fatiha emphasizes the need to surrender control and find joy in chaos. Through prayer and faith, we should seek a heart aligned with God's will, and letting go of desires that may not be meant for us. The episode concludes with a message of finding peace and growth through keeping focus on higher, allowing God to guide us in the areas where we still want our own control. Your host shares the wisdom of a friend: "Do what you can, and let God do what you can't." Through this journey of surrender, the host finds that growing pains hurt less when your gaze is fixed on God.

    14 min
5
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12 Ratings

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On Culture Vs. Purpose, your host Fatiha Alam shares stories and experiences to inspire hope and faith in your purpose. Fatiha shares how we are not bound by the rules and expectations of the world and people around us. We have to be confident in ourselves and walk our own path that set us apart. We dive into growing closer to God, mental health, breaking generational cycles, post grad journey, setting boundaries, navigating cultural struggles, God centered relationships, resilience, testimonies, and more. With streamers in five different countries, Culture Vs. Purpose continues to grow and up